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Winks get a bad rap. ...
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
Even if you are about to wink you are asked to confirm if you would like to go ahead and wink...
I enjoy a flirty wink... I always read the profile before hand. I don't feel it's lazy. .. it's a little like trying to catch a ladies eye from across a room.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get over 100 winks a day. I never check them. I just click the ‘winks’ button, then click off so it takes the number back to 0.
Winking at me will never get my attention |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"I get over 100 winks a day. I never check them. I just click the ‘winks’ button, then click off so it takes the number back to 0.
Winking at me will never get my attention "
That is a fair comment. I've only recently come back to FABS.. but historically didn't get many. Maybe because I am a man. And mostly men do the chasing on FABS.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only ever look at winks if I'm playing a forum game.
But because I am a female on fab and can be an asshole I do sometimes send them rather than a message. |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"I only ever look at winks if I'm playing a forum game.
But because I am a female on fab and can be an asshole I do sometimes send them rather than a message. "
Feel free to be an asshole to me..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I "get" winks anymore. I used to. Now I just think, why not just send me a message?
Fabs are given for various reasons, but a wink is for testing attraction right? I'd rather just talk for a while, then when I start to fancy them, I'll just come right out with it
"I want YOU" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Winks work and are underated, I'd rather get rejected or not even replied to by sending a wink that takes 0.5 secs than writing a personalised well thought out message that get's looked at and deleted straightaway but took you a good few minutes to type and think of because they think you're not good enough for them. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I’ve never looked at my winks...no idea how many I have. I barely have time to delete my messages and respond to a few, never mind looking at winks. Plus, checking winks takes time away from forum banter...down with the winkies! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if you are about to wink you are asked to confirm if you would like to go ahead and wink...
I enjoy a flirty wink... I always read the profile before hand. I don't feel it's lazy. .. it's a little like trying to catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you guys think? "
One of my best meets started with a wink  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even if yo ass be bout ta wink yo ass be axed ta confirm if you wanna go ahead n' wink...
I trip off a gangbangin' flirty wink... I always read tha flava before hand. Y'all KNOW dat shit, muthafucka! I don't feel itz lazy. .. itz a lil like tryin ta catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you muthafuckas think, biatch?
is a good rap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if yo ass be bout ta wink yo ass be axed ta confirm if you wanna go ahead n' wink...
I trip off a gangbangin' flirty wink... I always read tha flava before hand. Y'all KNOW dat shit, muthafucka! I don't feel itz lazy. .. itz a lil like tryin ta catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you muthafuckas think, biatch?
is a good rap "
Paaahahahaaaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our experience 90% of winks are from profiles who clearly haven’t bothered to read the profile.
Most of the messages we have received have shown they’ve read the profile and taken the time to make thoughtful contact.
Our thoughts are winks are a lazy throw away means of contact.
We don’t bother with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get lots of winks but our profile doesn’t let us send them back so we usually send a message back, we find it a good system and most seem genuine, though our filters stop unverified people contacting us anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So women don't have the time to go through all the winks but men have to go the extra mile and write a well thought out message that 90% of the time will get ignored... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Winks work and are underated, I'd rather get rejected or not even replied to by sending a wink that takes 0.5 secs than writing a personalised well thought out message that get's looked at and deleted straightaway but took you a good few minutes to type and think of because they think you're not good enough for them."
so true then they wonder why we resort to hey how are you route lol I understand everyone has their on preferences but if your profile says winks welcome or come and say hi and you do so being as polite as possible then bang your deleted blocked then your there thinking wtf just happen what does that say lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the wink facility. It lets me know if someone is interested in my profile . However I have to say I don't wink other people .. If I'm interested I usually drop a polite message and let them know I'm interested as too many on here don't even look at their winks .. Please feel free to drop me a wink if you would like to get to know me a bit better .. Ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if you are about to wink you are asked to confirm if you would like to go ahead and wink...
I enjoy a flirty wink... I always read the profile before hand. I don't feel it's lazy. .. it's a little like trying to catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you guys think? "
I think most women wont see it. |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Even if yo ass be bout ta wink yo ass be axed ta confirm if you wanna go ahead n' wink...
I trip off a gangbangin' flirty wink... I always read tha flava before hand. Y'all KNOW dat shit, muthafucka! I don't feel itz lazy. .. itz a lil like tryin ta catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you muthafuckas think, biatch?
is a good rap "
I wish I had put it as eloquently. . |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I get a lot and rarely look at them.
I think it works well if you're a woman sending one, I've never not got a response from sending one
Never ever?"
Well to be fair when I've gone on a winking spree I forget who I've sent one to. A high response rate would be a better way of putting it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if you are about to wink you are asked to confirm if you would like to go ahead and wink...
I enjoy a flirty wink... I always read the profile before hand. I don't feel it's lazy. .. it's a little like trying to catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you guys think?
I think most women wont see it. "
You did, js, but then you are very thorough..... x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if you are about to wink you are asked to confirm if you would like to go ahead and wink...
I enjoy a flirty wink... I always read the profile before hand. I don't feel it's lazy. .. it's a little like trying to catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you guys think?
I think most women wont see it.
You did, js, but then you are very thorough..... x"
It was only because i was perving your profile, that i saw it |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Even if you are about to wink you are asked to confirm if you would like to go ahead and wink...
I enjoy a flirty wink... I always read the profile before hand. I don't feel it's lazy. .. it's a little like trying to catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you guys think?
I think most women wont see it. "
They would see me winking I'm 6ft 4.. lol.. tbf I don't wink in real life.. think it's cheesy... maybe I should follow the same rules on here.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if yo ass be bout ta wink yo ass be axed ta confirm if you wanna go ahead n' wink...
I trip off a gangbangin' flirty wink... I always read tha flava before hand. Y'all KNOW dat shit, muthafucka! I don't feel itz lazy. .. itz a lil like tryin ta catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you muthafuckas think, biatch?
is a good rap "
That made me moist..... x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if yo ass be bout ta wink yo ass be axed ta confirm if you wanna go ahead n' wink...
I trip off a gangbangin' flirty wink... I always read tha flava before hand. Y'all KNOW dat shit, muthafucka! I don't feel itz lazy. .. itz a lil like tryin ta catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you muthafuckas think, biatch?
is a good rap
That made me moist..... x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if yo ass be bout ta wink yo ass be axed ta confirm if you wanna go ahead n' wink...
I trip off a gangbangin' flirty wink... I always read tha flava before hand. Y'all KNOW dat shit, muthafucka! I don't feel itz lazy. .. itz a lil like tryin ta catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you muthafuckas think, biatch?
is a good rap "
I bow down to you. That was a corker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if you are about to wink you are asked to confirm if you would like to go ahead and wink...
I enjoy a flirty wink... I always read the profile before hand. I don't feel it's lazy. .. it's a little like trying to catch a ladies eye from across a room.
What do you guys think?
I think most women wont see it.
You did, js, but then you are very thorough..... x
It was only because i was perving your profile, that i saw it "
I bet you perv a lot of profiles!!!! I'm not your only winker |
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