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Does Anyone Tell the Truth here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always tell the truth and don’t take offence when having convos and people ask things like what do we do for a living etc (having read previous threads we have seen this seems a No no) it’s just chit chat, why lie? Where all here to meet up and have fun, after all the person your chatting to will possibly end up in your bed at some point and lieing and suspicion won’t build a good connection for a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm."
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I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying. |
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"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm.
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I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying. "
I feel that giving personal information to people from the world wide interweb is not the best idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm.
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I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.
I feel that giving personal information to people from the world wide interweb is not the best idea."
I totally agree.
That's what I was saying not using your real name, location etc.. I suppose technically it's not telling the truth but I don't see it as a lie, I see it as being careful and safe. |
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"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm.
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I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.
I feel that giving personal information to people from the world wide interweb is not the best idea.
I totally agree.
That's what I was saying not using your real name, location etc.. I suppose technically it's not telling the truth but I don't see it as a lie, I see it as being careful and safe. "
Yep. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm.
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I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying. "
Well if your not going to give me your real name address national insurance number, credit card details than I think we've got trust issues  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm.
This
I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.
Well if your not going to give me your real name address national insurance number, credit card details than I think we've got trust issues "
Yes in that case I've got very deep trust issues. And you know I don't trust anyone who prefers custard creams to bourbons as there was clearly something very wrong with them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't lie. I don't answer if someone asks me something I don't want them to know.
My location isn't spot on but everything else on my profile is correct.
I'm as honest as I can be, or I refrain from answering. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As such is real life. You can meet the nicest of people then latter you find they are hiding a soul full of black eels. Everyone lies about themselves. If we didn't others might find out what we are really like.
You have to hold something back. If only to hold back the nest of eels. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm.
This
I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.
Well if your not going to give me your real name address national insurance number, credit card details than I think we've got trust issues
Yes in that case I've got very deep trust issues. And you know I don't trust anyone who prefers custard creams to bourbons as there was clearly something very wrong with them! "
You dont know for sure I like custard creams, I could have been lying or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the wider world there is often a stigma to NSA sex or swinging. Many of us see swinging as something we don’t necessarily want our families or colleagues to know about.
Conversely, when you read the forums many people insist on knowing the ins and outs of a cats arsehole about you before they meet. To protect anonymity, many will lie or omit the truth.
If you want to know to much, rather than not answer people will lie to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm.
This
I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.
Well if your not going to give me your real name address national insurance number, credit card details than I think we've got trust issues
Yes in that case I've got very deep trust issues. And you know I don't trust anyone who prefers custard creams to bourbons as there was clearly something very wrong with them!
You dont know for sure I like custard creams, I could have been lying or not "
That is very true! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I've never lied since joining here 10 years ago, if someone asks me a question I don't want to answer right away, I just say I am not comfortable answering that just now and they accept that answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeh I lie, I'm actually a lot hotter and have an even bigger cock than my pics suggest - but I just can't handle all the emails so I keep it low key.  "
I feel your pain. It's terrible being inudated with all these sexy messages. |
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"Yeh I lie, I'm actually a lot hotter and have an even bigger cock than my pics suggest - but I just can't handle all the emails so I keep it low key.
I feel your pain. It's terrible being inudated with all these sexy messages."
Thank god it's not just me, it almost deserves its very own thread. |
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"I don't lie. I don't answer if someone asks me something I don't want them to know.
My location isn't spot on but everything else on my profile is correct.
I'm as honest as I can be, or I refrain from answering."
Good answer! Same here... I won’t say I lie but most of the time I’m conservative with information I wish to disclose |
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If my 92 year old dad asks me what I did last night I'm going to tell him I had a quiet night out with friends even if the reality was that I was sucking a guys cock while Mr N watched then joined the fun. Yeah, I lie. |
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Pretty cynical view. Not everyone can be lumped into the same category. You get your good and bad eggs here just the same as anywhere. If I think I’m being lied to then it’s my cue to exit. There’s enough drama on here without creating some for myself. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
Manipulation of the truth on here and or tricking others to get something is a lie then yes OP.
Honesty is the best polity for me but have yet to find that trait in anyone to date. But theres always time and hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm."
So that's why I couldn't find you. In the phone book. Swines! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"We lie.
Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.
We never lie to hurt or cause harm.
So that's why I couldn't find you. In the phone book. Swines!
Its a cunning plan on our part  "
Still a very apt username. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" To the wider world there is often a stigma to NSA sex or swinging. Many of us see swinging as something we don’t necessarily want our families or colleagues to know about.
Conversely, when you read the forums many people insist on knowing the ins and outs of a cats arsehole about you before they meet. To protect anonymity, many will lie or omit the truth.
If you want to know to much, rather than not answer people will lie to you. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If my 92 year old dad asks me what I did last night I'm going to tell him I had a quiet night out with friends even if the reality was that I was sucking a guys cock while Mr N watched then joined the fun. Yeah, I lie."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here I do lie to protect my privacy and I’m careful how much personal info I share on the forums.
I don’t lie to trick people into meeting me."
Like you need to trick people into meeting you, surely only a man would say that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here I do lie to protect my privacy and I’m careful how much personal info I share on the forums.
I don’t lie to trick people into meeting me.
Like you need to trick people into meeting you, surely only a man would say that"
I was musing along the lines of - I could quite easily lie about my age, Photoshop photos, paint a picture that “sells” me in a different light - that kinda thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age and lies
The site algorithms concerning age creates a significant incentive to lie about age.
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I am 70. I am fit, physically active, reasonably handsome and have the stamina and strength of most men in their early 60’s -ask my quack.
On several similar sites if I state my true age i get far fewer “hits” than if I say something like 54 and none’s the wiser But the other person is making the choice, not an inflexible algorithm.
On here there’s a significant reason to lie.
Many people set a max age between 50 and 60
Therefore my attempts to make contact are denied by the algorithms. They never get the chance to give me a look and make their own choice.
I have been sorely tempted to lie about my age. I could easily get away with it unless upon meeting I were asked to produce my drivers permit.
If I were able to message younger members they would stil have the ability to decline my attentions. I would take no offense.
I’ve recently made contact with a lovely amd much younger long term Fab supporter after meeting her on KIK. That or gmail is how we stay in touch. By the way she’s a well known KIK participant of parties etc.
I wonder how many here lie about their age to evade Big Brother. |
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