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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"Whacko Jimmy Edwards
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Ha! One of my friends uses Whacko as an avatar on another site.
‘Boys and girls’ is just standard terminology in D/s, especially the DD scene. Nothing to be uncomfortable about, guys *rolls eyes*. It’s like a Daddy dom talking about babygirls...not my scene but it doesn’t make me uncomfortable as I understand the dynamic.
Be nice and understand that something that isn’t your thing need not be commented on in a negative way. |
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"Whacko Jimmy Edwards
(Google is your friend here )
Ha! One of my friends uses Whacko as an avatar on another site.
‘Boys and girls’ is just standard terminology in D/s, especially the DD scene. Nothing to be uncomfortable about, guys *rolls eyes*. It’s like a Daddy dom talking about babygirls...not my scene but it doesn’t make me uncomfortable as I understand the dynamic.
Be nice and understand that something that isn’t your thing need not be commented on in a negative way."
 yep, enough with the kink shaming already. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Whacko Jimmy Edwards
(Google is your friend here )
Ha! One of my friends uses Whacko as an avatar on another site.
‘Boys and girls’ is just standard terminology in D/s, especially the DD scene. Nothing to be uncomfortable about, guys *rolls eyes*. It’s like a Daddy dom talking about babygirls...not my scene but it doesn’t make me uncomfortable as I understand the dynamic.
Be nice and understand that something that isn’t your thing need not be commented on in a negative way."
I wasn’t being negative I was expressing my opinion.
I understand the dynamic well enough. I just don’t care for the way its put. It’s each to their own but my opinion is that it makes me uncomfortable when boys and girls are referred to on a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you say 'daddy' and 'babygirl' anyway? Even if it's not meant to Pervy it certainly sounds wrong
Why? "
Are you going to reply with one word answers because I haven't got time to keep explanation myself and then you pop up with "why" |
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"Why would you say 'daddy' and 'babygirl' anyway? Even if it's not meant to Pervy it certainly sounds wrong
Why?
Are you going to reply with one word answers because I haven't got time to keep explanation myself and then you pop up with "why""
Why not? (that was more than one!)
I just find that responses like yours are inflammatory and reactive with little thought behind them. |
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"Whacko Jimmy Edwards
(Google is your friend here )
Ha! One of my friends uses Whacko as an avatar on another site.
‘Boys and girls’ is just standard terminology in D/s, especially the DD scene. Nothing to be uncomfortable about, guys *rolls eyes*. It’s like a Daddy dom talking about babygirls...not my scene but it doesn’t make me uncomfortable as I understand the dynamic.
Be nice and understand that something that isn’t your thing need not be commented on in a negative way.
I wasn’t being negative I was expressing my opinion.
I understand the dynamic well enough. I just don’t care for the way its put. It’s each to their own but my opinion is that it makes me uncomfortable when boys and girls are referred to on a sex site. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you say 'daddy' and 'babygirl' anyway? Even if it's not meant to Pervy it certainly sounds wrong
Why?
Are you going to reply with one word answers because I haven't got time to keep explanation myself and then you pop up with "why"
Why not? (that was more than one!)
I just find that responses like yours are inflammatory and reactive with little thought behind them. "
Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm often called a good girl by someone when we have sex. It makes me smile. I'm still a 38 year old to him. He isn't imagining I'm any other age. Are we 'worrying' or 'wrong'? "
I think “good girl” is a bit different to “little girl” and “daddy”. Nothing would turn me off more
than the whole daddy thing, it’s totally not for me but it doesn’t make me think people are nonces who do that. It’s a thing and some people like it. I don’t see anything wrong in it to be honest if that’s what you’re into. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Whacko Jimmy Edwards
(Google is your friend here )
Ha! One of my friends uses Whacko as an avatar on another site.
‘Boys and girls’ is just standard terminology in D/s, especially the DD scene. Nothing to be uncomfortable about, guys *rolls eyes*. It’s like a Daddy dom talking about babygirls...not my scene but it doesn’t make me uncomfortable as I understand the dynamic.
Be nice and understand that something that isn’t your thing need not be commented on in a negative way.
I wasn’t being negative I was expressing my opinion.
I understand the dynamic well enough. I just don’t care for the way its put. It’s each to their own but my opinion is that it makes me uncomfortable when boys and girls are referred to on a sex site.
I thought it was a swingers site "
Isn’t that just on the weekends? |
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"Why would you say 'daddy' and 'babygirl' anyway? Even if it's not meant to Pervy it certainly sounds wrong
Why?
Are you going to reply with one word answers because I haven't got time to keep explanation myself and then you pop up with "why"
Why not? (that was more than one!)
I just find that responses like yours are inflammatory and reactive with little thought behind them.
Why?"
Totes hillar! 
Because your only explanation is that you think adults can't distinguish between adults and children and that anyone who likes age play as an adult must surely be in to kids sexually as well and that's just ridiculous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you say 'daddy' and 'babygirl' anyway? Even if it's not meant to Pervy it certainly sounds wrong
Why?
Are you going to reply with one word answers because I haven't got time to keep explanation myself and then you pop up with "why"
Why not? (that was more than one!)
I just find that responses like yours are inflammatory and reactive with little thought behind them.
Why?
Totes hillar!
Because your only explanation is that you think adults can't distinguish between adults and children and that anyone who likes age play as an adult must surely be in to kids sexually as well and that's just ridiculous. "
IV seen your posts before,and IV come to conclusion you like to argue on the forums,IV work to do now so I'll leave you argue with someone else |
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"Whacko Jimmy Edwards
(Google is your friend here )
Ha! One of my friends uses Whacko as an avatar on another site.
‘Boys and girls’ is just standard terminology in D/s, especially the DD scene. Nothing to be uncomfortable about, guys *rolls eyes*. It’s like a Daddy dom talking about babygirls...not my scene but it doesn’t make me uncomfortable as I understand the dynamic.
Be nice and understand that something that isn’t your thing need not be commented on in a negative way.
yep, enough with the kink shaming already."
I suspect less about kink shaming per se and more about just trying to deflate or knock down a peg or two a stranger on the internet as is the way online. The internet is a vicious jungle sometimes. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Whacko Jimmy Edwards
(Google is your friend here )
Ha! One of my friends uses Whacko as an avatar on another site.
‘Boys and girls’ is just standard terminology in D/s, especially the DD scene. Nothing to be uncomfortable about, guys *rolls eyes*. It’s like a Daddy dom talking about babygirls...not my scene but it doesn’t make me uncomfortable as I understand the dynamic.
Be nice and understand that something that isn’t your thing need not be commented on in a negative way.
yep, enough with the kink shaming already.
I suspect less about kink shaming per se and more about just trying to deflate or knock down a peg or two a stranger on the internet as is the way online. The internet is a vicious jungle sometimes. "
That is an over reaction to a simple comment.
I’m not shaming anyone with any kinks. I’m saying the term ‘boys and girls’ makes me uncomfortable. You are allowed to express an opinion with being critical. I wasn’t personal. I had an opinion. I didn’t attack or shame.
By saying people expressing an opinion is trying to knock people down a peg or two is just daft. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The terms boys and girls makes me uncomfortable
The term play when you’re meaning sex - makes me cringe
Someone calling another adult ‘daddy’ makes me feel uncomfortable
This isn’t knocking anyone’s ‘kinks’ it’s stating it’s not what I like
I also dislike it when I get asked if I’m ‘naughty’
That would suggest its wrong what I’m doing and that I’m a child !!!
I find the terminology some use very cringe worthy and I stand by my opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The terms boys and girls makes me uncomfortable
The term play when you’re meaning sex - makes me cringe
Someone calling another adult ‘daddy’ makes me feel uncomfortable
This isn’t knocking anyone’s ‘kinks’ it’s stating it’s not what I like
I also dislike it when I get asked if I’m ‘naughty’
That would suggest its wrong what I’m doing and that I’m a child !!!
I find the terminology some use very cringe worthy and I stand by my opinions "
I do too. Especially “a meet” and “play”. I can’t stand it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The terms boys and girls makes me uncomfortable
The term play when you’re meaning sex - makes me cringe
Someone calling another adult ‘daddy’ makes me feel uncomfortable
This isn’t knocking anyone’s ‘kinks’ it’s stating it’s not what I like
I also dislike it when I get asked if I’m ‘naughty’
That would suggest its wrong what I’m doing and that I’m a child !!!
I find the terminology some use very cringe worthy and I stand by my opinions "
it makes me cringe when they use the word "dynamics" or'the frase "each to their own" |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"The terms boys and girls makes me uncomfortable
The term play when you’re meaning sex - makes me cringe
Someone calling another adult ‘daddy’ makes me feel uncomfortable
This isn’t knocking anyone’s ‘kinks’ it’s stating it’s not what I like
I also dislike it when I get asked if I’m ‘naughty’
That would suggest its wrong what I’m doing and that I’m a child !!!
I find the terminology some use very cringe worthy and I stand by my opinions it makes me cringe when they use the word "dynamics" or'the frase "each to their own""
I love the phrase ‘each to their own’. I must say it at least one a day on here |
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"The terms boys and girls makes me uncomfortable
The term play when you’re meaning sex - makes me cringe
Someone calling another adult ‘daddy’ makes me feel uncomfortable
This isn’t knocking anyone’s ‘kinks’ it’s stating it’s not what I like
I also dislike it when I get asked if I’m ‘naughty’
That would suggest its wrong what I’m doing and that I’m a child !!!
I find the terminology some use very cringe worthy and I stand by my opinions "
Agreed.
Find other names to call yourselves if you like D/s play.
Mummy , Daddy, little girl ...... beggars belief when people try to gaslight others who see the psychological effects of using these words in any role let alone a sexual one. |
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"The terms boys and girls makes me uncomfortable
The term play when you’re meaning sex - makes me cringe
Someone calling another adult ‘daddy’ makes me feel uncomfortable
This isn’t knocking anyone’s ‘kinks’ it’s stating it’s not what I like
I also dislike it when I get asked if I’m ‘naughty’
That would suggest its wrong what I’m doing and that I’m a child !!!
I find the terminology some use very cringe worthy and I stand by my opinions it makes me cringe when they use the word "dynamics" or'the frase "each to their own"
I love the phrase ‘each to their own’. I must say it at least one a day on here "
No. I bloody hate the phrase each to their own.... |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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There are plenty of sexual activities and phrases I personally don't buy into or even begin to understand, but accept that for some they are part of an individual's sexuality.
So long as it is legal and consensual then I really don't have an issue with it - just as I'd expect anyone that didn't "get" my own sexuality to accept that it's what makes me tick, even if they wanted no part of it.
What I DO find strange is that the OP continually posts threads along these lines yet never returns to them, never engages in the conversation that ensues from them, nor does he seem to have any success from them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are plenty of sexual activities and phrases I personally don't buy into or even begin to understand, but accept that for some they are part of an individual's sexuality.
So long as it is legal and consensual then I really don't have an issue with it - just as I'd expect anyone that didn't "get" my own sexuality to accept that it's what makes me tick, even if they wanted no part of it.
What I DO find strange is that the OP continually posts threads along these lines yet never returns to them, never engages in the conversation that ensues from them, nor does he seem to have any success from them."
I agree with this.
I do lack understanding with the scenario and I admit it.
Would the OP just come in, spank ya and then leave?
What satisfaction does the OP get out if it?
Without returning to the thread he can't answer the questions I have, which in turn would help my understanding of it.
I'm genuinely curious because my brain automatically tunes into "I bet he's got a build up of rage and needs to let it out, just using the Master thing as a disguise to beat people"
I don't think those auto thoughts are actually right, but I'd like to hear more about it, to "get" it.
P |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"How do you know that he doesn't have any success ??
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All those similar threads and no green tick? If they were working there'd be at least one veri surely?
I know that doesn't necessarily prove a thing, which is why I said he doesn't "seem" to have any success. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I agree with the 'legal and consesual' part of your post tho ...
I still wouldn't be comfortable in the 'sexual' company of someone using the discussed terminology. "
And that's the point - it's your prerogative and preference and that should be respected and accepted, just as someone who chooses to use the terminology as part of their sexual activity should be able to do so freely if they choose (given the legal and consensual assumption). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with the 'legal and consesual' part of your post tho ...
I still wouldn't be comfortable in the 'sexual' company of someone using the discussed terminology.
And that's the point - it's your prerogative and preference and that should be respected and accepted, just as someone who chooses to use the terminology as part of their sexual activity should be able to do so freely if they choose (given the legal and consensual assumption)."
I agree. I’ve always been of the mindset that nothing is “wrong” if the people involved all agree to it and it’s legal of course. It may not be for me ( like most things I see on here to be honest!) but who are we to judge what’s right, wrong or normal. I also detest labels. Be who you want to be! |
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"Why would you say 'daddy' and 'babygirl' anyway? Even if it's not meant to Pervy it certainly sounds wrong
Why?
Are you going to reply with one word answers because I haven't got time to keep explanation myself and then you pop up with "why"
Why not? (that was more than one!)
I just find that responses like yours are inflammatory and reactive with little thought behind them.
Why?
Totes hillar!
Because your only explanation is that you think adults can't distinguish between adults and children and that anyone who likes age play as an adult must surely be in to kids sexually as well and that's just ridiculous.
IV seen your posts before,and IV come to conclusion you like to argue on the forums,IV work to do now so I'll leave you argue with someone else"
I like to call it reasoned debate.... Hope you had a good day at work |
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"The thought of children and paedos never even crossed my mind, he's obviously into d/s and those terms are just part and parcel of the kink for some, as I understood?  "
Yes they will have to be eighteen to get into the local. Don't know what the landlord is going to say about it though? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"How do you know that he doesn't have any success ??
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The repetitive posting of the same line over and over again (see green arrow), while not definitive, is a strong indicator of exactly that.
Combine it with the ongoing lack of verifications and the niche nature of the offer, and I'd be pretty confident.
Not that it matters particularly - live and let each to their own, as Daddy tells me |
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