"If you were going to be let down would you prefer it by text or phone call. Face to face not an option as you’ve not met yet. Asking for a friend. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyway just as long as they tell me they aren't coming so I'm not stood outside like a dick "
And in enough time so that they can make other plans, that’s better than ghosting right? The kindest possible way my friend is looking for. |
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"Anyway just as long as they tell me they aren't coming so I'm not stood outside like a dick
And in enough time so that they can make other plans, that’s better than ghosting right? The kindest possible way my friend is looking for. "
Much kinder than ghosting and text would be fine. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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If I haven't met the person and it's just been a few messages and calls then text is fine.
If we've been going out for over 6 months then face to face, please.
Ghosting is just rude unless you are shaking off a stalker.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are we taking one a off let down as in a date or let down as I don’t want to communicate anymore?
I suppose regardless, if we haven’t met a text is fine. |
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"Are we taking one a off let down as in a date or let down as I don’t want to communicate anymore?
I suppose regardless, if we haven’t met a text is fine."
Just asked my friend now and it’s a permanent let down, said she wasn’t feeling it and with the pressure of the meet travelling to her as well she just wants to wish him all the best cos he’s been nothing but nice to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Text saves awkwardness I guess and is fairly instant. "
The stalker in me prefers WhatsApp so I can see if my victim...erm...person has read the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Text saves awkwardness I guess and is fairly instant.
The stalker in me prefers WhatsApp so I can see if my victim...erm...person has read the message."
Or do delivery receipt if it's an actual text message |
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