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I really want to be a victim
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Victim of what?
Circumstance?
Murder?
Bullying?
Domestic violence?
Emotional abuse?
I've been a victim and I'm far happier being a survivor ta very much.
I don't like the term victim.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?"
I think so.
Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.
You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.
Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.
Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.
Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.
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"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?
I think so.
Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.
You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.
Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.
Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.
Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.
P"
Oh I know someone like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?
I think so.
Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.
You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.
Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.
Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.
Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.
P
Oh I know someone like this. "
My husband. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask. |
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"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask. "
And you know this is a 'swinging' website? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask.
And you know this is a 'swinging' website?"
And you know this is a forum where we can talk about things other than swinging? |
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"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?
I think so.
Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.
You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.
Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.
Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.
Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.
P"
Isn't this similar to munchausen by proxy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask. "
Parents not wanting to parent. Those that blame everyone and everything for their child being upset because it's easier than taking responsibility and teaching kids that shit happens.
I remember when KFC couldn't get any chicken and one family tried to sue KFC for wasted time and their kid being heartbroken after it had been promised dinner there to find it closed. Tough. Shit happens.
Also, the where there's blame there's a claim culture.
"Oh my child was running round the supermarket and caught its head on a shelf"
Yes you moron, that's what happens when you don't teach your kids that a fucking supermarket isn't a playground.
Easier to blame others than take responsibility. If they take responsibility they'll see they aren't flawless after all, and low and behold.... they may actually need to make an effort
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"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask. "
Take a little glance to the left and you may find your answer   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?
I think so.
Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.
You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.
Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.
Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.
Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.
P
Isn't this similar to munchausen by proxy?"
Nah, that's where "caregivers" make kids ill or fake sickness in the child etc so that the child is given attention.
I think that's the one anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask.
Parents not wanting to parent. Those that blame everyone and everything for their child being upset because it's easier than taking responsibility and teaching kids that shit happens.
I remember when KFC couldn't get any chicken and one family tried to sue KFC for wasted time and their kid being heartbroken after it had been promised dinner there to find it closed. Tough. Shit happens.
Also, the where there's blame there's a claim culture.
"Oh my child was running round the supermarket and caught its head on a shelf"
Yes you moron, that's what happens when you don't teach your kids that a fucking supermarket isn't a playground.
Easier to blame others than take responsibility. If they take responsibility they'll see they aren't flawless after all, and low and behold.... they may actually need to make an effort
P "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask.
Parents not wanting to parent. Those that blame everyone and everything for their child being upset because it's easier than taking responsibility and teaching kids that shit happens.
I remember when KFC couldn't get any chicken and one family tried to sue KFC for wasted time and their kid being heartbroken after it had been promised dinner there to find it closed. Tough. Shit happens.
Also, the where there's blame there's a claim culture.
"Oh my child was running round the supermarket and caught its head on a shelf"
Yes you moron, that's what happens when you don't teach your kids that a fucking supermarket isn't a playground.
Easier to blame others than take responsibility. If they take responsibility they'll see they aren't flawless after all, and low and behold.... they may actually need to make an effort
P "
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"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?
I think so.
Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.
You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.
Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.
Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.
Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.
P
Isn't this similar to munchausen by proxy?
Nah, that's where "caregivers" make kids ill or fake sickness in the child etc so that the child is given attention.
I think that's the one anyway.
P"
Might just be munchausen without the proxy then. Very difficult to diagnose too. |
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I think you need to flesh this out a bit to be clearer OP. 
