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And there it is in a nutshell - no-one responds positively to the word fat.
So podgy women call themselves curvy, and podgy men say they have a dad bod, or are rugby build, and no end of people respond positively to both of those description. I guess it's a little like political correctness, in that some words just have such a strong negative association that it's almost pointless trying to use them. |
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By *mpishMan
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"And there it is in a nutshell - no-one responds positively to the word fat.
So podgy women call themselves curvy, and podgy men say they have a dad bod, or are rugby build, and no end of people respond positively to both of those description. I guess it's a little like political correctness, in that some words just have such a strong negative association that it's almost pointless trying to use them."
I guess it's subjective. Like where does a 'Dad bod' start and end and where does 'fat' start?
I personally hate the word fat but I know I am, though prefer to call it a Dad bod, I wish there were more descriptors! |
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"And there it is in a nutshell - no-one responds positively to the word fat.
So podgy women call themselves curvy, and podgy men say they have a dad bod, or are rugby build, and no end of people respond positively to both of those description. I guess it's a little like political correctness, in that some words just have such a strong negative association that it's almost pointless trying to use them.
I guess it's subjective. Like where does a 'Dad bod' start and end and where does 'fat' start?
I personally hate the word fat but I know I am, though prefer to call it a Dad bod, I wish there were more descriptors!"
I kinda wish there were less.....whatever description you use, someone else will have a different idea of it in their head so there is no point worrying about what anyone else thinks, and to be honest, there is DEFINITELY no point putting up a thread to moan how other people aren't using the word correctly (ie according to your own narrow view of how it should be defined).
Not meaning the current one - there's always someone complaining that too many 'mingers he wouldn't look twice at down the pub' are calling themselves curvy (or athletic in the case of men.) |
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By *mpishMan
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"And there it is in a nutshell - no-one responds positively to the word fat.
So podgy women call themselves curvy, and podgy men say they have a dad bod, or are rugby build, and no end of people respond positively to both of those description. I guess it's a little like political correctness, in that some words just have such a strong negative association that it's almost pointless trying to use them.
I guess it's subjective. Like where does a 'Dad bod' start and end and where does 'fat' start?
I personally hate the word fat but I know I am, though prefer to call it a Dad bod, I wish there were more descriptors!
I kinda wish there were less.....whatever description you use, someone else will have a different idea of it in their head so there is no point worrying about what anyone else thinks, and to be honest, there is DEFINITELY no point putting up a thread to moan how other people aren't using the word correctly (ie according to your own narrow view of how it should be defined).
Not meaning the current one - there's always someone complaining that too many 'mingers he wouldn't look twice at down the pub' are calling themselves curvy (or athletic in the case of men.)"
I can't disagree with you there, I guess people will end up just making up their own mind about you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont pretend to be what im not, no point the idea is u eventually meet someone if you i sold myself as a well hung tom hardy and then i turn up its not gonna go well.
So im honest, better that way, id rather impress than be a dissapointment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know we need one, there has to be some love out there for us fat lads =)"
Whoop whoop!! 
There's often a fat girls appreciation thread from the same guy. You could be the fat lads guy. |
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