Been on here for over 13 years, not been let down once. How do you meet people OP, do you expect them to rock up at yours, you go to theirs, or an hotel room perhaps? Either way if this is happening too often to you, then there seems to be a common denominator  |
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over a year ago
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I chat for as long as is needed for me to decide I want to give my body to a man, and want his.
Quite a lot drop out, for whatever reason, and I see it as we aren't compatible.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting let down for meets after loads of chatting is really really pissing me off
Anyone else suffering?"
go to lots of socials and meet people there! Granted you won't get your end away but others on here seem to think thats success so go for it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I actually meant in time wasting
Or as they say,being lead up the garden path!
I’m genuine and I expect the same
But alas,far too many possible fakes and time wasters! |
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"I chat for as long as is needed for me to decide I want to give my body to a man, and want his.
Quite a lot drop out, for whatever reason, and I see it as we aren't compatible.
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Hey, I can do the chat bit 
It's just ma flimsy body that lets me down, you'll break me like a rag doll  |
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"I actually meant in time wasting
Or as they say,being lead up the garden path!
I’m genuine and I expect the same
But alas,far too many possible fakes and time wasters!"
Yes far to many time wasters on here. We've been talking to a guy for a while was ment to meet up. Last min he cancelled. And this is why we only meet in clubs now x |
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When I 1st started swinging nieve wasn't the word, chatting not a problem meeting not a problem knowing were you live a problem because they felt it was there right to show in the middle of the night. So I would count time wasters as a lucky escape.
Fast forward 10years and I'm more choosy after being shown the ropes from a veteran swinging whom I had some fun meets and I meet him at a social. Which I think is the best way if you aren't into the clubs yet. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Getting let down for meets after loads of chatting is really really pissing me off
Anyone else suffering?"
Your ego will heal
find someone else to Use and abuse, I'm sure a stud like you won't have too much trouble |
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We've stopped meeting due to a recent spate of timewasters/no shows. What they get out of it, other than having a one handed party all lonesome and unloved, is anybody's guess. But while they're wanking their little sausage we're having great sex.
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It's realistic to expect to chat with many, many more people than you will ever meet because of mutual compatibility and availability. Explore far and wide without great expectations nor emotional investment.
People have other lives and relationships that are more important than people they may chat with or even meet here. Date elsewhere if it's not something you can or will adjust to |
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Had chatted with 2 guys dozens of messages
Everything arranged, both prepared mentally
Got dressed up, got drinks and nibbles ready
1 no show and another with a bit of a lame excuse
Can’t understand why (especially when you see what was on the menu) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's re meets I get let down with.
The excuses I've heard over the three years I've been here.
Meet. Arrange the next one. Then they cancel. Then a week later want to apologise, reminisce then expect another meet
Gotta brush it off and move on. X
Clubs are my best meets now. On the night. X |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"Getting let down for meets after loads of chatting is really really pissing me off
Anyone else suffering?"
Was let down twice by the same person (foolish on my part), so blocked her and moved on.
Chin up. There are decent women and couples here. Patience and perseverance  |
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