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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Curious as to how you feel about the site and any improvements or ideas you have on improving the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Phone emoji and gifs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Phone emoji and gifs"

Not a bad idea I could understand if they did this for site supporters only, but the current emojis seem really outdated, plus phones nowadays have emojis built into the keyboard which are higher quality

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

Maybe you could post your ideas in the site feedback forum. Admin do read it and have acted in suggestions made in the past

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first.

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

I’d leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can we do strike through text on the forum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe you could post your ideas in the site feedback forum. Admin do read it and have acted in suggestions made in the past"

Part of the reason why I made the forum, it would be good to gather ideas on how to update the site, maybe make it more eye catching and a little less bland looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. "

Sounds like a decent idea but 5 days seems a bit long, plus people who come onto the site may want to be messaged straight away, it might work well as a personal setting which you could turn on or off depending on whether or not you want to receive messages without hiding your profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. "

That’s a good idea

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By *W ChapMan over a year ago

Swindon

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. "
Ladies for sure, I can see how this would be beneficial, I'm sure blokes would be delighted to get messages as soon as they join, if that's ever happened in the history of fab

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By *dam and slutCouple over a year ago

Manchester

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. Rubidoux

That’s a good idea

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mrs sex in heels

Can you make it so that each person's quote gets their name ? See above (hoping this works)

Sometimes I just skip to the end of a thread but when things have got long winded its hard to work out who said what. Maybe I shouldn't be so lazy and read the whole thread.

xslutx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. Rubidoux

That’s a good idea

mrs sex in heels

Can you make it so that each person's quote gets their name ? See above (hoping this works)

Sometimes I just skip to the end of a thread but when things have got long winded its hard to work out who said what. Maybe I shouldn't be so lazy and read the whole thread.

xslutx"

Not a bad idea would save a lot of scrolling and trying to find specific messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

allow ANY type of profile photo/pic. Am Sure many fabbers sick of seeing cock pics(after all they're all exactly the same length aren't they??).Cant see the harm in cartoon pics or relevant clean pics. ie; me-a pic of a gnome surely not offensive !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No - but it doesn’t make sense on a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Age filters; if I were meeting women I’d have to change them, I wish you could have separate age filters for different sexes

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

The ability to edit a forum thread within two minutes of posting rather than having to delete due to an autocarrot moment.

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By *CheshireMaleMan over a year ago

Middlewich

Over 50s chat room lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The ability to edit a forum thread within two minutes of posting rather than having to delete due to an autocarrot moment.

+1 and the ability to Fab posts.

Although women will get every post fabbed...

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By *eardsandboobsCouple over a year ago

north of lincoln

The meets section is appalling.

For a site where the main aim is to meet people there is a very limited search on the meet requests. The locations are split in to 7 or 8 areas.

And you can't search for what other people want on posted meets

In the east mids the area is the hunger down to Colchester with derby Nottingham included. So everybday there are over 100 meets listed and over 300 on a Saturday. You can only filter by the person who has posted eg M MF however of those MF ones that are posted it would be good to be able to just look at the ones that want to meet a F or M rather than scroll through every meet.

The option to change your location to a different country when travelling .

Ability to have different folders of photos (female, male, face, action etc )on your profile rather than dated order .

For a site that yes is free to most it is what it is, but there is revenue coming in from the site suooorters yet there has been no change to the website in at least 8 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. "

And make it that new unvaried. Non photo varied and non site supported be restricted to 5 messages a day. Stop the fakes and time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first.

And make it that new unvaried. Non photo varied and non site supported be restricted to 5 messages a day. Stop the fakes and time wasters."

You csn block all of those categories yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Phone emoji and gifs"

This definitely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first.

And make it that new unvaried. Non photo varied and non site supported be restricted to 5 messages a day. Stop the fakes and time wasters.

You csn block all of those categories yourself "

Yes i know i can but it will help everyone

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The ability to edit a forum thread within two minutes of posting rather than having to delete due to an autocarrot moment.

+1 and the ability to Fab posts.

Although women will get every post fabbed..."

Fabbed !

Plus it would save wasting one of the valuable 175 posts available.

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"The ability to edit a forum thread within two minutes of posting rather than having to delete due to an autocarrot moment.

Thats a good idea but simply just copy it and delete , paste into a new post with the editing done.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The ability to edit a forum thread within two minutes of posting rather than having to delete due to an autocarrot moment.

+1 and the ability to Fab posts.

Although women will get every post fabbed...

Fabbed !

Plus it would save wasting one of the valuable 175 posts available.

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. "

Most people join to recieve mail, after 5 days people will be bored and leave because they can send a message but get nothing back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first.

Most people join to recieve mail, after 5 days people will be bored and leave because they can send a message but get nothing back."

I joined for casual sex, but whatever floats your boat.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The ability to edit a forum thread within two minutes of posting rather than having to delete due to an autocarrot moment.

Thats a good idea but simply just copy it and delete , paste into a new post with the editing done."

But you're still wasting a post then.

Someone may come to a thread late and miss out because a few thumb heavy typers have mis-spelt a word.

Ducking annoying when that hedgehogs.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Age filters; if I were meeting women I’d have to change them, I wish you could have separate age filters for different sexes "
yeah I've had the same thought, some people have preferences where they prefer younger men and older women, but instead it groups them all together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The ability to edit a forum thread within two minutes of posting rather than having to delete due to an autocarrot moment.

+1 and the ability to Fab posts.

Although women will get every post fabbed..."
yeah so rather than seeing what forums have the newest replies you could see how well voted that forum is

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The meets section is appalling.

For a site where the main aim is to meet people there is a very limited search on the meet requests. The locations are split in to 7 or 8 areas.

And you can't search for what other people want on posted meets

The option to change your location to a different country when travelling .

Ability to have different folders of photos (female, male, face, action etc )on your profile rather than dated order .

For a site that yes is free to most it is what it is, but there is revenue coming in from the site suooorters yet there has been no change to the website in at least 8 years "
the meets section definitely needs improvements with locations and having a setting to filter for what you're looking for. I like the idea for an album section under "your photos" where you could make different photo folders say for 'personal favourites','photos taken at meets', male and female' 'just male' and just female' for couples accounts would be pretty good

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first.

And make it that new unvaried. Non photo varied and non site supported be restricted to 5 messages a day. Stop the fakes and time wasters."
yeah I agree that unverified people should get restricted more on messages because it really isn't difficult to do it, plus they can't use the excuse "I don't want my face to be recognised" since it's only the site admins who see them anyway

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By *tirluvMan over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I'd have a scratch and sniff section

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Better smileys

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Maidstone

Make hotlists visible to users but only when both parties match.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

If someone would recruit a load of hot over 50's south of London please, ta muchly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Elevator music

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"allow ANY type of profile photo/pic. Am Sure many fabbers sick of seeing cock pics(after all they're all exactly the same length aren't they??).Cant see the harm in cartoon pics or relevant clean pics. ie; me-a pic of a gnome surely not offensive ! yeah that way it would let people know a bit about that person such as their interests and what they like"
. thats what i think .a pic of a motorcycle or say a fishing rod or star ship enterprise tells you the persons interest..so you'd know if you'd something in common.Also some people dont wish for various reasons to put face pic up or privates.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd have a scratch and sniff section"
would have to be a selected option, some of the people on here I wouldn't want to smell with someone else's nose

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Better smileys"

Definitely needed, the current ones look like they belong back with dial up internet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Make hotlists visible to users but only when both parties match.

Ed"
would be good for keeping the creeps at bay

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Elevator music "

An absolute must

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

Free membership for tv’s

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Free membership for tv’s"

Membership is free for everyone already?

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By *oney to the beeWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. "

It works that way for females with non site supporters already. Its only the fully paid up desperado's who can hassle the shit out of new women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Post pictures and gifs in threads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Post pictures and gifs in threads

With the option to delete if required

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Scottish birds wouldnt be my kryptonite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

May have been said already but have a separate message bit for friends and hotlisters. I’m forever missing messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Teleportation button?

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"May have been said already but have a separate message bit for friends and hotlisters. I’m forever missing messages

Definitely this, plus better emojis x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Age filters; if I were meeting women I’d have to change them, I wish you could have separate age filters for different sexes "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Upload videos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Teleportation button?"

OMG yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Upload videos

Nooooo

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By *l6789Man over a year ago

croydon

Magic button that gets me noticed?

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By *sontopMan over a year ago

Basildon

I agree with making more areas. I’m South East and that’s got people over 100 miles from me.

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By *htcMan over a year ago

Bareback search plus a second search for escorts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. Ladies for sure, I can see how this would be beneficial, I'm sure blokes would be delighted to get messages as soon as they join, if that's ever happened in the history of fab"

Make it so that new members who are male get messaged repeatedly by females for 5 days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bareback search plus a second search for escorts.

Escorts?!

Look at an escort website for those. That isn’t what fab is for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree with making more areas. I’m South East and that’s got people over 100 miles from me. "

That's nothing hahaha try the South West

... I'm 100 miles west of Exeter and the SW includes Gloucester, Bristol, Swindon and Bournemouth

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I agree with making more areas. I’m South East and that’s got people over 100 miles from me. "

Yeah, much smaller areas, or ability to search meets by distance.

I'd also like to sort search results. I don't care if the person is online now if they're 100 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make hotlists visible to users but only when both parties match.

Ed"

Can you explain this one? You already get notified when someone on your hotlist adds you to their hotlist (at least, that's the case on fabguys).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make hotlists visible to users but only when both parties match.

Can you explain this one? You already get notified when someone on your hotlist adds you to their hotlist (at least, that's the case on fabguys). "

Not on here

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Make hotlists visible to users but only when both parties match.

Can you explain this one? You already get notified when someone on your hotlist adds you to their hotlist (at least, that's the case on fabguys). "

Not the case here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make hotlists visible to users but only when both parties match.

Can you explain this one? You already get notified when someone on your hotlist adds you to their hotlist (at least, that's the case on fabguys).

Not on here

Ah, okay, thanks. There are a number of differences. Swingers is way more restrictive if you're not a site supporter too.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ooh, I'd love a minimum character limit on messages. Not asking for an essay here, but words are nice.

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"The ability to edit a forum thread within two minutes of posting rather than having to delete due to an autocarrot moment.

But you already have that function, by being able to preview your written entry before posting it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with the updating meets section. Scotland is one option!! Aye, cause I fancy a 4 hour trip for a meet..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Better search functions. I really don’t see how it would cost the site anymore money to be able to search on height and body type. Maybe add in a penis size search or breast size for men if that’s important.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF) over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

Get rid of the chavs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get rid of FF couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think on Plenty of Fish they put a minimum profile word count, to encourage people to go into a bit more depth about themselves. That might work on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would put a certain 50 year old fat old cross dressing Belfast guy profile name under the fab name on the top page

So everyone would see it.

So I would get loads of fabs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think on Plenty of Fish they put a minimum profile word count, to encourage people to go into a bit more depth about themselves. That might work on Fab. "

I would just copy and paste my line 50 times to get around it, and so would many other people. I don't think telling people how to run their profiles is necessarily a way of improving the site.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF) over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

Get rid of guys with nothing interesting to say and flacid cocks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Upload videos

Nooooo"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More search functions. That’s the major thing that this place needs.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"May have been said already but have a separate message bit for friends and hotlisters. I’m forever missing messages

Yes this would be helpful.

But no videos please. That would be torture.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d move the people I liked closer

Other than that the site works just fine

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I’d move the people I liked closer

Other than that the site works just fine "

I’d move you closer

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Better search functions. I really don’t see how it would cost the site anymore money to be able to search on height and body type. Maybe add in a penis size search or breast size for men if that’s important. "

Because people never find about any of those things?

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Because people never find about any of those things?

*Fib. Not find. Ducking autocarrot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because people never find about any of those things?

Excuse me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think on Plenty of Fish they put a minimum profile word count, to encourage people to go into a bit more depth about themselves. That might work on Fab.

I would just copy and paste my line 50 times to get around it, and so would many other people. I don't think telling people how to run their profiles is necessarily a way of improving the site."

You’d copy and paste your line 50 times?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because people never find about any of those things?

*Fib. Not find. Ducking autocarrot.

Ahh right. Yeah but a height and body type can kind of see from the pictures.

I’d like to be able to search for 6ft plus athletic males.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think on Plenty of Fish they put a minimum profile word count, to encourage people to go into a bit more depth about themselves. That might work on Fab.

I would just copy and paste my line 50 times to get around it, and so would many other people. I don't think telling people how to run their profiles is necessarily a way of improving the site.

You’d copy and paste your line 50 times?

Is that a dare!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think on Plenty of Fish they put a minimum profile word count, to encourage people to go into a bit more depth about themselves. That might work on Fab.

I would just copy and paste my line 50 times to get around it, and so would many other people. I don't think telling people how to run their profiles is necessarily a way of improving the site.

You’d copy and paste your line 50 times?

Is that a dare!"

Do what you like sunshine. If you think that’s going to get your mail box filling up then go ahead!

Let me know if it works.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Because people never find about any of those things?

*Fib. Not find. Ducking autocarrot.

Ahh right. Yeah but a height and body type can kind of see from the pictures.

I’d like to be able to search for 6ft plus athletic males. "

To an extent. But I've seen photos that could be a 6ft or 5ft person that give no idea due to there being nothing to compare them to scale wise.

And many, many knobs that look large in pics due to clever angles and small hands.

Body type has always been subjective. Otherwise there'd be no 'fabulous" option.

People will always claim to be what they think others want, hoping that by the time you meet you'll be too horny/polite to say no or feel that having travelled/booked a room/put your slap on that you may as well get naked.

It would probably be more effective to do away with all descriptions and insist on full body photos next to a standardised height scale, alongside a photo of them stood on those old fashioned weighing scales with the big arrow.

But then of course muscle is heavier than fat........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can tell a penis size from a picture.

The height and body type is already listed. You should be able to search on it. I can make my own mind up from looking at a picture if someone is athletic or not.

It shouldn’t just be age and ethnicity that we’re able to search on.

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By *rseanddforfunCouple over a year ago

Wigan

Only be aloud to post so many cock pictures not that i bothered to look at all your 20 pictures of a cock but then i must have looked because you have 20 pictures of Your cock

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. Rubidoux

That’s a good idea

mrs sex in heels

Can you make it so that each person's quote gets their name ? See above (hoping this works)

Sometimes I just skip to the end of a thread but when things have got long winded its hard to work out who said what. Maybe I shouldn't be so lazy and read the whole thread.

xslutx"

I'd like improvements like this too.

The search options are a much requested area for improvement - on more/all user characteristics, including sexuality.

Profile hiding options would be good - more varied than now.

I'd have an automatic guide for new profiles, advice on how to make best use of the site. They could also be encouraged to explore more site features,including the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When you click on a profile and it says you messaged 2 years ago.. I'd like to be able to click on that and see what was said.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I would like the ‘online now’ feature to be removed.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Prevent multiquoting, or attach names to them.

Tidy up regions.

Ability to sort meet announcements by proximity.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like to have different sub folders in my hotlist ... 1 for men, 1 for women, 1 for couples ... as I like to meet and play with each, depending what mood I'm in. Saving them in different folders would make it so much easier to scroll through when selecting who to message. Thanks x

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I would like the ‘online now’ feature to be removed. "

Or at least have the ability to not show as online.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have vids

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like the ‘online now’ feature to be removed.

Or at least have the ability to not show as online. "
just hide your profile .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like the option to accept a verification. I hate that some will verify you to get your attention and it then gets stuck on the summary, even if you block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like the ‘online now’ feature to be removed.

Or at least have the ability to not show as online. just hide your profile ."

If you're on someone's hotlist/Friends list they can still see when you are online

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Close it

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I would like the ‘online now’ feature to be removed.

Or at least have the ability to not show as online. just hide your profile ."

I could but I don’t want to hide it, nor do I want to be messsged just because I’m ‘online now’, especially late at night or early on Sunday mornings when everyone is ‘horny’ apparently. I want to be able to do other things rather than just answer messages sometimes.

I don’t understand the point of it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you click on a profile and it says you messaged 2 years ago.. I'd like to be able to click on that and see what was said."

I second that one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have vids"

Nope - really can't see what that would do other than take up server space

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I would like the ‘online now’ feature to be removed.

Or at least have the ability to not show as online. just hide your profile ."

As explained, this doesn't remove appearing online entirely. And to me it feels like an option to use when you're not meeting and something is wrong.

I want to be able to come on, perv at my leisure, maybe dick around on the forum, without a surge of messages because online apparently means available and gagging for it.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Have vids

Nope - really can't see what that would do other than take up server space "

I wouldn't want to see that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only be aloud to post so many cock pictures not that i bothered to look at all your 20 pictures of a cock but then i must have looked because you have 20 pictures of Your cock"

...there’s just as many boob pictures on ladies profiles. Limit them as well?

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I would like the ‘online now’ feature to be removed.

Or at least have the ability to not show as online. just hide your profile .

As explained, this doesn't remove appearing online entirely. And to me it feels like an option to use when you're not meeting and something is wrong.

I want to be able to come on, perv at my leisure, maybe dick around on the forum, without a surge of messages because online apparently means available and gagging for it. "

I agree with you

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"Have vids"

I really really hope not.

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By *utmegsMan over a year ago

Closer than you think

"Bareback search plus a second search for escorts.

Only if it can exclude or include to taste.

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By *arly StagesCouple over a year ago

Penwortham

Have the green arrow link to forum threads they've posted on, available on their profile page.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have vids"
not a chance too much chance for wierdos to embarrass themselves

And potential for revenge porn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Teleportation button?

OMG yes!!!"

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By *hrekfionaCouple over a year ago

Leven

We don't want to have to block single guys, but when we stare looking for a bi-guy, yet get loads of messages from straight guys, would be good if only pepole who fit your preferences could message!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All members have to be photo verified (No excuse) we have had the excuses. Need to be discreet, have professional jobs blah blah. Havnt we all ???? Getting photo verified only goes to admin.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Have the green arrow link to forum threads they've posted on, available on their profile page."

I do this voluntarily

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"All members have to be photo verified (No excuse) we have had the excuses. Need to be discreet, have professional jobs blah blah. Havnt we all ???? Getting photo verified only goes to admin. "

No, because it us pointless, photos are very easy to manipulate these days.

I also don't want vids.

I do think the areas need reducing, auto add of poster name to forum posts and increased search options would be good.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can tell a penis size from a picture.

The height and body type is already listed. You should be able to search on it. I can make my own mind up from looking at a picture if someone is athletic or not.

It shouldn’t just be age and ethnicity that we’re able to search on. "

How average is mine?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't want to have to block single guys, but when we stare looking for a bi-guy, yet get loads of messages from straight guys, would be good if only pepole who fit your preferences could message!!"
Could maybe have another "looking for" box,male.female.couples& bi male/female.Then could block single males if bi wanted. Why 'straight' guys message me is beyond me!

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Abusive messages using keywords linked to admin then membership immediately terminated.

IP address detection in case they rejoin under another profile.

More Moderators please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being able to edit (within a certain amount of time) you comment. I’m always rushing and spelling things wrong.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"I would like the option to accept a verification. I hate that some will verify you to get your attention and it then gets stuck on the summary, even if you block. "

If you report it Admin will remove

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like the option to accept a verification. I hate that some will verify you to get your attention and it then gets stuck on the summary, even if you block.

If you report it Admin will remove"

I have. Twice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree with making more areas. I’m South East and that’s got people over 100 miles from me. "

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Make hotlists visible to users but only when both parties match.

Can you explain this one? You already get notified when someone on your hotlist adds you to their hotlist (at least, that's the case on fabguys). "

Admin say that doesn't happen on Fabguys

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"I would like the option to accept a verification. I hate that some will verify you to get your attention and it then gets stuck on the summary, even if you block.

If you report it Admin will remove

I have. Twice. "

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I agree with making more areas. I’m South East and that’s got people over 100 miles from me. "

By county would be far better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Abusive messages using keywords linked to admin then membership immediately terminated.

IP address detection in case they rejoin under another profile.

More Moderators please. "

No il be gone if that happened

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Abusive messages using keywords linked to admin then membership immediately terminated.

IP address detection in case they rejoin under another profile.

More Moderators please.

No il be gone if that happened

I’m sure you wouldn’t Playboy......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Abusive messages using keywords linked to admin then membership immediately terminated.

IP address detection in case they rejoin under another profile.

More Moderators please.

No il be gone if that happened

I’m sure you wouldn’t Playboy......

"
only with help bhaby

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make it so new members can't be mailed for 5 days when they join. (They can send mail). Let them settle in a bit first. "

This, or something similar. been saying it for years, the influx scares off so many single women

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Not allow any more single males to join for 6 months!! There are too many already.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People must contribute to forum once per month minimum or account goes private so cant be found

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"People must contribute to forum once per month minimum or account goes private so cant be found"

Why would you want that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d move the people I liked closer

Other than that the site works just fine

I’d move you closer

Or that, I’m not really a fan of South Wales

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d move the people I liked closer

Other than that the site works just fine

I’d move you closer

Or that, I’m not really a fan of South Wales "

Take that back!!

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"People must contribute to forum once per month minimum or account goes private so cant be found"

I like this suggestion....!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People must contribute to forum once per month minimum or account goes private so cant be found

I like this suggestion....! "
good to get an idea of them

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

That would mean 99% of users being penalised

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People must contribute to forum once per month minimum or account goes private so cant be found

I like this suggestion....! "

Having seen the way some new contributors are treated, it's no wonder they avoid the forum. Why penalise them for that choice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People must contribute to forum once per month minimum or account goes private so cant be found

I like this suggestion....! "

I wouldn’t want the guys I might possibly be meeting to read the forums. The forums is where I usually discuss guys I’ve met or are meeting.

I like that the forums aren’t visited by every member of the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That would mean 99% of users being penalised"

Afraid of the workload

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

Click on name on guest list and it takes you straight to their profile

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Have the green arrow link to forum threads they've posted on, available on their profile page."

I like this. Insight into personality.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"That would mean 99% of users being penalised

Afraid of the workload

Penalising the forum mods. Yikes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d move the people I liked closer

Other than that the site works just fine

I’d move you closer

Or that, I’m not really a fan of South Wales

Take that back!!"

Surely me geographical preferences don’t offend you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about a friends only inbox. Sometimes when mailing a friend they miss it because of the ton of mail from other users and it get's pushed down the inbox list...

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"That would mean 99% of users being penalised

Afraid of the workload

Sorry , your posts go right over my head, maybe not enough cuppas yet but who knows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like the ‘online now’ feature to be removed.

Or at least have the ability to not show as online. just hide your profile .

As explained, this doesn't remove appearing online entirely. And to me it feels like an option to use when you're not meeting and something is wrong.

I want to be able to come on, perv at my leisure, maybe dick around on the forum, without a surge of messages because online apparently means available and gagging for it. "

100% agree we need a stealth mode

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"That would mean 99% of users being penalised

Afraid of the workload

Sorry , your posts go right over my head, maybe not enough cuppas yet but who knows"

Ah right I understand now, it was a joke....just pointing out that people think the forum is the most important thing of the site when in fact only 1% of members use it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Make hotlists visible to users but only when both parties match.

Ed"

Oh I don’t know about that there’s folk on here that have said they use the hotlist for avoidance purposes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That would mean 99% of users being penalised

Afraid of the workload

Sorry , your posts go right over my head, maybe not enough cuppas yet but who knows

Ah right I understand now, it was a joke....just pointing out that people think the forum is the most important thing of the site when in fact only 1% of members use it. "
i know

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

Better area search options, perhaps by county/counties.

Ability to "mailshot" people on an "event" friends list for parties etc.

"Sticky" info message for newbies to help them use filters and other useful info etc when first joining, maybe disappears after 7 days?

"Sticky" info message to new single males with hints, tips, and "what not to do" info.

Ability to fab forum posts.

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"People must contribute to forum once per month minimum or account goes private so cant be found"

Christ no! Can you imagine the chaos if 100% of the site users posted in here, rather than the usual 1%?

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By *iker boy 69Man over a year ago

midlands

Have it where you put body shape, cock size, colour etc of folk you want to meet, and only those types come through on your local updates. Ie, if a person only wants to meet a 6 foot tall black guy, their wall wont have white guys come up, or if a guy only wants slim/athletic ladies then fabulous ladies wont come up on his. That way everyone is only getting to see what theyre looking for

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Better area search options, perhaps by county/counties.

Ability to "mailshot" people on an "event" friends list for parties etc.

"Sticky" info message for newbies to help them use filters and other useful info etc when first joining, maybe disappears after 7 days?

"Sticky" info message to new single males with hints, tips, and "what not to do" info.

Ability to fab forum posts."

I hate to agree with the info message one, but I think some people do need that level of handholding. Read the profile, respect their wishes, sell yourself, avoid cock shots unless asked for, be polite and not demanding, etc.

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"All members have to be photo verified (No excuse) we have had the excuses. Need to be discreet, have professional jobs blah blah. Havnt we all ???? Getting photo verified only goes to admin. "

Waste of time, proves nothing, too easily faked.

They made PV compulsory on another site...and then changed their minds after less than a year because so many potential new joiners wouldn't do it.

Although, I'd like to see cam veries removed, and phone veries re-instated. The first can be faked, the second cant.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"All members have to be photo verified (No excuse) we have had the excuses. Need to be discreet, have professional jobs blah blah. Havnt we all ???? Getting photo verified only goes to admin.

Waste of time, proves nothing, too easily faked.

They made PV compulsory on another site...and then changed their minds after less than a year because so many potential new joiners wouldn't do it.

Although, I'd like to see cam veries removed, and phone veries re-instated. The first can be faked, the second cant."

Phone veris would be trivially easy to fake.

User Bigboobies4u (just made that up, apologies if it exists) is actually a 21 year old crisp crumb covered guy living with his mum. He miraculously has a female friend who agrees to play the part. Boom, fake veri.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"That would mean 99% of users being penalised

Afraid of the workload

Sorry , your posts go right over my head, maybe not enough cuppas yet but who knows

Ah right I understand now, it was a joke....just pointing out that people think the forum is the most important thing of the site when in fact only 1% of members use it. "
Dont know why ??. I'd go UNLOS if I couldnt chat bollocks in here . Without the forums there really isn't all that much else to do on here . Just my opinion .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All members have to be photo verified (No excuse) we have had the excuses. Need to be discreet, have professional jobs blah blah. Havnt we all ???? Getting photo verified only goes to admin.

Waste of time, proves nothing, too easily faked.

They made PV compulsory on another site...and then changed their minds after less than a year because so many potential new joiners wouldn't do it.

Although, I'd like to see cam veries removed, and phone veries re-instated. The first can be faked, the second cant.

Phone veris would be trivially easy to fake.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Sticky" info message for newbies to help them use filters and other useful info etc when first joining, maybe disappears after 7 days?

Admin have already set that up

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"That would mean 99% of users being penalised

Afraid of the workload

Sorry , your posts go right over my head, maybe not enough cuppas yet but who knows

Ah right I understand now, it was a joke....just pointing out that people think the forum is the most important thing of the site when in fact only 1% of members use it. Dont know why ??. I'd go UNLOS if I couldnt chat bollocks in here . Without the forums there really isn't all that much else to do on here . Just my opinion . "

I am guessing 99% of users use it to arrange meets in mails

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I do think not allowing any more single men to join for a while would be good as the women here are outnumbered. It’s really quite scary to receive 540 messages from single men in the first 30 minutes of membership....until the filters go on...

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"Sticky" info message for newbies to help them use filters and other useful info etc when first joining, maybe disappears after 7 days?

Admin have already set that up"

Woo hoo, I got one right lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A automated response button for replying to mail. 'I appreciate your mail but not for me, happy fabbing' type thing.

It would save a lot of time and would help with the torrent of sometimes abusive 'You didn't reply to me' type messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A automated response button for replying to mail. 'I appreciate your mail but not for me, happy fabbing' type thing.

It would save a lot of time and would help with the torrent of sometimes abusive 'You didn't reply to me' type messages."

Delete / block / thanks but no thanks message triple whammy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A automated response button for replying to mail. 'I appreciate your mail but not for me, happy fabbing' type thing.

It would save a lot of time and would help with the torrent of sometimes abusive 'You didn't reply to me' type messages."

I used to have one copied and pasted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Should be able to like statuses, a bit like you can on FB.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"A automated response button for replying to mail. 'I appreciate your mail but not for me, happy fabbing' type thing.

It would save a lot of time and would help with the torrent of sometimes abusive 'You didn't reply to me' type messages."

"couldn't be bothered to send a personal message, just the prewritten junk, she's so up her own arse!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they’d ban numpties from deliberately closing threads?

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