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"One for every day of the month, on a rotational basis. Obviously February is group fun month. " Ha ha like it. Go for broke! | |||
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"Ideally 2, and they would hopefully get along together " Ah good plan.. | |||
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"One for every day of the month, on a rotational basis. Obviously February is group fun month. Ha ha like it. Go for broke!" It probably will be broke after all that shenanigans. | |||
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"I would prefer one, but put up with two or three " Ha ha if pushed.. | |||
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"If I met one person who could hold my attention and satisfy my needs then I'd be happy with that. On the other hand I do have a few sides to me sexually so finding someone compatible with all of those would be hard (being bi makes it near impossible!). Maybe 2 or 3 regular partners would do that? " Would you be happy with a few individuals on an equal basis or would you prefer one partner of either sex with an option to add a third? | |||
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"In an ideal world... 1 person who could push all my buttons, but would be happy for me to meet others for regular fun, and to involve a few others to try new things & spice things up! Oh hang on.... " Sounds like a cracking set up | |||
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"In an ideal world... 1 person who could push all my buttons, but would be happy for me to meet others for regular fun, and to involve a few others to try new things & spice things up! Oh hang on.... Sounds like a cracking set up " Oh it is | |||
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"You know my answer! " Ha ha as much as you do! | |||
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"Well, clearly more than one. I don't know. A few ongoing friendships where we fuck as well as be friends would suit me perfectly. So one couple, couple of men/women. Yeah, that'd be me done (until we are all bored of each other. )." reminds me of a dinner party where new guests are invited to keep things interesting! | |||
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"3 regular partners and all of us allowed a bit on side when we can't meet lol" Covering all bases.. | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? " What about you OP? Xx | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? What about you OP? Xx" I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone. | |||
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"Probably 2 or 3. My husband pushes all my buttons like nobody else can, but doesn't have a very high sex drive so I'd need him and then a man to fuck regularly and a woman to fuck regularly." I find it fascinating that the connection within married couples is totally different from the extra sexual partners.. I guess this is what so many singletons aspire to on here. | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? " In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? What about you OP? Xx I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone. " This ideally. I’m probably kidding myself though | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? " Never is.. i think it's hard for singletons to match on expectations as much as the other factors.. it's just another layer to match up! | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? What about you OP? Xx I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone. This ideally. I’m probably kidding myself though" Why so? There's a huge variety in what people are looking for on here and many women in the same boat.. | |||
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"3 regular partners and all of us allowed a bit on side when we can't meet lol Covering all bases.. " and needs lol | |||
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"I would prefer one, but put up with two or three Ha ha if pushed.. " If they twist my arm and pin me to the bed haha! | |||
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"I would prefer one, but put up with two or three Ha ha if pushed.. If they twist my arm and pin me to the bed haha! " cue inbox... | |||
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"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx" Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? What about you OP? Xx I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone. This ideally. I’m probably kidding myself though Why so? There's a huge variety in what people are looking for on here and many women in the same boat.. " Because what I’d like is difficult to find as the choice on here is so immense for women that it’s hard for everyone to take the time to see if it’s worthwhile. | |||
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"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx" Yeah think that's why so many couples prefer less regular meets to endure this doesn't happen. Must be a fine line! | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? " Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? What about you OP? Xx I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone. This ideally. I’m probably kidding myself though Why so? There's a huge variety in what people are looking for on here and many women in the same boat.. Because what I’d like is difficult to find as the choice on here is so immense for women that it’s hard for everyone to take the time to see if it’s worthwhile. " True.. but women find it equally difficult when they get sheer volume of messages. It gets overwhelming sometimes. I often switch off for periods of time purely to stop messages and enjoy my existing friendships for a bit. | |||
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"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx Yeah think that's why so many couples prefer less regular meets to endure this doesn't happen. Must be a fine line!" It is. We enjoy sharing each other, but it can be difficult. One lady we met has become one of my best friends and so we now don’t play, as me and her have that attachment. We spent an amazing night together, but to see them together now, would hurt. That’s nothing to do with not being strong, not trusting them etc, but simply because I’m human and I have feelings xx | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible " No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now! | |||
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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry." Like a fab commune? | |||
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"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx Yeah think that's why so many couples prefer less regular meets to endure this doesn't happen. Must be a fine line! It is. We enjoy sharing each other, but it can be difficult. One lady we met has become one of my best friends and so we now don’t play, as me and her have that attachment. We spent an amazing night together, but to see them together now, would hurt. That’s nothing to do with not being strong, not trusting them etc, but simply because I’m human and I have feelings xx" Ideally I’d like to meet people who we click with again, but keep that emotional distance, so that we have the trust but the dynamic doesn’t change who we are xx | |||
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"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx Yeah think that's why so many couples prefer less regular meets to endure this doesn't happen. Must be a fine line! It is. We enjoy sharing each other, but it can be difficult. One lady we met has become one of my best friends and so we now don’t play, as me and her have that attachment. We spent an amazing night together, but to see them together now, would hurt. That’s nothing to do with not being strong, not trusting them etc, but simply because I’m human and I have feelings xx" Yeah I get that.. I simply couldn't do it. I like attatchment too much and I don't think I could draw lines. | |||
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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry." Ah this sounds brilliant! But also scarily like whatshisface's ideal though. | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now! " Yeah I’ve noticed the hot men are mostly up north! Fancy a house swap for a couple of weeks? | |||
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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry. Like a fab commune? " I’d join. Can I join? | |||
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"One really really good one " doesn't seem to be many single guys with the same outlook... | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now! Yeah I’ve noticed the hot men are mostly up north! Fancy a house swap for a couple of weeks? " Ha ha that'd be funny.. raiding a whole new patch!! | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now! Yeah I’ve noticed the hot men are mostly up north! Fancy a house swap for a couple of weeks? Ha ha that'd be funny.. raiding a whole new patch!! " | |||
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"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx" | |||
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"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now" 3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. | |||
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"One would be enough " | |||
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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry. Like a fab commune? " Sort of but much smaller | |||
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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry. Like a fab commune? I’d join. Can I join? " Well that’s two of us | |||
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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry. Ah this sounds brilliant! But also scarily like whatshisface's ideal though." Who’s what’s his face? | |||
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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry. Ah this sounds brilliant! But also scarily like whatshisface's ideal though. Who’s what’s his face?" Charles Manson!?! | |||
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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry. Ah this sounds brilliant! But also scarily like whatshisface's ideal though. Who’s what’s his face? Charles Manson!?! " Err that’s not what I had in mind at all | |||
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"One really really good one " This ... with the opportunity to play a little within the relationship, couples fun etc | |||
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"42 Greedy " Nah I just miss Jim - 42 was his answer to everything | |||
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"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now 3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. " alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang | |||
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"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now 3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang " Jesus your diary must be epic.. | |||
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"42 Greedy Nah I just miss Jim - 42 was his answer to everything " Maybe that's where we are all going wrong.. he knew something we didn't. | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? " Oh what a great thought provoking question... I'm pretty adamant that I don't want a proper partner but I guess it's partly a defence mechanism.. So in an ideal world I'd like a partner that just gets me and understands that I need others... So one actual partner with numerous others thrown in | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible " I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now! Yeah I’ve noticed the hot men are mostly up north! Fancy a house swap for a couple of weeks? Ha ha that'd be funny.. raiding a whole new patch!! " They may be fit up here but with fit comes arrogance and shallowness | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really " I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. " I’m happy in here... to meet anyone new now just fills me with dread x | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? Oh what a great thought provoking question... I'm pretty adamant that I don't want a proper partner but I guess it's partly a defence mechanism.. So in an ideal world I'd like a partner that just gets me and understands that I need others... So one actual partner with numerous others thrown in " So kind of like a fwb set up? | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. I’m happy in here... to meet anyone new now just fills me with dread x " Yeah I get that.. x sometimes it good to press pause and just enjoy the friendships for a while. | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. I’m happy in here... to meet anyone new now just fills me with dread x Yeah I get that.. x sometimes it good to press pause and just enjoy the friendships for a while. " 100% yes x | |||
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"Just one, whilst it’s enjoyable for both of us obviously " Snap not that I've found one.. ha ha but don't have the energy to deal with more than one at a time! | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. " I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx" Ha ha love this!!! Good on you sometimes things really do just slot into place all at once! | |||
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"D is my perfect match he gives me everything I need and what he can't give (a woman's touch) he will find me a suitable partner that we can invite into our Perverted but pastionate sex life. When the mood takes us we like to try new things together it strengthens our bond. Jo.Xx " You two have it well and truly made x | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx Ha ha love this!!! Good on you sometimes things really do just slot into place all at once! " Ty x x | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx Ha ha love this!!! Good on you sometimes things really do just slot into place all at once! Ty x x" Lucky buggers | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting. But it’s not an ideal world, is it? Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx Ha ha love this!!! Good on you sometimes things really do just slot into place all at once! Ty x x Lucky buggers " | |||
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"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now 3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang Jesus your diary must be epic.. " well I've a foursome sorted with one lady and a couple I've been talking to for years sat night and the same ladies Dom wants to watch me play with her sometime so in doing ok for an ugly short arse lol | |||
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"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now 3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang Jesus your diary must be epic.. well I've a foursome sorted with one lady and a couple I've been talking to for years sat night and the same ladies Dom wants to watch me play with her sometime so in doing ok for an ugly short arse lol" Ha ha behave!! You're clearly doing something right!! | |||
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"In a ideal world / dream world. Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal. But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... " Haha this made me laugh... if I had a pound for very man I met on here that goes on about their sex drive yet when push comes to shove they can’t keep up with me. Fucking Hell... this cracks me up! | |||
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"So I've had a think and actually I'm really not sure. If I was completely in love with somebody in a committed relationship and they wanted to be monogamous then I would happily do that for the right person but I guess in an ideal world I'd like to be in a relationship with a swinger. " It's very interesting the mix of responses on here.. it's quite tricky when you sit down and think about it.. I think I've just bimbled through the years not thinking anything but week to week so far. | |||
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"So I've had a think and actually I'm really not sure. If I was completely in love with somebody in a committed relationship and they wanted to be monogamous then I would happily do that for the right person but I guess in an ideal world I'd like to be in a relationship with a swinger. It's very interesting the mix of responses on here.. it's quite tricky when you sit down and think about it.. I think I've just bimbled through the years not thinking anything but week to week so far. " yes absolutely but sometimes i think what's the best way to be, just enjoy the moment and how things are right now. | |||
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"So I've had a think and actually I'm really not sure. If I was completely in love with somebody in a committed relationship and they wanted to be monogamous then I would happily do that for the right person but I guess in an ideal world I'd like to be in a relationship with a swinger. It's very interesting the mix of responses on here.. it's quite tricky when you sit down and think about it.. I think I've just bimbled through the years not thinking anything but week to week so far. yes absolutely but sometimes i think what's the best way to be, just enjoy the moment and how things are right now. " Ha ha yeah but I've been doing that for 8 years now and hadn't realised that I was coasting.. | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? " How many sexual partners in total, throughout my life? That number is open-ended I have a number of regular playmates I enjoy spending time with, as our schedules and ‘ordinary’ lives allow. Variety is the spice of life though, so I’m always open to meeting new, likeminded fun friends | |||
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"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now 3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang Jesus your diary must be epic.. well I've a foursome sorted with one lady and a couple I've been talking to for years sat night and the same ladies Dom wants to watch me play with her sometime so in doing ok for an ugly short arse lol Ha ha behave!! You're clearly doing something right!! " message me privately and I'll tell u my secret it will revolutionise the way u see men on here lol | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? " Hi op! In my dream world? One wonderful, localish, non jealous, non monogamous guy would come along and rock my world - and he’d have no problem with me seeing 2 guys on here who I thoroughly enjoy spending time with and shagging (but will never have a ‘proper ‘ relationship with) - and a few young studs as and when the feeling takes me/us! He’d also swing too though - as I’ve no wish to be a Hotwife - and we’d swing as a couple! And if he was bi too - I’d be in bloody heaven! Basically there’d be a whole lot of sex! | |||
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"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety " I’ll be number 3! | |||
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"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety " What!?! You must be getting hits mr!! | |||
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"sexual partners would you like? Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons? Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun? Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people? What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? Hi op! In my dream world? One wonderful, localish, non jealous, non monogamous guy would come along and rock my world - and he’d have no problem with me seeing 2 guys on here who I thoroughly enjoy spending time with and shagging (but will never have a ‘proper ‘ relationship with) - and a few young studs as and when the feeling takes me/us! He’d also swing too though - as I’ve no wish to be a Hotwife - and we’d swing as a couple! And if he was bi too - I’d be in bloody heaven! Basically there’d be a whole lot of sex! " Ha ha sounds like a challenge!! | |||
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"1 2 and 3 Ha ha greedychops" Me? I'd be more than happy with one extra special person though. The other stuff is just a bonus. Or filling till I find number 1. If she's up for 2 and 3, great. No biggy if not. | |||
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"Just one is my goal. The undeniable chemistry, fireworks when we kiss and both completely open with each other about our wants and needs. To have trust and confidence to explore together. I dream of being enough for someone and them enough for me. " Heard so many stories of people randomly meeting here that never expected it.. just takes one x | |||
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"1 2 and 3 Ha ha greedychops Me? I'd be more than happy with one extra special person though. The other stuff is just a bonus. Or filling till I find number 1. If she's up for 2 and 3, great. No biggy if not." Yeah I think the question is completely variable depending on the level of connection. | |||
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"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety What!?! You must be getting hits mr!! " Few to none | |||
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"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety What!?! You must be getting hits mr!! Few to none " Lost!!! | |||
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"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety What!?! You must be getting hits mr!! Few to none Lost!!! " Tell me about it | |||
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"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety What!?! You must be getting hits mr!! Few to none Lost!!! Tell me about it " We need some fresh forum blood.. that's criminal!! | |||
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"In a ideal world / dream world. Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal. But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... Haha this made me laugh... if I had a pound for very man I met on here that goes on about their sex drive yet when push comes to shove they can’t keep up with me. Fucking Hell... this cracks me up! " Ya but most men hear have had sex at sum point wear i have not and got catching up to to. | |||
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"Going forward, I'd like one. Who knows what I need. We can all dream right? " They do not stand a chance unless you tell them.. | |||
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"Going forward, I'd like one. Who knows what I need. We can all dream right? " it's cool to dream but reality is u probably will have to meet a few to the one | |||
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"Probably 2 or 3. My husband pushes all my buttons like nobody else can, but doesn't have a very high sex drive so I'd need him and then a man to fuck regularly and a woman to fuck regularly. I find it fascinating that the connection within married couples is totally different from the extra sexual partners.. I guess this is what so many singletons aspire to on here. " I think a lot of it is just knowing each other for long enough that we don't worry about each other's ego when we're giving instructions (& we know that the other won't get offended if we give instructions!) so we each get exactly what we need, and he's had lots of practise to learn what I like! | |||
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"None. I'd be A sexual and be able to concentrate on more important things like, I don't know my job/career, flippin world hunger even, instead of thinking so much about nookie. On the other hand if its a perfect world then there is no world hunger and I'm a millionaire so maybe 20 or 30, just cause I'm a greedy fucker " Do you ever cry at movies every now and then? I'm pretty happy being single and I know I don't want a relationship, but I sat watching Forest Gump last night and at one point when Jenny and Forest hadn't seen each other for a long time and are reunited they run into each others arms and that part brought a wee tear to my eye I'm not ashamed to admit. It got me thinking for a second that maybe I would like that closeness with 1 person, until I changed the channel at the end of the movie. So what I'm getting at is that my mind changes regularly so I don't honestly know whether I would one 1 woman in an ideal world or more than that. | |||
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"In a ideal world / dream world. Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal. But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... " thought u had a bird now | |||
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"In a ideal world / dream world. Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal. But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... thought u had a bird now" Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. | |||
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"In a ideal world / dream world. Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal. But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... thought u had a bird now Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. " | |||
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"In a ideal world / dream world. Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal. But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... thought u had a bird now Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. " ffs that was suppost to be a thumb grrrrrr | |||
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"In a ideal world / dream world. Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal. But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... thought u had a bird now Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. ffs that was suppost to be a thumb grrrrrr" You meen this..... ..... | |||
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"In a ideal world / dream world. Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal. But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... thought u had a bird now Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. " You sound like a very good boyfriend, she's lucky. | |||
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"I must admit I'm jealous of those that have found that one person on here I would love that at some point" Seems the majority of singletons would ideally like one main partner whether they add to that or not! | |||
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