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How are we going to attract more women to the life style
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Now i do have some idea
But a lot of bad practices need to go by the way side
As for trems such as fuckbud and freinds with benfits and the like need to go
If your seeing someone often dont mean your going to end up livin with them
Men not beeing so full on do you think most women want coem over darling and suck my cock
we have on the sence 100plus men to one single woman
If men are going to find a woman we need to attrat more women
so folk need to go about this in the rigth way so give swining a good name
and most of all men and cuples and the like need to meet the woman where she at
if she wont a socail give her one a socail I mean
rember we need to get more women thinking about ths life style only way to do that is met thier at not where you want them to be at
More than anything I want more women on here so all have to go about it right to get that to happen
Now there lot of swingers who are going about this in the right way alread but there are a few on the sence who are not and making it hrad work for all the good men that there are on the sence
Cos not all the singel men on the site are asswhole some and really nice men I should know ive meet a a lot of them
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Totally agree, there are some lovely guys on here I've known for years. However it would seem there is a new breed of people joining fab who have a very entitled attitude which is probably going to make a lot of ladies stop meeting or leave. You'll notice I used the word people, not men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the females on Fab need to choose a four man SAS style squad. To send deep into the online Dating world. Use their wickedest charm to seduce a few of them into the wicked world of Fab. Go on an around the Nation Tour.
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"Totally agree, there are some lovely guys on here I've known for years. However it would seem there is a new breed of people joining fab who have a very entitled attitude which is probably going to make a lot of ladies stop meeting or leave. You'll notice I used the word people, not men. "
This new breed do they have 3 breasts and 2 dicks? If they do I have yet to encounter one yet which region should I be looking in?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We need more women, preferably more bi women that want to meet couples. But that’s for our own selfish reasons (disclaimer before the ‘they are not a trophy’ brigade come out, please see our profile lol)
Geeky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Offer cake and you'll get the quantity ones.
Quantity of what ? "
Cake eaters who will fuck anything. You know, the ones who aren't picky.
We need more Marlin, not sardines. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We need more women, preferably more bi women that want to meet couples. But that’s for our own selfish reasons (disclaimer before the ‘they are not a trophy’ brigade come out, please see our profile lol)
Geeky x"
I'm hazarding a guess that's what the OP wants them for too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Offer cake and you'll get the quantity ones.
Quantity of what ?
Cake, the ones that like lots of cake
I don't like cake,not the baked ones anyway.
I just bake! "
I prefer buns. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We need more women, preferably more bi women that want to meet couples. But that’s for our own selfish reasons (disclaimer before the ‘they are not a trophy’ brigade come out, please see our profile lol)
Geeky x
I'm hazarding a guess that's what the OP wants them for too "
To be honest I didn’t read all the post  |
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"Why do you want more women on here ?"
cos we do for all th e single men that are on here hun do you know how many are finding it hard to find a woman to even talk to them never mind meet for a socail or play meet
do you know how many men who have message me who have said there fed up wit this site cos there cant even get woman to tlak to them never mind meet
we need more women on here so it fair for nice single men who are in here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We need more women, preferably more bi women that want to meet couples. But that’s for our own selfish reasons (disclaimer before the ‘they are not a trophy’ brigade come out, please see our profile lol)
Geeky x
I'm hazarding a guess that's what the OP wants them for too
To be honest I didn’t read all the post "
I'm reading between the lines. I mean, who would want more competition for the men on here?
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"We need more women, preferably more bi women that want to meet couples. But that’s for our own selfish reasons (disclaimer before the ‘they are not a trophy’ brigade come out, please see our profile lol)
Geeky x
I'm hazarding a guess that's what the OP wants them for too
To be honest I didn’t read all the post "
I tried to read it all , but gave up . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you want more women on here ? cos we do for all th e single men that are on here hun do you know how many are finding it hard to find a woman to even talk to them never mind meet for a socail or play meet
do you know how many men who have message me who have said there fed up wit this site cos there cant even get woman to tlak to them never mind meet
we need more women on here so it fair for nice single men who are in here"
Why not have less men? If they can't get someone to meet them after say, a year? we chuck them off? Make it 6 months.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the right way to go about swinging is not to have friends with benefits or fuck buddies but make sure we are seeing all the men instead? "
Yes. We have to think of the poor men who can't get a fuck on here. It's only fair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you want more women on here ? cos we do for all th e single men that are on here hun do you know how many are finding it hard to find a woman to even talk to them never mind meet for a socail or play meet
do you know how many men who have message me who have said there fed up wit this site cos there cant even get woman to tlak to them never mind meet
we need more women on here so it fair for nice single men who are in here"
Doesnt mean those new women will still want to meet them though, they'll go for the successful men  |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"Offer cake and you'll get the quantity ones.
Quantity of what ?
Cake, the ones that like lots of cake
I don't like cake,not the baked ones anyway.
I just bake! "
You're already on here though so the cake isn't for you, it's to lure the vanilla women to the dark side.
I'm thinking of starting Moriarty's refer a friend scheme though for which you get M&S or Next vouchers after your friend has their first verified meet with me, so there could be something in this for you yet. |
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"So the right way to go about swinging is not to have friends with benefits or fuck buddies but make sure we are seeing all the men instead?
Yes. We have to think of the poor men who can't get a fuck on here. It's only fair."
now you got it half the women and half the cuples on the sence dont lkie some of the bad trems that folk say and want more women and cuple to come to the swining world
so stuff needs to go to atrrat more to the life style
yes we need to get more women on the site and swinging world in genral |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Offer cake and you'll get the quantity ones.
Quantity of what ?
Cake, the ones that like lots of cake
I don't like cake,not the baked ones anyway.
I just bake!
You're already on here though so the cake isn't for you, it's to lure the vanilla women to the dark side.
I'm thinking of starting Moriarty's refer a friend scheme though for which you get M&S or Next vouchers after your friend has their first verified meet with me, so there could be something in this for you yet."
No i just turn ' straight ' women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the right way to go about swinging is not to have friends with benefits or fuck buddies but make sure we are seeing all the men instead?
Yes. We have to think of the poor men who can't get a fuck on here. It's only fair. now you got it half the women and half the cuples on the sence dont lkie some of the bad trems that folk say and want more women and cuple to come to the swining world
so stuff needs to go to atrrat more to the life style
yes we need to get more women on the site and swinging world in genral"
Don't like what terms? Have you done a survey of every woman and couple on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the right way to go about swinging is not to have friends with benefits or fuck buddies but make sure we are seeing all the men instead?
Yes. We have to think of the poor men who can't get a fuck on here. It's only fair."
I'm curious as too how this would even work.
"Make sure we are seeing all the men Instead?"
Maybe some kind of ticketing system like they have at the job center or the local butchers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty sure advertisement could be a thing... I only discovered this last year ... Didn't know it's been running for around 10 years.
I just got sick of dating and thought I'd look up sex parties, local girls wanting sex ... Craigslist was a thing but they stopped the personals ... Then I kept thinking ... "What else is there to do with sex?" ... Watched Austin powers then remembered "SWINGING!" .... Typed into Google and found this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the right way to go about swinging is not to have friends with benefits or fuck buddies but make sure we are seeing all the men instead?
Yes. We have to think of the poor men who can't get a fuck on here. It's only fair.
I'm curious as too how this would even work.
"Make sure we are seeing all the men Instead?"
Maybe some kind of ticketing system like they have at the job center or the local butchers."
Youngest to oldest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't we just cull 80% of the men instead?
And there you have the answer.
All men who don't get sex within a year are to be thrown off the site.
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Best idea! Can we tar and feather them as well? Make a proper spectacle of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once you separate the wheat from the chaff of the men, it balances out anyway."
You think?
How much women chaff is amongst the women wheat?
Less men will mean the women chaff might not get a look in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't we just cull 80% of the men instead?
And there you have the answer.
All men who don't get sex within a year are to be thrown off the site.
Best idea! Can we tar and feather them as well? Make a proper spectacle of them. "
And make them parade with an "I can't even get sex on a swinging site" placard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't we just cull 80% of the men instead?
And there you have the answer.
All men who don't get sex within a year are to be thrown off the site.
Best idea! Can we tar and feather them as well? Make a proper spectacle of them.
And make them parade with an "I can't even get sex on a swinging site" placard."
Whilst butt naked of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interestingly the guy I see regularly has plenty of woman, other regulars and new meets... So maybe the lack is decent men? I have no wish to meet others because I can't find anyone who ticks enough boxes for me to want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't we just cull 80% of the men instead?
And there you have the answer.
All men who don't get sex within a year are to be thrown off the site.
Best idea! Can we tar and feather them as well? Make a proper spectacle of them.
And make them parade with an "I can't even get sex on a swinging site" placard.
Whilst butt naked of course. "
Leave the penis un-tarred so it swings in the wind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once you separate the wheat from the chaff of the men, it balances out anyway.
You think?
How much women chaff is amongst the women wheat?
Less men will mean the women chaff might not get a look in."
There’s Less woman chaff than there is men chaff. Okay, some women chaff will have to get there dildos out instead, but a small price to pay for getting rid of the men chaff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once you separate the wheat from the chaff of the men, it balances out anyway.
You think?
How much women chaff is amongst the women wheat?
Less men will mean the women chaff might not get a look in.
There’s Less woman chaff than there is men chaff. Okay, some women chaff will have to get there dildos out instead, but a small price to pay for getting rid of the men chaff."
Don't forget all that wheat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once you separate the wheat from the chaff of the men, it balances out anyway.
You think?
How much women chaff is amongst the women wheat?
Less men will mean the women chaff might not get a look in.
There’s Less woman chaff than there is men chaff. Okay, some women chaff will have to get there dildos out instead, but a small price to pay for getting rid of the men chaff."
I don't do dildos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once you separate the wheat from the chaff of the men, it balances out anyway.
You think?
How much women chaff is amongst the women wheat?
Less men will mean the women chaff might not get a look in.
There’s Less woman chaff than there is men chaff. Okay, some women chaff will have to get there dildos out instead, but a small price to pay for getting rid of the men chaff.
Don't forget all that wheat "
I’m wheat intolerant, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once you separate the wheat from the chaff of the men, it balances out anyway.
You think?
How much women chaff is amongst the women wheat?
Less men will mean the women chaff might not get a look in."
Battle of the chaffs.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once you separate the wheat from the chaff of the men, it balances out anyway.
You think?
How much women chaff is amongst the women wheat?
Less men will mean the women chaff might not get a look in.
Battle of the chaffs.... "
We'll be fighting over all those fit men  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"60 plus errors in your post. "
And you haven't read one of the the posts on this thread and many other posts on her threads which state the OP is in fact dyslexic. Well done, congratulations. I do hope you feel good about that.  |
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Seriously....
Why are there less women on here than men
Why do the women that have been on here leave
Do women that are frustrated with their sex lives find this site
Do women who are happy but seek more sex use this site
Have women the same opportunity to use this site as men
And of course...the swinging scene is for couples .. which partner is more likely to want to swing...is it a joint decision,I'd guess yes it has to be |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Now i do have some idea
But a lot of bad practices need to go by the way side
As for trems such as fuckbud and freinds with benfits and the like need to go
If your seeing someone often dont mean your going to end up livin with them
Men not beeing so full on do you think most women want coem over darling and suck my cock
we have on the sence 100plus men to one single woman
If men are going to find a woman we need to attrat more women
so folk need to go about this in the rigth way so give swining a good name
and most of all men and cuples and the like need to meet the woman where she at
if she wont a socail give her one a socail I mean
rember we need to get more women thinking about ths life style only way to do that is met thier at not where you want them to be at
More than anything I want more women on here so all have to go about it right to get that to happen
Now there lot of swingers who are going about this in the right way alread but there are a few on the sence who are not and making it hrad work for all the good men that there are on the sence
Cos not all the singel men on the site are asswhole some and really nice men I should know ive meet a a lot of them
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You would have to change societal view which isn't gonna happen anytime soon. Women age like milk. They want to be wives and mothers. |
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What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed . |
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"Oh I know! Get loads of hot men to join and put an ad in the Sun newspaper. "
you do know what your talking about the press think we at it with everyome we meet a lot of men think there will get easy sex on cos of what they have red
There a lot of myiths about swining and the press are to blame for alot of them
All I can say is what the press dont talk about is the folk who are on the sence who dont swing cos there are good percentage that dont some of these poeple who dont who are just living thier life syltes in place where by they can |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed ."
Eloquently put. Nail on the head. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed ."
Some savvy women use this as a dating site to try reel the type of men they want in who wouldn't date them. I'm onto them. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed ."
Because traditional dating sites are over run with guys looking for nsa or cheating
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed ."
do you know how many men i have on my freinds list do you know ive got over 200 messages from men do you kow ive meet over 80 men in my time on here do you know how many men i talk to cant find a meet
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed ."
Fair points, well made
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed . do you know how many men i have on my freinds list do you know ive got over 200 messages from men do you kow ive meet over 80 men in my time on here do you know how many men i talk to cant find a meet
when i say we need more women on here im kidding"
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed . Some savvy women use this as a dating site to try reel the type of men they want in who wouldn't date them. I'm onto them. "
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed . Some savvy women use this as a dating site to try reel the type of men they want in who wouldn't date them. I'm onto them.
You're safe from me "
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I joined here coz i wanted sex only, i like sex and relationships but my last ex was a knob so i was fine with casual. I was on another site for casual sex as well and the quality of guys there was good but trying to do instant hookups was hard as the site had no facilities to do that(ie. no status update).
When i wanted to date i joined dating sites but because i was also on here the guys on dating sites only wanted sex (mostly). There probably is some confusion, despite me being on dating sites for dating and my profile saying that. And on here i wanted sex. My filters for casual sex were way stricter than dating so not only was i being ignored for dating i was also being approached for NSA by guys i had no interest in. Even guys i'd blocked or turned down for casual sex on here thought it was fine to approach me on a dating for sex...yeah.
Anyway dating is shit for people who love sex. I have no idea what topic i'm replying to as i have rambled on for ages. |
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed ."
Fab in a nutshell! Excellently put!
I have even had women admit to me that they get addicted to the attention they receive on here compared to every other dating avenue they have tried. It may have something to do with all the sexually charged men here specifically for sex who will say anything to get you to bend over.
A part of me wants to celebrate this because it is one of the very few places where females call most the shots.... The liberal part of me anyway.... But at the same time I have a penis so another part of me is all bitter because of having to put up with the rejections from girls I wouldn't usually approach for anything other than sex.... I know I'm a terrible horny person that has had lots of sex that I have kinda regretted.... Kinda
Think my ex summed it up pretty well when she said that "Men are a lot better at keeping things casual". Think it must still be ingrained in us to try and reproduce with as many women as possible to keep our gene pool going |
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"Now i do have some idea
But a lot of bad practices need to go by the way side
As for trems such as fuckbud and freinds with benfits and the like need to go
If your seeing someone often dont mean your going to end up livin with them
Men not beeing so full on do you think most women want coem over darling and suck my cock
we have on the sence 100plus men to one single woman
If men are going to find a woman we need to attrat more women
so folk need to go about this in the rigth way so give swining a good name
and most of all men and cuples and the like need to meet the woman where she at
if she wont a socail give her one a socail I mean
rember we need to get more women thinking about ths life style only way to do that is met thier at not where you want them to be at
More than anything I want more women on here so all have to go about it right to get that to happen
Now there lot of swingers who are going about this in the right way alread but there are a few on the sence who are not and making it hrad work for all the good men that there are on the sence
Cos not all the singel men on the site are asswhole some and really nice men I should know ive meet a a lot of them
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Perhaps less judgemental gatekeeping posts like this making the scene seem a hostile place?
"Going about swinging in the right way" 
Your post is basicaly summed up as "stick the women on a pedestal jump through all the hoops and they'll have sex with you!!!" Nice guy logic bollocks |
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"So the right way to go about swinging is not to have friends with benefits or fuck buddies but make sure we are seeing all the men instead? "
Getting rid of my friends with benifits and fuck buddies is gonna leave my swinging and social life kinda empty  |
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"So the right way to go about swinging is not to have friends with benefits or fuck buddies but make sure we are seeing all the men instead?
Getting rid of my friends with benifits and fuck buddies is gonna leave my swinging and social life kinda empty "
get rid of threms not the poeple |
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"So the right way to go about swinging is not to have friends with benefits or fuck buddies but make sure we are seeing all the men instead?
Getting rid of my friends with benifits and fuck buddies is gonna leave my swinging and social life kinda empty get rid of threms not the poeple"
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"60 plus errors in your post.
And you haven't read one of the the posts on this thread and many other posts on her threads which state the OP is in fact dyslexic. Well done, congratulations. I do hope you feel good about that. "
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"60 plus errors in your post.
And you haven't read one of the the posts on this thread and many other posts on her threads which state the OP is in fact dyslexic. Well done, congratulations. I do hope you feel good about that.
Well put mgw "
I'm dyslexic so do i get a pass to say fucking proof read this shit like the rest of us do? |
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"What I fail to understand is this .
Guys get criticised when they see the site as a hook up site , so the guys looking for more than nsa do the sensible thing and stay away from sites like this .
Women , particularly in the forum , tend to be looking for more than nsa , and start threads bemoaning the quality of men on here . Yet the men are only on here because they don’t want the crap that goes hand in hand with more than nsa sex .
So why don’t the women join traditional dating sites when they want more than nsa ?
They will say because they are looking for kink that they won’t find on regular dating sites . But the truth is there is a much more even mix of men and women on those sites , and many of the women on fab wouldn’t get anywhere near the attention they get on here . Tell me I’m wrong , but you know I’m not because you’ve been there , done that , and ended up here again !
Swinging as a concept is nsa sex , not relationships , dating , and traditional monogamy . But fab has facilitated anyone and everyone to join up and do as you please . Just like swinging clubs with way more single guys wanting to get in but can’t , except fab can’t stop them . And why do all these guys join ? Knowing full well after a few weeks that it’s down to more luck and being in the right place at the right time than good looks and personality that gets a guy laid on here ? Because it’s free , and easy to join , and so what if they don’t get lucky . Nothing ventured , nothing gained and all that . There are loads of posts from guys who haven’t had a meet for over a year asking what they need to do . Decent looking , nice guys who clearly use the site as and when the mood takes them , up against at least twenty others every time a woman is looking for a meet .
An attractive woman on here could get a meet every night if she wanted to , without even trying . And yes , I’ll incur the wrath of the forum and say that an unattractive woman with no personality either , can also get a meet at the click of her fingers if she wanted to . Just not with guys who want to wine , dine and date them .
So I would say that women who say that more women should join fab should be careful what they wish for . Do you really want to have to start jumping through hoops to get a meet ? For if fab became a 50/50 male to female ratio , there would be a whole lot of women very unhappy indeed . do you know how many men i have on my freinds list do you know ive got over 200 messages from men do you kow ive meet over 80 men in my time on here do you know how many men i talk to cant find a meet
when i say we need more women on here im kidding
I don't need more women. "
Can I have your share?
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"Offer cake and you'll get the quantity ones.
Quantity of what ?
Cake eaters who will fuck anything. You know, the ones who aren't picky.
We need more Marlin, not sardines. "
To be honest I'm not that picky when it comes to cake. I am picky when it comes to men, and I would much rather go without sex than just fuck anything. |
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Given that men are so easy to seduce a hungry & horny woman can pop out to the local supermarket pick up a pizza, a Victoria sponge, and a man to fuck the calories off in 30 minutes, with just the slightest effort in dressing and a good wiggle in her walk. They don't really need to be on fab.
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"Why do you want more women on here ? cos we do for all th e single men that are on here hun do you know how many are finding it hard to find a woman to even talk to them never mind meet for a socail or play meet
do you know how many men who have message me who have said there fed up wit this site cos there cant even get woman to tlak to them never mind meet
we need more women on here so it fair for nice single men who are in here"
More women to use as bait for men who have no social skills and think women who like sex are not human beings and should be used like wet holes.
I can't think of any woman I'd entice into that. |
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"Given that men are so easy to seduce a hungry & horny woman can pop out to the local supermarket pick up a pizza, a Victoria sponge, and a man to fuck the calories off in 30 minutes, with just the slightest effort in dressing and a good wiggle in her walk. They don't really need to be on fab.
Only solution is for men to play hard to get"
Right that’s it! No more quickies down the crisp aisle for me us men need to show these women we deserved to be wanted. On that note I’m off to get some crisps... want anything?
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"Right that’s it! No more quickies down the crisp aisle for me us men need to show these women we deserved to be wanted. On that note I’m off to get some crisps... want anything?
Doughnut "
Yes please, can you pick up a couple of hot blondes from isle 12, preferably bisexual in case my wife fancies joining in. I will start the hard to get thing next week |
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"Right that’s it! No more quickies down the crisp aisle for me us men need to show these women we deserved to be wanted. On that note I’m off to get some crisps... want anything?
Doughnut
Yes please, can you pick up a couple of hot blondes from isle 12, preferably bisexual in case my wife fancies joining in. I will start the hard to get thing next week"
Sorry already claimed those two anything else I could help you with?
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"Why do you want more women on here ? cos we do for all th e single men that are on here hun do you know how many are finding it hard to find a woman to even talk to them never mind meet for a socail or play meet
do you know how many men who have message me who have said there fed up wit this site cos there cant even get woman to tlak to them never mind meet
we need more women on here so it fair for nice single men who are in here
More women to use as bait for men who have no social skills and think women who like sex are not human beings and should be used like wet holes.
I can't think of any woman I'd entice into that."
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Simple, empower women. Make a society where women feel more empowered go for what they want without judgment and stigma. Make this a world where women are free to be less inhabited and self conscious. I imagine then you'll get more women on here. |
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