"That’s very true, but it’s always that feeling when you like a profile of an attractive person, and you can’t message due to restrictions. "
They've got their profile set that way for a reason. It's what they want. You can't do anything about it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"There are a number of people who meet over 40s on here. Depends on what age range you are looking for."
I do like ladies around my age range but most of the time the person you like has that restriction.... I’m just having a Monday grump  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"OP when you do a search for people there is a box you can tick that says "only show people who are looking to meet my age". Perhaps if you used it you may find what you seek! "
It actually says "I'm the age they seek" for avoidance of doubt. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"OP when you do a search for people there is a box you can tick that says "only show people who are looking to meet my age". Perhaps if you used it you may find what you seek! "
Thanks Yorki, perhaps I need to do that  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"There are no shortage of ladies who will meet over 45's.
Age isn't the factor, how we sell ourselves is."
In a nutshell this
At 53 OP I've yet to feel "redundant" as you put it perhaps because I focus on those people that will meet me despite my age rather than worry about those that won't.
If I see someone whose age preferences I am outside of, I accept it plain and simple - nothing you can do about it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why is it us gentleman whom are over the 45 mark, feel redundant when it comes to ladies preferences on age?  "
42-50 is actually my preferred age range |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We have a request for men only between 38-48
I want life experience as well as experience in bedroom please
Good conversation and laughter leads the way with us...
Mrs P |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm 60. It appears that a lot of people block messsges from people over 50 or 55,which is a pitty as us older men still have lots to offer. With age comes experience. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I'm 60. It appears that a lot of people block messsges from people over 50 or 55,which is a pitty as us older men still have lots to offer. With age comes experience."
Why's it a pity if it's their preference?
Do you think those who are under 40 or over 70 would think it a pity you had your preferences set that way? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I'm 60. It appears that a lot of people block messsges from people over 50 or 55,which is a pitty as us older men still have lots to offer. With age comes experience. true"
Very much so, I think that was my point summed up |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I'm 60. It appears that a lot of people block messsges from people over 50 or 55,which is a pitty as us older men still have lots to offer. With age comes experience. true
Very much so, I think that was my point summed up "
As I said though - why worry about those that won't meet you for whatever reason? You can't do anything about it and surely it's better to focus on those whose criteria you do fit? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"recently turned 56 lots set age to 55.. officially over the hill its seems lol"
To some you may be!
But there are many of us who wouldn’t rule out older men. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm 60. It appears that a lot of people block messsges from people over 50 or 55,which is a pitty as us older men still have lots to offer. With age comes experience."
I don’t think anyone thinks you don’t .
However people have preferences for example you have a preference on your profile or 40-70.
Me as a 25 year old could say “It’s a pity as us younger women have lots to offer”.
It’s simply a preference, you have to accept that not everyone is going to be attracted to you, and the older you get the smaller the amount of people attracted to you may get. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I'm 60. It appears that a lot of people block messsges from people over 50 or 55,which is a pitty as us older men still have lots to offer. With age comes experience.
I don’t think anyone thinks you don’t .
However people have preferences for example you have a preference on your profile or 40-70.
Me as a 25 year old could say “It’s a pity as us younger women have lots to offer”.
It’s simply a preference, you have to accept that not everyone is going to be attracted to you, and the older you get the smaller the amount of people attracted to you may get. "
That’s a very sensible answer. What the hell are you doing with it here? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I said something similar the other day. Before I hit 50 on here I had 9 meets. And then nothing. There's 4 ladies on here asking all the time for a submissive within 5 miles or less. And am to old for them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I said something similar the other day. Before I hit 50 on here I had 9 meets. And then nothing. There's 4 ladies on here asking all the time for a submissive within 5 miles or less. And am to old for them. "
age never bothers me. I get bombarded with requests asking for meets. I embrace it all but at the same time if someone has a thing about my age its their problem. And like I say it's fine if I don't float your boat the doors over there
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You will find as you get older less people will be interested in you, I noticed it when I hit 46 last year.
You just need to find the people who find guys your age as sexy as hell  "
Well I'm interested in you x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Getting older is a funny thing. I turn 40 this year and I was horrified when an ex BF that I'm good friends with, said "You're in MILF territory now!" Jesus wept.
For everyone who likes spring chickens, there'll be another who likes Silver Foxes or MILFS, you just have to find each other.
FWIW, my ideal pretence is mid 40s |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
