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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly, are you 100% sure it's a woman?.
If yes, there are many reasons why women do this.
chalk it up to experience and either learn from it, or accept it happens.
Men do it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably for the same reasons mermen do.
Bloody mermen. Giving us normal men a bad name"
It's because they can't tuck their dicks away, cocky bastards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this? "
If you’re feeling passionate enough to post “we were getting on great” and then report on a forum - I’d hazard a guess that you were too full on. |
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
If you’re feeling passionate enough to post “we were getting on great” and then report on a forum - I’d hazard a guess that you were too full on."
No not all it just annoyed me!she was as full on or more with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this? "
Sorry to hear that. It's confusing and upsetting but not necessarily because of anything you did.It could be one of any number of reasons why she didn't want to continue the communication. The important thing is that she didn't feel it was worth telling you directly. That's maybe not the kind of person you want to be involved with anyway.
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this? "
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
If you’re feeling passionate enough to post “we were getting on great” and then report on a forum - I’d hazard a guess that you were too full on. No not all it just annoyed me!she was as full on or more with me"
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If you're going to try to meet people online you have to be strong enough not to get upset when they stop messaging you. It happens to everyone (and everyone has probably done it to someone else at some point).
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"If you're going to try to meet people online you have to be strong enough not to get upset when they stop messaging you. It happens to everyone (and everyone has probably done it to someone else at some point). Yeah it's happen to me a few times
I'm strong and not upset just annoyed
If there had been a reason I could understand
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're going to try to meet people online you have to be strong enough not to get upset when they stop messaging you. It happens to everyone (and everyone has probably done it to someone else at some point). Yeah it's happen to me a few times
I'm strong and not upset just annoyed
If there had been a reason I could understand
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There was a reason. You’re just unaware of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're going to try to meet people online you have to be strong enough not to get upset when they stop messaging you. It happens to everyone (and everyone has probably done it to someone else at some point). Yeah it's happen to me a few times
I'm strong and not upset just annoyed
If there had been a reason I could understand
There was a reason. You’re just unaware of it. "
Snap I wrote the exact same thing  |
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"If you're going to try to meet people online you have to be strong enough not to get upset when they stop messaging you. It happens to everyone (and everyone has probably done it to someone else at some point). Yeah it's happen to me a few times
I'm strong and not upset just annoyed
If there had been a reason I could understand
There was a reason. You’re just unaware of it.
Snap I wrote the exact same thing "
Well image search has revealed her boob pics were fake...
But not her face pic!
Even more confused |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block. "
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP"
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool. |
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool. "
I wasn't abusive or nasty I can assure you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool. "
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest? |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool. I wasn't abusive or nasty I can assure you "
Well you would say that and probably think you weren't but from her point of view you may well have been so she blocked you for it. |
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?"
So quick to judge
I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?
So quick to judge
I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it "
Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.
I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.
The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.
Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future. |
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?
So quick to judge
I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it
Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.
I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.
The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.
Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future. "
Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid
You don't even know me so don't judge me |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?
So quick to judge
I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it
Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.
I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.
The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.
Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.
Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid
You don't even know me so don't judge me "
I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say. |
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?
So quick to judge
I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it
Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.
I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.
The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.
Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.
Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid
You don't even know me so don't judge me
I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say. "
You really couldn't be more wrong!
I have said nothing to you or anyone
I appreciate the opinions
Shouldn't have posted it just wanted to rant as you need to sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure it was ghosted though. Wasnt it just stopped chatting.
Same thing no? "
Dont you have to have met a few times and then been blanked. Stopping messaging on here is just, well, stopping messaging. Labels everywhere |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?
So quick to judge
I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it
Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.
I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.
The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.
Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.
Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid
You don't even know me so don't judge me
I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say.
You really couldn't be more wrong!
I have said nothing to you or anyone
I appreciate the opinions
Shouldn't have posted it just wanted to rant as you need to sometimes "
Im not wrong though at all its clear by your responses you don't take criticism you are assuming its all her but there is always a trigger for someone blocking someone. I note you didn't address the last three issues in the "boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest" maybe it was one or all of those that made her block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this? "
they seen through your lies?  |
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One of a possible hundred and twenty three reasons. You'll most likely never know.
If we're doing a sweepstake though I'll take 'she's only in it for the fantasy and it was getting too close to being real'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What we don't get is you look at a profile one you've not looked at before and they've not looked at ours. But it says you've been blocked by this person how's that work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably for the same reasons mermen do.
Bloody mermen. Giving us normal men a bad name
It's because they can't tuck their dicks away, cocky bastards. "
Jason Momoa with it tucked away! What a fantasy killer that image is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What we don't get is you look at a profile one you've not looked at before and they've not looked at ours. But it says you've been blocked by this person how's that work "
You wouldn't know if they've looked at you cos they won't show on your list if they block you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?
So quick to judge
I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it
Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.
I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.
The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.
Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.
Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid
You don't even know me so don't judge me
I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say. "
Good grief he's not getting arsey! He's just telling his side of the story. Don't infer he's some kind of weirdo. Wtf?!
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This happens to me when I first joined the site, was chatting with and getting on great with a charming female member, her last message being,
“ her husband will be back from some time away soon “.
next thing I know I’m blocked, so as previously posted chalk it up to experience, fabs is a big wide world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this? "
Many people are childish and don't have the social skills to say they don't want to chat or meet so just block. See it as a lucky escape. 
It does sound like it could have been a man wanking but you never know. |
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.
I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP
Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.
Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.
If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?
So quick to judge
I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it
Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.
I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.
The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.
Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.
Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid
You don't even know me so don't judge me
I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say.
Good grief he's not getting arsey! He's just telling his side of the story. Don't infer he's some kind of weirdo. Wtf?!
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this? "
If this is your reaction after two days, you were probably overbearing.
You have to realise no one is obliged to continue conversation with you, and if you're going to get upset at every knockback you'll be unhappy.
It's fun. She didn't promise you a kidney then renege on the deal...chill! |
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
Many people are childish and don't have the social skills to say they don't want to chat or meet so just block. See it as a lucky escape.
It does sound like it could have been a man wanking but you never know. "
Going by previous threads, when women say no thanks/change their mind they go from beautiful to fat slag in a nanosecond, so I can understand those that decide to take the easy option and block. |
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"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.
All of a sudden been blocked!
Wtf were getting on great
Why do women do this?
I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block. "
Had this conversation earlier..... a couple of days of great conversation and ONE wrong line.... BOOM! end of conversation. We just don’t always see that ONE offending sentence coming and when it does you guys undo all the good you started off.... |
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My phone is on a roll with it's autocorrect today! 