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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
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Lol it does test the resilience being a single bloke in here.
Luckily with my face I have grown up with lots of experience of rejection. I was thinking of shaving my bum and walking backwards to see if that improved things  |
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over a year ago
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The thing is, finding genuinely sexy respectful single men is still hard. In fact it's got more difficult with the influx of "casuals" just looking for a fuck between relationships.
Maybe try the real world OP- surely your chances would be stronger? |
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"The thing is, finding genuinely sexy respectful single men is still hard. In fact it's got more difficult with the influx of "casuals" just looking for a fuck between relationships.
Maybe try the real world OP- surely your chances would be stronger?"
Yeah, it's a tough slog for a woman here too. No, no, ugh, no, no, gag, oh for the love of God really?! Rinse and repeat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The thing is, finding genuinely sexy respectful single men is still hard. In fact it's got more difficult with the influx of "casuals" just looking for a fuck between relationships.
Maybe try the real world OP- surely your chances would be stronger?"
I guess so but personality I’m respectful and and genuine and think all other men are the same, clearly not! |
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts? "
Hi op!
Haven’t done a fab survey for ages - probably due another one - but I’ve done two in my time here - aimed at discovering the ratio of single men to single ladies! I didn’t take into account couples or TVs/TS’s!
I asked people to look online in ‘who’s near’ and tell me how many single men and single ladies were online in their area at that time!
I received input from 60 geographic areas throughout the UK!
Some areas varied - but as a whole the ratio of men:ladies worked out at 10:1 - so not as bad as people think!
Obviously some of those ‘ladies’ may actually be single guys using fake profiles - but equally some of the Male profiles are actually just here for wank fodder and don’t meet (I’ve come across a LOT of those!) - so I imagine it evens out at 10:1 again!
Peachy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing is, finding genuinely sexy respectful single men is still hard. In fact it's got more difficult with the influx of "casuals" just looking for a fuck between relationships.
Maybe try the real world OP- surely your chances would be stronger?"
That’s true. If you went out on the pull one night, walked into a pub with 500 men and one woman, you’d probably walk straight back out again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would it be fair to say more women are prepared to put up and shut up rather than seek out more extreme sexual experiences and behaviour..or are they just more sneaky"
No it wouldn't be fair.
It would be fair to say that women are better at compromise.
And men are more likely to be unfaithful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing is, finding genuinely sexy respectful single men is still hard. In fact it's got more difficult with the influx of "casuals" just looking for a fuck between relationships.
Maybe try the real world OP- surely your chances would be stronger?"
Actually I will edit and say "casuals" should include men looking for a fuck during relationships. Women also do this but not to the same extent.
Either way- the percentage of vanilla types who think they are taking a walk on the Wild side just by being here has increased in recent years, compared to the more "Neopolitan" types! |
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women?"
In my experience (I only talk to men), a lot of men on here want quick, easy sex when they feel horny.
It's worse the longer they have been without.
I've lost count of the number of conversations I've had that have led to nothing and gone cold after a day or two.
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women?
In my experience (I only talk to men), a lot of men on here want quick, easy sex when they feel horny.
It's worse the longer they have been without.
I've lost count of the number of conversations I've had that have led to nothing and gone cold after a day or two.
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Yeah. I think a lot of guys expect something to be sorted in an hour. And get pissed off when I want to talk to them. Sorry, I want to get a sense of whether you're dangerous or not, and although at times I'm incredibly horny, I don't make stupid rash decisions. |
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Hi op!
Haven’t done a fab survey for ages - probably due another one - but I’ve done two in my time here - aimed at discovering the ratio of single men to single ladies! I didn’t take into account couples or TVs/TS’s!
I asked people to look online in ‘who’s near’ and tell me how many single men and single ladies were online in their area at that time!
I received input from 60 geographic areas throughout the UK!
Some areas varied - but as a whole the ratio of men:ladies worked out at 10:1 - so not as bad as people think!
Obviously some of those ‘ladies’ may actually be single guys using fake profiles - but equally some of the Male profiles are actually just here for wank fodder and don’t meet (I’ve come across a LOT of those!) - so I imagine it evens out at 10:1 again!
Peachy "
Miss Peachy you need to get out more  x |
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I did some searches a while back and down here at that came came up with 30:1 and while yes, some of those "women" will be fakes a huge number of the male profiles will have no pics, no text, no veris and virtually no chance so by making an effort you improve your odds drastically. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Hi op!
Haven’t done a fab survey for ages - probably due another one - but I’ve done two in my time here - aimed at discovering the ratio of single men to single ladies! I didn’t take into account couples or TVs/TS’s!
I asked people to look online in ‘who’s near’ and tell me how many single men and single ladies were online in their area at that time!
I received input from 60 geographic areas throughout the UK!
Some areas varied - but as a whole the ratio of men:ladies worked out at 10:1 - so not as bad as people think!
Obviously some of those ‘ladies’ may actually be single guys using fake profiles - but equally some of the Male profiles are actually just here for wank fodder and don’t meet (I’ve come across a LOT of those!) - so I imagine it evens out at 10:1 again!
Peachy "
I was about to post something similar, on average you're looking at (singles and not accounting for preferences) about 10 male accounts for every 1 female.
500 to 1 would be rather bleak odds |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts? "
Only a thousand a week? Try a day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women?
In my experience (I only talk to men), a lot of men on here want quick, easy sex when they feel horny.
It's worse the longer they have been without.
I've lost count of the number of conversations I've had that have led to nothing and gone cold after a day or two.
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Their desperation turns me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts? "
You have to take more variables into consideration:
Area, travel, and then take away the fantasist. The only truth on here is the woman have the power because they have the pussies, simple facts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I did some searches a while back and down here at that came came up with 30:1 and while yes, some of those "women" will be fakes a huge number of the male profiles will have no pics, no text, no veris and virtually no chance so by making an effort you improve your odds drastically. "
True but I have Profile texts. Pics and varis and am genuine. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea granted and no oil painting. but don’t think I have had a message from a woman In like 2 months unless I send first! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Only a thousand a week? Try a day "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women?
In my experience (I only talk to men), a lot of men on here want quick, easy sex when they feel horny.
It's worse the longer they have been without.
I've lost count of the number of conversations I've had that have led to nothing and gone cold after a day or two.
Yeah. I think a lot of guys expect something to be sorted in an hour. And get pissed off when I want to talk to them. Sorry, I want to get a sense of whether you're dangerous or not, and although at times I'm incredibly horny, I don't make stupid rash decisions. "
I have to have some kind of connection with a man to want to give up my body to him.
If I wanted a quick fuck with random men I didn't give a shit about I would go to clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
You have to take more variables into consideration:
Area, travel, and then take away the fantasist. The only truth on here is the woman have the power because they have the pussies, simple facts. "
Would you fuck me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts? "
I'd say profile wise it's probably about 11 or 12 to 1. Counting fakes it's probably about 15 to 1.
Though that's just singles, couples bring the ratios down a bit.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women?
In my experience (I only talk to men), a lot of men on here want quick, easy sex when they feel horny.
It's worse the longer they have been without.
I've lost count of the number of conversations I've had that have led to nothing and gone cold after a day or two.
Their desperation turns me off. "
I see it as impatience. They want it now and as long as I look passable they don't care about attraction.
Just seeing my boobs is enough for some. Although, there's no knowing that they would actually open the door if I did turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
You have to take more variables into consideration:
Area, travel, and then take away the fantasist. The only truth on here is the woman have the power because they have the pussies, simple facts.
Would you fuck me?"
I wouldn’t fuck a pair of socks no! |
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women?
In my experience (I only talk to men), a lot of men on here want quick, easy sex when they feel horny.
It's worse the longer they have been without.
I've lost count of the number of conversations I've had that have led to nothing and gone cold after a day or two.
Yeah. I think a lot of guys expect something to be sorted in an hour. And get pissed off when I want to talk to them. Sorry, I want to get a sense of whether you're dangerous or not, and although at times I'm incredibly horny, I don't make stupid rash decisions.
I have to have some kind of connection with a man to want to give up my body to him.
If I wanted a quick fuck with random men I didn't give a shit about I would go to clubs."
I occasionally do want that, but no way in hell am I meeting a stranger for that without vetting him first. I want a shag, not to be a crime statistic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whatever the ratio is I think it balances itself out when women have separated the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to go through, I know there’s a lot of men on here but it’s still very slim pickings for women. |
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"Whatever the ratio is I think it balances itself out when women have separated the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to go through, I know there’s a lot of men on here but it’s still very slim pickings for women. "
That can be true. Lots of sorting and an enormous heap of rejections. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women?
In my experience (I only talk to men), a lot of men on here want quick, easy sex when they feel horny.
It's worse the longer they have been without.
I've lost count of the number of conversations I've had that have led to nothing and gone cold after a day or two.
Their desperation turns me off.
I see it as impatience. They want it now and as long as I look passable they don't care about attraction.
Just seeing my boobs is enough for some. Although, there's no knowing that they would actually open the door if I did turn up."
Probably horny impatience too. I can't blame them for that, they just want to drain their balls. Some women want that too so I usually wish them well and hope they find someone.
The really cool thing is that I often get nice replies saying thank you and hoping I find someone too. I know it probably sounds ridiculous but it keeps my faith in humanity. Horny people are still people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did some searches a while back and down here at that came came up with 30:1 and while yes, some of those "women" will be fakes a huge number of the male profiles will have no pics, no text, no veris and virtually no chance so by making an effort you improve your odds drastically.
True but I have Profile texts. Pics and varis and am genuine. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea granted and no oil painting. but don’t think I have had a message from a woman In like 2 months unless I send first! "
To be fair though you do have your profile text it's pretty vague, doesn't say much at all and doesn't give much of an idea of you as a person? Before I "coupled up" I got enough winks and messages every day to ensure I had enough satisfactory meets with those I found appealing?
There's nothing wrong with your pics at all, so the only other difference is profile text really.
Though tbf you've had a fair few veris on here, so it's also just one of those famous "dry spells" that most blokes mention from time to time too. Don't lose too much heart because of it, it happens. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"All these men and still can’t find anyone to have sex with. "
Yeap! But as on another thread when I stated the last time I had sex, some bloke said but you must get messages, so have a choice, but didn't understand that having 100 messages from crap profiles etc really wasn't a choice, I was told just to lower my standards! As if!  |
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"All these men and still can’t find anyone to have sex with.
Yeap! But as on another thread when I stated the last time I had sex, some bloke said but you must get messages, so have a choice, but didn't understand that having 100 messages from crap profiles etc really wasn't a choice, I was told just to lower my standards! As if! "
Was speaking to a guy last week who was very shocked when I said I haven’t had sex for over a year. Said what’s happened to make you repel guys for over a year, said he got the feeling I was carrying past hurt and was preventing myself from possible hurt by not meeting anyone else!
All that from some text messages! |
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"All these men and still can’t find anyone to have sex with.
Yeap! But as on another thread when I stated the last time I had sex, some bloke said but you must get messages, so have a choice, but didn't understand that having 100 messages from crap profiles etc really wasn't a choice, I was told just to lower my standards! As if!
Was speaking to a guy last week who was very shocked when I said I haven’t had sex for over a year. Said what’s happened to make you repel guys for over a year, said he got the feeling I was carrying past hurt and was preventing myself from possible hurt by not meeting anyone else!
All that from some text messages!"
Been 4 years myself, and what that guy said is possibly true, we'll for myself anyway, it seems if you have standards on here ye can't get laid. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
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"All these men and still can’t find anyone to have sex with.
Yeap! But as on another thread when I stated the last time I had sex, some bloke said but you must get messages, so have a choice, but didn't understand that having 100 messages from crap profiles etc really wasn't a choice, I was told just to lower my standards! As if!
Was speaking to a guy last week who was very shocked when I said I haven’t had sex for over a year. Said what’s happened to make you repel guys for over a year, said he got the feeling I was carrying past hurt and was preventing myself from possible hurt by not meeting anyone else!
All that from some text messages!"
Sometimes, you just have to laugh! Some amateur reverse psychology  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe it's a female conspiracy to spite men by not being as promiscuous and easy as men in the same numbers?"
Hahaha, I doubt it mate. As by that same rationale they also make it much harder for themselves than it is for men to acquire a relationship and I hardly think they'd do that on purpose! 
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"Whatever the ratio is I think it balances itself out when women have separated the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to go through, I know there’s a lot of men on here but it’s still very slim pickings for women. "
That is so accurate. When it comes right down to the basics what guys need is a good profile that gives women an insight into the man, some nice pictures and to send messages that a normal, empathic human being would send. Sell yourself, put the effort in and you will reap the rewards. Have a look at some male profiles out there, but don't think along the lines of "well they aren't putting much effort in so I won't need to either". Think "well those profiles are sparse, so I'll make mine full. Those pictures showing nothing, or too much, so I'll make mine show a representation of who I am and what I have to offer (without putting people off their tea)." Send messages crafted to show you've read the recipient's profile and taken into account that you are what they have said they are looking for. Be respectful, not pushy, show an interest in her as a person, show your humour and personality.
And if you think all that is too much effort for some women on a sex site..well there's the problem. Yes there are some women on here who want a quick meet up for NSA, but there are a hell of a lot more who want to be treated like humans with feelings and needs of their own, not just a receptacle for your fluids  |
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"All these men and still can’t find anyone to have sex with.
Yeap! But as on another thread when I stated the last time I had sex, some bloke said but you must get messages, so have a choice, but didn't understand that having 100 messages from crap profiles etc really wasn't a choice, I was told just to lower my standards! As if!
Was speaking to a guy last week who was very shocked when I said I haven’t had sex for over a year. Said what’s happened to make you repel guys for over a year, said he got the feeling I was carrying past hurt and was preventing myself from possible hurt by not meeting anyone else!
All that from some text messages!"
Guys just can't get their heads around that if the options are bad, most women will decline, not go for a bad option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All these men and still can’t find anyone to have sex with.
Yeap! But as on another thread when I stated the last time I had sex, some bloke said but you must get messages, so have a choice, but didn't understand that having 100 messages from crap profiles etc really wasn't a choice, I was told just to lower my standards! As if!
Was speaking to a guy last week who was very shocked when I said I haven’t had sex for over a year. Said what’s happened to make you repel guys for over a year, said he got the feeling I was carrying past hurt and was preventing myself from possible hurt by not meeting anyone else!
All that from some text messages!
Guys just can't get their heads around that if the options are bad, most women will decline, not go for a bad option. "
In his case he stopped speaking to me not long after that disclosure! Maybe he could sense something. |
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"I did some searches a while back and down here at that came came up with 30:1 and while yes, some of those "women" will be fakes a huge number of the male profiles will have no pics, no text, no veris and virtually no chance so by making an effort you improve your odds drastically.
True but I have Profile texts. Pics and varis and am genuine. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea granted and no oil painting. but don’t think I have had a message from a woman In like 2 months unless I send first! "
Thing is you can't make people message you (although for me while your pics are decent and you have veris your text doesn't give me much to start a conversation with) so make sure the messages you send count. And fwiw not all women get hundreds of messages, but it's still the quality of them that matter. The numbers aren't really relevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a lot of time and effort trying to arrange something on here when you're a single bloke but I've just been myself and I'll just keep being myself and hopefully when the ppl do come along it will be a hell of alot fun |
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Hi op!
Haven’t done a fab survey for ages - probably due another one - but I’ve done two in my time here - aimed at discovering the ratio of single men to single ladies! I didn’t take into account couples or TVs/TS’s!
I asked people to look online in ‘who’s near’ and tell me how many single men and single ladies were online in their area at that time!
I received input from 60 geographic areas throughout the UK!
Some areas varied - but as a whole the ratio of men:ladies worked out at 10:1 - so not as bad as people think!
Obviously some of those ‘ladies’ may actually be single guys using fake profiles - but equally some of the Male profiles are actually just here for wank fodder and don’t meet (I’ve come across a LOT of those!) - so I imagine it evens out at 10:1 again!
Peachy
Miss Peachy you need to get out more x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whatever the ratio is I think it balances itself out when women have separated the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to go through, I know there’s a lot of men on here but it’s still very slim pickings for women.
That is so accurate. When it comes right down to the basics what guys need is a good profile that gives women an insight into the man, some nice pictures and to send messages that a normal, empathic human being would send. Sell yourself, put the effort in and you will reap the rewards. Have a look at some male profiles out there, but don't think along the lines of "well they aren't putting much effort in so I won't need to either". Think "well those profiles are sparse, so I'll make mine full. Those pictures showing nothing, or too much, so I'll make mine show a representation of who I am and what I have to offer (without putting people off their tea)." Send messages crafted to show you've read the recipient's profile and taken into account that you are what they have said they are looking for. Be respectful, not pushy, show an interest in her as a person, show your humour and personality.
And if you think all that is too much effort for some women on a sex site..well there's the problem. Yes there are some women on here who want a quick meet up for NSA, but there are a hell of a lot more who want to be treated like humans with feelings and needs of their own, not just a receptacle for your fluids "
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I don’t pay any attention to the numbers. It’s irrelevant really. There are people I like to chat with, some I like to look at but it’s quite difficult to find someone that I want to do more with. |
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Hi op!
Haven’t done a fab survey for ages - probably due another one - but I’ve done two in my time here - aimed at discovering the ratio of single men to single ladies! I didn’t take into account couples or TVs/TS’s!
I asked people to look online in ‘who’s near’ and tell me how many single men and single ladies were online in their area at that time!
I received input from 60 geographic areas throughout the UK!
Some areas varied - but as a whole the ratio of men:ladies worked out at 10:1 - so not as bad as people think!
Obviously some of those ‘ladies’ may actually be single guys using fake profiles - but equally some of the Male profiles are actually just here for wank fodder and don’t meet (I’ve come across a LOT of those!) - so I imagine it evens out at 10:1 again!
Peachy
Miss Peachy you need to get out more x
Do you think I should have sex more often dan? "
Is that possible ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women?"
hell no ... Women are a lot worse these days , one girl I know from college is getting 5-10 different guys a week, hell even in one night she gets that many on a weekend in a club.
Within 8 years I've only managed 3 different girls.
Women get alot of sex compared to men. |
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women? hell no ... Women are a lot worse these days , one girl I know from college is getting 5-10 different guys a week, hell even in one night she gets that many on a weekend in a club.
Within 8 years I've only managed 3 different girls.
Women get alot of sex compared to men."
Yes, but that's one example. And it doesn't mean that she's more highly sexed or Horner, just that she has more opportunities and time in which to accept offers she seems appropriate.
Are you saying that if you had the time and the RIGHT offers you wouldn't have sex with 5-10 women a week? |
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"Do you think in general, men are hornier and more promiscuous then women? hell no ... Women are a lot worse these days , one girl I know from college is getting 5-10 different guys a week, hell even in one night she gets that many on a weekend in a club.
Within 8 years I've only managed 3 different girls.
Women get alot of sex compared to men."
But on the other hand men here are complaining about "having" to drop their standards and sleep with lesser women.
Do you know what happens when I'm ridiculously horny and I only have bad offers? I stay ridiculously horny. And stay home. |
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My FWB and I are very open with each other when it comes to our expectations and who we would meet. I wouldn’t expect him to “trade down” when it comes to meeting people from here, and vice versa. We don’t regard ourselves as particularly special, but rather, we know our own minds, what our preferences are and finally what our expectations are from a meet.
As a result we don’t tend to meet a lot of different people very often but we find this works well for us. For example, a short while ago he decided to not meet someone who was charming during the pre-social and messages phase, but utterly charmless in person when they met. He felt that meeting in that instance would be simply to “get the numbers up” and we feel that’s where guys can go wrong here by treating this site as a numbers game and nothing else. |
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts? "
Ffs, is this one of those sophisticated why doesn’t no one want to fuck me posts?
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Ffs, is this one of those sophisticated why doesn’t no one want to fuck me posts?
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A lack of a mirror in the house perhaps? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts? "
I honestly don't care if the ration is 10:1, 100:1 or 1000:1. 95% of male profiles here have no chance and will never get a meet because they're unappealing. This is not me conjecturing, but is what my friends consistently tell me. Put in the right amount of effort and you will be noticed in a sea of mediocrity. The initiative may still need to come from you, but your odds of success will be good. I can attest to that |
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
I honestly don't care if the ration is 10:1, 100:1 or 1000:1. 95% of male profiles here have no chance and will never get a meet because they're unappealing. This is not me conjecturing, but is what my friends consistently tell me. Put in the right amount of effort and you will be noticed in a sea of mediocrity. The initiative may still need to come from you, but your odds of success will be good. I can attest to that "
This. You have to make the initial effort with your profile text, pics, messages, interaction. Do this correctly, use your imagination and show respect and you get to a stage where you can just rely on incoming messages rather than the other way around.
Chillout has a lot in common with myself, similar age, demeanour, intellect and we both have what is commonly referred to as a "Dad bod" (a phrase often misused by 20 stone residents in Greggs) as we're not 25 year olds who hit the gym 20 hours a week to sculpt perfectly but we do look after ourselves. Yet we both also would be classed as successful on here, especially compared to the huge rump end of single guys who are either just don't "get it" or can't be arsed and suffer from delusions of entitlement.
This debunks the myth that women all want a twenty-something professional sportsman with a 12 inch penis due to these "ratios" that often gets assumed by those having a whine.
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Ffs, is this one of those sophisticated why doesn’t no one want to fuck me posts?
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Ha ha not at all... I’m pretty lucky in that I don’t go short. And have done better than a lot of guys some guys here and also get plenty away from this site.. it was just a thought and I know a few guys on here that say there are loads more woman. I get swinging is for couples though and it’s not really a site for single blokes |
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Ffs, is this one of those sophisticated why doesn’t no one want to fuck me posts?
Ha ha not at all... I’m pretty lucky in that I don’t go short. And have done better than a lot of guys some guys here and also get plenty away from this site.. it was just a thought and I know a few guys on here that say there are loads more woman. I get swinging is for couples though and it’s not really a site for single blokes "
Swinging arose predominantly through couples, but Fabswingers is a site for all dynamics really. As some couples will want an MMF, some (a lot ha) will want an FMF as well as the standard MFMF. So these others need to be acquired from somewhere! And of course it makes sense that females and males will want to meet each other, often more than couples. And there's also the TV/Ts and their needs and wants vary too, so there's different options for everyone?
I've had years on here between my two single guy profiles prior to meeting and falling for P and never once felt ostracized tbh.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
I honestly don't care if the ration is 10:1, 100:1 or 1000:1. 95% of male profiles here have no chance and will never get a meet because they're unappealing. This is not me conjecturing, but is what my friends consistently tell me. Put in the right amount of effort and you will be noticed in a sea of mediocrity. The initiative may still need to come from you, but your odds of success will be good. I can attest to that
This. You have to make the initial effort with your profile text, pics, messages, interaction. Do this correctly, use your imagination and show respect and you get to a stage where you can just rely on incoming messages rather than the other way around.
Chillout has a lot in common with myself, similar age, demeanour, intellect and we both have what is commonly referred to as a "Dad bod" (a phrase often misused by 20 stone residents in Greggs) as we're not 25 year olds who hit the gym 20 hours a week to sculpt perfectly but we do look after ourselves. Yet we both also would be classed as successful on here, especially compared to the huge rump end of single guys who are either just don't "get it" or can't be arsed and suffer from delusions of entitlement.
This debunks the myth that women all want a twenty-something professional sportsman with a 12 inch penis due to these "ratios" that often gets assumed by those having a whine.
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Amen my fellow fab brother in arms
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"I’d say it’s about 500/1 men and woman ratio on here . I know woman who get a thousand messages a week and guys can go months without any! Speaking from myself ... I may just be a minger!
Thoughts?
Hi op!
Haven’t done a fab survey for ages - probably due another one - but I’ve done two in my time here - aimed at discovering the ratio of single men to single ladies! I didn’t take into account couples or TVs/TS’s!
I asked people to look online in ‘who’s near’ and tell me how many single men and single ladies were online in their area at that time!
I received input from 60 geographic areas throughout the UK!
Some areas varied - but as a whole the ratio of men:ladies worked out at 10:1 - so not as bad as people think!
Obviously some of those ‘ladies’ may actually be single guys using fake profiles - but equally some of the Male profiles are actually just here for wank fodder and don’t meet (I’ve come across a LOT of those!) - so I imagine it evens out at 10:1 again!
Peachy
Miss Peachy you need to get out more x
Do you think I should have sex more often dan?
Is that possible ? "
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