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over a year ago
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The older I get the more I feel I fall into these categories.
demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
Sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence).
Anyone else? |
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Hmm I thought I was but I had a 2 day meet with someone who was classed as intelligent and I found he would do all he can to make me feel stupid. Admittedly I'm a bit blonde at times but he would go out of his way to challenge any of my views and make me feel uncomfortable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The older I get the more I feel I fall into these categories.
demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
Sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence).
Anyone else? "
I love intelligent women!
I'm a massive fan of big in depth conversations, as long as the woman isn't cocky or condescending with her intelligence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm I thought I was but I had a 2 day meet with someone who was classed as intelligent and I found he would do all he can to make me feel stupid. Admittedly I'm a bit blonde at times but he would go out of his way to challenge any of my views and make me feel uncomfortable"
Take it you won’t be seeing that rat bag again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm I thought I was but I had a 2 day meet with someone who was classed as intelligent and I found he would do all he can to make me feel stupid. Admittedly I'm a bit blonde at times but he would go out of his way to challenge any of my views and make me feel uncomfortable
Take it you won’t be seeing that rat bag again "
No I left him a interesting Veri though lol |
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I definitely class myself as sapiosexual. If you show me your PhD certificate I’m in there!
Ok, maybe not quite but meeting of minds and someone who can challenge and interest me intellectually then they’re worth the chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The older I get the more I feel I fall into these categories.
demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
Sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence).
Anyone else? "
Absolutely. I feel the same. |
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"The older I get the more I feel I fall into these categories.
demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
Sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence).
Anyone else? "
Who knew - me too. A sharp mind or a sharp wit are very attractive, but someone that causes an emotional response in me wins hands down.  |
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I got most of my Classical Latin from reading Asterix books so I’m always going to struggle here 
However I love a mental connection, it makes everything more fun and it’s a good opener for mutual respect which means you can do more stuff without being scared |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I love intelligent women!
I'm a massive fan of big in depth conversations, as long as the woman isn't cocky or condescending with her intelligence. "
I'm the same with men.... I love learning new things and hearing about life experience and knowledge I just dont have. I love to be amazed by folks. I find it so attractive to be able to have that and a personality. And if they can have a laugh too....be still my beating heart!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm I thought I was but I had a 2 day meet with someone who was classed as intelligent and I found he would do all he can to make me feel stupid. Admittedly I'm a bit blonde at times but he would go out of his way to challenge any of my views and make me feel uncomfortable"
Not entirely sure how intelligence is determined but he sounds horrible! Not your fault at all. X
Probably more likely he felt threatened by you, or he's the type who needs to put women down do he can feel good about himself. |
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By *eliWoman
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"Hmm I thought I was but I had a 2 day meet with someone who was classed as intelligent and I found he would do all he can to make me feel stupid. Admittedly I'm a bit blonde at times but he would go out of his way to challenge any of my views and make me feel uncomfortable"
He was a twat. Intelligent or not. You still might be, you just had a meet with an utter twat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The older I get the more I feel I fall into these categories.
demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
Sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence).
Anyone else? "
Could it be you’re looking for someone with emotional intelligence (I.e. someone who possess self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and relationship management skills)?
How hard can that be to be in a guy? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely the first one but with regards to intelligence I'm not sure how you would judge.
I'm attracted to emotionally mature people who know themselves and can be relaxed and confident in my company. Someone I can talk to is important, the content of that chat isn't so important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The older I get the more I feel I fall into these categories.
demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
Sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence).
Anyone else?
Could it be you’re looking for someone with emotional intelligence (I.e. someone who possess self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and relationship management skills)?
How hard can that be to be in a guy? Lol "
Virtually impossible in London  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely. My husband sometimes doesn't get my choices and it's because this is the bit he isn't involved with. No connection - no natural lubrication. No matter what they look like |
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"The older I get the more I feel I fall into these categories.
demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
Sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence).
Anyone else? "
I'm not sure that 'demisexual' would be the case for many people as it's on the asexual spectrum.
If you search for "demisexual bestlifeonline" they have a great set of descriptions of it. |
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"Hmm I thought I was but I had a 2 day meet with someone who was classed as intelligent and I found he would do all he can to make me feel stupid. Admittedly I'm a bit blonde at times but he would go out of his way to challenge any of my views and make me feel uncomfortable
Not entirely sure how intelligence is determined but he sounds horrible! Not your fault at all. X
Probably more likely he felt threatened by you, or he's the type who needs to put women down do he can feel good about himself. "
Agreed. The guy might have been academically intelligent but he still behaved like an idiot |
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"Hmm I thought I was but I had a 2 day meet with someone who was classed as intelligent and I found he would do all he can to make me feel stupid. Admittedly I'm a bit blonde at times but he would go out of his way to challenge any of my views and make me feel uncomfortable"
You just met a dickhead |
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"The older I get the more I feel I fall into these categories.
demisexual (sexually attracted to someone based on a strong emotional connection)
Sapiosexual (sexually attracted to intelligence).
Anyone else?
Could it be you’re looking for someone with emotional intelligence (I.e. someone who possess self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and relationship management skills)?
How hard can that be to be in a guy? Lol
Virtually impossible in London "
Virtually impossible on planet earth!! Why are men such emotional cowards? |
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