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Do people know before they get married that their partners are BI ?
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over a year ago
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"I've only been with shrek 5years, but he told me from the start he was bi, did take me by surprise to start with fine with it now, has even got me a little curious  "
I told my ex-wife I was bi when we met. It was a source of anxiety for her for a while. I think she thought I would run off with the first bloke that looked at me. |
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I didn’t know I was bisexual when I got married almost 30 years ago. I don’t think it was even a term that was used very much then. I was 50 when I finally realised I was happy to describe myself as bisexual and then realised later I was more accurately pansexual. Ironically I haven’t practised any sort of sexual contact other than heterosexual since I accepted it myself, in fact, haven’t done so for 10 years. I only felt able to talk to anyone apart from Fabbers about it in the last two weeks. Sexuality for a boy with a strong Catholic upbringing has been a rocky road of discovery and a whole fleet of bin lorries full of shame. I feel like I really have only just begun actually openly living with my sexuality. |
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By *yesgreen OP Man
over a year ago
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"I didn’t know I was bisexual when I got married almost 30 years ago. I don’t think it was even a term that was used very much then. I was 50 when I finally realised I was happy to describe myself as bisexual and then realised later I was more accurately pansexual. Ironically I haven’t practised any sort of sexual contact other than heterosexual since I accepted it myself, in fact, haven’t done so for 10 years. I only felt able to talk to anyone apart from Fabbers about it in the last two weeks. Sexuality for a boy with a strong Catholic upbringing has been a rocky road of discovery and a whole fleet of bin lorries full of shame. I feel like I really have only just begun actually openly living with my sexuality."
I always wanted to meet and marry a bi lady or even have a gay lady friend for nights out both looking at the ladies
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Husband isn’t bi but I am, he’s always known. We actually have the same ex girlfriend from high school  (not at the same time - and if anyone loves my high school stories, it’s one of the girls with the BlackBerry phone in the school toilets)  |
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By *yesgreen OP Man
over a year ago
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"Husband isn’t bi but I am, he’s always known. We actually have the same ex girlfriend from high school (not at the same time - and if anyone loves my high school stories, it’s one of the girls with the BlackBerry phone in the school toilets) "
thats lovely and he gets to see two ladies having fun together and 3 for breakfast in the morning nice fantasy for me |
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"Husband isn’t bi but I am, he’s always known. We actually have the same ex girlfriend from high school (not at the same time - and if anyone loves my high school stories, it’s one of the girls with the BlackBerry phone in the school toilets)
thats lovely and he gets to see two ladies having fun together and 3 for breakfast in the morning nice fantasy for me "
At what point does he get to see two ladies having fun? |
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1. We don't choose our sexuality, or actively change it over time. If it changes it's just something that happens.
2. Women aren't into other women because men find it hot. That's actually a massive turn off for me and I've turned down plenty of guys who have told me how hot it is that I'm bi. I'm not here to put on a show. |
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"1. We don't choose our sexuality, or actively change it over time. If it changes it's just something that happens.
2. Women aren't into other women because men find it hot. That's actually a massive turn off for me and I've turned down plenty of guys who have told me how hot it is that I'm bi. I'm not here to put on a show."
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"1. We don't choose our sexuality, or actively change it over time. If it changes it's just something that happens.
2. Women aren't into other women because men find it hot. That's actually a massive turn off for me and I've turned down plenty of guys who have told me how hot it is that I'm bi. I'm not here to put on a show."
That’s not always the case .
When we got together over eight years ago my wife wasn’t bi at all .
When we started swinging after being together for almost a year , she enjoyed the play with women as much as she did with men .
We got married a year later , and I’ve asked her many times if she’s always had that bi side to her . Her answer is always the same , she is only situationally bi and the main reason she does it is to put a show on for me and anyone else watching . Mind you the same can be said for any type of play she has , but although I respect your response , it’s not the case here . |
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By *yesgreen OP Man
over a year ago
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"Husband isn’t bi but I am, he’s always known. We actually have the same ex girlfriend from high school (not at the same time - and if anyone loves my high school stories, it’s one of the girls with the BlackBerry phone in the school toilets)
thats lovely and he gets to see two ladies having fun together and 3 for breakfast in the morning nice fantasy for me , Does he not , that's ok it's my lovely fantasy, not everyone thinks the same
At what point does he get to see two ladies having fun? "
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"I didn’t know I was bisexual when I got married almost 30 years ago. I don’t think it was even a term that was used very much then. I was 50 when I finally realised I was happy to describe myself as bisexual and then realised later I was more accurately pansexual. Ironically I haven’t practised any sort of sexual contact other than heterosexual since I accepted it myself, in fact, haven’t done so for 10 years. I only felt able to talk to anyone apart from Fabbers about it in the last two weeks. Sexuality for a boy with a strong Catholic upbringing has been a rocky road of discovery and a whole fleet of bin lorries full of shame. I feel like I really have only just begun actually openly living with my sexuality."
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We’re both bi, I told sam I was bi and dom when we first met she felt she was bi and sub which we explored more and definitely confirmed very quickly with the help of a blindfold for freeing inhibitions. We now seek only bi couples to sate our same sex desires |
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