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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it my fault that someone I chatted to for a while didn’t know that I’m married?
My profile has always said that I am.
I’m being accused of not being upfront because I didn’t say that I was in my messages. Relationship status hadn’t come up so I had not avoided the subject either.
I understand it’s a big no no for a lot of people and respect it’s not for this particular person...but I don’t think I’m to blame either haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women expect men to read profiles but don't always read them themselves. You've been clear in your profile"
Exactly this! Double standards unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't think to say I have a partner as it's in my profile. He is on here and we have a couples profile too. I must admit it is not something I put in messages and wouldn't think to either.
Lesson learnt by the other person to read a profile and not just perve pictures  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry I should have said it’s a couple before everyone assumes it’s a women and goes down the double standards line haha
I was talking to both of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why don’t you discuss it with that person directly ? "
I have discussed it and that’s how I got the blame.
I ended the conversation after that as I didn’t think it was worth an argument |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe she just wanted an excuse not to meet, and thats an easy one.
That might be it ...."
It was a couple sorry I didn’t specify in my original post and they had approached me to meet |
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Nope. Not on you. If they read your profile there's no way they could have missed it. Perhaps they either they didn't read it or they changed their mind but didn't like to say. Whatever the reason, its not down to you misleading anyone. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe she just wanted an excuse not to meet, and thats an easy one.
That might be it ....
It was a couple sorry I didn’t specify in my original post and they had approached me to meet"
This could still apply to a couple. Or maybe one didn't read it until recently and vetoed you. |
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Nope. Not on you. If they read your profile there's no way they could have missed it. Perhaps they either they didn't read it or they changed their mind but didn't like to say. Whatever the reason, its not down to you misleading anyone. |
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"Is it my fault that someone I chatted to for a while didn’t know that I’m married?
My profile has always said that I am.
I’m being accused of not being upfront because I didn’t say that I was in my messages. Relationship status hadn’t come up so I had not avoided the subject either.
I understand it’s a big no no for a lot of people and respect it’s not for this particular person...but I don’t think I’m to blame either haha
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Were you chatting to a man or a woman ? |
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