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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How many people does this term annoy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just as I suspected, hardly any one.

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Pardon my extreme ignorance, but what does this mean exactly?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doesnt bother me, if they feel they need to hide who they really are/who they’re attracted too then I just feel sad for them.

Maybe I’d feel differently if I’d met someone who is ‘fab straight’ and I found out later on that they’re not straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Pardon my extreme ignorance, but what does this mean exactly?

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pardon my extreme ignorance, but what does this mean exactly?

It’s when someone lies about their sexuality on fab. They say they’re straight but they’re not.

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

Yup. Totally laughable

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know people who are Fab straight (men who are bi but say they're straight on their profile). It is sad, but I get why they do it. As long as they don't push themselves onto people who aren't interested, I support them using the label that suits their needs.

I've also heard, for women, "Fab bi".

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Me.

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Pardon my extreme ignorance, but what does this mean exactly?

It’s when someone lies about their sexuality on fab. They say they’re straight but they’re not. "

If you can't be honest about your sexuality here, then where can you be??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesn't really bother me. I can kinda see why they do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am 100% straight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cant say I've given it any thought

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you want cock OP you have cock OP you don't have to justify it or change your stated orientation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pardon my extreme ignorance, but what does this mean exactly?

It’s when someone lies about their sexuality on fab. They say they’re straight but they’re not.

If you can't be honest about your sexuality here, then where can you be??

God knows. Like I said, it makes me sad for them if they feel the need to lie :-/

Some do it because some women will only meet straight men. So they think being straight will up their chances.

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By *r99mr99Man over a year ago

Ealing

I think sexuality is fluid and depending on my mindset the labels of what I confirm to kinda change.

I also find profiles with 'no hi guys at all only straight' when you can see veris from bi men or couples are amusing.

I met someone who said she'd never have sex with a bi guy that had conveniently ignored her partners 8 month gay relationship (yes she knew)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you want cock OP you have cock OP you don't have to justify it or change your stated orientation. "

I’m not talking about me, I used the term and someone got annoyed/ upset about it. I think they are a wee bit sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont really get why you would need to lie about your sexuality on here

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Pardon my extreme ignorance, but what does this mean exactly?

It’s when someone lies about their sexuality on fab. They say they’re straight but they’re not.

If you can't be honest about your sexuality here, then where can you be??

God knows. Like I said, it makes me sad for them if they feel the need to lie :-/

Some do it because some women will only meet straight men. So they think being straight will up their chances. "

I've seen plenty of profiles where women and couples tell bi men to jog on. I tell them to jog on.

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Cowards really and disrespectful of peoples preferences. It's 2019 not 1980 something.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think some people imagine that bi guys see a cock and can't help themselves. From what I've seen, unless attention is invited, it's a bit like when I'm in my gym changing room. I like what I see to the extent that I see it, but I try not to look (and I certainly don't touch!) because it's not appropriate and I'm not a creep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Cowards really and disrespectful of peoples preferences. It's 2019 not 1980 something. "

It’s still 1980 here in Devon.

Sent from ZX Spectrum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab straight, Fab bi, Fab single

All a different meaning on Fab the alternative universe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you want cock OP you have cock OP you don't have to justify it or change your stated orientation.

I’m not talking about me, I used the term and someone got annoyed/ upset about it. I think they are a wee bit sensitive. "

If you are sensitive then thats a bit sad if you want cock go for cock most won't judge you on your sexuality though personality wise well that may restrict your cokc hunt.

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I think some people imagine that bi guys see a cock and can't help themselves. From what I've seen, unless attention is invited, it's a bit like when I'm in my gym changing room. I like what I see to the extent that I see it, but I try not to look (and I certainly don't touch!) because it's not appropriate and I'm not a creep. "

Well stated

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hate labels anyway but people should be honest. I don't meet bi men for anything other than a social so if they do it for that reason it’s not really on but I guess I see why they do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think accusing someone of being Fab Straight could lead to them feeling offended, but the term itself is just a jokey way of describing a common situation on Fab.

I know why they exist on Fab, but as an openly bi guy on here I think transparency about my sexuality is better for me and those I might meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think accusing someone of being Fab Straight could lead to them feeling offended, but the term itself is just a jokey way of describing a common situation on Fab.

I know why they exist on Fab, but as an openly bi guy on here I think transparency about my sexuality is better for me and those I might meet."

The amusing thing is I am not even a practising bisexual but prefer transparency. If that means I can’t meet someone I really fancy because of it. Then so be it, we probably wouldn’t have clicked anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No need for arguing and nastiness. Perfectly acceptable question on a forum as far as I’m concerned.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its all balls man who cares sticks and stones and all that folk need stop stressing over silly words with no real meaning truth is people will always do what ghey want to do and i for one dont really care if folks need to give a name to it or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its all balls man who cares sticks and stones and all that folk need stop stressing over silly words with no real meaning truth is people will always do what ghey want to do and i for one dont really care if folks need to give a name to it or not "

Ps that wasnt an intentional ghey was a fat finger issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But what if I want to suck a TS cock but have absolutely no interest in sucking a man's cock? Asking for my mate jeff

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Interesting that you don’t have to tell anyone about your sexuality, even though meeting you may be at odds with their stated preference ... ‘no bi men’ on the profile.

On the married thread the other day the same person was saying that it was everyone’s business because people may not want to meet married people how is that different to meet bi people?

I can only presume it’s yet another Fab double standard. I think my observation then was that people lie about what they want, when it suits.

As far as the term goes, who cares? It means little. It’s another made up term for the site. Why folk get their knickers in a twist over it is beyond me. Unless Admin remove it then it’s a perfectly acceptable thread I’m sure.

Fab straight has always been a bit of a joke on here from what I can tell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesn't annoy me no. I have no reason with which to back this claim up however.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting that you don’t have to tell anyone about your sexuality, even though meeting you may be at odds with their stated preference ... ‘no bi men’ on the profile.

On the married thread the other day the same person was saying that it was everyone’s business because people may not want to meet married people how is that different to meet bi people?

I can only presume it’s yet another Fab double standard. I think my observation then was that people lie about what they want, when it suits.

Fab straight has always been a bit of a joke on here from what I can tell.

Exactly what I just said but deleted it because I just cannot be arsed!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not sure why a man being attracted to men (in a way that they don't act on in your presence) has any bearing on the meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"But what if I want to suck a TS cock but have absolutely no interest in sucking a man's cock? Asking for my mate jeff

Yeah, I’m mates with Jeff too.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"Interesting that you don’t have to tell anyone about your sexuality, even though meeting you may be at odds with their stated preference ... ‘no bi men’ on the profile.

On the married thread the other day the same person was saying that it was everyone’s business because people may not want to meet married people how is that different to meet bi people?

I can only presume it’s yet another Fab double standard. I think my observation then was that people lie about what they want, when it suits.

Fab straight has always been a bit of a joke on here from what I can tell.

Exactly what I just said but deleted it because I just cannot be arsed!

Life’s short! Show us your face Sharon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting that you don’t have to tell anyone about your sexuality, even though meeting you may be at odds with their stated preference ... ‘no bi men’ on the profile.

On the married thread the other day the same person was saying that it was everyone’s business because people may not want to meet married people how is that different to meet bi people?

I can only presume it’s yet another Fab double standard. I think my observation then was that people lie about what they want, when it suits.

Fab straight has always been a bit of a joke on here from what I can tell.

Exactly what I just said but deleted it because I just cannot be arsed!

Life’s short! Show us your face Sharon

Can we forget about that now

We’re not going to are we

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"Interesting that you don’t have to tell anyone about your sexuality, even though meeting you may be at odds with their stated preference ... ‘no bi men’ on the profile.

On the married thread the other day the same person was saying that it was everyone’s business because people may not want to meet married people how is that different to meet bi people?

I can only presume it’s yet another Fab double standard. I think my observation then was that people lie about what they want, when it suits.

Fab straight has always been a bit of a joke on here from what I can tell.

Exactly what I just said but deleted it because I just cannot be arsed!

Life’s short! Show us your face Sharon

Can we forget about that now

We’re not going to are we

I’m on the hunt for a slinky sexy alternative as we speak

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting that you don’t have to tell anyone about your sexuality, even though meeting you may be at odds with their stated preference ... ‘no bi men’ on the profile.

On the married thread the other day the same person was saying that it was everyone’s business because people may not want to meet married people how is that different to meet bi people?

I can only presume it’s yet another Fab double standard. I think my observation then was that people lie about what they want, when it suits.

Fab straight has always been a bit of a joke on here from what I can tell.

Exactly what I just said but deleted it because I just cannot be arsed!

Life’s short! Show us your face Sharon

Can we forget about that now

We’re not going to are we

"
get out of my pub?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't blame anyone for being Fab straight as I have my own reasons.

I don't need anyone to feel sorry for me either, especially those with issues of their own.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The terminology doesn't bother me in the slightest, it's a joke term used frequently.

The actual people that are and did contact me frequently do irritate me, simply by virtue of lying on their profile as a way of circumventing people preferences.

That said, I generally ignore them and concentrate on the people that I do want to meet.

I'd rather my experience here be a positive one.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Does the term "Fab straight" bother me in the slightest as a term? Not at all.

As a bisexual man, would I meet a man who identified as straight on their profile, yet wanted to get sexual with me? No, I wouldn't - for the simple reason that if they are lying about their sexuality, what else are they lying about?

The fact that most of them lie about it, not through fear or shame, but im the deluded impression that it will get round the preferences of others, just adds to my reasons for not wanting to meet them.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"The terminology doesn't bother me in the slightest, it's a joke term used frequently.

The actual people that are and did contact me frequently do irritate me, simply by virtue of lying on their profile as a way of circumventing people preferences.

That said, I generally ignore them and concentrate on the people that I do want to meet.

I'd rather my experience here be a positive one. "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we're going to talk about transparency on here am I allowed to ask men if they have met a certain woman and if they had anal sex with her? If not, why not? For transparency sake I think I'm entitled to know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also, I'm advertising for a bi mmf. If two hot straight men messaged me and said they are up for it I don't give a flying fuck what they have on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a running joke with a few on here that I am “Fab Straight”.

Pretty straightforward reasoning as to why, nothing sinister.

When I initially listed myself as Bi / Bi-curious I felt over time I was being unfair to those that messaged me looking for that as that’s not what I want from my Fab meets. I’m purely looking for men and if something happens in a club scenario with another woman then happy days.

So for me it works to be labelled this way..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The term fab straight isn’t an issue but if a man contacts us and has straight on his profile and says his actually bi we won’t meet as there’s too many actually straight men who say that to get to the female so if it’s not upfront on the profile we don’t go there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm Fab straight. The term doesn't annoy me. I assume people lie so it's irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there's a huge difference between calling yourself fabstraight and calling someone else it.. regardless of how throwaway you may feel it is. To me it's just unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling. "

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

The term fab straight doesn't really bother me, mainly because that's me.

The best term to describe me is "bi playful" which I do like. I don't want bi on my profile because I wouldn't meet women alone, only as part of a group (mff).

There are many reasons why people say they are straight when they're not 100% straight.

Plus I hate labels.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The whole straight / fab straight debate is out of hand.

Some gents absolutely have to get their Straight card out and prove their straightness at every opportunity.

A guy who is confident about his heterosexuality doesn't get defensive or feel the need to condemn any activity which may violate his straightness.

I do sometimes think that people will bang on about how 100% straight they are because of inner turmoil or to convince themselves that the boner they got over the male hot pics is a coincidence.

Ultimately we can only go off what people state in their profiles.

Some "straight" guys have profiles on Fab guys. Some TV's cocks look exactly like cocks on straight guys profiles, but that could just be a coincidence.

All a storm in a tea cup.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The whole straight / fab straight debate is out of hand.

Some gents absolutely have to get their Straight card out and prove their straightness at every opportunity.

A guy who is confident about his heterosexuality doesn't get defensive or feel the need to condemn any activity which may violate his straightness.

I do sometimes think that people will bang on about how 100% straight they are because of inner turmoil or to convince themselves that the boner they got over the male hot pics is a coincidence.

Ultimately we can only go off what people state in their profiles.

Some "straight" guys have profiles on Fab guys. Some TV's cocks look exactly like cocks on straight guys profiles, but that could just be a coincidence.

All a storm in a tea cup."

I like tea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The whole straight / fab straight debate is out of hand.

Some gents absolutely have to get their Straight card out and prove their straightness at every opportunity.

A guy who is confident about his heterosexuality doesn't get defensive or feel the need to condemn any activity which may violate his straightness.

I do sometimes think that people will bang on about how 100% straight they are because of inner turmoil or to convince themselves that the boner they got over the male hot pics is a coincidence.

Ultimately we can only go off what people state in their profiles.

Some "straight" guys have profiles on Fab guys. Some TV's cocks look exactly like cocks on straight guys profiles, but that could just be a coincidence.

All a storm in a tea cup."

You're looking at straight men's cocks and comparing them to Tvs cocks? Is that what you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm Fab straight. The term doesn't annoy me. I assume people lie so it's irrelevant. "

We, as women, are allowed to be Fab straight. It only pisses people off when they can't message us to meet.

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Pardon my extreme ignorance, but what does this mean exactly?

It’s when someone lies about their sexuality on fab. They say they’re straight but they’re not. "

Only to some forum folk who seem to think they own the rule book on others’ sexuality. Other than that it is entirely meaningless.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

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By *utsidenakedMan over a year ago

Dorchester

Define fab straight, in comparison to bi and gay,we all know what gay means,but bi that's the question, what is the line between bi and straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement.."

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement.."

It's easy to be a keyboard warrior, makes people feel powerful

Now, if we're talking compliments, please accept this one..... you're lush

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said."

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged."

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?"

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so. "

I know who it was directed at.... he's a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funnily enough I got propositioned by more men when I identified as straight than I do now as bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so. "

Hilarious, you don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What does fab straight mean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so.

Hilarious, you don’t know. "

Yes I do. More hilarious the way you think others don't see your behaviour for what it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so.

Hilarious, you don’t know.

Yes I do. More hilarious the way you think others don't see your behaviour for what it is. "

People see

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF) over a year ago

PDI GRAN CANARIA

Wow this is fun, another thread about sexuality. It's always going to be a bone of contention I guess for some.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"How many people does this term annoy ?"

It's bullshit there bi....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why should it matter if they're gay,bi or straight. If you judge someone and wouldn't sleep with them because they have had bi fun in the past, then that just makes you reek of homophobia and bigotry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so.

Hilarious, you don’t know.

Yes I do. More hilarious the way you think others don't see your behaviour for what it is.

People see

I’m being tag teamed, brilliant. Keep going ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many people does this term annoy ?"

Just Egyptians that live in Denial

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so.

Hilarious, you don’t know.

Yes I do. More hilarious the way you think others don't see your behaviour for what it is.

People see

I’m being tag teamed, brilliant. Keep going ladies."

Nah.... you're not worth any more of my time. Might just message Genghis, he's fun and not a tool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so.

Hilarious, you don’t know.

Yes I do. More hilarious the way you think others don't see your behaviour for what it is.

People see

I’m being tag teamed, brilliant. Keep going ladies."

You have some growing up to do. If the point of this thread was to mock the other person as petty you failed. Throwing the term fab straight at people for fun is the petty act here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When’s the rest of the WI getting here ?

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Wow this is fun, another thread about sexuality. It's always going to be a bone of contention I guess for some.

Trouble is it’s not really about sexuality. It’s about a forum mentality that is crass (at best). This thread wasn’t started because the OP wanted to discuss sexuality.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When’s the rest of the WI getting here ?"

I expect no less from you. No intelligent responses. Off to do something more interesting. Enjoy your night.

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By *onygirlieWoman over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Just to clarify again I used the term in a thread as a throwaway comment and someone got really quite upset at the term, which I find baffling.

I wasn’t that upset!!...oh you meant the other guy

Glad someone doesn’t take my comments seriously!

Weird that you feel the need to throw comments like that at anybody though? It's obviously not meant to be a complement..

You have no idea what the context was or how it was delivered and who it was too and the reason it was said.

You're very patronising. Yes I did see actually. I think you overstep the mark frequently and don't like being challenged.

Okay what thread was the comment on and who was it directed to ?

You're very petulant... and your childish commenting on threads after this showed just how much so.

Hilarious, you don’t know.

Yes I do. More hilarious the way you think others don't see your behaviour for what it is.

People see

I’m being tag teamed, brilliant. Keep going ladies.

Nah.... you're not worth any more of my time. Might just message Genghis, he's fun and not a tool

"
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Maybe but what an inpressive tool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As i was the guy it was directed at I think I should speak up, it was a tongue in cheek comment as on a hot or not thread I posted hot but it appeared under a guy instead of the woman it was meant for!!

It happens when your posting finger isn’t as quick as someone else.

I didn’t take offence but ensuing “debate” did baffle me.

I have been messaged by quite a few guys who have straight on their profile and i am probably not the only one.

I guess a name is bound to be attached to guys with straight on their profile but are actually bi.

To be honest the term doesn’t offend me nor does guys who are not comfortable or unwilling to put their sexual preferences on their profile.

Live and let live i say.

But go easy on Tame he is not a bad guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As i was the guy it was directed at I think I should speak up, it was a tongue in cheek comment as on a hot or not thread I posted hot but it appeared under a guy instead of the woman it was meant for!!

It happens when your posting finger isn’t as quick as someone else.

I didn’t take offence but ensuing “debate” did baffle me.

I have been messaged by quite a few guys who have straight on their profile and i am probably not the only one.

I guess a name is bound to be attached to guys with straight on their profile but are actually bi.

To be honest the term doesn’t offend me nor does guys who are not comfortable or unwilling to put their sexual preferences on their profile.

Live and let live i say.

But go easy on Tame he is not a bad guy

I saw that and did mention you had said hot to a woman and not a man. People on here like to jump to conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens when your posting finger isn’t as quick as someone else.

I didn’t take offence but ensuing “debate” did baffle me.

I have been messaged by quite a few guys who have straight on their profile and i am probably not the only one.

I guess a name is bound to be attached to guys with straight on their profile but are actually bi.

To be honest the term doesn’t offend me nor does guys who are not comfortable or unwilling to put their sexual preferences on their profile.

Live and let live i say.

But go easy on Tame he is not a bad guy

I appreciate you weren't offended but it could have been anyone... could have easily been a newbie with little understanding of the dig. When we accept a mentality of snide comments being one of those things then we are responsible for a general undertone of negativity on the forums.

I personally believe throwing a 'fab straight' comment at anyone is wrong. Whether it offends or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's none of my business what anyone but my preferences are.

Surely this is one of the more open minded sites and groups?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's none of my business what anyone but my preferences are.

Surely this is one of the more open minded sites and groups? "

You'd think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens when your posting finger isn’t as quick as someone else.

I didn’t take offence but ensuing “debate” did baffle me.

I have been messaged by quite a few guys who have straight on their profile and i am probably not the only one.

I guess a name is bound to be attached to guys with straight on their profile but are actually bi.

To be honest the term doesn’t offend me nor does guys who are not comfortable or unwilling to put their sexual preferences on their profile.

Live and let live i say.

But go easy on Tame he is not a bad guy

I personally believe throwing a 'fab straight' comment at anyone is wrong. Whether it offends or not. "

You're assuming this thread is aimed at a particular person?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens when your posting finger isn’t as quick as someone else.

I didn’t take offence but ensuing “debate” did baffle me.

I have been messaged by quite a few guys who have straight on their profile and i am probably not the only one.

I guess a name is bound to be attached to guys with straight on their profile but are actually bi.

To be honest the term doesn’t offend me nor does guys who are not comfortable or unwilling to put their sexual preferences on their profile.

Live and let live i say.

But go easy on Tame he is not a bad guy

I personally believe throwing a 'fab straight' comment at anyone is wrong. Whether it offends or not.

You're assuming this thread is aimed at a particular person?"

It is yes.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

It happens when your posting finger isn’t as quick as someone else.

I didn’t take offence but ensuing “debate” did baffle me.

I have been messaged by quite a few guys who have straight on their profile and i am probably not the only one.

I guess a name is bound to be attached to guys with straight on their profile but are actually bi.

To be honest the term doesn’t offend me nor does guys who are not comfortable or unwilling to put their sexual preferences on their profile.

Live and let live i say.

But go easy on Tame he is not a bad guy

I personally believe throwing a 'fab straight' comment at anyone is wrong. Whether it offends or not. "

Didn't you say you weren't going to post on this thread anymore?

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"How many people does this term annoy ?"

I think the answer to your question is quite a few.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens when your posting finger isn’t as quick as someone else.

I didn’t take offence but ensuing “debate” did baffle me.

I have been messaged by quite a few guys who have straight on their profile and i am probably not the only one.

I guess a name is bound to be attached to guys with straight on their profile but are actually bi.

To be honest the term doesn’t offend me nor does guys who are not comfortable or unwilling to put their sexual preferences on their profile.

Live and let live i say.

But go easy on Tame he is not a bad guy

I personally believe throwing a 'fab straight' comment at anyone is wrong. Whether it offends or not.

Didn't you say you weren't going to post on this thread anymore?

Ha ha I'm off to read now I've said my piece!! First and most likely last rant over...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The whole straight / fab straight debate is out of hand.

Some gents absolutely have to get their Straight card out and prove their straightness at every opportunity.

A guy who is confident about his heterosexuality doesn't get defensive or feel the need to condemn any activity which may violate his straightness.

I do sometimes think that people will bang on about how 100% straight they are because of inner turmoil or to convince themselves that the boner they got over the male hot pics is a coincidence.

Ultimately we can only go off what people state in their profiles.

Some "straight" guys have profiles on Fab guys. Some TV's cocks look exactly like cocks on straight guys profiles, but that could just be a coincidence.

All a storm in a tea cup.

You're looking at straight men's cocks and comparing them to Tvs cocks? Is that what you mean?"

You can support Liverpool but still look at Everton's team sheet to see who you are up against

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

You're assuming this thread is aimed at a particular person?"

Going by the comments and the green arrow, it looks that way yes

To the OP, you were called out on another thread that you joined just to make the comment of fab straight...then called out on here because it looks like you started this thread on the back of it.

To be fair, it sure does look that way. Maybe in future once the tiff is over on one thread, move on and leave it there

Thanks

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