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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No because if they looked at me but didn't mail it means they aren't interested.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It happens. Sometimes they can be looking for a single man for a mmf meet but block men so they dont get 245 messages a day

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island

Do you buy everything you see in a shop window.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

good point

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?"

Just because they looked it doesn't mean they are interested! You need to wake up people look at profiles all the time I am surprised you hadn't worked this out already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you buy everything you see in a shop window."

not these days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depending how they came across their profile, they maybe didn’t know how old you are until they got there.

Sometimes people just like having a nosey - I know I do.

Maybe they’re window shopping and prefer to message men they are interested in, instead of receiving messages from men they wouldn’t like to meet.

Maybe they didn’t mean to look.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?"

Why does the question need to be asked?

They may have seen you post on the forum, or seen your picture and decided to take a closer look.

Or they've expanded their search parameters in case there might be someone just outside of their usual criteria that might appeal but they would otherwise miss.

I can think of several reasons why someone might look at someone outside of their usual search criteria.

They've looked at your profile and haven't messaged. That's all you will or can know.

No point worrying about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And no. I don’t find it annoying at all. I don’t see why anyone would find it annoying or frustrating.

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Why does the question need to be asked?

They may have seen you post on the forum, or seen your picture and decided to take a closer look.

Or they've expanded their search parameters in case there might be someone just outside of their usual criteria that might appeal but they would otherwise miss.

I can think of several reasons why someone might look at someone outside of their usual search criteria.

They've looked at your profile and haven't messaged. That's all you will or can know.

No point worrying about it"

This is why a lot of people view in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Just because they looked it doesn't mean they are interested! You need to wake up people look at profiles all the time I am surprised you hadn't worked this out already. "

Im aware how things work, all I m saying asking is why look when your not searching for anyone in that age range ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Depending how they came across their profile, they maybe didn’t know how old you are until they got there.

Sometimes people just like having a nosey - I know I do.

Maybe they’re window shopping and prefer to message men they are interested in, instead of receiving messages from men they wouldn’t like to meet.

Maybe they didn’t mean to look. "

yep quite possibly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Just because they looked it doesn't mean they are interested! You need to wake up people look at profiles all the time I am surprised you hadn't worked this out already.

Im aware how things work, all I m saying asking is why look when your not searching for anyone in that age range ?"

I just looked at your profile (in stealth mode) to see how old you are. You’re two years out my age range.

Which I didn’t know until I looked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whys it matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Why does the question need to be asked?

They may have seen you post on the forum, or seen your picture and decided to take a closer look.

Or they've expanded their search parameters in case there might be someone just outside of their usual criteria that might appeal but they would otherwise miss.

I can think of several reasons why someone might look at someone outside of their usual search criteria.

They've looked at your profile and haven't messaged. That's all you will or can know.

No point worrying about it

This is why a lot of people view in stealth mode "

That I find is an excellent method of looking and as you am surprised not more do it .

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By *am4CamWoman  over a year ago

Fairy Land


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Just because they looked it doesn't mean they are interested! You need to wake up people look at profiles all the time I am surprised you hadn't worked this out already.

Im aware how things work, all I m saying asking is why look when your not searching for anyone in that age range ?"

How would they know you’re age if they didn’t look?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Just because they looked it doesn't mean they are interested! You need to wake up people look at profiles all the time I am surprised you hadn't worked this out already.

Im aware how things work, all I m saying asking is why look when your not searching for anyone in that age range ?"

You clearly aren't aware how it works if you think that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Just because they looked it doesn't mean they are interested! You need to wake up people look at profiles all the time I am surprised you hadn't worked this out already.

Im aware how things work, all I m saying asking is why look when your not searching for anyone in that age range ?

I just looked at your profile (in stealth mode) to see how old you are. You’re two years out my age range.

Which I didn’t know until I looked. "

yep agreed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I sometimes look at someone's profile if they have posted something of interest in the forum.

No interest in meeting them, just seeing what they are about.

Same as watching cams on here, I do it because I can

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Just because they looked it doesn't mean they are interested! You need to wake up people look at profiles all the time I am surprised you hadn't worked this out already.

Im aware how things work, all I m saying asking is why look when your not searching for anyone in that age range ?

I just looked at your profile (in stealth mode) to see how old you are. You’re two years out my age range.

Which I didn’t know until I looked.

yep agreed"

Agreed with what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

Just because they looked it doesn't mean they are interested! You need to wake up people look at profiles all the time I am surprised you hadn't worked this out already.

Im aware how things work, all I m saying asking is why look when your not searching for anyone in that age range ?

You clearly aren't aware how it works if you think that!"

Alas I had forgotten you cant see how old anyone is until you view so in this instance I'm having a senior moment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they were interested, they'd message.

Sometimes people look at a profile because of a forum post, not because they were interetsed in a username and a thumbnail of a profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Look before you touch good practice

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Look before you touch good practice "

agreed and all valid points peeps, I didn't really think it through

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look before you touch good practice

agreed and all valid points peeps, I didn't really think it through "

Look before you leap lol don’t apologise chap it’s all for fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I look a lot but rarely make contact. I might or might not be interested in meeting at the time. Maybe you're not what they're looking for. Your profile is there for others to view it after all, no?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Like window shopping tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I look a lot but rarely make contact. I might or might not be interested in meeting at the time. Maybe you're not what they're looking for. Your profile is there for others to view it after all, no?"

defo

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Like window shopping tbh "

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Like window shopping tbh "

Im always window shopping. No harm in looking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Like window shopping tbh

Im always window shopping. No harm in looking."

bluebell that's just teasing, holy smoke x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have you ever seen something in a shop window. Gone in. Picked it up and thought *oh god that's minging *? And walked out? If yes. Theres your answer

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Could be a forum post or a veri you have left someone

People do all sorts on here,don't let it worry you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm nosey and like to perv.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Could be a forum post or a veri you have left someone

People do all sorts on here,don't let it worry you."

thanks and yep they do _issmorgan evn I have to admit to perving too

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm nosey and like to perv. "

oh boy nice guitar btw

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm nosey and like to perv.

oh boy nice guitar btw "

Thank you op

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm nosey and like to perv.

oh boy nice guitar btw

Thank you op "

do u strum frequently or do you have a good plectrum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s when they keep looking and don’t message that I think dah Fuq do you want, morbid curiousity maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is why most women I know view profiles in stealth mode - to avoid the invariable "saw you looked at my profile, fancy a meet" messages that often follow if you dare view someone's profile. Like others have said, if the person was interested they would message you.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?"

It can be annoying yes OP. But plenty more fish in the sea as dem seh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?"

People look for all reasons. I look at random profiles. It doesnt mean i want to chat to them. It's just that, looking. If they wanted to message you, they would. This is one of the main reasons I prefer to go stealth mode. So I dont get that 'thank you for looking at my profile' message...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like looking at profiles out of sheer curiosity, especially if there’s a particularly attractive profile pic. I don’t see anything wrong with that. I don’t get bent out of shape if people do the same with mine. My message filters are set to what/who I’m looking for.

I’ll also fab pictures if I find them appealing. Doesn’t mean I’m hitting on the person, just appreciating what I see

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get the just looking and that's fine. It is a little frustrating when a hottie fabs several pics and has message filters on. Mind you, it's not the end of the world. I often window shop.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get the just looking and that's fine. It is a little frustrating when a hottie fabs several pics and has message filters on. Mind you, it's not the end of the world. I often window shop.

"

I have just window shopped Mr Pierced and those are fine thighs!

Exactly the type of pic I would Fab because I can

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

It can be annoying yes OP. But plenty more fish in the sea as dem seh "

agreed good hunting to be had by all

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When someone views your profile but has either blocked people of your sex or your outside of their date range !! The question has to be asked, why look then No greta deal I know but nyone else find this slightly annoying ?

People look for all reasons. I look at random profiles. It doesnt mean i want to chat to them. It's just that, looking. If they wanted to message you, they would. This is one of the main reasons I prefer to go stealth mode. So I dont get that 'thank you for looking at my profile' message... "

Yep stealth mode would have been better to have been used and invaluable to you ladies I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I like looking at profiles out of sheer curiosity, especially if there’s a particularly attractive profile pic. I don’t see anything wrong with that. I don’t get bent out of shape if people do the same with mine. My message filters are set to what/who I’m looking for.

I’ll also fab pictures if I find them appealing. Doesn’t mean I’m hitting on the person, just appreciating what I see "

I think most chaps having had you fab a pic of thiers would hope like hell you were hitting on them solov

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t sweat it OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Don’t sweat it OP"

nah I wont, I just didn't think it through tbh when I posted Polarbear

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like looking at profiles out of sheer curiosity, especially if there’s a particularly attractive profile pic. I don’t see anything wrong with that. I don’t get bent out of shape if people do the same with mine. My message filters are set to what/who I’m looking for.

I’ll also fab pictures if I find them appealing. Doesn’t mean I’m hitting on the person, just appreciating what I see

I think most chaps having had you fab a pic of thiers would hope like hell you were hitting on them solov "

Thank you x

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