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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're right, I want to go straight to the action, though I want to make sure everyone gets as much enjoyment as possible and make sure we get on, if only there was someway to discuss this before action  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nuh it's good to talk. It's all part of the action. I can't sleep with someone I don't know or know I have a connection with. Personality is much more important to me. That's why I don't ask for pics. Well, in the first month anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you think this is getting hard work with all the talk bit no action "
So, Jay... You are grumbling about too much chat. On a forum. Where people come to chat... |
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I also think it's quite naive, some people thinking that it's possible to just exchange pleasantries and get an address, which some do.
I for one want to establish that someone is a decent person who doesn't want to hurt me. Look at me, stuck up woman, wanting to be safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also think it's quite naive, some people thinking that it's possible to just exchange pleasantries and get an address, which some do.
I for one want to establish that someone is a decent person who doesn't want to hurt me. Look at me, stuck up woman, wanting to be safe. "
I've seen sites advertised where "women will meet, just send a message and fuck right away'. Also Swinger porn often shows orgies where men just join in and fuck the women.
I sometimes wonder if that's where many people get their wrong ideas about Swinging.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No no talking is good but the end result is better to be skin on skin my point is talking is enough for some people to get off"
Do you mean some 'women' do sex chat then don't meet?
Those are likely to be men wanking. |
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"I also think it's quite naive, some people thinking that it's possible to just exchange pleasantries and get an address, which some do.
I for one want to establish that someone is a decent person who doesn't want to hurt me. Look at me, stuck up woman, wanting to be safe.
I've seen sites advertised where "women will meet, just send a message and fuck right away'. Also Swinger porn often shows orgies where men just join in and fuck the women.
I sometimes wonder if that's where many people get their wrong ideas about Swinging.
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Yeah. I've seen that too. It's ridiculous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Avoid sex chat and cyber and establish a connection that doesn't revolve around sex.
If you can get along as people, who can share thoughts, have a giggle, take the piss out of each other and can pick one another up when you feel a little down, you have got a friend who is likely to be a great fuck.
The harder you try, the harder it is to find what you want. Take the pressure off the end game and enjoy the journey! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Personally, I find most men have no idea how to speak to women, so I have long given up on here to be honest.
The site has changed in the last 10 years, and it is drawing all the undesirables in my opinion!
The more press this site attracts, the more men think this is just a sex site and have no clue how to speak to people, or just think sending a cock pic will draw all the women to their feet!
If I could turn back time to when I first joined I would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally, I find most men have no idea how to speak to women, so I have long given up on here to be honest.
The site has changed in the last 10 years, and it is drawing all the undesirables in my opinion!
The more press this site attracts, the more men think this is just a sex site and have no clue how to speak to people, or just think sending a cock pic will draw all the women to their feet!
If I could turn back time to when I first joined I would. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nuh it's good to talk. It's all part of the action. I can't sleep with someone I don't know or know I have a connection with. Personality is much more important to me. That's why I don't ask for pics. Well, in the first month anyway. "
This.
There's a lot of potential fun to be had in getting to know someone by, you know, talking. Getting to know someone's brain is a lot more appealing that just getting to know whatever they have under their clothes. |
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"Nuh it's good to talk. It's all part of the action. I can't sleep with someone I don't know or know I have a connection with. Personality is much more important to me. That's why I don't ask for pics. Well, in the first month anyway.
This.
There's a lot of potential fun to be had in getting to know someone by, you know, talking. Getting to know someone's brain is a lot more appealing that just getting to know whatever they have under their clothes. "
The best sex is with those I know a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I find it's getting mentally tiring talking to people who are hard work, or have too many conversations on the go I hide my profile and take a break.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But...but... it's good to talk... isn't it? ... meh I dunno"
Maureen Lipman said so, pretty sure Bob Hoskins did too, but I might have made that up. I'm not googling BT adverts to find out either, I'm gonna take it and roll with it
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