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Do women like confident assertive men who know what they are doing through experience

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By *icentious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Just read another post, thought I might balance thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Evidence right here.

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By *aven RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. Just the right amount of confidence and assertiveness is very attractive to me. No idea how much is the right amount though. Not very helpful, sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That sounds like a trick question

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes. Although I do like men who are a bit shy more I think.

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By *icentious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Depends "

Agreed, if the lady is not willing... what can one do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes.

Cocky though, isn’t attractive.

Nor is treating me like crap.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Confident and assertive yes, as long as it doesn't tip over into pushy and arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer men who are natural born lovers.

An experienced man can think he knows what he's doing and forget that I'm a person who may have different needs to all the other women he's had.

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I prefer men who are natural born lovers.

"

That's me!

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

A man who has just the right amount of confidence and assertiveness that doesn't cross over into cockiness or arrogance is supremely attractive to most women from my experience

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends how they show it. Confidence is hot, arrogance is not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I prefer men who are natural born lovers.

An experienced man can think he knows what he's doing and forget that I'm a person who may have different needs to all the other women he's had. "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Depends how they show it. Confidence is hot, arrogance is not. "

True dat, fo shizzle my nizzle home girl!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Making a cup of coffee is like making love to a beautiful woman. It's got to be hot. You've got to take your time. You've got to stir... gently and firmly. You've got to grind your beans until they squeak. And then you put in the milk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Making a cup of coffee is like making love to a beautiful woman. It's got to be hot. You've got to take your time. You've got to stir... gently and firmly. You've got to grind your beans until they squeak. And then you put in the milk.

"

Swiss Tony

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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Quietly confident gentleman suits me

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"A man who has just the right amount of confidence and assertiveness that doesn't cross over into cockiness or arrogance is supremely attractive to most women from my experience "

I agree, it's a fine balance to find though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

quietly confident guys is what i go for

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes. Why, what thread says differently?

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By *icentious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Interesting, is one person perspective on confidence another person perspective of cocky?

Suspect it depends on life experience.

I love confidence in a partner from a slightly assertive view.

It creates a dynamic that has an energy.

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"A man who has just the right amount of confidence and assertiveness that doesn't cross over into cockiness or arrogance is supremely attractive to most women from my experience

I agree, it's a fine balance to find though "

Tell me about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love confidence and assertiveness. I need that, or i do have a tendency to walk all over them. It's a fine line between confident and cocky. Some walk that line very well, then others fail miserably, allowing that confidence to spew into arrogance... a trait I highly dislike.

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Yes. Why, what thread says differently? "
You don't miss much you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Confident and assertive yes, as long as it doesn't tip over into pushy and arrogant. "

This...all day long. Men who are shy, or come across as unsure of themselves, really don't do it for me.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think I tread the fine line between confident and being a knobhead very carefully, sometimes it’s hard to tell which one are being.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"quietly confident guys is what i go for"

And me. X

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By *icentious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I think I tread the fine line between confident and being a knobhead very carefully, sometimes it’s hard to tell which one are being. "

Last think to discover water would be fish.

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"I think I tread the fine line between confident and being a knobhead very carefully, sometimes it’s hard to tell which one are being. "

That’s my thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Confident and assertive yes, as long as it doesn't tip over into pushy and arrogant.

This...all day long. Men who are shy, or come across as unsure of themselves, really don't do it for me.

V x "

Tottally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hope so

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"I think I tread the fine line between confident and being a knobhead very carefully, sometimes it’s hard to tell which one are being. "

Yeaaaah. So hard.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think I tread the fine line between confident and being a knobhead very carefully, sometimes it’s hard to tell which one are being.

Last think to discover water would be fish. "

Still trying to work out what this means!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think I tread the fine line between confident and being a knobhead very carefully, sometimes it’s hard to tell which one are being.

Yeaaaah. So hard."

I know you like it hard etc

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I like a man who fucks well. Be he shy or gregarious, i’m not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fine line between assertive and arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I done ok

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not if he's ugly and wobbly no .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Depends "

Ha ha! I love how you always say ‘depends’ it’s your favourite reply.

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By *icentious OP   Couple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I prefer men who are natural born lovers.

An experienced man can think he knows what he's doing and forget that I'm a person who may have different needs to all the other women he's had. "

And an experienced woman may not understand the needs of a man. Communication is such a odd concept.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I prefer men who are natural born lovers.

An experienced man can think he knows what he's doing and forget that I'm a person who may have different needs to all the other women he's had.

And an experienced woman may not understand the needs of a man. Communication is such a odd concept."

Of course. I've never once thought I know everything that any man needs. I rather like finding out for myself.

It's nice when we find out together too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Quiet men, confident or otherwise, do not stand out on a site such as this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Quiet men, confident or otherwise, do not stand out on a site such as this."

Some do.

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