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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are you feeling jaded by it all PP?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why is it pointless? Everyone has a place.

There's a need for people who post interesting things sometimes, rather than posting banal things every 5 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

Bollocks! Your posts brighten up the forums, so don't you dare stop

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Shut up !!

Get your head out of your arse !!

Jesus wept - you know that’s absolute rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pp you fit in fine dude your a funny guy

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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PP I think that you’re too focused on the negative. You will only enjoy your time on here if you do what makes you happy. If you notice you have been overlooked on a thread and then focus on it, that will make it a negative experience.

Focus on the positive, do what makes you happy and don’t dwell on things outside of your control. My honest view x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How are you measuring the ‘pointlessness’ of your contributions? Based on number of replies? People agreeing with you? Arguing with you? Flirting with you?

Most of the things I write in threads are totally ignored and uncommented on or replied to, high into the upper percentiles.

I’ll just go ahead and post my bobbins anyway!

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan  over a year ago

Seen in far off places

To quote a classic Stone Roses tune PP;

'Don't Stop'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

Do you want to borrow my pedestal for a while PP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

I’d comment, but I’m Not sure if your serious or not.

If your serious, I’d say stop being a dick.

If your joking....same as above actually...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Do you want to borrow my pedestal for a while PP"

Best to use a cherry picker so more people take notice.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

I'm actually quite surprised at this thread.

Are you having an off day and in need of a hug?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Like babs said pp, don't focus on being overlooked, we all face that on the forums. Your contributions are sorely missed when you take a sabbatical especially from the people here who class you as a friend...and there's a fair few of them!

Peach x

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"How are you measuring the ‘pointlessness’ of your contributions? Based on number of replies? People agreeing with you? Arguing with you? Flirting with you?

Most of the things I write in threads are totally ignored and uncommented on or replied to, high into the upper percentiles.

I’ll just go ahead and post my bobbins anyway! "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

That's because you haven't done a kiss, fuck, avoid thread, do one of those and they will come

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You are one of my favourite people on the forums lovely. You have been my friend for years. I've noticed you don't post as much, but you need to remember, you've been through so much this past year. You are probably feeling like this because of your mood. You have a lot on here who adore you. To me, you will always fit in here.... I for one, miss seeing your regular morning posts and your banter with Bladey. It may take time to to feel you back into it. But you'll get there because you are a trooper

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How are you measuring the ‘pointlessness’ of your contributions? Based on number of replies? People agreeing with you? Arguing with you? Flirting with you?

Most of the things I write in threads are totally ignored and uncommented on or replied to, high into the upper percentiles.

I’ll just go ahead and post my bobbins anyway!

This! "

Darn it .. you were supposed to ignore this so later on I could say “see?”

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Thanks for your honest answers.

I lost my way last year and some of you know where I'm coming from and why.

Yes buzz I probably am being a dick head.

Maybe I am seeing things that aren't there, my head has never been stuck up my arse though.

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

It’s not that you don’t fit in, it’s more likely the people you used to banter most with probably aren’t as prolific as they used to be so it looks to you like less people are interested in your post, it has no reflection on you at all

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham

I know how you feel pp. Sometimes I feel that as I'm not on here as much as I was the forums have moved on and I don't 'get' a lot of the jokes etc.

I don't care really though.... I just keep posting for kg own amusement lol

Hope you're doing OK. Can always slide into my DM's if you need a bit og a chat. Us old timers gotta look out for each other

P.s. I thought this aid how do I come across you and nearly put.... You can come across me anytime

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks for your honest answers.

I lost my way last year and some of you know where I'm coming from and why.

Yes buzz I probably am being a dick head.

Maybe I am seeing things that aren't there, my head has never been stuck up my arse though."

Ah. Mine’s so far up my arse now I can only see when I open my mouth

Still much loved PP x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks for your honest answers.

I lost my way last year and some of you know where I'm coming from and why.

Yes buzz I probably am being a dick head.

Maybe I am seeing things that aren't there, my head has never been stuck up my arse though."

Oh give over - you know what I mean

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Thanks for your honest answers.

I lost my way last year and some of you know where I'm coming from and why.

Yes buzz I probably am being a dick head.

Maybe I am seeing things that aren't there, my head has never been stuck up my arse though.

Oh give over - you know what I mean "

Yes I do

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I know how you feel pp. Sometimes I feel that as I'm not on here as much as I was the forums have moved on and I don't 'get' a lot of the jokes etc.

I don't care really though.... I just keep posting for kg own amusement lol

Hope you're doing OK. Can always slide into my DM's if you need a bit og a chat. Us old timers gotta look out for each other

P.s. I thought this aid how do I come across you and nearly put.... You can come across me anytime "

Oo'er

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Feeling better ?

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset


"I know how you feel pp. Sometimes I feel that as I'm not on here as much as I was the forums have moved on and I don't 'get' a lot of the jokes etc.

I don't care really though.... I just keep posting for kg own amusement lol

Hope you're doing OK. Can always slide into my DM's if you need a bit og a chat. Us old timers gotta look out for each other

P.s. I thought this aid how do I come across you and nearly put.... You can come across me anytime "

Took me a while to get motivated after our four year hiatus.

It was odd at first, but then I remembered why I spent so much time in here before. And was nice to see plenty of familiar names, yours included.

It wasn't for anyone else's benefit really. It was an outlet for me. It doesn't matter what you post, how often, or whether it's serious or humerous. It doesn't matter if your post seems to get ignored or if it stirs a 175 long discussion. It really doesn't matter if you take a break and concentrate on real life. The forums will be waiting.

Worry less about others perceptions and whether any of this really matters and just enjoy it. If it stops being enjoyable log off.

Chin up.

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know how you feel pp. Sometimes I feel that as I'm not on here as much as I was the forums have moved on and I don't 'get' a lot of the jokes etc.

I don't care really though.... I just keep posting for kg own amusement lol

Hope you're doing OK. Can always slide into my DM's if you need a bit og a chat. Us old timers gotta look out for each other

P.s. I thought this aid how do I come across you and nearly put.... You can come across me anytime

Took me a while to get motivated after our four year hiatus.

It was odd at first, but then I remembered why I spent so much time in here before. And was nice to see plenty of familiar names, yours included.

It wasn't for anyone else's benefit really. It was an outlet for me. It doesn't matter what you post, how often, or whether it's serious or humerous. It doesn't matter if your post seems to get ignored or if it stirs a 175 long discussion. It really doesn't matter if you take a break and concentrate on real life. The forums will be waiting.

Worry less about others perceptions and whether any of this really matters and just enjoy it. If it stops being enjoyable log off.

Chin up.

A"

Wise words indeed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know how you feel pp. Sometimes I feel that as I'm not on here as much as I was the forums have moved on and I don't 'get' a lot of the jokes etc.

I don't care really though.... I just keep posting for kg own amusement lol

Hope you're doing OK. Can always slide into my DM's if you need a bit og a chat. Us old timers gotta look out for each other

P.s. I thought this aid how do I come across you and nearly put.... You can come across me anytime

Took me a while to get motivated after our four year hiatus.

It was odd at first, but then I remembered why I spent so much time in here before. And was nice to see plenty of familiar names, yours included.

It wasn't for anyone else's benefit really. It was an outlet for me. It doesn't matter what you post, how often, or whether it's serious or humerous. It doesn't matter if your post seems to get ignored or if it stirs a 175 long discussion. It really doesn't matter if you take a break and concentrate on real life. The forums will be waiting.

Worry less about others perceptions and whether any of this really matters and just enjoy it. If it stops being enjoyable log off.

Chin up.

A"

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp"

Who said that

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think you're overanalyzing. Just do what you feel comfortable and you seem to have loads of friends who would be saddened if you stopped contributing.

I post thoughtful comments that are usually panned or ignored but I don't let that affect me. Speak your mind always if you feel you should

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Really pp? I thought you were one of the ones that didn't try to fit in with the in crowd. I'm disappointed in you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that"

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open? "

Who's going to win though?

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan  over a year ago

Halifax


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

Put your big boy pants on PP.

WAWAW 3 points today mate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though? "

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Put your big boy pants on PP.

WAWAW 3 points today mate. "

PP, in pants? That’s not a common sight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"PP I think that you’re too focused on the negative. You will only enjoy your time on here if you do what makes you happy. If you notice you have been overlooked on a thread and then focus on it, that will make it a negative experience.

Focus on the positive, do what makes you happy and don’t dwell on things outside of your control. My honest view x "

The lady talks sense

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"Thanks for your honest answers.

I lost my way last year and some of you know where I'm coming from and why.

Yes buzz I probably am being a dick head.

Maybe I am seeing things that aren't there, my head has never been stuck up my arse though."

Well the only thing you’ll find up there is crap so why would you want to do that?

Hang on .... some people do want to find that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

As others have said you’ve had a trying past year and that probably affects your mood. But yes you’re very much liked on the forums and I always enjoy your contributions on threads. I know I’ve had a quiet few weeks on here because I’ve not been well and there seems to have been a lot of illness that’s affecting forumites so regular posters have been missed.

I’m trying to say keep posting, you’d be sorely missed again if you went x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though?

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance."

Wales will pip France, no way!!

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

All Good now the moment has passed from this old attention seeking fart

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Feeling better ?"

Wow. You don’t give him long do you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Feeling better ?

Wow. You don’t give him long do you? "

You made him bloody worse!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though?

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance.

Wales will pip France, no way!! "

L’on verra, ce que l’on verra as they say in Paris

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In the grand scheme of things, the whole forum is pretty pointless really. It's here for amusement and waffling.

Stick to the waffling that makes you smile and pass the waffling that doesn't by.

It's just a tool for entertainment - no more, no less

Hakuna Matata

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Feeling better ?

Wow. You don’t give him long do you? "

No she's and in n out kind of lady and never buy her the wrong drink

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though?

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance.

Wales will pip France, no way!!

L’on verra, ce que l’on verra as they say in Paris"

Eh!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In the grand scheme of things, the whole forum is pretty pointless really. It's here for amusement and waffling.

Stick to the waffling that makes you smile and pass the waffling that doesn't by.

It's just a tool for entertainment - no more, no less

...."

....you’re a tool.....

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"In the grand scheme of things, the whole forum is pretty pointless really. It's here for amusement and waffling.

Stick to the waffling that makes you smile and pass the waffling that doesn't by.

It's just a tool for entertainment - no more, no less

Hakuna Matata "

Ok pumba

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Feeling better ?

Wow. You don’t give him long do you? "

He’s a drama king ... no I won’t give him long

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Feeling better ?

Wow. You don’t give him long do you?

No she's and in n out kind of lady and never buy her the wrong drink "

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I think the majority of folk who post on the forum may feel like that PP from time to time.

But it’s just a forum on a Swingers site, in the grand scheme of things. It never even really changes. You have a break and comeback and it’s the same stuff, just a different day. So does it really matter?

You have friends on here, they appreciate you and you know that.

Try not to take it to heart x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t you dare go, I’ll have to follow you, your the only one with Maltesers and of course I like you

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast


"Thanks for your honest answers.

I lost my way last year and some of you know where I'm coming from and why.

Yes buzz I probably am being a dick head.

Maybe I am seeing things that aren't there, my head has never been stuck up my arse though."

Your my favourite fabber across the water.....would miss reading your post.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though?

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance.

Wales will pip France, no way!!

L’on verra, ce que l’on verra as they say in Paris

Eh!"

We’ll see. You can trust the French to use 6-8 words when 2 will do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think you're overanalyzing. Just do what you feel comfortable and you seem to have loads of friends who would be saddened if you stopped contributing.

I post thoughtful comments that are usually panned or ignored but I don't let that affect me. Speak your mind always if you feel you should "

nice photo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We all lose our mojo from time to time. Take a break for a day or so then come back refreshed.

Everyone gets skipped from time to time, don't take it personally!

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Feeling better ?

Wow. You don’t give him long do you?

He’s a drama king ... no I won’t give him long "

Harsh but true, I never need long by the way

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though?

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance.

Wales will pip France, no way!!

L’on verra, ce que l’on verra as they say in Paris

Eh!

We’ll see. You can trust the French to use 6-8 words when 2 will do"

Doc piss off you're confusing me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In the grand scheme of things, the whole forum is pretty pointless really. It's here for amusement and waffling.

Stick to the waffling that makes you smile and pass the waffling that doesn't by.

It's just a tool for entertainment - no more, no less

....

....you’re a tool.....

"

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I think you're overanalyzing. Just do what you feel comfortable and you seem to have loads of friends who would be saddened if you stopped contributing.

I post thoughtful comments that are usually panned or ignored but I don't let that affect me. Speak your mind always if you feel you should nice photo "

Oi

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"We all lose our mojo from time to time. Take a break for a day or so then come back refreshed.

Everyone gets skipped from time to time, don't take it personally!"

I can't skip maybe that's the problem x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though?

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance.

Wales will pip France, no way!!

L’on verra, ce que l’on verra as they say in Paris

Eh!

We’ll see. You can trust the French to use 6-8 words when 2 will do

Doc piss off you're confusing me "

And so Doc did all over PP’s rugby ball

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"PP I think that you’re too focused on the negative. You will only enjoy your time on here if you do what makes you happy. If you notice you have been overlooked on a thread and then focus on it, that will make it a negative experience.

Focus on the positive, do what makes you happy and don’t dwell on things outside of your control. My honest view x

The lady talks sense"

Thank you lovely I do occasionally.

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

I feel your pain pp

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think you're overanalyzing. Just do what you feel comfortable and you seem to have loads of friends who would be saddened if you stopped contributing.

I post thoughtful comments that are usually panned or ignored but I don't let that affect me. Speak your mind always if you feel you should nice photo

Oi "

hello

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We all lose our mojo from time to time. Take a break for a day or so then come back refreshed.

Everyone gets skipped from time to time, don't take it personally!

I can't skip maybe that's the problem x"

We were slipping through the office recently so if you need lessons...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We all lose our mojo from time to time. Take a break for a day or so then come back refreshed.

Everyone gets skipped from time to time, don't take it personally!

I can't skip maybe that's the problem x

We were slipping through the office recently so if you need lessons..."

SKIPPING

FFS

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"[Removed by poster at 02/02/19 10:05:09]"

Bloody auto carrot.

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"PP I think that you’re too focused on the negative. You will only enjoy your time on here if you do what makes you happy. If you notice you have been overlooked on a thread and then focus on it, that will make it a negative experience.

Focus on the positive, do what makes you happy and don’t dwell on things outside of your control. My honest view x

The lady talks sense

Thank you lovely I do occasionally. "

Mwah x

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By * Plus ECouple  over a year ago

The South


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

You've just contributed.

I like your posts.

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

You've just contributed.

I like your posts. "

I'm like a bad penny

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By * Plus ECouple  over a year ago

The South


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

You've just contributed.

I like your posts.

I'm like a bad penny "

If you see a penny......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though?

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance.

Wales will pip France, no way!!

L’on verra, ce que l’on verra as they say in Paris

Eh!

We’ll see. You can trust the French to use 6-8 words when 2 will do

Doc piss off you're confusing me "

No wonder your bloody confused I forgot that the Welsh played the French last night as I was watching the Kaiser Chiefs in Manchester. I hadn’t seen the result At least my prediction would have been right albeit a day late .

Off to give my head a wobble.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've always been overlooked I just keep on chatting regardless. Can't imagine anyone would overlook you though pp

Who said that

Love the avatar - keeping your options open?

Who's going to win though?

Tough call. Irish in Dublin - I think Ireland have to be favourites to win, Wales will pip France. Scotland will beat Italy.

As for the tournament I think the Irish will win but it could be very close. England will have to play at their best to have a real chance.

Wales will pip France, no way!!

L’on verra, ce que l’on verra as they say in Paris

Eh!

We’ll see. You can trust the French to use 6-8 words when 2 will do

Doc piss off you're confusing me

No wonder your bloody confused I forgot that the Welsh played the French last night as I was watching the Kaiser Chiefs in Manchester. I hadn’t seen the result At least my prediction would have been right albeit a day late .

Off to give my head a wobble....."

*you’re

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Seeeee, look at all the lurve now, OP!

Normal service resumed!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"Shut up !!

Get your head out of your arse !!

Jesus wept - you know that’s absolute rubbish "

I was going to write something but this about sums it up..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Seeeee, look at all the lurve now, OP!

Normal service resumed! "

Thank fuck , such a melodrama

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

You've just contributed.

I like your posts.

I'm like a bad penny

If you see a penny......"

Pick it up and pass it in for good luck

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Seeeee, look at all the lurve now, OP!

Normal service resumed!

Thank fuck , such a melodrama "

Oi

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most of my contributions are pointless but I still do it anyway. Shouting into the wind still gets your words out there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most of my contributions are pointless but I still do it anyway. Shouting into the wind still gets your words out there "

I described my self as the crazy uncle that sits in the armchair at parties that blurts out now and again. Probably a bad Dad joke for the kids benifit.

After a few drinks I get into arguments and people ignore me for weeks, but then we all forget about it and we get akong again. But that rumour of that night in the farmers field after the vodka and the garden table went missing Is always in the back of the families mind.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You stopped posting for a while.

New blood came along.

The women you interacted with the most left.

You have to work hard and build up your fan base.

I don't notice you much on the forums now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Come here pp, lets just hold each other for a minute or two.

That’s it, rest your head on my chest.

You’re very special and we enjoy your contributions, now pull yourself together!

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Come here pp, lets just hold each other for a minute or two.

That’s it, rest your head on my chest.

You’re very special and we enjoy your contributions, now pull yourself together!"

Yes Sam

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most of my contributions are pointless but I still do it anyway. Shouting into the wind still gets your words out there

I described my self as the crazy uncle that sits in the armchair at parties that blurts out now and again. Probably a bad Dad joke for the kids benifit.

After a few drinks I get into arguments and people ignore me for weeks, but then we all forget about it and we get akong again. But that rumour of that night in the farmers field after the vodka and the garden table went missing Is always in the back of the families mind. "

Just keep me well fed and watered at parties and I'll stay in my chair chuntering away to myself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You stopped posting for a while.

New blood came along.

The women you interacted with the most left.

You have to work hard and build up your fan base.

I don't notice you much on the forums now."

It’s like when the Stone Roses disappeared then came back, Oasis had stole there thunder and the Roses were seen as passé. You have to stay at the top of your game to keep the pretenders away.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You stopped posting for a while.

New blood came along.

The women you interacted with the most left.

You have to work hard and build up your fan base.

I don't notice you much on the forums now.

It’s like when the Stone Roses disappeared then came back, Oasis had stole there thunder and the Roses were seen as passé. You have to stay at the top of your game to keep the pretenders away. "

That is a very strange analogy tame

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most of my contributions are pointless but I still do it anyway. Shouting into the wind still gets your words out there

I described my self as the crazy uncle that sits in the armchair at parties that blurts out now and again. Probably a bad Dad joke for the kids benifit.

After a few drinks I get into arguments and people ignore me for weeks, but then we all forget about it and we get akong again. But that rumour of that night in the farmers field after the vodka and the garden table went missing Is always in the back of the families mind.

Just keep me well fed and watered at parties and I'll stay in my chair chuntering away to myself "

Pull your chair up close to mine, we can mock the youngsters.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up

Can I just point out at this point that I originally read the title is how do I come across you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can I just point out at this point that I originally read the title is how do I come across you "

That's easier to answer

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Most of my contributions are pointless but I still do it anyway. Shouting into the wind still gets your words out there

I described my self as the crazy uncle that sits in the armchair at parties that blurts out now and again. Probably a bad Dad joke for the kids benifit.

After a few drinks I get into arguments and people ignore me for weeks, but then we all forget about it and we get akong again. But that rumour of that night in the farmers field after the vodka and the garden table went missing Is always in the back of the families mind.

Just keep me well fed and watered at parties and I'll stay in my chair chuntering away to myself

Pull your chair up close to mine, we can mock the youngsters. "

You are a youngster

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Can I just point out at this point that I originally read the title is how do I come across you "

Thats cos You have a dirty mind

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most of my contributions are pointless but I still do it anyway. Shouting into the wind still gets your words out there

I described my self as the crazy uncle that sits in the armchair at parties that blurts out now and again. Probably a bad Dad joke for the kids benifit.

After a few drinks I get into arguments and people ignore me for weeks, but then we all forget about it and we get akong again. But that rumour of that night in the farmers field after the vodka and the garden table went missing Is always in the back of the families mind.

Just keep me well fed and watered at parties and I'll stay in my chair chuntering away to myself

Pull your chair up close to mine, we can mock the youngsters.

You are a youngster "

On here....? I’m dead old!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"Can I just point out at this point that I originally read the title is how do I come across you

Thats cos You have a dirty mind "

I read it first thing.. although you have got a point x

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Most of my contributions are pointless but I still do it anyway. Shouting into the wind still gets your words out there

I described my self as the crazy uncle that sits in the armchair at parties that blurts out now and again. Probably a bad Dad joke for the kids benifit.

After a few drinks I get into arguments and people ignore me for weeks, but then we all forget about it and we get akong again. But that rumour of that night in the farmers field after the vodka and the garden table went missing Is always in the back of the families mind.

Just keep me well fed and watered at parties and I'll stay in my chair chuntering away to myself

Pull your chair up close to mine, we can mock the youngsters.

You are a youngster

On here....? I’m dead old! "

When you catch me up I'll be the one dribbling in the corner

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Can I just point out at this point that I originally read the title is how do I come across you

Thats cos You have a dirty mind

I read it first thing.. although you have got a point x "

I know x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

Ha ha x I don't fit in on here, or in the real world, I gave up giving a f**k a long time ago, my contribution to society may seem pointless to others but sod everyone else, its my own pleasure that counts

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

Have you considered a make over

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Ha ha x I don't fit in on here, or in the real world, I gave up giving a f**k a long time ago, my contribution to society may seem pointless to others but sod everyone else, its my own pleasure that counts"

That's always been my philosophy too, but I seem to have gone soft at the minute.

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Have you considered a make over "

Gok wong is coming nowhere near me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

You have always come across as friendly and positive to me and seemingly popular.

This post makes me think that you have used the forum as a popularity gauge or some kind of ego confirmation. Love yourself anyway. Ethereal strangers aren't a good measuring tool. x

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Have you considered a make over

Gok wong is coming nowhere near me "

What about Trinny and Susannah

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Have you considered a make over

Gok wong is coming nowhere near me

What about Trinny and Susannah "

Oooh now ya talking a couple of posh bitches

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Ha ha x I don't fit in on here, or in the real world, I gave up giving a f**k a long time ago, my contribution to society may seem pointless to others but sod everyone else, its my own pleasure that counts

That's always been my philosophy too, but I seem to have gone soft at the minute."

You need something to make it, sorry I mean you hard again

Jeez that still sounded wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Have you considered a make over

Gok wong is coming nowhere near me

What about Trinny and Susannah "

More like Nicky Hambleton-Jones.....

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Ha ha x I don't fit in on here, or in the real world, I gave up giving a f**k a long time ago, my contribution to society may seem pointless to others but sod everyone else, its my own pleasure that counts

That's always been my philosophy too, but I seem to have gone soft at the minute.

You need something to make it, sorry I mean you hard again

Jeez that still sounded wrong"

Yet so right

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hey buddy you good morning threads get the forums going, your a part of our little community and your valued by friends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Ha ha x I don't fit in on here, or in the real world, I gave up giving a f**k a long time ago, my contribution to society may seem pointless to others but sod everyone else, its my own pleasure that counts

That's always been my philosophy too, but I seem to have gone soft at the minute.

You need something to make it, sorry I mean you hard again

Jeez that still sounded wrong

Yet so right "

Whoop whoop I've been right on something other than a Maths test, go me x

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

Ha ha x I don't fit in on here, or in the real world, I gave up giving a f**k a long time ago, my contribution to society may seem pointless to others but sod everyone else, its my own pleasure that counts

That's always been my philosophy too, but I seem to have gone soft at the minute.

You need something to make it, sorry I mean you hard again

Jeez that still sounded wrong

Yet so right

Whoop whoop I've been right on something other than a Maths test, go me x "

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By *s_bettyboopWoman  over a year ago

-3

Here have some

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore."

And why would you want to fit in ?

To boost someone’s ego ?

Don’t be daft . Be unique and do not follow others .

I notice your posts

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Here have some "

Miss our chats xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do I have to kick your butt into next week?

P

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By *rivateparts! OP   Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel that my contributions in the forum are becoming non existent and now feel it's becoming pointless in posting.

Have I been here too long, I feel as if I don't fit in anymore.

And why would you want to fit in ?

To boost someone’s ego ?

Don’t be daft . Be unique and do not follow others .

I notice your posts "

That's something I've never done is follow others x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't worry about it OP. I'm often ignored!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

PP .. You're such a nice bloke .. Having met you in person you're one of the good guys.. Now chin up pal

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