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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so I only ever sleep in the same bed as my husband, no-one else but lately I wake up really disoriented and not know who I am in bed with (even though it is only my husband) it has been happening every night I am home and not on my night shift. It can be quite scary not knowing, I can just be lay there nervous to move, some times I have asked them when they are going home or made conversation and my husband wakes up not knowing what the hell I am talking about or who I am talking to.
This is only a recent thing.
Any other swingers get this? I imagine I am not the only one as we do share our beds with a few people! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The other thing I have done is got my phone and shined the light in my husband's face to see who it was. He wakes up really pissed off. I can laugh now when I think about it as it sounds crazy but like I said it can be scary and unnerving to, waking up naked and not knowing who next to (obvs it's my husband but I don't know that) |
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By *intteaMan
over a year ago
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It does sound scary! I’ve spent the night with a few people over the years including regular hot wives and never suffered from it. I go further to say I really enjoy a fumble in the middle of the night when it is pitch black and you can see each other |
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Not quite that, but something similar-ish.
Thankfully not had it for awhile either!
I wake up..and realise that it's part of my dream. And then I wake up. And then realise it's part of my dream. Etc etc. 8 or 9 layers, each time very vivid and life like, and it's only tiny things that make me realise that it's a dream - the coffee is on the wrong shelf or I'm drinking from something that isn't my usual mug.
So when I do actually wake up, I don't think I realise have, and so am very disoriented, and so spend hours looking for the tiny things to show I'm still asleep.
My assumption is that for both of us that there is something on our minds that we're trying to process. It's not anxiety necessarily - I have a different dream for that! - but can't figure what triggers it.
I can only say that it passes and doing some simple breathing exercises the moment you wake will help.
Hmm xx ( now everyone knows I'm a nutter rather than having previously just thought it!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have this dream but I never thought of it as a dream when in the dream. If that makes sense.
That there was someone climbing on the bed the weight would pin to the bed and the bed clothes would be pulled down it scared the crap of me for years.
And still on some nights I wake up thinking someone else is in the room. |
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