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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For those that have public face pics on show, aren’t you worried about who sees them?
I’d love to put face pics public cos I’ve got a really nice face but the thought of someone spotting me on here then seeing them in Asda or doing the school run mortifies me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like all swingers, to tell others they saw you on a swinger site or at a swinger club they would need to expose themselves.
When my wife was swinging we went to a club in manchester and ran into the couple from three doors up in our street, we never met outside the club after but saw them a few times in there.
I dont have face pics on public for different reasons, i know my nephew is on here with his gf so we agreed to both not put face pics on so we dont knowingly look st each others profiles  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Like all swingers, to tell others they saw you on a swinger site or at a swinger club they would need to expose themselves"
Yes but some people don't care if people know they're on here, so would have no issue in telling others if they recognised someones face pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like all swingers, to tell others they saw you on a swinger site or at a swinger club they would need to expose themselves.
When my wife was swinging we went to a club in manchester and ran into the couple from three doors up in our street, we never met outside the club after but saw them a few times in there.
I dont have face pics on public for different reasons, i know my nephew is on here with his gf so we agreed to both not put face pics on so we dont knowingly look st each others profiles "
They wouldn't need to expose themselves as being on here.
"Oy Doris, guess what! Blokes down the pub saw old Mrs Smith on that Fab site! I heard them laughing about it." |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I can never underdtand the problem if you think swinging is shamefull dont do it. But as others will say to see your pics they have to be on here so to shame you they are ecposing themselves. "
Its nothing to do with it being shameful, it's keeping your private life private. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I can never underdtand the problem if you think swinging is shamefull dont do it. But as others will say to see your pics they have to be on here so to shame you they are ecposing themselves.
Its nothing to do with it being shameful, it's keeping your private life private. "
Exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never underdtand the problem if you think swinging is shamefull dont do it. But as others will say to see your pics they have to be on here so to shame you they are ecposing themselves. "
I won't do it because I don't want to be followed home. I'm not ashamed of being on here but there are some people in the world who would kick up a stink about it and try to cause trouble. My children and grandchildren don't need that.
I don't advertise my sex life to friends and family and feel no need to. |
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I don't mind my face being on show and it wouldn't bother me people away from here knowing I'm on here either. Don't know how I'd feel being approached by someone in pubic who recognized me from here though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to not be bothered, until about three and a half years ago when someone asked me if I was in a place where I had been quite late at night, and that profile didn't have any pictures at all which made me feel less safe. I changed my postcode then too to a city that's about an hour away from me and I've kept doing that since then.
Though my face photo is available to anyone who adds me as a friend on here or has me on kik. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, someone was staying in my work place a couple of months ago and I found him on a local search. He came across as pretty sleazy as it was, so imagine if he knew I was on here too.  |
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We're always happy to share face pics (they're in our friends only folder anyway) but daren't make them public, as Caroline could get into a lot of trouble if someone at work saw them.
We do still get recognized out in public anyway, as we're quite distinctive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me showing my face is a recent change I've made.
Changes came with some ground rules:
1. Keeping my profile clean and respectful.
2. Only post veris that do not involve comments about how good of a fuck I am.
3. Never have face and naked photos public at the same time. As well as no face in any naked photos (in case someone decides to share them, obviously).
Pros:
1. Feedback been nothing but positive.
2. Messages I get are more polite and articulate (must have something to do with my profile too).
3. I don't have to hide around the corners.
Cons:
1. If you do get recognized by someone malicious - they may spread rumours of all sorts.
2. There are a few people around who are into stalking, so gotta be careful.
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"For those that have public face pics on show, aren’t you worried about who sees them?
I’d love to put face pics public cos I’ve got a really nice face but the thought of someone spotting me on here then seeing them in Asda or doing the school run mortifies me. "
I can probably answer this fairly well as I have my face up along with ‘action shots’!
I deliberately look very different in the real world than I do on Fab and - perhaps because of that - I rarely get recognised outside the club scene! I’ve been recognised (to my surprise as I look crap at work ) a few times at work - but they’ve never called me out - just politely messaged on fab later! One or two have even resulted in a meet!
I never recognise fabbers outside the club scene because I’m never looking out for them- and neither are most of us I imagine!
I’m sure you’ve shown your face before though op? Because I know what you look like! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s always someone who says I can’t believe (dot dot dot ... )happened to me and I was outed / exposed to friends / colleagues/ the ex - but they’ve got face and full on nudity / sex pics on their public gallery.
Not saying it’s right but are you really that naive...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s always someone who says I can’t believe (dot dot dot ... )happened to me and I was outed / exposed to friends / colleagues/ the ex - but they’ve got face and full on nudity / sex pics on their public gallery.
Not saying it’s right but are you really that naive... "
I'm naive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s always someone who says I can’t believe (dot dot dot ... )happened to me and I was outed / exposed to friends / colleagues/ the ex - but they’ve got face and full on nudity / sex pics on their public gallery.
Not saying it’s right but are you really that naive...
I'm naive? "
Naive as in if someone recognises you - would you be that surprised if your face is on the web..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s always someone who says I can’t believe (dot dot dot ... )happened to me and I was outed / exposed to friends / colleagues/ the ex - but they’ve got face and full on nudity / sex pics on their public gallery.
Not saying it’s right but are you really that naive...
I'm naive?
Naive as in if someone recognises you - would you be that surprised if your face is on the web..?"
No, I'm prepared for the eventuality. I still feel as though I've a right to be annoyed with the person who exposes me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s always someone who says I can’t believe (dot dot dot ... )happened to me and I was outed / exposed to friends / colleagues/ the ex - but they’ve got face and full on nudity / sex pics on their public gallery.
Not saying it’s right but are you really that naive...
I'm naive?
Naive as in if someone recognises you - would you be that surprised if your face is on the web..?
No, I'm prepared for the eventuality. I still feel as though I've a right to be annoyed with the person who exposes me."
Absolutely! I totally agree that’s a massive invasion of privacy & trust.
I guess, over the years I’ve seen people act totally surprised that this could ever be the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn’t ever have our face pics in public pic and definitely not with our naked bodies attached , too many weirdos and it only takes one to find out where you live etc . Our private life is exactly that no one else needs to know about our sex life .. and I think by saying you look different in the vanilla world to your fab life is very naive , I’ve seen people from fab that post face pics and I recognise them without much trouble in real life .. |
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I don’t really care. I’m not doing anything illegal, I’m over 18 and single. I’m not sure I would have action shots showing my face but just normal/slightly saucy doesn’t worry me at all. There again I’m an open book and not that concerned what people think of me! Loud and proud |
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"I don’t really care. I’m not doing anything illegal, I’m over 18 and single. I’m not sure I would have action shots showing my face but just normal/slightly saucy doesn’t worry me at all. There again I’m an open book and not that concerned what people think of me! Loud and proud "
I did and it backfired badly. Never again. Given up meetings but decided that's my rule |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's doesn't really bother me. I'm not embarrassed or ashamed of what I have on display or what I'm open about.
In fact, I'd be most curious to know what someone would say to me if they recognised me on here |
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"I’d just be worried about parents of my child’s friends seeing me. "
But if they did then that means they’re on here too?
One of the dads at my kids school recognised me at a parents evening. He was polite and said nothing!
He messaged some time later - and months after that I went to Nando’s with him and his lovely fb after the Manchester lounge social! Not exactly what I’d call a disaster! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope all over the net already in the flesh industry
Doesn't really matter to me now
Respect that. "
Tbh the only hassle I have mostly is with certain fiscal companies not wanting my business and a few job industries are cut out now under amazingly moral reasons lol coming from a bank and the government of all types
Honestly can't make this shit up lol when you get two of scummiest immoral sectors judge your industry it's Patrick Stewart levels of face palm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d just be worried about parents of my child’s friends seeing me.
But if they did then that means they’re on here too?
One of the dads at my kids school recognised me at a parents evening. He was polite and said nothing!
He messaged some time later - and months after that I went to Nando’s with him and his lovely fb after the Manchester lounge social! Not exactly what I’d call a disaster! "
Ok what about when your kids are older and one of their friends recognise you and show your kid, hey look at your mom being fucked in the arse, that wouldn’t bother you? Even if you weren’t embarrassed I’m sure they would get some shit for it. |
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"I’d just be worried about parents of my child’s friends seeing me.
But if they did then that means they’re on here too?
One of the dads at my kids school recognised me at a parents evening. He was polite and said nothing!
He messaged some time later - and months after that I went to Nando’s with him and his lovely fb after the Manchester lounge social! Not exactly what I’d call a disaster!
Ok what about when your kids are older and one of their friends recognise you and show your kid, hey look at your mom being fucked in the arse, that wouldn’t bother you? Even if you weren’t embarrassed I’m sure they would get some shit for it. "
Yep - you have a point!
All I would say is - most people in the real world have never even heard of fab - I hadn’t until days before I joined here! Many kids my son’s age are watching far too easily accessible porn! It’s everywhere! If I was doing milf porn I’d fully expect to be found!
To find me on fab they’d have to log on to the site, set up a profile, declare themselves a swinger and nowadays photo verify themselves! I’m not saying it’ll never happen- but it’s not something I’m currently losing sleep over - rightly or wrongly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A very good friend's son messaged me on here. He lives local and had his face on show and his sexuality. I wouldn't want my friend's or my children's friends messaging me because they saw my face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d just be worried about parents of my child’s friends seeing me.
But if they did then that means they’re on here too?
One of the dads at my kids school recognised me at a parents evening. He was polite and said nothing!
He messaged some time later - and months after that I went to Nando’s with him and his lovely fb after the Manchester lounge social! Not exactly what I’d call a disaster!
Ok what about when your kids are older and one of their friends recognise you and show your kid, hey look at your mom being fucked in the arse, that wouldn’t bother you? Even if you weren’t embarrassed I’m sure they would get some shit for it.
Yep - you have a point!
All I would say is - most people in the real world have never even heard of fab - I hadn’t until days before I joined here! Many kids my son’s age are watching far too easily accessible porn! It’s everywhere! If I was doing milf porn I’d fully expect to be found!
To find me on fab they’d have to log on to the site, set up a profile, declare themselves a swinger and nowadays photo verify themselves! I’m not saying it’ll never happen- but it’s not something I’m currently losing sleep over - rightly or wrongly! "
Which I know in the past has been done, people have posted on here to that affect....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For those that have public face pics on show, aren’t you worried about who sees them?
I’d love to put face pics public cos I’ve got a really nice face but the thought of someone spotting me on here then seeing them in Asda or doing the school run mortifies me. "
There only on here for exactly the same reason you are op
Who knows you might even meet a local hot fella |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t really care. I’m not doing anything illegal, I’m over 18 and single. I’m not sure I would have action shots showing my face but just normal/slightly saucy doesn’t worry me at all. There again I’m an open book and not that concerned what people think of me! Loud and proud "
Well said that woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's doesn't really bother me. I'm not embarrassed or ashamed of what I have on display or what I'm open about.
In fact, I'd be most curious to know what someone would say to me if they recognised me on here "
If they fancied you, something along the lines of would you like to go horizontal jogging with me in the morning hopefully |
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