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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to think we are the same in real life. Some of our “humour” doesn’t translate well in text, but we’re just the same crazy goths in the street that we are On the interweb |
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over a year ago
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When on here, I'm who iam in my own mind and who is & wants to be 24/7 (A demure/classy submissive) if real life was only just like that eh!..
In the flesh" I have naturally a "bubbly personality" always friendly and respectful always positive kinda gal.. totally in control in my "vanilla life"( hence why I choose to be a sub) I have my shit together you could say ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly? "
I'm the same, I think. Just less vocal/confrontational. In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences within earshot of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it. Here, I kind of feel obliged to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly? "
Im more "argumentative" online debates are fun but they're a "im bored" time killer in real life im generally much more interested in whats happening at the time to bother digging for statistics or trying to explain physics to somone who wants to blame things on fairies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is a good question.
Well I am lucy on here and maybe she is a little more adventurous as I enjoy the trill of the role play in a sense,As this is the escape from the mundane life were I can explore more of my sexual self.That I am not a Mum etc etc,if that makes sense. that I like to go to.but my morals and boundaries are the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
I'm the same, I think. Just less vocal/confrontational. In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences within earshot of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it. Here, I kind of feel obliged to. "
You feel obliged to pull people up on thier preferences?
How does that even work? "How dare you not like pineapple on pizza you have the wrong preference!"
"How very dare you be gay, you shpuld prefer women!!!"
I mean it seems insane |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m pretty true to myself I’d say.
Rarely serious, always flirty and very approachable.
Sometimes people do say they found me a bit intimidating at first just because I’m quite big and have a few visible battle scars.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm the same.
Still a smart mouth.
Still fart.
Still soft as shit, yet won't take much shit.
I'm probably even more hilarious in the flesh as I'm quite animated in person which won't come across online.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I am any different on here than I am in real life but obviously I flirt more on here and I'm more sexual than I am in my day to day life but then that's what the site is for isn't it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
I'm the same, I think. Just less vocal/confrontational. In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences within earshot of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it. Here, I kind of feel obliged to.
You feel obliged to pull people up on thier preferences?
How does that even work? "How dare you not like pineapple on pizza you have the wrong preference!"
"How very dare you be gay, you shpuld prefer women!!!"
I mean it seems insane"
I thought we'd cleared this up as Cixi? I'd rather not communicate with you directly on the Forum, because "You get on my tits". Yet you still seem intent on following me about different threads, pecking at what I say. I mean... it seems insane. The problem is you dont read things thoroughly enough to deserve a response most of the time. It's usually something negative, sarcastic, or wrong, it's starting to get on my nerves.
Case in point being this sentance "In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences WITHIN EARSHOT of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it".
If the preference is likely to offend someone, it's usually based on an -ism of some description. Not Pineapple Pizza.
Now can you please respect my wishes and back off?
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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Interesting thread, but I don't think that you're likely to get someone stating that they're totally different online from in person, although I'm sure that there are many who are.
I think that the Internet in general enhances certain characteristics and tends to bring out the best and the worst in people. I don't see myself as any different really.
In person I'm perhaps a little less measured, but that's probably as a result of the necessity of typing, rather than just speaking. I'm perhaps more of an attention whore on here but in general I'm much the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep been told im too open on here
I wear my heart on my sleeve and often speak before thinking
But can also be kind and loyal to those who i learn to trust
And i do too much by impulse
But as much as folks may doubt it i do only want to be fun |
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly? "
Apparently I come across on line as having a sense of humour.
According to two verifications I'm not as funny in person.
Online presence I can be more forthright and occassionaly argumentative and (I think) quite confident.
In the real world I'm much less likely to get into an argument or fight my corner.
Quite a few people have said I'm gregarious and confident in person.
That's a mask. I'm really not, I'm deeply shy and incredibly self conscious.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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As for me - I'm probably more reserved and shy in real life and as Tea Monkey said not as measured or articulate - I'm not good at thinking on my feet in person and so have a tendency to blurt out the first thing that comes into my head, especially if I'm in an awkward position, which is usually the wrong thing to say.
On here the thinking time a keyboard affords allows me to say things so much better.
I'm also not good in "new" situations where I don't know anybody and as my profile says have to be prised out of my she'll initially - but once I am and I'm comfortable the biggest problem is putting me back in it!!
In terms of personality, beliefs, sense of humour etc though I'm exactly the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
I'm the same, I think. Just less vocal/confrontational. In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences within earshot of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it. Here, I kind of feel obliged to.
You feel obliged to pull people up on thier preferences?
How does that even work? "How dare you not like pineapple on pizza you have the wrong preference!"
"How very dare you be gay, you shpuld prefer women!!!"
I mean it seems insane
I thought we'd cleared this up as Cixi? I'd rather not communicate with you directly on the Forum, because "You get on my tits". Yet you still seem intent on following me about different threads, pecking at what I say. I mean... it seems insane. The problem is you dont read things thoroughly enough to deserve a response most of the time. It's usually something negative, sarcastic, or wrong, it's starting to get on my nerves.
Case in point being this sentance "In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences WITHIN EARSHOT of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it".
If the preference is likely to offend someone, it's usually based on an -ism of some description. Not Pineapple Pizza.
Now can you please respect my wishes and back off?
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I had no idea you were cixi you said you only used one account on the forum for exactly this very confusing reason.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly? "
Nope, this is me, I’ve got a verification and everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going through some changes at the moment. The real me is definetely reserved and a little nervous socially but working on that. Trying to not let the past dictate my future and looking to better myself and improve everyday.
The real me is a work in progress looking for people to be willing to help on the journey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m Doc on here
I’m still flirty and a bit naughty depending on the company in real life, but there is only one person in real life that sees my really kinky side and that was only recent. As before then I hadn’t had the courage to reveal all of that side to her. |
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Think I appear harsher in real life as you can see the whites of my eyes and body language. My other half said I was the most difficult etc person he'd met in his life ever yet my friends of twenty years plus, (and my former bosses) some of whom I go on holiday with every year and go out with, think I'm the dog's bollocks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
I'm the same, I think. Just less vocal/confrontational. In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences within earshot of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it. Here, I kind of feel obliged to.
You feel obliged to pull people up on thier preferences?
How does that even work? "How dare you not like pineapple on pizza you have the wrong preference!"
"How very dare you be gay, you shpuld prefer women!!!"
I mean it seems insane
I thought we'd cleared this up as Cixi? I'd rather not communicate with you directly on the Forum, because "You get on my tits". Yet you still seem intent on following me about different threads, pecking at what I say. I mean... it seems insane. The problem is you dont read things thoroughly enough to deserve a response most of the time. It's usually something negative, sarcastic, or wrong, it's starting to get on my nerves.
Case in point being this sentance "In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences WITHIN EARSHOT of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it".
If the preference is likely to offend someone, it's usually based on an -ism of some description. Not Pineapple Pizza.
Now can you please respect my wishes and back off?
I had no idea you were cixi you said you only used one account on the forum for exactly this very confusing reason.
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Ok, well I can forgive you not following the transition from one account to the other. I didn't expect anyone to follow that bizarre turn of events, I hadn't anticipated it myself.
Fact is we clearly jar with one another, regardless of the profile in use. So it's probably best we avoid each other, rather than bicker like children. A kind of small proof we're probably both being ourselves online, as much as we are in person. To return to the OPs point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
Apparently I come across on line as having a sense of humour.
According to two verifications I'm not as funny in person.
Online presence I can be more forthright and occassionaly argumentative and (I think) quite confident.
In the real world I'm much less likely to get into an argument or fight my corner.
Quite a few people have said I'm gregarious and confident in person.
That's a mask. I'm really not, I'm deeply shy and incredibly self conscious.
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You're cool as. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I’m pretty much the same on here as I am in real life, I’m too lazy to have 2 different personalities on the go.. 
I can vouch for that "
I have a tendency to over talk when meeting people for the 1st time, but you came across to me and you do on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always happy, it's a curse really. I'd like to be that broody guy every once in a while, say very little and look mysterious. I could try but eventually my annoying chipperness would come out and give the game away lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tonight Mathew, I’m going to be MrBee......
Of course I’m the same person, and I’m amazed that anyone thinks they’re not online. Unless they intentionally try their hardest to be an alternative version of themselves. If someone is flamboyant or outgoing, it’s hard to appear shy. People’s character shines through, eventually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh and my personality and humour don't translate well online as it's far too of a flat way of communicating "
They need to hear your voice to truly get it.
I wonder if that guy is still waiting for us to pick him up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure my everyday persona reflects well online, but that's for others to judge.
Details, names, career and other subtleties are deliberately altered to protect what I do.
I like having an alter ego I can slip into now and again, but in person with meets I'm totally the same as ever. |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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I don't know who I am any more. To many years holding on to a bad marriage, ignored, unloved, hated and cheated on has left me with low self asteam,lacking in confidence and with trust issues.
Now divorced and trying to rebuild my own personality, confidence and self worth. Have nice home of my own and a fantastic son got to be a good starting point hopefully.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
I'm the same, I think. Just less vocal/confrontational. In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences within earshot of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it. Here, I kind of feel obliged to.
You feel obliged to pull people up on thier preferences?
How does that even work? "How dare you not like pineapple on pizza you have the wrong preference!"
"How very dare you be gay, you shpuld prefer women!!!"
I mean it seems insane
I thought we'd cleared this up as Cixi? I'd rather not communicate with you directly on the Forum, because "You get on my tits". Yet you still seem intent on following me about different threads, pecking at what I say. I mean... it seems insane. The problem is you dont read things thoroughly enough to deserve a response most of the time. It's usually something negative, sarcastic, or wrong, it's starting to get on my nerves.
Case in point being this sentance "In real life people tend not to vocalise their preferences WITHIN EARSHOT of those it may offend, so I've no need to pull them up on it".
If the preference is likely to offend someone, it's usually based on an -ism of some description. Not Pineapple Pizza.
Now can you please respect my wishes and back off?
I had no idea you were cixi you said you only used one account on the forum for exactly this very confusing reason.
Ok, well I can forgive you not following the transition from one account to the other. I didn't expect anyone to follow that bizarre turn of events, I hadn't anticipated it myself.
Fact is we clearly jar with one another, regardless of the profile in use. So it's probably best we avoid each other, rather than bicker like children. A kind of small proof we're probably both being ourselves online, as much as we are in person. To return to the OPs point. "
Fair enough i thought we'd only ever had one convo on the thread about trans people and it didnt seem that confrontational. |
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
Apparently I come across on line as having a sense of humour.
According to two verifications I'm not as funny in person.
Online presence I can be more forthright and occassionaly argumentative and (I think) quite confident.
In the real world I'm much less likely to get into an argument or fight my corner.
Quite a few people have said I'm gregarious and confident in person.
That's a mask. I'm really not, I'm deeply shy and incredibly self conscious.
You're cool as. "
Thank you.
I'm always a bit  when people compliment me. I don't think people see me how I see me.
My first thought when someone says something genuinely complimentary is "what, me?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
Apparently I come across on line as having a sense of humour.
According to two verifications I'm not as funny in person.
Online presence I can be more forthright and occassionaly argumentative and (I think) quite confident.
In the real world I'm much less likely to get into an argument or fight my corner.
Quite a few people have said I'm gregarious and confident in person.
That's a mask. I'm really not, I'm deeply shy and incredibly self conscious.
You're cool as.
Thank you.
I'm always a bit when people compliment me. I don't think people see me how I see me.
My first thought when someone says something genuinely complimentary is "what, me?"
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I'm probably the same. Just the chat is different. Here is more dick pics and sex. Real life is more toddler groups and reusable sanitary products 
Far more flesh on show here though always strange meeting people at social things and thinking 'I've seen your tits' and realising they could say the exact same!
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"When I'm on here I'm Rubi.
Essentially she's me but a bit more confident and flirty and definitely shows more flesh! I don't feel like I'm being deceptive as obviously the words I type are coming from me and represent how I am inside, it's just a side I wouldn't normally show so openly in public.
Do you think you're different online and in person? Do you feel like your fab persona represents you fairly?
Apparently I come across on line as having a sense of humour.
According to two verifications I'm not as funny in person.
Online presence I can be more forthright and occassionaly argumentative and (I think) quite confident.
In the real world I'm much less likely to get into an argument or fight my corner.
Quite a few people have said I'm gregarious and confident in person.
That's a mask. I'm really not, I'm deeply shy and incredibly self conscious.
You're cool as.
Thank you.
I'm always a bit when people compliment me. I don't think people see me how I see me.
My first thought when someone says something genuinely complimentary is "what, me?"
You know it's a genuine compliment, I don't do arse licking stuff. "
Yeah I remember you saying no last time I asked.
Thank you. I know it was sincere.
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