why is it when you get on really well with someone and things seem to be going great, like met for sex 4 times, and lots of messages, enjoying each others company etc do they feel the need to disappear. sure you might have made a mistake but when you try to apologise in messages and they havent even read them, then avoid seeing you. I'm not a bad judge of character and i felt he was feeling the same, seeing me as dangerous was because he was feeling the same too. guess it wasnt meant to be after all  |
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"why is it when you get on really well with someone and things seem to be going great, like met for sex 4 times, and lots of messages, enjoying each others company etc do they feel the need to disappear. sure you might have made a mistake but when you try to apologise in messages and they havent even read them, then avoid seeing you. I'm not a bad judge of character and i felt he was feeling the same, seeing me as dangerous was because he was feeling the same too. guess it wasnt meant to be after all "
Maybe he is / was scared of the feelings he was gaining towards you and doesnt know what to do woth them? Yeah its wrong to ignore you totally i understand that part x |
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"why is it when you get on really well with someone and things seem to be going great, like met for sex 4 times, and lots of messages, enjoying each others company etc do they feel the need to disappear. sure you might have made a mistake but when you try to apologise in messages and they havent even read them, then avoid seeing you. I'm not a bad judge of character and i felt he was feeling the same, seeing me as dangerous was because he was feeling the same too. guess it wasnt meant to be after all "
Bless you ... But the last eight words of your paragraph give your answer x |
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There could be one hundred good reasons his interest in you has cooled. Only, if he hasn't got a big enough pair of balls to explain himself after meeting you four times.. Are any of those reasons really worth worrying about? Fuck him! Fuck him right off! Nobody deserves to be ghosted without reason after a physical relationship has started, terrible manners  For exactly this reason, creates doubt, uncertainty, knocks your confidence, makes you feel generally shitty.
As someone said (sorry I forgot who). There are plenty of decent people on here, just pick another one   |
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