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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That you can kind of get the jist of someones personality on the forums,just by their posts and comments,or is it just me?
Hmm food for thought
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think with honest people it's quite revealing if they post often enough. Always worth remembering there are a lot of deceptive people who like to give off a certain impression; when the reality couldn't be further from the truth. All for sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely Dash! There are a lot of you that come across like great people, funny and friendly. My local forums don't seem to have just as much craic, I only wish there wasn't a bit body of water between Belfast and mainland UK because a social with some of you would be awesome  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely Dash! There are a lot of you that come across like great people, funny and friendly. My local forums don't seem to have just as much craic, I only wish there wasn't a bit body of water between Belfast and mainland UK because a social with some of you would be awesome "
I just look at Jason Isaac pics and that's my social with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That you can kind of get the jist of someones personality on the forums,just by their posts and comments,or is it just me?
Hmm food for thought
Live long and prosper
....dash X"
Yes you're right x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely Dash! There are a lot of you that come across like great people, funny and friendly. My local forums don't seem to have just as much craic, I only wish there wasn't a bit body of water between Belfast and mainland UK because a social with some of you would be awesome
I just look at Jason Isaac pics and that's my social with you"
(tips the hat) very good bro |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think with honest people it's quite revealing if they post often enough. Always worth remembering there are a lot of deceptive people who like to give off a certain impression; when the reality couldn't be further from the truth. All for sex "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’re quite right Dash. That’s part of the appeal of the forums.
You sometimes know who has posted a comment without even seeing the names.
Oooo we’re like a dysfunctional family!  "
When are you going to get those boobs out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think with honest people it's quite revealing if they post often enough. Always worth remembering there are a lot of deceptive people who like to give off a certain impression; when the reality couldn't be further from the truth. All for sex "
This is very true. It can cause a lot of upset. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I sometimes wonder about some of the really nasty people who put snidey comments on or who only come to life on here when they are digging someone out, what they must be like in real life. Especially if they mention they have kids. What sort of parents must they be? What are they like with their friends? Totally different you would hope |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"You’re quite right Dash. That’s part of the appeal of the forums.
You sometimes know who has posted a comment without even seeing the names.
Oooo we’re like a dysfunctional family!
When are you going to get those boobs out? "
Never. They’re welded in there and they’re shy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's why I take part in the forum, to show my personality in a way the profile can't and all to get to know people I might want to contact. Plus, I've learned a lot and had some great laughs. Great to be part of it |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont think you can, people probably form an impression of someone which may or may not be correct and run with that."
Yep. I think that a particular post or incident can stick with someone and if it's a negative view of that person, they'll only notice the negative posts in a confirmation bias way. You only get a particular snapshot of a poster at a particular time that you then try to make 3D; it's not always the full thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it weird ?
Only word I can think off tbh,bare with me I'm a bit thick"
You're not thick Dash, far from it. Not from what I've seen of your posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody ever met someone off the forum because they "got on well" in here,then found out they were a douche bag in like 10 minutes of meeting?
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Yup |
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"Why is it weird ?
Only word I can think off tbh,bare with me I'm a bit thick
You're not thick Dash, far from it. Not from what I've seen of your posts. "
Indeed .. he didn't spell it "fik" for a start  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has anybody ever met someone off the forum because they "got on well" in here,then found out they were a douche bag in like 10 minutes of meeting?
Yup "
did you leave straights away? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it weird ?
Only word I can think off tbh,bare with me I'm a bit thick
You're not thick Dash, far from it. Not from what I've seen of your posts.
Indeed .. he didn't spell it "fik" for a start "
I did but my spell checker corrected it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anybody ever met someone off the forum because they "got on well" in here,then found out they were a douche bag in like 10 minutes of meeting?
Yeah "
dish the dirt!!! Don't leave me hanging woman! |
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"Why is it weird ?
Only word I can think off tbh,bare with me I'm a bit thick
You're not thick Dash, far from it. Not from what I've seen of your posts.
Indeed .. he didn't spell it "fik" for a start I did but my spell checker corrected it"
And case in point ... your personality comes across  |
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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago
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"Definitely Dash! There are a lot of you that come across like great people, funny and friendly. My local forums don't seem to have just as much craic, I only wish there wasn't a bit body of water between Belfast and mainland UK because a social with some of you would be awesome "
That's not the first comment I've read about guys from here feeling the need to look elsewhere to connect. We Northern Irish ladies aren't that bad are We???  |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Has anybody ever met someone off the forum because they "got on well" in here,then found out they were a douche bag in like 10 minutes of meeting?
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I tell every one I'm an idiot 90% of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely Dash! There are a lot of you that come across like great people, funny and friendly. My local forums don't seem to have just as much craic, I only wish there wasn't a bit body of water between Belfast and mainland UK because a social with some of you would be awesome
That's not the first comment I've read about guys from here feeling the need to look elsewhere to connect. We Northern Irish ladies aren't that bad are We??? "
I didn't mean you girls are in any way worse than the girls from the mainland, just that the forum threads seem to be more my scene in the lounge which is frequented mostly by those from the mainland.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re quite right Dash. That’s part of the appeal of the forums.
You sometimes know who has posted a comment without even seeing the names.
Oooo we’re like a dysfunctional family! "
I very often read threads from the bottom up and can very often recognise certain posts by the way they're written |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has anybody ever met someone off the forum because they "got on well" in here,then found out they were a douche bag in like 10 minutes of meeting?
I tell every one I'm an idiot 90% of the time. "
it works for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over time you can start to see the cracks in those personalities who weren’t being quite their trues selves, even if they come back like yo-yo to reinvent themselves.
Not saying that’s true of everyone because I have met people off the forum both in a good and not so good way who were different to their online persona. |
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"You’re quite right Dash. That’s part of the appeal of the forums.
You sometimes know who has posted a comment without even seeing the names.
Oooo we’re like a dysfunctional family!
I very often read threads from the bottom up and can very often recognise certain posts by the way they're written "
I was sifting through top pics yesterday and was shocked to realise I recognised Kitana's tits. |
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"It's true, I'm as much of a twat in real life as I am on the forums..."
You don't come across as twattish. Are you applying reverse psychology so people will say you are not a twat ?
You're not a twat Jim |
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Not really, you lose so in communication via text only without tone, body language or facial expression.
That reminds me I must get to grips with using emoji's as my intent is sometimes misunderstood. I think that's why they were invented. |
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"That you can kind of get the jist of someones personality on the forums,just by their posts and comments,or is it just me?
Hmm food for thought
Live long and prosper
....dash X"
Mmmm Have you got pointed ears by any chance. lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not really, you lose so in communication via text only without tone, body language or facial expression.
That reminds me I must get to grips with using emoji's as my intent is sometimes misunderstood. I think that's why they were invented."
It's a poor do when we have to use emojis for communication,humans have been communicating quite well before them |
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Over time you can see people’s inherent unhappiness with their situations.
Seeing someone over the years desperate to find love on here is quite saddening.
On the flip side you can see the optimists and life’s happy people. (Probably it may only be a persona though) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anybody ever met someone off the forum because they "got on well" in here,then found out they were a douche bag in like 10 minutes of meeting?
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Yep, i did meet someone who was very different than they came across on here and not in a good way.
But then the flip side to that iv met someone simply because I liked what they posted on the forums and they have now become exceptionally special to me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over time you can see people’s inherent unhappiness with their situations.
Seeing someone over the years desperate to find love on here is quite saddening.
On the flip side you can see the optimists and life’s happy people. (Probably it may only be a persona though)"
We used the same phrase at exactly the same time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no. I piss about half the time. So yeah, I'm a kidder who doesn't take anything too seriously. I can be serious if I want to be. Life's too short to be serious all the time. |
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"Over time you can see people’s inherent unhappiness with their situations.
Seeing someone over the years desperate to find love on here is quite saddening.
On the flip side you can see the optimists and life’s happy people. (Probably it may only be a persona though)
We used the same phrase at exactly the same time. "
Flip you are right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes and no. I piss about half the time. So yeah, I'm a kidder who doesn't take anything too seriously. I can be serious if I want to be. Life's too short to be serious all the time. "
Make your bleeding mind up!! |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"It's true, I'm as much of a twat in real life as I am on the forums...
You don't come across as twattish. Are you applying reverse psychology so people will say you are not a twat ?
You're not a twat Jim"
Bag of used fivers left under your rockery as per our arrangement. |
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"I think with honest people it's quite revealing if they post often enough. Always worth remembering there are a lot of deceptive people who like to give off a certain impression; when the reality couldn't be further from the truth. All for sex "
True dat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People only reveal what they want you to see. It's naive to think otherwise. "
That's just marketing though. Most people on here wants to come across as decent (usually). Unfortunately there will be the odd few who knowingly misrepresent who they are (ie. tell whopping great lies) in order to attract people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That you can kind of get the jist of someones personality on the forums,just by their posts and comments,or is it just me?
Hmm food for thought
Live long and prosper
....dash X"
I’d take it with a pinch of salt. I’m nothing like my internet self. And neither are most of my friends (not on the forums, but the things they write on social media).
You’ll only ever know someone when you really meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That you can kind of get the jist of someones personality on the forums,just by their posts and comments,or is it just me?
Hmm food for thought
Live long and prosper
....dash X"
Apparently not always. |
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"Not really, you lose so in communication via text only without tone, body language or facial expression.
That reminds me I must get to grips with using emoji's as my intent is sometimes misunderstood. I think that's why they were invented.
It's a poor do when we have to use emojis for communication,humans have been communicating quite well before them"
I disagree. Ironicly I am still slow on the uptake myself when it comes to emoji's I see their function. I think they can be very useful in a world full of text. For example a dry sense of humour does not come across well in text. Language and communication is always evolving to it's time and environment. |
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"I think with honest people it's quite revealing if they post often enough. Always worth remembering there are a lot of deceptive people who like to give off a certain impression; when the reality couldn't be further from the truth. All for sex "
no surely not!! |
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"Has anybody ever met someone off the forum because they "got on well" in here,then found out they were a douche bag in like 10 minutes of meeting?
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Nope, due diligence, bat shit crazy can’t hide itself for long |
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