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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love is just a word. It is the all consuming overwhelming feeling behind it that is intense and wonderful. "
I am in love with your hairy rectum Babs just a comment while passing by |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Love is just a word. It is the all consuming overwhelming feeling behind it that is intense and wonderful.
I am in love with your hairy rectum Babs just a comment while passing by"
It says thank you, you bearded beauty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unconditional
Is all love unconditional?
Only that between parent and child I believe "
I wouldn’t agree with that...... unconditional love can be between any gender, race, of any age and relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.
There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.
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I think that school of thought is cobblers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.
There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.
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Everything felt right, I felt a completeness. All encompassing love. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.
There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.
I think that school of thought is cobblers"
I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.
There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.
I think that school of thought is cobblers"
You went to the wrong school  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.
There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.
I think that school of thought is cobblers
I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.
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Exactly. Through love we can become more complete. |
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"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.
There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.
I think that school of thought is cobblers
I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.
Exactly. Through love we can become more complete."
Yes this, love is the most healing thing in the universe.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Love is a lie. It is a trick played by the cruel on the foolish and the weak."
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I felt complete and happy. It made me whole, and a stronger person. I have never been foolish or weak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.
There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.
I think that school of thought is cobblers
I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.
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you will |
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"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.
There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.
I think that school of thought is cobblers
I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.
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Love is accepting, respecting, supporting, wanting to be with your partner in Crime at every opportunity ,not being judgemental .. taking delight in their company no matter how much innards are missing.. malfunctioning ...just whisper I love you now and again...and get I love you too in return |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or is it just lust?
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Billy Bragg described the difference...
Do you know what love is?
Love is when you willingly
Place someone else's priorities
Above your own
Do you know what lust is?
Lust is when you actively
Force your own priority
On someone else
(Something Happened is a beautiful song, try it) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... is a precursor to heartbreak
Not for everyone "
I think that is very naive. Everyone who has ever loved will have some experience of heartbreak during their life... The only way to escape this is to die before everyone else you have loved. Don't presume that because it hasn't happened yet, it never will! |
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"... is a precursor to heartbreak
Not for everyone
I think that is very naive. Everyone who has ever loved will have some experience of heartbreak during their life... The only way to escape this is to die before everyone else you have loved. Don't presume that because it hasn't happened yet, it never will! "
#bundleoflaughs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... is a precursor to heartbreak
Not for everyone
I think that is very naive. Everyone who has ever loved will have some experience of heartbreak during their life... The only way to escape this is to die before everyone else you have loved. Don't presume that because it hasn't happened yet, it never will!
#bundleoflaughs"
Just being realistic! |
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Love , the special feeling that creates the bond that makes me and my wife realise that we are so much better together than apart . Even one day apart leaves us both a bit lost , and no matter what may happen , good , bad or indifferent , the knowing we have each other makes the good even better , the bad not so bad , and the indifferent good .
We started our relationship in a bubble of lust , and although the lust is still just as strong , the love has developed in such a way that I never imagined was possible .
I’ve done my best to describe it , but I don’t think I’ve even come close doing justice to the love we share with each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... is a precursor to heartbreak
Not for everyone
I think that is very naive. Everyone who has ever loved will have some experience of heartbreak during their life... The only way to escape this is to die before everyone else you have loved. Don't presume that because it hasn't happened yet, it never will! "
The thread was based on life partner love. That is not a precursor to heartbreak. Some people fall out of love, no breaking of hearts. Everybody probably experiences heartbreak at some time, mine was death of pets. So no, I am not naive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... is a precursor to heartbreak
Not for everyone
I think that is very naive. Everyone who has ever loved will have some experience of heartbreak during their life... The only way to escape this is to die before everyone else you have loved. Don't presume that because it hasn't happened yet, it never will!
The thread was based on life partner love. That is not a precursor to heartbreak. Some people fall out of love, no breaking of hearts. Everybody probably experiences heartbreak at some time, mine was death of pets. So no, I am not naive "
Fine! I'll leave you to it then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... is a precursor to heartbreak
Not for everyone
I think that is very naive. Everyone who has ever loved will have some experience of heartbreak during their life... The only way to escape this is to die before everyone else you have loved. Don't presume that because it hasn't happened yet, it never will!
The thread was based on life partner love. That is not a precursor to heartbreak. Some people fall out of love, no breaking of hearts. Everybody probably experiences heartbreak at some time, mine was death of pets. So no, I am not naive
Fine! I'll leave you to it then. "
Just my view, and a response to implication I was naive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love is not to be confused with infatuation
No it's not but many people do and when the 'honeymoon' period is over they wonder what happened when it was never the real deal to begin with."
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Love , the special feeling that creates the bond that makes me and my wife realise that we are so much better together than apart . Even one day apart leaves us both a bit lost , and no matter what may happen , good , bad or indifferent , the knowing we have each other makes the good even better , the bad not so bad , and the indifferent good .
We started our relationship in a bubble of lust , and although the lust is still just as strong , the love has developed in such a way that I never imagined was possible .
I’ve done my best to describe it , but I don’t think I’ve even come close doing justice to the love we share with each other "
I really like 'making the... indifferent good'.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Love is not to be confused with infatuation
No it's not but many people do and when the 'honeymoon' period is over they wonder what happened when it was never the real deal to begin with."
Infatuation may sometimes turn to love. It's the sticking around to get to know each other and keep the honeymoon feeling going, isn't it?
I wonder if we want things to be easier and combined with wanting to protect ourselves we set up barriers to that real intimacy?
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Love is the knot in your stomach when you are apart for a few days, the easy silences, wanting to do things to bring a smile to their face. The absentminded hand stroking a leg while your watching telly.
The nuzzles of the warm creases in his neck that smell uniquely of him, the crinkle of his eyes when he chuckles.
Not being able to imagine them not in your lives, and a physical ache in your heart if you try to. |
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"Love is not to be confused with infatuation
No it's not but many people do and when the 'honeymoon' period is over they wonder what happened when it was never the real deal to begin with.
Infatuation may sometimes turn to love. It's the sticking around to get to know each other and keep the honeymoon feeling going, isn't it?
I wonder if we want things to be easier and combined with wanting to protect ourselves we set up barriers to that real intimacy?
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Yes I think that infatuation can lead to love. After the initial blossom of infatuation the 'garden' needs to be mainained and cared for and then can become a beautiful place to be.
I don't think there is anything wrong in wanting to protect yourself as long as one is open and not closed off to new exciting and wonderful possibilities. |
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"Love is the knot in your stomach when you are apart for a few days, the easy silences, wanting to do things to bring a smile to their face. The absentminded hand stroking a leg while your watching telly.
The nuzzles of the warm creases in his neck that smell uniquely of him, the crinkle of his eyes when he chuckles.
Not being able to imagine them not in your lives, and a physical ache in your heart if you try to."
Most definately, that skunds really great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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... the sweetest thing.
And also the most heartbreaking, gut-wrenching,soul-piercing thing. If you want one, you must be prepared for the other; that's the gamble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe in love, i have been in love and it was the best feeling ever. It's better than hot buttery toast.
But hot buttery toast is there through love and heartbreak.
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Depends how you make it, but true. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"Love , the special feeling that creates the bond that makes me and my wife realise that we are so much better together than apart . Even one day apart leaves us both a bit lost , and no matter what may happen , good , bad or indifferent , the knowing we have each other makes the good even better , the bad not so bad , and the indifferent good .
We started our relationship in a bubble of lust , and although the lust is still just as strong , the love has developed in such a way that I never imagined was possible .
I’ve done my best to describe it , but I don’t think I’ve even come close doing justice to the love we share with each other "
I think that’s one of the loveliest things I’ve read on here. Made me feel warm and fuzzy and it’s nothing to do with me! You’re a lucky pair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... the sweetest thing.
And also the most heartbreaking, gut-wrenching,soul-piercing thing. If you want one, you must be prepared for the other; that's the gamble. "
Can you not just lust after somebody without loving them? |
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"... the sweetest thing.
And also the most heartbreaking, gut-wrenching,soul-piercing thing. If you want one, you must be prepared for the other; that's the gamble.
Can you not just lust after somebody without loving them?"
Yes, i'd say so |
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"I wanna know what love is, i want yous to show me.  "
you can attempt to describe it as others have already done. Love is a personal thing and I think hard to describe. Love has to be felt to truly underderstand it's power. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it just lust?
Billy Bragg described the difference...
Do you know what love is?
Love is when you willingly
Place someone else's priorities
Above your own
Do you know what lust is?
Lust is when you actively
Force your own priority
On someone else
(Something Happened is a beautiful song, try it) "
I love this! Nailed it!
Love for me is putting some else before yourself, and in doing so making yourself happy. It’s an all encompassing feeling and very hard to put into words.
But in the very true words of Miley Cyrus Nothing breaks like a heart  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... the sweetest thing.
And also the most heartbreaking, gut-wrenching,soul-piercing thing. If you want one, you must be prepared for the other; that's the gamble.
Can you not just lust after somebody without loving them?"
Yes; lust is entirely different to love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wanna know what love is, i want yous to show me. you can attempt to describe it as others have already done. Love is a personal thing and I think hard to describe. Love has to be felt to truly underderstand it's power."
I have had the privilege of love and it's absolutely indescribable as i think it maybe different for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think it is about putting someone else first and prioritising their needs above your own. It's about all kinds of things, like trust, attraction, feeling like your best self when they're around, compassion, shared values, mutual respect etc. But I'm not going to always put someone else first and I don't expect someone to always put me first. It should be give and take, not just give. For me it's important that the person I love also loves and respects themselves, so I can trust them to say I'm being a knob if I'm being a knob, or to tell me if my actions and decisions are to their detriment in any way. Healthy love is working together so that both can have their needs met without losing any sense of self. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love..... well, it's all of the things.
It's feeling complete when you're together, yet still safe when you're apart, because they're with you, in your heart.
It's first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Your first and last thoughts. It's sleeping soundly at night knowing they're safe.
It's passionate and honest, even when it stings.
It's being brave enough to tell them they're being a dick, because you trust their love enough to know they'll still love you afterwards, and you're telling them because you're being honest and want them to be the best them they can be.
It's willingness to learn and grow together.
It's having them snore in your ear, yet you find comfort in that, because it's a reminder that they're there....and breathing!
It's finding bits of them in songs you hear, and songs having meaning when they didn't before.
It's feeling like there was no life before them... like they've always been there.
It's realising that soulmates aren't a myth.
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"I don't think it is about putting someone else first and prioritising their needs above your own. It's about all kinds of things, like trust, attraction, feeling like your best self when they're around, compassion, shared values, mutual respect etc. But I'm not going to always put someone else first and I don't expect someone to always put me first. It should be give and take, not just give. For me it's important that the person I love also loves and respects themselves, so I can trust them to say I'm being a knob if I'm being a knob, or to tell me if my actions and decisions are to their detriment in any way. Healthy love is working together so that both can have their needs met without losing any sense of self. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it is about putting someone else first and prioritising their needs above your own. It's about all kinds of things, like trust, attraction, feeling like your best self when they're around, compassion, shared values, mutual respect etc. But I'm not going to always put someone else first and I don't expect someone to always put me first. It should be give and take, not just give. For me it's important that the person I love also loves and respects themselves, so I can trust them to say I'm being a knob if I'm being a knob, or to tell me if my actions and decisions are to their detriment in any way. Healthy love is working together so that both can have their needs met without losing any sense of self. "
Perfect. |
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"I don't think it is about putting someone else first and prioritising their needs above your own. It's about all kinds of things, like trust, attraction, feeling like your best self when they're around, compassion, shared values, mutual respect etc. But I'm not going to always put someone else first and I don't expect someone to always put me first. It should be give and take, not just give. For me it's important that the person I love also loves and respects themselves, so I can trust them to say I'm being a knob if I'm being a knob, or to tell me if my actions and decisions are to their detriment in any way. Healthy love is working together so that both can have their needs met without losing any sense of self. "
I do like this. |
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