Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. |
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"I think a lot of people who insult body size don't realise they're doing it in a desperate attempt to win favour with their current audience. It's quite amusing to watch  "
Sometimes, but there's been a big uptick in fat shaming on the forum recently and it's awful. (along with the inevitable meat dogs bones/ stick insects comments. Yuck)
Insulting other women will never turn me on. |
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"I think a lot of people who insult body size don't realise they're doing it in a desperate attempt to win favour with their current audience. It's quite amusing to watch
Sometimes, but there's been a big uptick in fat shaming on the forum recently and it's awful. (along with the inevitable meat dogs bones/ stick insects comments. Yuck)
Insulting other women will never turn me on. "
The "real woman" comments piss me off the greatest.
I'm not a real woman because I'm short, skinny, small breasted? |
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Bloody well said! There’s enough different shapes sizes looks etc etc for everyone to see something they like the look of , as said above if you don’t like it quietly move along ! |
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Sometimes, but there's been a big uptick in fat shaming on the forum recently and it's awful. (along with the inevitable meat dogs bones/ stick insects comments. Yuck)
Insulting other women will never turn me on.
The "real woman" comments piss me off the greatest.
I'm not a real woman because I'm short, skinny, small breasted? "
I get where it started from when it started. Bigger women claiming their place, wanting to be seen as legitimate too. But it's a bad tactic and goes way too far. |
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It's shocking how bad it's got lately and it's playground shit the people insulting need to grow the fuck up.
Doesn't matter the size of a woman or shape be it slim with alight curves or androgynous or curvy or large we are all woman we have women's insides and out no matter the size sadly sizes will never be accepted by some assholes in the world |
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We are all made differently hence the individual genetic make up. Attraction is personal and should be kept that way. People that comment in a negative way are cruel and don't understand the mental consequence of it |
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"It's shocking how bad it's got lately and it's playground shit the people insulting need to grow the fuck up.
Doesn't matter the size of a woman or shape be it slim with alight curves or androgynous or curvy or large we are all woman we have women's insides and out no matter the size sadly sizes will never be accepted by some assholes in the world"
The good news is, they reduce our pool slightly. Because they go on the block list (at least for me). |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
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"It's shocking how bad it's got lately and it's playground shit the people insulting need to grow the fuck up.
Doesn't matter the size of a woman or shape be it slim with alight curves or androgynous or curvy or large we are all woman we have women's insides and out no matter the size sadly sizes will never be accepted by some assholes in the world
The good news is, they reduce our pool slightly. Because they go on the block list (at least for me). "
Oh for me also no time for those people |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
Well said, it doesn’t make me look at you in a better light if you insult other women to get to me. Or insult me to get to someone else x |
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"I think a lot of people who insult body size don't realise they're doing it in a desperate attempt to win favour with their current audience. It's quite amusing to watch
Sometimes, but there's been a big uptick in fat shaming on the forum recently and it's awful. (along with the inevitable meat dogs bones/ stick insects comments. Yuck)
Insulting other women will never turn me on.
The "real woman" comments piss me off the greatest.
I'm not a real woman because I'm short, skinny, small breasted? "
I love not being a real woman! But to change this we all need to takes responsibility for ourselves and just stop commenting on any thread regarding any body shape appreciation or depreciation then lack of responses will clearly show our true feelings! I did a month ago as it's got so very tiresome ... |
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As a man I've never considered myself as anything special at either end of the attractive spectrum. Not had anything personally been aimed at me but I have felt put down by a few comments in general towards certain features and body types.
However regardless of all that I am finding much more confidence and self worth in myself seeing the positive comments to all body types and (men and women) and some of the compliments I have received on here and in person, especially from a certain somebody. |
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I really detest all the “this v that” type of threads, different people like different people, we can’t all be the same and wouldn’t it be boring if we were, just please don’t put others down while stating your own preferences, it is as simple as that  |
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"I think a lot of people who insult body size don't realise they're doing it in a desperate attempt to win favour with their current audience. It's quite amusing to watch "
In a nutshell!
People get confused easily though when they are trying to get a fuck. There is a world of difference between "I'm not fussy" and "I want a connection beyond the physical". This then leads the desperate to stomp around expressing their preference in a highly offensive manner, hoping the ones that weren't offended will swoon with open legs.
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
No one such be having a go or body shaming... If not for them, fine move along |
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Some people just say it without even realising. I’m a big lady. A guy who I’ve known for over 20 years in vanilla world was talking to a friend and me. He was describing another lady to my girl friend, he said “ you know her, she’s a big girl.” Never even crossed his mind, I’m one too. I know he is body conscious though in other ways, it’s often to do with the self worth of the person doing the describing. Also, not realising that it could be hurtful.
For once, I spoke to my girl friend after about it. Next time he uses that terminology I’m going to pull him up on it. |
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I've lost count of the number of times I've been told I should eat more, asked if I don't eat, told it's not healthy to be thin or simply, as an opening message, someone will say 'Do you know, you're really skinny'. |
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"Try being a big white guy.... The amount of hate and abuse you get is a daily thing...
It's like fabs not meant for us."
Fab is for everyone and I just wish people would remember that 
I have been on the scene since 2008 and it never felt like this then, I used to go to house parties with old, young, large and small and everyone just got along, you didn’t have to be a certain size or height you just had to be you, halcyon days for sure
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I think there would be far fewer body shaming threads if people simply didn't respond. Most of them are started on order to cause a stir, the op then sits back grinning (that's what I imagine anyway). They'd pretty soon have the grin wiped off their face if the thread just sat unanswered.
It is also true that some people take offence where none is intended and what starts as a straightforward question is side tracked by people who have misunderstood. |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
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"I think a lot of people who insult body size don't realise they're doing it in a desperate attempt to win favour with their current audience. It's quite amusing to watch
Sometimes, but there's been a big uptick in fat shaming on the forum recently and it's awful. (along with the inevitable meat dogs bones/ stick insects comments. Yuck)
Insulting other women will never turn me on.
The "real woman" comments piss me off the greatest.
I'm not a real woman because I'm short, skinny, small breasted?
I love not being a real woman! But to change this we all need to takes responsibility for ourselves and just stop commenting on any thread regarding any body shape appreciation or depreciation then lack of responses will clearly show our true feelings! I did a month ago as it's got so very tiresome ..."
It is tiresome isn't it. |
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"I may get alot of stick for this but feel i have to get it out in the open. It may be shallow and very picky but i like women i meet to have a... pussy. Shame on me i know"
That's not fair, I only have a bird, my pussy is buried in the back garden since he died in 2010  |
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"I may get alot of stick for this but feel i have to get it out in the open. It may be shallow and very picky but i like women i meet to have a... pussy. Shame on me i know
That's not fair, I only have a bird, my pussy is buried in the back garden since he died in 2010 "
Yeah birds are great aslong as its not a cockatoo |
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"I think there would be far fewer body shaming threads if people simply didn't respond. Most of them are started on order to cause a stir, the op then sits back "
wanking
"(that's what I imagine anyway). They'd pretty soon have the grin wiped off their face if the thread just sat unanswered.
It is also true that some people take offence where none is intended and what starts as a straightforward question is side tracked by people who have misunderstood. "
I hope you don't mind the alteration...  |
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"I think there would be far fewer body shaming threads if people simply didn't respond. Most of them are started on order to cause a stir, the op then sits back wanking(that's what I imagine anyway). They'd pretty soon have the grin wiped off their face if the thread just sat unanswered.
It is also true that some people take offence where none is intended and what starts as a straightforward question is side tracked by people who have misunderstood.
I hope you don't mind the alteration... "
Well I try not to imagine that |
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But what about the beautiful people on love island and the other banal shite that gets forced into people's psyche?
There's more emphasis on looks and weight than ever before. Personally, I find skinny bums don't make the right sound when firmly spanked! There's just no getting round it! |
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"But what about the beautiful people on love island and the other banal shite that gets forced into people's psyche?
There's more emphasis on looks and weight than ever before. Personally, I find skinny bums don't make the right sound when firmly spanked! There's just no getting round it!"
I think there's negative media influence all around us, for sure, and it's hard to stay positive when you don't match up to extreme expectations.
But I think people should be the best they can be, make the most of how they are, and not shit on each other's bodies (metaphorically, if that's your kink you do you) |
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"But what about the beautiful people on love island and the other banal shite that gets forced into people's psyche?
There's more emphasis on looks and weight than ever before. Personally, I find skinny bums don't make the right sound when firmly spanked! There's just no getting round it!
I think there's negative media influence all around us, for sure, and it's hard to stay positive when you don't match up to extreme expectations.
But I think people should be the best they can be, make the most of how they are, and not shit on each other's bodies (metaphorically, if that's your kink you do you) "
Absolutely, it's gotten easier with age for me to absolutely not give a fuck what people think. As long as my soulmate still looks at me with that cheeky twinkle full of lust, I'm happy.
The strength to be true to who you are is under appreciated when it comes to attractive qualities. |
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"Try being a big white guy.... The amount of hate and abuse you get is a daily thing...
It's like fabs not meant for us."
Many many white men are having a whale of a time on Fab.
It's not the colour of your skin that is holding you back.
I've met more white men from here than black or Asian.
Look at some of the profiles of the white men who use the forums, and you'll see them doing very well. |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
I couldn't have put it better myself! I receive lots of compliments, but I've also been told i have the body of a man and told i need to check my birth certificate and list myself as the correct gender. This site is about finding people you want to meet and is meant to be fun. I never understand why people would want to message someone to be unkind. It's such a waste of energy.
The same goes for people who message to criticise a status or profile. It says more about them than who they're messaging.
We're all beautiful in different ways. |
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I believe that some of the comments about fat women, by men, stems from their own ego and arrogance. They think that because they feel they are too good to fuck fat women, that fat women shouldn't be fucking any one they think is too good for them.
Why they feel the need to put their thoughts on the forums is another matter. |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do.
I couldn't have put it better myself! I receive lots of compliments, but I've also been told i have the body of a man and told i need to check my birth certificate and list myself as the correct gender. This site is about finding people you want to meet and is meant to be fun. I never understand why people would want to message someone to be unkind. It's such a waste of energy.
The same goes for people who message to criticise a status or profile. It says more about them than who they're messaging.
We're all beautiful in different ways."
Hope you laughed it off. People say things out of jealousy alot. Your honestly a cracker. |
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"I believe that some of the comments about fat women, by men, stems from their own ego and arrogance. They think that because they feel they are too good to fuck fat women, that fat women shouldn't be fucking any one they think is too good for them.
Why they feel the need to put their thoughts on the forums is another matter."
Or they think they're stooping so they'll be guaranteed a fuck from the fat chick, and are doubly upset when their approach/ obvious ploy is rebuffed.
We're all people and we all have worth and standards. |
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"I think there would be far fewer body shaming threads if people simply didn't respond. Most of them are started on order to cause a stir, the op then sits back grinning (that's what I imagine anyway). They'd pretty soon have the grin wiped off their face if the thread just sat unanswered.
It is also true that some people take offence where none is intended and what starts as a straightforward question is side tracked by people who have misunderstood. "
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"I may get alot of stick for this but feel i have to get it out in the open. It may be shallow and very picky but i like women i meet to have a... pussy. Shame on me i know
That's not fair, I only have a bird, my pussy is buried in the back garden since he died in 2010
Yeah birds are great aslong as its not a cockatoo "
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
Hear hear! |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
Well said I could never go out or sleep with man who would shame other woman’s body and there is too much of this happening everywhere. Too many disseases start from this and too many psyhological problems and bullying in the world.  |
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The term "body shaming" is far too often used as an accusatory defence by those who really need to address their obesity. Sensitivity on the subject can be hard to achieve sometimes, but the subject shouldn't be avoided, or turned into personal attacks. |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
100% hit the nail on the head there , we are all different with different attractions, I really don’t understand why anyone feels the need to belittle anyone else, just be polite with your rejections there’s no need to be negative. |
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"I may get alot of stick for this but feel i have to get it out in the open. It may be shallow and very picky but i like women i meet to have a... pussy. Shame on me i know
That's not fair, I only have a bird, my pussy is buried in the back garden since he died in 2010
Yeah birds are great aslong as its not a cockatoo
I rather like a cockatoo "
Cheeky to much for me to handle |
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"I believe that some of the comments about fat women, by men, stems from their own ego and arrogance. They think that because they feel they are too good to fuck fat women, that fat women shouldn't be fucking any one they think is too good for them.
Why they feel the need to put their thoughts on the forums is another matter.
Or they think they're stooping so they'll be guaranteed a fuck from the fat chick, and are doubly upset when their approach/ obvious ploy is rebuffed.
We're all people and we all have worth and standards. "
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do.
I couldn't have put it better myself! I receive lots of compliments, but I've also been told i have the body of a man and told i need to check my birth certificate and list myself as the correct gender. This site is about finding people you want to meet and is meant to be fun. I never understand why people would want to message someone to be unkind. It's such a waste of energy.
The same goes for people who message to criticise a status or profile. It says more about them than who they're messaging.
We're all beautiful in different ways.
Hope you laughed it off. People say things out of jealousy alot. Your honestly a cracker. "
I have let it get to me vefore, in part because i would describe myself as feminine in how i dress and i do worry i look like a man i drag, but hey some people like that look! The majority of the messages i receive are from straight men so hopefully not all of those messaging are desperate or think they're more likely to get a meet because they're punching below
their weight with me.
I joined fab for the right reasons so whilst it isn't the best place for self critical people i won't be leaving.
Thanks for the kind words.
To be honest i see people of all sorts of sizes doing well here and women can be just as nasty to men as men are to women. |
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"I may get alot of stick for this but feel i have to get it out in the open. It may be shallow and very picky but i like women i meet to have a... pussy. Shame on me i know
That's not fair, I only have a bird, my pussy is buried in the back garden since he died in 2010
Yeah birds are great aslong as its not a cockatoo
I rather like a cockatoo
Cheeky to much for me to handle"
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"The term "body shaming" is far too often used as an accusatory defence by those who really need to address their obesity. Sensitivity on the subject can be hard to achieve sometimes, but the subject shouldn't be avoided, or turned into personal attacks. "
This isn't the place for that sort of discussion, though. That's for real life near and dear/ medical practitioners.
The thing I've found most helpful in losing weight (in progress) is loving myself and not giving a fuck about what other people think. The crap that goes on here is part of a wider cultural pattern that does the opposite. |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
Well said!
Things some people say is shocking sometimes. |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
Totally agree with this |
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A positive thread for a change on all different bodies, this may be shocking to the certain men that post but we are all real women regardless of shape, colour, eyes, hair etc.
Same goes for the guys that have felt shit through some threads that have been posted.
As long as you have confidence in yourself that is all that matters |
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"Some people find bigger people sexy. Some people find smaller people sexy. Breasts, cocks, waist size, feet, and more. Everyone deserves to look for what they're looking for without being insulted for being who they are.
Do you know what's really unattractive? Having a go at people for their bodies. Don't like them? Move on and find someone you do. "
I couldn't agree more. I'm sick of seeing the body shaming posts whether it be about women being overweight or underweight. If people have nothing nice to say, don't say anything x |
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