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Hope restored.... And there's a but ....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm finally Getting there eventually I've been able to hold a conversation with a pretty awesome woman we've been talking to eachother now for about a day and a bit and she's pretty interesting and she's interested in me .... We are having a few laughs and discussing what we could be doing.
But I know for a fact I don't stand a chance I'm not that lucky.
We'll just have to wait and see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why does there have to be a but? Just enjoy the conversation and see where it leads. You seem like You have set yourself up to fail, before you've even tested the waters. Go in with a realistic head, but not a defeatist one and good luck OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the support all, I'll have to see what happens tomorrow... She's offline now to bed .... So I guess it's just a waiting game "
Managing your expectations is a good thing. Being negative for no good reason isn't. Just roll with flow and help to create some. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well things seem to be getting good, she's definitely keen to meet soon ... And I've told her she can say the words and I'll be over when she needs me and she says it will be soon , fingers crossed X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well things seem to be getting good, she's definitely keen to meet soon ... And I've told her she can say the words and I'll be over when she needs me and she says it will be soon , fingers crossed X "
Have you talked about sex at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A tip, fakes are more likely to engage in a conversation than authentic people. Real people using their own pictures will just delete your message or tell you no thanks pretty much instantly. Unless they really are interested of course, just be careful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a game full of knock backs and it can hurt sometimes.... just remember they're not knock back though, just not each others type. That's all. Finding the right lady takes time. Good luck OP, you will get there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is she photo verified?"
not yet she's fairly new too a few photos . But she's genuine ... And yeah we've talked alot about sex going through what we like and don't like ... She's wanting to date/meet first which is something I'm happy to do ... We've got loads in common so fingers crossed X 2 days we've talked so I have high hopes but if it doesn't happen I'd be happy as is knowing that there are women out there that are unique and don't follow the usual crowd.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good luck! Hope it all works out.
I've been chatting to a guy for a few weeks now! Been a long slow burn but we have progressed from Fab, to Whatsapp to being fb friends! Chatting lots on messenger! He's even told his Dad about me lol, not sure if that's good or bad.
But we have arranged a social for next week,meeting up with our dogs and going for a walk.
He has a beautiful Malinois, I have a German Shepherd lol. Should be fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is she photo verified? not yet she's fairly new too a few photos . But she's genuine ... And yeah we've talked alot about sex going through what we like and don't like ... She's wanting to date/meet first which is something I'm happy to do ... We've got loads in common so fingers crossed X 2 days we've talked so I have high hopes but if it doesn't happen I'd be happy as is knowing that there are women out there that are unique and don't follow the usual crowd."
How do you know she's genuine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good luck! Hope it all works out.
I've been chatting to a guy for a few weeks now! Been a long slow burn but we have progressed from Fab, to Whatsapp to being fb friends! Chatting lots on messenger! He's even told his Dad about me lol, not sure if that's good or bad.
But we have arranged a social for next week,meeting up with our dogs and going for a walk.
He has a beautiful Malinois, I have a German Shepherd lol. Should be fun! "
Aww thats sweet, meeting doggies too. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is she photo verified? not yet she's fairly new too a few photos . But she's genuine ... And yeah we've talked alot about sex going through what we like and don't like ... She's wanting to date/meet first which is something I'm happy to do ... We've got loads in common so fingers crossed X 2 days we've talked so I have high hopes but if it doesn't happen I'd be happy as is knowing that there are women out there that are unique and don't follow the usual crowd."
I'd recommend either a phone call or better still a video chat on Kik maybe ... Then you know they are who they claim to be.
But all sounds positive so far, fingers crossed for you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is she photo verified? not yet she's fairly new too a few photos . But she's genuine ... And yeah we've talked alot about sex going through what we like and don't like ... She's wanting to date/meet first which is something I'm happy to do ... We've got loads in common so fingers crossed X 2 days we've talked so I have high hopes but if it doesn't happen I'd be happy as is knowing that there are women out there that are unique and don't follow the usual crowd.
I'd recommend either a phone call or better still a video chat on Kik maybe ... Then you know they are who they claim to be.
But all sounds positive so far, fingers crossed for you "
well she doesn't have Kik and I don't have Snapchat but she's thinking on giving me her number ... I'm not seeing her until I know for real... I just don't jump in head first...but if she isn't who she says... There is a block and report button and I can handle myself and move on. ... Just have to wait time will tell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is she photo verified? not yet she's fairly new too a few photos . But she's genuine ... And yeah we've talked alot about sex going through what we like and don't like ... She's wanting to date/meet first which is something I'm happy to do ... We've got loads in common so fingers crossed X 2 days we've talked so I have high hopes but if it doesn't happen I'd be happy as is knowing that there are women out there that are unique and don't follow the usual crowd.
I'd recommend either a phone call or better still a video chat on Kik maybe ... Then you know they are who they claim to be.
But all sounds positive so far, fingers crossed for you well she doesn't have Kik and I don't have Snapchat but she's thinking on giving me her number ... I'm not seeing her until I know for real... I just don't jump in head first...but if she isn't who she says... There is a block and report button and I can handle myself and move on. ... Just have to wait time will tell."
Hopefully she is genuine and it all goes well for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op Stand up and be counted pal get some confidence and say to yourself I'm atlas2019 and I'm gonna get me that fab date
* look in the mirror whilst saying it and you'll be like rocky
Eye of the tiger |
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By *reeMan
over a year ago
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"Why does there have to be a but? Just enjoy the conversation and see where it leads. You seem like You have set yourself up to fail, before you've even tested the waters. Go in with a realistic head, but not a defeatist one and good luck OP "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the support all, I'll have to see what happens tomorrow... She's offline now to bed .... So I guess it's just a waiting game "
Also check her veris tonight
She's only told you she's going to bed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op Stand up and be counted pal get some confidence and say to yourself I'm atlas2019 and I'm gonna get me that fab date
* look in the mirror whilst saying it and you'll be like rocky
Eye of the tiger "
RISING UP! UP ON THE STREET!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well if I didn't see that coming , ghosted. She said she doesn't meet without getting to know the person first , shes now a BBC only or vwe profile now and she's had 4 meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if I didn't see that coming , ghosted. She said she doesn't meet without getting to know the person first , shes now a BBC only or vwe profile now and she's had 4 meets."
Oh dear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if I didn't see that coming , ghosted. She said she doesn't meet without getting to know the person first , shes now a BBC only or vwe profile now and she's had 4 meets."
Do you mean she now has verifications?
See it as a lucky escape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh no that's a shame pal I was rooting for you aswell
Even got you the stars n stripes shorts
Luv to have a fuck off with one of those bbc guys
Supposed to be all that........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry it didn't work out for you mate. It's no reflection on you though so try not to let it get you down. Keep looking, keep being a genuine nice guy and it'll work out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck that bitch Atlas bro! You dodged a bullet, she's probably got a fanny like a punched lasagne.
Crack on and enjoy yourself. I'm eating my dinner feeling sorry for you. Which should not be the case sunshine!!!!!
Onwards we go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thoughts are with you bro
Today I've have one lady change her mind and politely say no....
A lady I met a week and a half ago completely ghost me....
A couple I met 6 months ago arrange a meet to not turn up.
All in a day on fab
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck that bitch Atlas bro! You dodged a bullet, she's probably got a fanny like a punched lasagne.
Crack on and enjoy yourself. I'm eating my dinner feeling sorry for you. Which should not be the case sunshine!!!!!
Onwards we go "
This
Just hope you Didn't have lasagne |
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