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Worst way you’ve been dumped?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mid way thru a cup final inches from the line going in to score some big meat head picked me up dropped me on my back i spilled the ball some kid picked up the ball raced 95 meters to score sad day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was ghosted too! We were in a long distance relationship he was in the Army, just got back from
An amazing skiing holiday and with him moving in then he suddenly went cold on me. After a few weeks he got back in touch and we started again only to do it again.
Totally broken hearted I was!
I look back now and think thank fook he did that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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he never actually dumped me. but I spotted a wedding announcement in the local paper (complete with pic of the happy couple)
he had the nerve to tell me we could still see each other when I told him I knew.
lucky escape though, last I heard he was in prison |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My girlfriend told me she was going to London to see some family but it turned out she flew to Italy to see a bloke she had met on holiday a couple of years earlier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got dumped for another ginger, a newer model, same shade of ginger too. Still hurts now. "
I’m ginger you can have me! Let’s go whale watching (dead one) together xx |
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"Ghosted, when they just vanish of the face of the earth....
Least have some balls and say you don't want to see me anymore! "
I feel your pain... the worst way ever to be dumped... totally destroyed e x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got dumped for another ginger, a newer model, same shade of ginger too. Still hurts now.
I’m ginger you can have me! Let’s go whale watching (dead one) together xx"
Okay, hop on the back of my mobility scooter, we won’t get anyone moaning at us then!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because my supposed best friend lied to her because he was jealous and turned her against me. She just refused to speak to me again and rumours were spread about me. Broke my heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By carrier pigeon.
Is that the Columba livia domestic? Or the Ectopistes migratorius species? Please elaborate Mr. Tame"
Blackburn Airbourne Division, squadron leader. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By carrier pigeon.
Is that the Columba livia domestic? Or the Ectopistes migratorius species? Please elaborate Mr. Tame
Blackburn Airbourne Division, squadron leader. "
Don't mention that word ever again (spits on the floor) bastards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was 6 months pregnant with our youngest, my cousin told me my ex was going around hand in hand with this woman, telling every one this was his new girlfriend and we'd broken up.
Hmmm thing is, I thought he was working away. Once confronted, he told me she's his childhood sweetheart who's moved back into town. He realises he's still in love with her so he's leaving me and our kids to be with her.
His parting words were "You and the kids will be better off without me". How correct he was/is! That was 16 years ago and we've never seen him since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She baked me a cake with the words ‘Your Dumped!’ In icing on top. When I told her it’s spelt ‘you’re’ not ‘your’ she said I’m so glad I’m leaving you. Still every cloud, I got a lovely Victoria Sponge out of it! |
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"I was ghosted,and felt like a total idiot when the penny dropped, as I had been worried something bad had happened to him. "
Oh man, you've just reminded me, similar thing happened to me years ago.
He went from ringing every day professing his undying love to disappearing off the face of the earth.
He was a terrible driver (had ended up upside down in a field of cows once at 3am) so I was really worried.
Then after a few weeks I got a text saying "no further contact please"!!
What a twat! Can laugh about it now but at the time I was gutted.
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"She baked me a cake with the words ‘Your Dumped!’ In icing on top. When I told her it’s spelt ‘you’re’ not ‘your’ she said I’m so glad I’m leaving you. Still every cloud, I got a lovely Victoria Sponge out of it! "
You must have been devastated. Any chance she roll you out of moving car with that cake i. hand? Because that’s what happened to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been dumped. Only 3 serious relationships. First one she moved back to Scotland. Second one she moved back to Poland. Third one was mutual... |
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"Being on a date and them not returning. I can laugh about it now!"
Ops that could have been me.... my worst date ever...
He turned up d*unk, kept talking to my boobs... when he went to the bar I called a friend and she advised me to run.... so I did... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She baked me a cake with the words ‘Your Dumped!’ In icing on top. When I told her it’s spelt ‘you’re’ not ‘your’ she said I’m so glad I’m leaving you. Still every cloud, I got a lovely Victoria Sponge out of it! "
 sorry, but that has made me chuckle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Telling me he had lost his mojo due to erectile dysfunction from a bad back, whilst fucking his way through half the forum ladies with a new profile, and neglecting to tell me, or them, for that matter!"
 wow, that is bad form..!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being dumped, but I found out partner of 2 years had never actually been in the army and it was something he had made up to feel important. He was so convincing with incredibly detailed stories and anecdotes. As he was genuinely a lovely, kind and caring bloke with no other signs of odd behaviour I gave it another year but could never get the trust back. So I did the dumping. I actually really miss him as he was spectacular in bed and made me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I finished a 12 hour shift and waited as usual for him to collect me. 2 hours later I couldnt get hold of him so decided to walk home (there were no buses & i had no money for a taxi - it took just over an hour)
When i got home all his stuff was gone. I havent seen him since.
I was 20 weeks pregnant at the time. There was no warning, no signs. He just up & left quietly.
My son is 14 now and never met him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I finished a 12 hour shift and waited as usual for him to collect me. 2 hours later I couldnt get hold of him so decided to walk home (there were no buses & i had no money for a taxi - it took just over an hour)
When i got home all his stuff was gone. I havent seen him since.
I was 20 weeks pregnant at the time. There was no warning, no signs. He just up & left quietly.
My son is 14 now and never met him.
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Bloody hell. Better off without a person like that. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went up to visit for a long weekend, prebooked trains. Arrived and 2 days in said it wasn't working.
I mean I agreed but having to spend 2 more days in the house or pay £90 for a new train was a tough choice...
Ended up being good mates with her mum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went out with a farmers daughter and she ploughed ‘I’m seeing someone else!’ in a field, as I passed over in a plane coming back from Mexico, that was hard to take, I cried into my sombrero. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't dump, I let them go.
As for me it normally a txt messages or she sends one of her friends over or it's the old "I don't have those feelings for you anymore""
How many times have you been dumped for there to even be a "normally" let alone options in that catagory!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not had much luck relationship wise. My Ex dumped me by text after doing the 'fade away' for 2 months prior. The girlfriend before that I found out from her little sister's best friend that she was cheating on me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"my ex husband bought me a huge bouquet of flowers for valentines day then fucked off the day after. I split up with another ex on valentines day as well"
On the news yesterday , they said it was this week more couples split than any other. Not a nice time for it to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Telling me he had lost his mojo due to erectile dysfunction from a bad back, whilst fucking his way through half the forum ladies with a new profile, and neglecting to tell me, or them, for that matter!"
That’s a horrid way for someone to behave. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Asked my partner not to raise her voice at my daughter, she then walked out and I got a message from her saying she will collect all of her things at a later date. All this 2 days before NYE"
Sounds like a lucky escape if she behaved like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was living in a b&b with my baby son on my 19th birthday, the lady who ran the b&b gave me a pile of cards, there was also a letter in the pile. Opened the birthday cards, one being from my then boyfriend saying how much he loved me, opened the letter & it was also from him saying we're over, crying I went to my room heartbroken. He turned up half an hour later to take me out for the day not realising his letter had mistakenly arrived a day early, he'd sent it second class post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first love at 18. Walked into a pub with my mate to find him in a passionate embrace with a MILF. To be fair he did go on the marry her and they are still together but he tells everyone he can't stand her |
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"I finished a 12 hour shift and waited as usual for him to collect me. 2 hours later I couldnt get hold of him so decided to walk home (there were no buses & i had no money for a taxi - it took just over an hour)
When i got home all his stuff was gone. I havent seen him since.
I was 20 weeks pregnant at the time. There was no warning, no signs. He just up & left quietly.
My son is 14 now and never met him.
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Good grief that's criminal!  |
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"I was living in a b&b with my baby son on my 19th birthday, the lady who ran the b&b gave me a pile of cards, there was also a letter in the pile. Opened the birthday cards, one being from my then boyfriend saying how much he loved me, opened the letter & it was also from him saying we're over, crying I went to my room heartbroken. He turned up half an hour later to take me out for the day not realising his letter had mistakenly arrived a day early, he'd sent it second class post."
Wow that’s cold! And what a doofus for turning up. |
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I'd been engaged in my teens, we split up, it wasn't a bad ending. He was being posted to Germany, I didn't/couldn't go with him.
We agreed to end it.
We stayed in contact a while then it just drifted to a complete end
A decade later, the power of Facebook, mutual friends, he contacted me.
I guess I still remembered him how he had been, how we had been & felt maybe now the time was right.
I saw him every week for 6mths, visited his family, his mum was overjoyed to see me again.
Then Christmas he was going home to see family.
I sent several messages, no answer.
After a few days I called, I was worried, no answer.
I called his mum, she was very odd with me, I knew something wasn't right, all she would say was he'd gone on holiday with a friend.
A few days later he posted his holiday pics on Facebook.
Complete with happy smiling girlfriend in them.
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By *cott73Man
over a year ago
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"I'd been engaged in my teens, we split up, it wasn't a bad ending. He was being posted to Germany, I didn't/couldn't go with him.
We agreed to end it.
We stayed in contact a while then it just drifted to a complete end
A decade later, the power of Facebook, mutual friends, he contacted me.
I guess I still remembered him how he had been, how we had been & felt maybe now the time was right.
I saw him every week for 6mths, visited his family, his mum was overjoyed to see me again.
Then Christmas he was going home to see family.
I sent several messages, no answer.
After a few days I called, I was worried, no answer.
I called his mum, she was very odd with me, I knew something wasn't right, all she would say was he'd gone on holiday with a friend.
A few days later he posted his holiday pics on Facebook.
Complete with happy smiling girlfriend in them.
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And I thought being binned off over the phone after 5 years was bad! |
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I don't want to go into details but my ex wife nearly broke me and destroyed my world in a most cruel way. It was the lowest, loneliest place I've ever been in my life (and I've had some dark times). A place I hope never to be again. But the sun always rises again. I am a different person from what I was. I understand the world differently, I know myself more than ever before and I know how strong I am despite also being a sensitive soul. I am if I'm honest proud of the man I am. And through it all (and because of FAB) I have found my best freind, my lover and my soul mate. If it wasn't for my ex wife and what she did to me I would not be the man I am now or have found the amazing woman I'm with. Life is sometimes a battle, it leaves scars (external and internal) and pain. But I wear them as battle honours, they tell my story and remind me where I've come from. I am damaged and sometimes the past causes me pain still but that pain is evidence of a life lived. No one in this life is ment to be kept in perfect boxed condition. I dont like pain but neither do I fear it. I know that without fail the sun will always rise eventually. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"I don't dump, I let them go.
As for me it normally a txt messages or she sends one of her friends over or it's the old "I don't have those feelings for you anymore"
How many times have you been dumped for there to even be a "normally" let alone options in that catagory!?"
A few times, Its always one of them. |
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Being sent a big long emotional break up message on Facebook from the only girl I've ever truly fallen in love with who was working abroad at the time about how I was an amazing guy but she was struggling with the distance etc, which was hard enough but I kind of understood, only for her Facebook relationship status change literally hours later to being in a relationship with some guy she was working with so it had obviously been going on for a while. It absolutely broke me and I was a wreck for weeks. Even 10 years on it still stings a bit when I think about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Way back when I was a teenager I went to pick a girl up I'd been seeing for a few months got to the door her mother answered looked at me said o she's gone out with her New boyfriend sorry and shut the door  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Same as you OP.
Someone else telling me he was shagging someone else who worked for the same company. Spineless cunt. "
My next door neighbour told me, I’m glad she did though. I agree though, it is spineless. Sorry to hear it happened to you too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being sent a big long emotional break up message on Facebook from the only girl I've ever truly fallen in love with who was working abroad at the time about how I was an amazing guy but she was struggling with the distance etc, which was hard enough but I kind of understood, only for her Facebook relationship status change literally hours later to being in a relationship with some guy she was working with so it had obviously been going on for a while. It absolutely broke me and I was a wreck for weeks. Even 10 years on it still stings a bit when I think about it."
That must have been really difficult to go through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only woman I ever loved said these exact words to me... before she left....
“ You’re the most brilliant man I have ever known and I love you with my heart and soul, but I can’t be with you because you have no soul “
She then proceeded to pack her things and leave....
I commissioned a artist to make a portrait out of those words and I keep it in my office.... |
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Dumped the day after we returned from a 3 week trip to Florida where I had paid for everything. Within a week she was seeing someone new and I now understand she had been seeing him for some time, but took the holiday anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was working away for a week and came home to huge cuddles from my lady, when I went to our room there was a used condom next to our bed, she insisted she had no idea where it had come from.
Months later she told me she had slept with a mutual friend and kept it for me to find.
Bitch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking through my exs work diary to find a day off we could spend together and lots of little post it hearts and notes fell out. I'd not found out I'd have come back to an empty house one day. New house, bank account and everything set up with her new fella. Our daughter was 2 1/2. Asked her to leave. She had to stay with her parents for 5 months until the house she was buying was empty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An email. Completely out of the blue, with no real reasons. Broke my heart that one to be honest. Just wanted to know what I did wrong and never got to know. Oh well... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being sent a big long emotional break up message on Facebook from the only girl I've ever truly fallen in love with who was working abroad at the time about how I was an amazing guy but she was struggling with the distance etc, which was hard enough but I kind of understood, only for her Facebook relationship status change literally hours later to being in a relationship with some guy she was working with so it had obviously been going on for a while. It absolutely broke me and I was a wreck for weeks. Even 10 years on it still stings a bit when I think about it."
Been there mate / still am to an extent. That feeling never really goes away. |
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I've never been dumped...lots of teenage relationships just sort of fizzled out though.
I ended my two previous serious relationships, including a marriage, face to face as nicely as possible.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a friend a few years ago, who’s Sister died in an accident she phoned her boyfriend to tell him, and he said I know it’s not a good time but we arnt working. That was 20 plus years ago and it still shocks me to think how vile that actually was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A girlfriend at uni texted me to split up with me over the summer saying she wanted to work hard the next year. Barely had time to read that when I got another message that was obviously meant for another guy saying 'it's done, want to come over and fuck?'.
I threw out the USB drive she'd left at mine with some of her uni work on  |
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I’ve never been dumped in a bad way. I guess I either knew it was coming or it wasn’t a big deal. I’m still friendly terms with most of my ex’s albeit apart from my husband they were all a very long time ago.
Some horrible stories on this thread though. Some people |
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I only found out I'd be ditched once when I lost my phone and went to message on messenger to say I'd be uncontactable for a little while to see she'd blocked me without warning. Turns out she'd moved on to the next chap and just couldn't be arsed to say she didn't want to see me again. She clearly didn't known me well because if she'd said, I'd of been fine with it, I dont see the point in playing games. Still I was gutted for a little while afterwards over the way it ended |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coming back to a shared house from a Valentines Ball, my boyfriend goes into the house and sleeps with one of the girls I shared with, one of my closest friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was seeing a lady off another site,we seemed to be getting on ok,well she was great fun in bed. She whatsap'd me saying she wanted me to buy her some ear rings she'd seen for £80 ! I messaged back to say that wasn't going to happen,she messaged back to tell me unless I bought her the ear rings she didn't want to see me again. Not seen or heard from her since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She was my first love.. I don't want to talk about it.
First love never dies......
Oh it died alright "
Had been cheating on me with a friend for about a month, I caught them. Why she didn't just break up with me I've no idea. So lost Girlfriend and Mate in one go, which fucked mates group up entirely and I ended up leaving it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was ghosted too! We were in a long distance relationship he was in the Army, just got back from
An amazing skiing holiday and with him moving in then he suddenly went cold on me. After a few weeks he got back in touch and we started again only to do it again.
Totally broken hearted I was!
I look back now and think thank fook he did that! "
i am ex squaddie and yes we can be complete dicks. Hard to hold down a relationship with spending lots of time away, so i used to juggle 2 or 3 women. My mate would juggle 7 which took some doing. You look great so there loss i suppose |
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"She was my first love.. I don't want to talk about it.
First love never dies......"
i know i still get palpitations when i see mine from 29yrs ago...the little heart breaker |
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Absolute worst was when I was 19. The guy (in his 30s) I'd been dating for almost 2 years proposed to his best friend in a crowded pub one night while I was home visiting my family. She accepted. Everyone knew before I did. All our friends and colleagues. I found out a few days later when I returned. I walked in to our local to meet him and she was there with him, wearing a big sparkly engagement ring and all the pub regulars waiting to see him tell me. I was completely floored. One of the most humiliating experiences of my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve never been dumped, I’ve certainly tested my limits lol no angel but never dumped, think I’m too easy going. The saddest time I dumped someone, they locked themselves in my wardrobe singing to me for a good hour. poor lad we were only kids but always stuck with me |
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