I guess it all depends what you consider to be success. For some it’s obviously going to be having sex but for others it can be as simple as having a nice chat, social meet or making friends.
Some people would consider hubby and I to have had the ultimate success because we met on Fab and have been married nearly 4 years |
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Seriously low - maybe 1 in 40 - 50 messages gets a reply, mostly negative (though nearly always polite - have had one or two respond saying ".....youre having a laugh" and making derogatory/negative comments, but they're in the absolute minority). In terms of positive replies it's probably 1 in 75 - 80 messages sent (zero messages received without me sending the first). Incredibly rare I message any women now, just go to socials and show myself for who I am, without pressure either way, which pays WAY more dividends, both in terms of networking and 'meets', when the percentages go up into probably more like 35 - 40% over the last 12 months or so. (Not a whinge by the way, just statistics (Imagine this is probably about the average for most single males on the Fab food chain?)). |
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Every message I send becomes part of a conversation. Those conversations tend to come to a natural close. Some shorter than others. All of them I see as a success in some ways.
I don’t send random messages though. Stopped doing that over 5 years ago.
The vast majority of my conversations are initiated by the other person. Unless we are in ongoing communication. |
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Depends on how you measure success?
Named on popularity reaffirming ‘which Forumer do you fancy?’ threads? About 23%
Random daily Spanish Inquistion emails? 73%
Meeting as often as I am able to and want to? 90%
Ability to make ladies froth from their underpants? 2%
Cake chat? 100%
What about you, OP? |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Depends on how you measure success?
Named on popularity reaffirming ‘which Forumer do you fancy?’ threads? About 23%
Random daily Spanish Inquistion emails? 73%
Meeting as often as I am able to and want to? 90%
Ability to make ladies froth from their underpants? 2%
Cake chat? 100%
What about you, OP? "
Meets 0% because I don’t meet
Forum popularity 0%
Cake chat 100%
Attracting abusing messages 100%
Exchange of messages with some very interesting people 100%
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"Depends on how you measure success?
Named on popularity reaffirming ‘which Forumer do you fancy?’ threads? About 23%
Random daily Spanish Inquistion emails? 73%
Meeting as often as I am able to and want to? 90%
Ability to make ladies froth from their underpants? 2%
Cake chat? 100%
What about you, OP?
Meets 0% because I don’t meet
Forum popularity 0%
Cake chat 100%
Attracting abusing messages 100%
Exchange of messages with some very interesting people 100%
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popular with me at least you make me laugh |
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"I get mostly what I want from here. As soon as Jason Mamoa joins and becomes my long term fuck buddy I'll be at 100%."
My son looks so like him (even same height) that he actually gets stopped when he's out!! |
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"I get mostly what I want from here. As soon as Jason Mamoa joins and becomes my long term fuck buddy I'll be at 100%.
My son looks so like him (even same height) that he actually gets stopped when he's out!! "
i thought arranged marrage was illigal now  |
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"I get mostly what I want from here. As soon as Jason Mamoa joins and becomes my long term fuck buddy I'll be at 100%.
My son looks so like him (even same height) that he actually gets stopped when he's out!! i thought arranged marrage was illigal now "
Hahahahahahahahahaha |
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"I get mostly what I want from here. As soon as Jason Mamoa joins and becomes my long term fuck buddy I'll be at 100%.
My son looks so like him (even same height) that he actually gets stopped when he's out!! i thought arranged marrage was illigal now
Hahahahahahahahahaha "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fab works for me exactly how I want it to work.
In terms of satisfaction? 100%
My measure of success is unique to me. If I wasn't happy, I'd either start whiney threads or just leave |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd say 95%. I haven't calculated and I could assign various things a numerical value but that's effort and it's lunch time. So minus 5% because a couple of things haven't been brilliant. But generally very very happy. Actually, I met my love on here so I'd say 100%. |
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