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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"It means you’re a massively old b*stard... but I’m desperate and probably would anyway?!..."
That’s what I always think they mean when I get messages like that on here along with the ‘you’re stunning/gorgeous/hottest woman blah blah blah’ Pull the other one it plays jingle bells mate  |
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"Either on the forums or in PM.....
Backhanded complement?
Offensive?
Couldn't care less?
Mixed feelings?
In other words does it bother you"
If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight! 
Age is just a number - and an attitude! I’ve come across plenty of people in their twenties who act like they’re in their seventies! 
If people want to add ‘for my age’ then let ‘em! |
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Better than the other way round. Some bloke got hammered on here not so long ago when he said he was 47.
Me I don’t get it I’m hoping it’s because I’m not at that stage and not because I look tragic. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I think the first time I receive it I'll realise I am old and hysterically cry. And then gracefully accept it. It's a well meaning compliment just poorly executed."
But you are old...
I know your real age |
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"Either on the forums or in PM.....
Backhanded complement?
Offensive?
Couldn't care less?
Mixed feelings?
In other words does it bother you
If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight!
Age is just a number - and an attitude! I’ve come across plenty of people in their twenties who act like they’re in their seventies!
If people want to add ‘for my age’ then let ‘em! "
Peachy you will always be attractive you have a wise attitude to life which will always shine through even after gravity has taken its toll, which it hasn't yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Either on the forums or in PM.....
Backhanded complement?
Offensive?
Couldn't care less?
Mixed feelings?
In other words does it bother you
If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight!
Age is just a number - and an attitude! I’ve come across plenty of people in their twenties who act like they’re in their seventies!
If people want to add ‘for my age’ then let ‘em!
Peachy you will always be attractive you have a wise attitude to life which will always shine through even after gravity has taken its toll, which it hasn't yet. "
Wise=old.... O dear |
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"The for your age bit kinda waters down the compliment, it's meant well tho so wouldn't be offended. Better than omg you've had a rough life lol"
Which is the kind of comment I get when people find out my age and think I’m older. Lost my hair in early 20’s (by 21 really) and upnintol that point I always looked younger.
Saved a fortune in barbers fees though
And you know the cause of baldness in men don’t you??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day
Your lovely Dash 
Tears of joy "
Awww don’t cry Dash, here have a cuddle |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day
Your lovely Dash
Tears of joy
Awww don’t cry Dash, here have a cuddle "
It worked dash  ,MOTORBOAT!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it ageist..
You either look good or not..
age should be irrelevant.."
Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok? |
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People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People say that to me a lot, and it's usually much younger people.
I think it's because they don't really know what a 53 year looks like an think it's ancient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it ageist..
You either look good or not..
age should be irrelevant..
Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok?"
You killjoy |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho "
When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho
When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes "
You look so much better in the flesh SJ .. Hope you are doing ok.. Take care.
Mr Nice x |
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho
When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes "
I was actually laughed at when I told the guys at work I had been to an over 50’s swim session, they told me not to be so daft and to stop lying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get told I look good for my age ..but on here i take it as just flannel...we are a totally normal mid 40s couple with wrinkles and wobbly bits, nothing at all special.
I get more compliments than Cookie, butagain, on here, that’s expected ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive never had anyone say here I look young or old for my age but I’ve had a few people say I don’t look old enough to have an 18 year old outside of here, I look at my crows feet etc and I don’t concur
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’?
Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements. "
I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently. |
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.  "
Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart"  it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps. |
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"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt "
First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho
When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes
You look so much better in the flesh SJ .. Hope you are doing ok.. Take care.
Mr Nice x "
Thank you secret Santa |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt
First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate"
Hate that game |
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.
Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.
Now that I want to see "
Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants.  |
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"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt
First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate"
I did I was well under I know the rules and have had the slaps for getting it wrong to. It took all night to console me after that it was hell  |
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.
Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.
Now that I want to see
Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants. "
Now your just turning me on young lady  |
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.
Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.
Now that I want to see
Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants.
Now your just turning me on young lady "
People of my age know how to please a man . I also meant to say cargo pants and baseball caps but at my age I forget what I'm saying mid sentence  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it ageist..
You either look good or not..
age should be irrelevant..
Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok?
You killjoy"
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.
Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.
Now that I want to see
Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants.
Now your just turning me on young lady
People of my age know how to please a man . I also meant to say cargo pants and baseball caps but at my age I forget what I'm saying mid sentence "
Is that so. I also have a thing for bingo wings if you've a single sister |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone recently told me I hadn't changed a bit since I last saw them nearly 20 years ago....my first thought was shit that means I looked haggard when i was 25!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.
Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps."
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"You do though.
I guess I can't really answer this yet as it hasn't happened but I think I'd just take it as a compliment. "
I've complimented you a couple of times now, and never once mentioned or even showed an interest in your age. We are what we are. Take us or leave us. |
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Found what I was looking for...
"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."
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Debra gets the “I don’t believe you” when people find out our ages, as if we would make ourselves older than we are! That’s in normal vanilla life and work environments too.
She also had the MILF thing when the kids were 15/16 through to present day.
Of course it’s taken with a pinch of salt but it’s nice to hear occasionally. |
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Found what I was looking for...
"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Found what I was looking for...
"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience.""
Soooooooo do you like it or not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Found what I was looking for...
"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience.""
Being told I look a lot younger than my age doesn't make me feel good. Is it supposed to? |
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"Found what I was looking for...
"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."
Soooooooo do you like it or not? "
You can’t tell? |
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"Found what I was looking for...
"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."
Being told I look a lot younger than my age doesn't make me feel good. Is it supposed to? "
Other people seem to think so. Why we can’t give compliments without caveats is beyond me.
I’m 58 and I look like me. That’s all there is to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would be accepted as a compliment, thank you kindly.
Wow that ass!!
Hold on, this is the female chatting isnt it? "
Not really chatting just commenting but thanks. |
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