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 I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol ! | |||
"Counting to 10 apparently helps. I'm shit at it. " Me too.. I have dyscalcula.. maybe dyslexia too if I spelt it wrong. | |||
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"It takes a lot to make me really angry. I’m naturally laid back and if I don’t agree with something or it upsets me then I usually say so and clear the air in the moment. However some things can build and build so that the smallest of things tips me over. That’s when Mad Mac rears her ugly head. It’s scary. I flip and smash my way like a hulkette. There is no ‘calm myself’ in the moment. 5 minutes later I’m fine. It happens so rarely that it’s cathartic when it does. Still, Mad Mac can stay in her box a good while longer. " I'd qualify as a Mad Mac myself | |||
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"Ooooooh force of nature I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !"What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny | |||
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"Counting to 10 apparently helps. I'm shit at it. Me too.. I have dyscalcula.. maybe dyslexia too if I spelt it wrong. " Dyscalculia is more common than dyslexia, apparently. | |||
"Ooooooh force of nature I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !
What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny "I don’t know, you just seem to come across as calm person! | |||
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"Ooooooh force of nature I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !
What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny
I don’t know, you just seem to come across as calm person! "Carter89 will probably testify I'm not always. I'd like to put it all behind us Carter89, if you're feeling charitable? | |||
"Ooooooh force of nature I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !
What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny
I don’t know, you just seem to come across as calm person!
Carter89 will probably testify I'm not always. I'd like to put it all behind us Carter89, if you're feeling charitable? "Oh what are you putting behind you?  | |||
"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx " Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year  | |||
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"It takes a lot to upset me, I find getting ragey a little stressful so I tend to just walk away. I've raged at my children before and they laughed at me so I walk away from them to. Not often though, they rarely wind me up!" I do that all the time. My boys rage back. It's cathartic. We're part Scottish, it's in our genes  | |||
"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year "I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them. I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy. I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt. I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside. I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx | |||
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"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year
I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.
I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.
I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.
I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.
I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x
I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx
"Omg... I think youre awesome just for being able to do that job. You deserve more money than any footballer xxx Massive love to you and yours. Deal with it the way you know how, so long as it's released at some point. I feel like crying after reading that. | |||
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"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year
I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.
I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.
I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.
I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.
I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x
I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx
Omg... I think youre awesome just for being able to do that job. You deserve more money than any footballer xxx Massive love to you and yours. Deal with it the way you know how, so long as it's released at some point. I feel like crying after reading that. "Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx | |||
"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year
I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.
I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.
I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.
I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.
I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x
I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx
Omg... I think youre awesome just for being able to do that job. You deserve more money than any footballer xxx Massive love to you and yours. Deal with it the way you know how, so long as it's released at some point. I feel like crying after reading that.
Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx"I've not cried.. it takes a fair bit to set me off. I do get a lump in my throat when I hear people explain their sorrows though. If I can intensely relate.. Like a friend if mine whose son is suffering awfully with PTSD.. then that will set me off and I'll cry openly whilst still trying to hold the conversation. It's not pretty | |||
"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year
I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.
I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.
I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.
I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.
I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x
I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx
Omg... I think youre awesome just for being able to do that job. You deserve more money than any footballer xxx Massive love to you and yours. Deal with it the way you know how, so long as it's released at some point. I feel like crying after reading that.
Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx
I've not cried.. it takes a fair bit to set me off. I do get a lump in my throat when I hear people explain their sorrows though. If I can intensely relate.. Like a friend if mine whose son is suffering awfully with PTSD.. then that will set me off and I'll cry openly whilst still trying to hold the conversation. It's not pretty "I feel for your friend, and glad he has you to support him. Sounds like you’re an amazing friend...crying is never pretty, all runny noses and red eyes! xx | |||
"Ooooooh force of nature I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !
What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny
I don’t know, you just seem to come across as calm person!
Carter89 will probably testify I'm not always. I'd like to put it all behind us Carter89, if you're feeling charitable? " Ive never met you, i think we disagreed in a thread about ghosts or soemthing.
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"It's very rare for me to get angry, but when I do it's not a pretty picture. Just don't pick on my close friends or family.I am a very level headed person But i don't have the nick name Danger Mouse for nothing, I don't like who I am when I am worked up. But overtime I am able to keep myself calm and disfuse the situation.I don't have to attend every battle. A punch bag is great or kicking the football of the wall. " | |||
"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year
I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.
I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.
I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.
I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.
I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x
I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx
Omg... I think youre awesome just for being able to do that job. You deserve more money than any footballer xxx Massive love to you and yours. Deal with it the way you know how, so long as it's released at some point. I feel like crying after reading that.
Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx
I've not cried.. it takes a fair bit to set me off. I do get a lump in my throat when I hear people explain their sorrows though. If I can intensely relate.. Like a friend if mine whose son is suffering awfully with PTSD.. then that will set me off and I'll cry openly whilst still trying to hold the conversation. It's not pretty
I feel for your friend, and glad he has you to support him. Sounds like you’re an amazing friend...crying is never pretty, all runny noses and red eyes! xx"She. A mother asking ME advice, as a veteran, on dealing with strong PTSD in her son. It was a double whammy. Parental empathy set me off. Which in turn set her off as well. Dad walked past stoned and pissed dressed as a pirate wondering what the fuck was going on. T'was rather a bizarre turn of events for a fancy dress party. | |||
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"Well ads never gets angry, I can’t say I’ve ever seen him angry, annoyed but never angry. When I get angry I go for a cigarette and calm down, I go to Ads for a good talking too. Geeky x" Funny how we all react and cope differently. Ghengis | |||
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"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year
I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.
I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.
I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.
I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.
I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x
I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx
Omg... I think youre awesome just for being able to do that job. You deserve more money than any footballer xxx Massive love to you and yours. Deal with it the way you know how, so long as it's released at some point. I feel like crying after reading that.
Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx
I've not cried.. it takes a fair bit to set me off. I do get a lump in my throat when I hear people explain their sorrows though. If I can intensely relate.. Like a friend if mine whose son is suffering awfully with PTSD.. then that will set me off and I'll cry openly whilst still trying to hold the conversation. It's not pretty
I feel for your friend, and glad he has you to support him. Sounds like you’re an amazing friend...crying is never pretty, all runny noses and red eyes! xx
She. A mother asking ME advice, as a veteran, on dealing with strong PTSD in her son. It was a double whammy. Parental empathy set me off. Which in turn set her off as well. Dad walked past stoned and pissed dressed as a pirate wondering what the fuck was going on. T'was rather a bizarre turn of events for a fancy dress party. "Apologies, I read it wrong. My best friend used to turn to me, before he passed last year, about things with his son and I used to chat to both, assumed incorrectly, and I apologise. Regardless of the setting, it’s good to have someone who can empathise, glad she has you xx | |||
"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc. Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year
I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.
I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.
I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.
I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.
I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x
I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx
Omg... I think youre awesome just for being able to do that job. You deserve more money than any footballer xxx Massive love to you and yours. Deal with it the way you know how, so long as it's released at some point. I feel like crying after reading that.
Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx
I've not cried.. it takes a fair bit to set me off. I do get a lump in my throat when I hear people explain their sorrows though. If I can intensely relate.. Like a friend if mine whose son is suffering awfully with PTSD.. then that will set me off and I'll cry openly whilst still trying to hold the conversation. It's not pretty
I feel for your friend, and glad he has you to support him. Sounds like you’re an amazing friend...crying is never pretty, all runny noses and red eyes! xx
She. A mother asking ME advice, as a veteran, on dealing with strong PTSD in her son. It was a double whammy. Parental empathy set me off. Which in turn set her off as well. Dad walked past stoned and pissed dressed as a pirate wondering what the fuck was going on. T'was rather a bizarre turn of events for a fancy dress party.
Apologies, I read it wrong. My best friend used to turn to me, before he passed last year, about things with his son and I used to chat to both, assumed incorrectly, and I apologise. Regardless of the setting, it’s good to have someone who can empathise, glad she has you xx"No need for apologies xxx I'm sorry about your friend as well | |||
"I rarely get angry, but when I do it's a flash in the pan. My blood boils for a second and then rationality sets in. Before the flash of anger-if someone is really pissing me off-I'm calm and calculated. I can only remember two times in my life when I have hit out through anger, and they involved throwing a cup of tea over my husband and throwing something at a wall. I'm quite good at keeping my cool." Should have thrown the husband at the wall and drank the tea k .......tea makes you calm morning to all fabsters x | |||
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"It's rare I totally lose my temper but when I do I'm like a scalded cat . I have to get away from the situation before I say or do something I regret. " A hot pussy doesn't seem scary to me ? Talking of hot nice boobs  j x | |||
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But my man very rarely does.
Maybe due to the fact he teaches martial arts and mma and losing your temper in the cage always ends up in losing. | |||
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"Too much rage on the world. Everybody needs to chill the hell out and spend more time enjoying each others company?? C on the other hand....that girl can rage! Only lasts a lil while though" rage is good for the soul | |||
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"Too much rage on the world. Everybody needs to chill the hell out and spend more time enjoying each others company?? C on the other hand....that girl can rage! Only lasts a lil while thoughrage is good for the soul" I think so too, provided you can harness it. | |||
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"I mentioned music calms me. Made me think of the band Offspring.. There's a little a little intro at the start of Smash. "Music soothes even the savage beast"." Music and dance have been my saviours, best thing I ever did was become a dancer, its the one time you can release everything and anything, let the blues chill a raging heart  | |||
"I mentioned music calms me. Made me think of the band Offspring.. There's a little a little intro at the start of Smash. "Music soothes even the savage beast". Music and dance have been my saviours, best thing I ever did was become a dancer, its the one time you can release everything and anything, let the blues chill a raging heart " | |||
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"[Rage removed by poster at 22/02/19 08:51:59] " If only it were that simple | |||
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If only it were that simple "Its never simple, its a case of finding what works for the individual, worst part is this can take time.... Such is life eh | |||
"Too much rage on the world. Everybody needs to chill the hell out and spend more time enjoying each others company?? C on the other hand....that girl can rage! Only lasts a lil while thoughrage is good for the soul" Is rage really good for the soul, it’s usually the sign that coping mechanisms aren’t working quite as they should. “Uncountable rage” is reached when the person is completely overwhelmed, emotionally but also maturity wise. I would think longterm raging would be more damaging to a person’s soul, that’s a lot of emotions to be keeping in check. | |||
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"Angry fucks are good!!! "True story. | |||
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"Angry fucks are good!!! "Till you miss a stroke  | |||
"Angry fucks are good!!!
Till you miss a stroke "Ouch! | |||
