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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them? |
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?"
Does anyone even scroll through the names to check? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really does make me laugh when I read through these threads and see comments like that.
Surely if you have the hots for someone, it's better that they know about it. After all, they might feel the same way about you, but because you haven't mentioned them, they might equally be worried about rejection.
On the other hand, if you do reveal who you like, and they feel the same way, then you have the chance to do something about it.
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"It really does make me laugh when I read through these threads and see comments like that.
Surely if you have the hots for someone, it's better that they know about it. After all, they might feel the same way about you, but because you haven't mentioned them, they might equally be worried about rejection.
On the other hand, if you do reveal who you like, and they feel the same way, then you have the chance to do something about it.
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*shrug* You don't have all the data about why someone doesn't pursue it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I don't expect to be called out, in fact I'd find it kind of awkward. People can message me if they want to, or admire from afar if they're more comfortable that way. "
This, if I like somebody I'll message them. Don't need to name them as they already know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really does make me laugh when I read through these threads and see comments like that.
Surely if you have the hots for someone, it's better that they know about it. After all, they might feel the same way about you, but because you haven't mentioned them, they might equally be worried about rejection.
On the other hand, if you do reveal who you like, and they feel the same way, then you have the chance to do something about it.
*shrug* You don't have all the data about why someone doesn't pursue it. "
Yes, I suppose that's a fair point. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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Mostly I interact with people that don’t go on the forums. I just treat the forums as a bit of a giggle. I don’t care if I’m not mentioned and I don’t take it that seriously. I did name on the other thread because I think LaceyandSam are hot tottie why wouldn’t I mention them?
Bit extreme to block people or take the hump though surely? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I don't expect to be called out, in fact I'd find it kind of awkward. People can message me if they want to, or admire from afar if they're more comfortable that way.
This, if I like somebody I'll message them. Don't need to name them as they already know. "
That's not really the question though - someone you fancy doesn't name you on one of those threads. Do you get the hump with that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?"
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?"
Nope, but i have messaged people whove named me and met them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!?? "
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do"
I have actually had someone message me before apologising for not naming me, apparently they didn’t want to upset others 
Didn’t realise I was a crush to be embarrassed about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do"
Who didnt name you op  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope! If I like the look of someone I'll message them privately, usually via a forum thread. The guys I have a laugh with on the forums are already friends. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!?? "
It would seem that some do  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do
Who didnt name you op "
I never get named but I’m quite happy to name people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do"
Oh I thought they were not naming for fear of upsetting the person they named and getting blocked by them! Although it was all said in a joke way I think. Maybe I read it wrong. I dunno. I just see all those types of things as a bit of fun tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got mentioned on a nice guys type thread once, bit of a surprise as I’m a twat really.
I never get mentioned on the ‘crushes’ type threads and frankly I’d be very surprised if I was.
And the Forum users are far too polite to name me on the Forumites that piss you off type threads.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do
Oh I thought they were not naming for fear of upsetting the person they named and getting blocked by them! Although it was all said in a joke way I think. Maybe I read it wrong. I dunno. I just see all those types of things as a bit of fun tbh. "
Yep if I named all my hotlist I’d get blocked and have nothing to perve.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think those type of threads are no more than a bit of fun, with the potential for a bit of an ego boost (albeit a fleeting one) and an ice breaker at best - any one taking them seriously enough to get the hump because they're not named needs to give their head a serious wobble.
Now I'm off to find that thread to see if anyone named me and there'll be hell to pay if they haven't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do"
I thought the fact that I'm not naming anyone was me not taking it seriously enough. Can't win!
I have a none issue with naming them but I don't feel the need to as explained above.
Not do I care if I'm named or not (always nice to be named by a surprise admirer though).
As I say if I have a crush on them I'll message regardless of anything else. |
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do
I have actually had someone message me before apologising for not naming me, apparently they didn’t want to upset others
Didn’t realise I was a crush to be embarrassed about "
That's why I did name you , you sexy fuckin thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?
Do people really actually take these things that seriously!??
That’s what I’m trying to find out
The number of people who won’t name for fear of upsetting others suggests that they do
I have actually had someone message me before apologising for not naming me, apparently they didn’t want to upset others
Didn’t realise I was a crush to be embarrassed about "
You aren't  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"The 'name your crush' thread is going the same way they always do 'they know' 'I can't say or I'll annoy others'
So, has anyone read one of these, not seen their name and then blocked (or just gone off someone) because they weren't named by them?"
It's why we left for four years.
Couldn't take the humiliation of never being named in those threads.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't block someone who had a crush on me unless they were a cunt.
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I wish you’d just tell it like it is and stop being soft "
I know, I'm turning into a proper poontang |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have t got time to scroll through a thread looking for my name that way probably wasn’t there any way.
I’ve only got a few weirdos on my block list, none are from the forum |
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