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Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property 
Just me?
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over a year ago
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x"
Assume both, you could ask if tour getting on well |
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over a year ago
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It’s totally the other way around for us, we both post on the forum and equally answer messages but most messages start with “hey babe” to which mr usually replies with something witty and they soon disappear lol
messages to both of us really stand out they are so few and far between |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x"
I was wondering the other day when someone was talking about it, is it because the females picture is on the avatar most of the time. It would be interesting to find out if the avatar changes the way someone address you. |
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x"
Not at all. After adding our latest pic we got an imaginative message from a straight guy that simply said I’d love to rim you 
I politely declined and explain his chances of success would be infinitely higher if he’d made the same sexy threat in Sally’s direction 
It’s incredibly common though 90% of the messages we get assume they are talking to the fem. The other 10% we reply to - plus any where we get to torment stupidly or ignorance  |
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"It’s totally the other way around for us, we both post on the forum and equally answer messages but most messages start with “hey babe” to which mr usually replies with something witty and they soon disappear lol
messages to both of us really stand out they are so few and far between"
We find it to be this way around too, so many assume it's me(female) online, Mr likes to firmly remind them its a shared profile x |
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"It’s totally the other way around for us, we both post on the forum and equally answer messages but most messages start with “hey babe” to which mr usually replies with something witty and they soon disappear lol
messages to both of us really stand out they are so few and far between"
This |
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x"
We always without fail address both in every message until we are informed other wise x |
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"It’s totally the other way around for us, we both post on the forum and equally answer messages but most messages start with “hey babe” to which mr usually replies with something witty and they soon disappear lol
messages to both of us really stand out they are so few and far between"
I do love when Wade is on and in comes a 'nice tits babe' type message. It's generally replied to with a pic of his hairy chest 
V x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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History tells me that if you get a message from a forum user (whether all, female or couple) it's more likely to be addressed or aimed to both.
Messages from random site users will usually be aimed at whichever half they think they'll get the best response from, so either one telling the guy he's lucky or one explaining how he'll smash your back doors in and how amazing your tits are.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The majority of messages we get assume it's sweet they are talking to,even though our profile tells them it's me grey,but then who reads profiles?
After all it's all about them
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x
I was wondering the other day when someone was talking about it, is it because the females picture is on the avatar most of the time. It would be interesting to find out if the avatar changes the way someone address you. "
Good point.
We always had a profile pic with us both in it and 99% of the time got messages addressing us both. We'd sign messages with both our names. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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I would like to know who I would be talking to, most profiles do mention this, otherwise I generally address both people untill the person of the couple at least identify themselves.
Ps it would be nice at times for couple would change their profile pic accordingly, but I do understand why not, it's just something I would do if I was in a couple situation. |
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x"
I always address both.
The fact that they were referring to either of us as property would put me off anyway.
I'd see that as a positive though as it means we're not compatible so no need to carry on chatting.  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x"
Generally always the man when talking to couples. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x Generally always the man when talking to couples. "
Should be both or signed off by 1 in my opinion. |
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"History tells me that if you get a message from a forum user (whether all, female or couple) it's more likely to be addressed or aimed to both.
Messages from random site users will usually be aimed at whichever half they think they'll get the best response from, so either one telling the guy he's lucky or one explaining how he'll smash your back doors in and how amazing your tits are.
A"
Very true |
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"Even though we say we only play together we still get messages aimed at either one or the other of us. It’s disrespectful x"
Just goes to prove the profile has not been read. We get the excate same x |
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x Generally always the man when talking to couples. Should be both or signed off by 1 in my opinion."
We sign off as either V or W. A lot of couples don't though.
Since the current profile pic is just me I'd have thought more would assume it's me they'll get... Usually that's the 2am messages though being hopeful 
V x |
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"Even though we say we only play together we still get messages aimed at either one or the other of us. It’s disrespectful x
Just goes to prove the profile has not been read. We get the excate same x"
People tend to just look at photos and although we have some of J they are mostly of me. So it’s always “Hey babe”
Urgh |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Even though we say we only play together we still get messages aimed at either one or the other of us. It’s disrespectful x
Just goes to prove the profile has not been read. We get the excate same x
People tend to just look at photos and although we have some of J they are mostly of me. So it’s always “Hey babe”
Urgh"
Sorry babe |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x Generally always the man when talking to couples. Should be both or signed off by 1 in my opinion.
We sign off as either V or W. A lot of couples don't though.
Since the current profile pic is just me I'd have thought more would assume it's me they'll get... Usually that's the 2am messages though being hopeful
V x"
Still no guaranteed way of knowing. Nearly been duped before. Sometimes you can just tell that it is a woman writing. |
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"Even though we say we only play together we still get messages aimed at either one or the other of us. It’s disrespectful x
Just goes to prove the profile has not been read. We get the excate same x
Most of our pics are of the wife and a few of me. Hey babe sooo copy and paste x
People tend to just look at photos and although we have some of J they are mostly of me. So it’s always “Hey babe”
Urgh"
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If the profile says one or other of them tends to manage their profile then I write to that person. Otherwise I always assume I am speaking to both of them.
After all, the hope is to share the fun! |
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x Generally always the man when talking to couples. Should be both or signed off by 1 in my opinion.
We sign off as either V or W. A lot of couples don't though.
Since the current profile pic is just me I'd have thought more would assume it's me they'll get... Usually that's the 2am messages though being hopeful
V x"
2am messages are the best! |
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"Even though we say we only play together we still get messages aimed at either one or the other of us. It’s disrespectful x
Just goes to prove the profile has not been read. We get the excate same x
People tend to just look at photos and although we have some of J they are mostly of me. So it’s always “Hey babe”
Urgh Sorry babe "
Ha ha! You don’t count! X |
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If I message a couple or with a couple, I am talking to them both. Unless specifically talking to just one of them but then I address just that one person. I also assume they are both reading my messages and reply together.
Anyone to messages me and treats me as an object (I'm single. It happens) I usually give them a lesson in manners, following with a photo of my hot body and a block - hoping to teach a lesson *whip* |
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"If I message a couple or with a couple, I am talking to them both. Unless specifically talking to just one of them but then I address just that one person. I also assume they are both reading my messages and reply together.
Anyone to messages me and treats me as an object (I'm single. It happens) I usually give them a lesson in manners, following with a photo of my hot body and a block - hoping to teach a lesson *whip* "
And it's a very hot body. We've seen it  x |
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x"
I address both until told otherwise. Not rocket science |
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"If I message a couple or with a couple, I am talking to them both. Unless specifically talking to just one of them but then I address just that one person. I also assume they are both reading my messages and reply together.
Anyone to messages me and treats me as an object (I'm single. It happens) I usually give them a lesson in manners, following with a photo of my hot body and a block - hoping to teach a lesson *whip*
And it's a very hot body. We've seen it x"
Ha. Are we talking about my nude (suspenders and suspender belt) cleaning the floor at the Angels, because I've spilled my drink? Haha. Also, thank you very much! |
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"Do you usually assume you're going to be talking to the man? Or the woman? Or do you address it to both?
I'm generally the one on chatting - forum and messages - and it really pisses me off when a messager assumes it'll be W and refers to me like property
Just me?
V x"
I tend to be on fab more but have had loads of messages addressed to the mr telling him I’m fit etc if I reply back I sometimes pretend I’m him lol
Mrscxxx |
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