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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Sunday lunch. Making roast (pork).

An unexpected visitor turns up who is a vegetarian. You make a cauliflower cheese for them, all the rest is ok.

You put the roast spuds on. After 30 minutes cooking it dawns on you that, like always, you’ve poured the fat from the meat into the spuds.

What do you do? Tell them? Not tell them? Make more spuds? Burger, bugger, bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tell them, I'd have been pretty upset when I was veggie and someone didn't tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Make more spuds if you can

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By *eplicant JoWoman  over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Tell them, offer them some mash instead

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city

tell them you poured the fat onto the spuds, and youre sorry but they wont have anything to eat, but maybe they can google if your grass is edible.

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By *londiniMan  over a year ago

Norhern Costa Blanca, Spain

Really should tell them, it would be wrong not to.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Tell them and ask if they'd like some bread and butter instead. There's a limit to how accommodating you should be for a guest.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I was veggie my mum would do be a veggie roast then pour the meat gravy on my dinner from the juices of the meat. I'd tell her each time I couldn't eat it and she'd say it's only gravy. Bless her

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Really should tell them, it would be wrong not to."

This.

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By *irewater2018Couple (FF)  over a year ago

Brighton

Tell them then offer take out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely tell them. Not your fault they’re vegetarian but it is their right to know what they’re eating.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tell them, but if its an unexpected visitor then really it can't be helped if you can't offer a full veggie meal.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Tell them, but if its an unexpected visitor then really it can't be helped if you can't offer a full veggie meal.

"

Exactly. If I turn up unexpectedly at meal times I don't expect to be fed. I wouldn't turn up unexpectedly at meal times though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tell them, but if its an unexpected visitor then really it can't be helped if you can't offer a full veggie meal.

Exactly. If I turn up unexpectedly at meal times I don't expect to be fed. I wouldn't turn up unexpectedly at meal times though."

I'd be livid actually

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Tell them, but if its an unexpected visitor then really it can't be helped if you can't offer a full veggie meal.

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Was just about to post the same thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Tell them, but if its an unexpected visitor then really it can't be helped if you can't offer a full veggie meal.

Exactly. If I turn up unexpectedly at meal times I don't expect to be fed. I wouldn't turn up unexpectedly at meal times though.

I'd be livid actually "

Family I'm fine with, I'd point them to the fridge

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tell them, but if its an unexpected visitor then really it can't be helped if you can't offer a full veggie meal.

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Cauliflower cheese would be enough.

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By *ay19720Man  over a year ago

Ashford kent


"Sunday lunch. Making roast (pork).

An unexpected visitor turns up who is a vegetarian. You make a cauliflower cheese for them, all the rest is ok.

You put the roast spuds on. After 30 minutes cooking it dawns on you that, like always, you’ve poured the fat from the meat into the spuds.

What do you do? Tell them? Not tell them? Make more spuds? Burger, bugger, bugger!"

Tell....if they stress ..they were UN expected...

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By *orkie321bWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham

It's extremely rude for visitors to show up without an invite and expect to be fed. If what I've prepared isn't acceptable they would be free to fuck off to a restaurant instead

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being veggie is their choice. Turning up unannounced is their choice. I would tell them, it's their choice whether the eat or not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

After the potatoes have finished cooking, chuck a few in the dishwasher to get rid of any surface animal fats. Problem solved

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By *est Wales WifeCouple  over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

How come vegetarians never redress the balance and provide meat when uninvited carnivores turn up unexpectedly? Double standards?

Just asking?

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By *ewrocksWoman  over a year ago

button moon


"How come vegetarians never redress the balance and provide meat when uninvited carnivores turn up unexpectedly? Double standards?

Just asking?"

Because that goes against the ethics of choosing not to eat meat

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"How come vegetarians never redress the balance and provide meat when uninvited carnivores turn up unexpectedly? Double standards?

Just asking?"

My daughter has been vegan for years. I am vegan for about 8 months now.

I will provide meat etc... She won't.

Vegan is a political term. If you assign it to yourself it is about opposing all forms of animal 'abuse' or unethical farming / gaining financially from the lives of misery that animals are forced to live. Providing meat / fish / dairy for your guests means you perpetuate the unnecessary slaughter.

I'm a non meat eater I guess. Cos I will buy meat for other people.

She's political about it. I'm health conscious about it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. Tell them there animal fat on the spuds / Would they like to have spuds or not?

Simple

If you have rice/pasta / bread.... offer that ( or frozen chips or hash browns )

or offer extra veg.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How come vegetarians never redress the balance and provide meat when uninvited carnivores turn up unexpectedly? Double standards?

Just asking?"

I know a couple of vegetarians that will cook meat or fish for guests.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Being veggie is their choice. Turning up unannounced is their choice. I would tell them, it's their choice whether the eat or not. "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Being veggie is their choice. Turning up unannounced is their choice. I would tell them, it's their choice whether the eat or not.

Exactly. "

I didn’t tell! But fresh spuds were made! And before you ask, I did zoom out and get veggie cheese for them!

What did make me laugh though, suddenly realised we didn’t have vegetable gravy. Sent my son out who cam back with chicken gravy, as that’s close enough!

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By *irewater2018Couple (FF)  over a year ago

Brighton


"Being veggie is their choice. Turning up unannounced is their choice. I would tell them, it's their choice whether the eat or not.

Exactly.

I didn’t tell! But fresh spuds were made! And before you ask, I did zoom out and get veggie cheese for them!

What did make me laugh though, suddenly realised we didn’t have vegetable gravy. Sent my son out who cam back with chicken gravy, as that’s close enough! "

chicken isnt a vegetable ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Being veggie is their choice. Turning up unannounced is their choice. I would tell them, it's their choice whether the eat or not.

Exactly.

I didn’t tell! But fresh spuds were made! And before you ask, I did zoom out and get veggie cheese for them!

What did make me laugh though, suddenly realised we didn’t have vegetable gravy. Sent my son out who cam back with chicken gravy, as that’s close enough!

chicken isnt a vegetable ...."

Chicken crisps don't have chicken in them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How come vegetarians never redress the balance and provide meat when uninvited carnivores turn up unexpectedly? Double standards?

Just asking?"

If an uninvited carnivore turned up chances are a veggie wouldnt have any meat in cos they dont eat meat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I know a couple of vegetarians that will cook meat or fish for guests. "

I am a veggie and happy to accommodate my invited guests. Uninvited....I dont keep meat or fish in just in case!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Order a take out like a Pizza or Curry.

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By *osmosgirlWoman  over a year ago

Wetherby


"Being veggie is their choice. Turning up unannounced is their choice. I would tell them, it's their choice whether the eat or not.

Exactly.

I didn’t tell! But fresh spuds were made! And before you ask, I did zoom out and get veggie cheese for them!

What did make me laugh though, suddenly realised we didn’t have vegetable gravy. Sent my son out who cam back with chicken gravy, as that’s close enough! "

Chicken gravy is the one that's most likely to have animal fat in. Just saying......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have strict veggie friends.

Don’t lie to them guests, just be honest they would rather not eat that have something non veg.

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