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over a year ago
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"just wondering as we get plenty of views but not many messages, so was wondering whats the rest of peoples views were on this"
I would say about 15% of the amount of views have messages.
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"just wondering as we get plenty of views but not many messages, so was wondering whats the rest of peoples views were on this
I would say about 15% of the amount of views have messages.
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for instance today we have had 60 views but 5 messages but i think it also depends on how much your on forums and how good your messages and profile is like |
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" Well all I can say to that is most plp won’t even reply to messages on here don’t know y half of the plp r on here"
we always reply evan if its a no thank u then we block just incase as some can get funny about it
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" Well all I can say to that is most plp won’t even reply to messages on here don’t know y half of the plp r on here"
You mean they haven't replyed to the messages YOU have sent them as, surely, you have absolutely no way of knowing if they have or have not responded to messages from other people.
Now this might sound a bit left field, a bit radical, but maybe after looking at your profile in  mode they perhaps didn't find you attractive and that you weren't for them. Incredible I know, but nobody owes you a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You all getting views and messages? I must be doing something wrong haha!
Don’t worry I know I am battling between thousands of men (many who are very good looking), maybe tomorrow might be different  |
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Well I get an average of about 500 profile views a day although this can vary quite a bit but I would say that's probably about the average. And I can get anywhere from 60 to 300 messages a day so that varies widely. |
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"Well I get an average of about 500 profile views a day although this can vary quite a bit but I would say that's probably about the average. And I can get anywhere from 60 to 300 messages a day so that varies widely. "
That is like wow! I get a max of like 5 views a day and no messages  , makes sense why it can be hard to get a response even tho you try to be open and friendly without being pushy or rude |
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"Well I get an average of about 500 profile views a day although this can vary quite a bit but I would say that's probably about the average. And I can get anywhere from 60 to 300 messages a day so that varies widely.
That is like wow! I get a max of like 5 views a day and no messages , makes sense why it can be hard to get a response even tho you try to be open and friendly without being pushy or rude "
that's exactly the point and sometimes it just gets a bit overwhelming and there's no way I can reply to all of them even if I wanted to. It's pretty standard for women on this site so it's inevitable some messages are just going to get deleted. It's not rude it's just practical.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just wondering as we get plenty of views but not many messages, so was wondering whats the rest of peoples views were on this
I would say about 15% of the amount of views have messages.
for instance today we have had 60 views but 5 messages but i think it also depends on how much your on forums and how good your messages and profile is like"
Yes indeed there are many different factors at play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?"
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations. "
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx"
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great! "
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great!
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx"
That's a pretty standard message to honest. There are only so many "meet now",
"hi", "what you into" messages I am inclined to reply to a day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great!
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx
That's a pretty standard message to honest. There are only so many "meet now",
"hi", "what you into" messages I am inclined to reply to a day. "
Yep totally agree or those that are hundreds of miles away.
Yes we love your pics and if you were up this area we would drop you a message lol. But what's the point when it's unlikely we would ever meet.
We had a couple message us from Texas the other day lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great!
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx
That's a pretty standard message to honest. There are only so many "meet now",
"hi", "what you into" messages I am inclined to reply to a day.
Yep totally agree or those that are hundreds of miles away.
Yes we love your pics and if you were up this area we would drop you a message lol. But what's the point when it's unlikely we would ever meet.
We had a couple message us from Texas the other day lol "
yes I seem to be quite popular in Scotland and actually Ireland as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I get an average of about 500 profile views a day although this can vary quite a bit but I would say that's probably about the average. And I can get anywhere from 60 to 300 messages a day so that varies widely.
That is like wow! I get a max of like 5 views a day and no messages , makes sense why it can be hard to get a response even tho you try to be open and friendly without being pushy or rude
that's exactly the point and sometimes it just gets a bit overwhelming and there's no way I can reply to all of them even if I wanted to. It's pretty standard for women on this site so it's inevitable some messages are just going to get deleted. It's not rude it's just practical.
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I completely agree with you, that the amount of messages you get is absolutely insane! I have just accepted that I probably won’t get a response or even a meet. So I try to instead go to my local club if I can, as that is a great way to chat to people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great!
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx
That's a pretty standard message to honest. There are only so many "meet now",
"hi", "what you into" messages I am inclined to reply to a day.
Yep totally agree or those that are hundreds of miles away.
Yes we love your pics and if you were up this area we would drop you a message lol. But what's the point when it's unlikely we would ever meet.
We had a couple message us from Texas the other day lol
yes I seem to be quite popular in Scotland and actually Ireland as well. "
You can add the east Midlands to that list lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I get an average of about 500 profile views a day although this can vary quite a bit but I would say that's probably about the average. And I can get anywhere from 60 to 300 messages a day so that varies widely.
That is like wow! I get a max of like 5 views a day and no messages , makes sense why it can be hard to get a response even tho you try to be open and friendly without being pushy or rude
that's exactly the point and sometimes it just gets a bit overwhelming and there's no way I can reply to all of them even if I wanted to. It's pretty standard for women on this site so it's inevitable some messages are just going to get deleted. It's not rude it's just practical.
I completely agree with you, that the amount of messages you get is absolutely insane! I have just accepted that I probably won’t get a response or even a meet. So I try to instead go to my local club if I can, as that is a great way to chat to people "
Yes that's a very good option and actually I mainly only play in clubs now. It's a lot less hassle and you don't get let down or messed about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great!
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx
That's a pretty standard message to honest. There are only so many "meet now",
"hi", "what you into" messages I am inclined to reply to a day.
Yep totally agree or those that are hundreds of miles away.
Yes we love your pics and if you were up this area we would drop you a message lol. But what's the point when it's unlikely we would ever meet.
We had a couple message us from Texas the other day lol
yes I seem to be quite popular in Scotland and actually Ireland as well.
You can add the east Midlands to that list lol xxx"
Lol thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great!
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx
That's a pretty standard message to honest. There are only so many "meet now",
"hi", "what you into" messages I am inclined to reply to a day.
Yep totally agree or those that are hundreds of miles away.
Yes we love your pics and if you were up this area we would drop you a message lol. But what's the point when it's unlikely we would ever meet.
We had a couple message us from Texas the other day lol
yes I seem to be quite popular in Scotland and actually Ireland as well.
You can add the east Midlands to that list lol xxx
Lol thank you. "
Anytime xx and feel free to pm us anytime if you just want to chat lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great!
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx
That's a pretty standard message to honest. There are only so many "meet now",
"hi", "what you into" messages I am inclined to reply to a day.
Yep totally agree or those that are hundreds of miles away.
Yes we love your pics and if you were up this area we would drop you a message lol. But what's the point when it's unlikely we would ever meet.
We had a couple message us from Texas the other day lol
yes I seem to be quite popular in Scotland and actually Ireland as well.
You can add the east Midlands to that list lol xxx
Lol thank you.
Anytime xx and feel free to pm us anytime if you just want to chat lol x"
Will do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I get an average of about 500 profile views a day although this can vary quite a bit but I would say that's probably about the average. And I can get anywhere from 60 to 300 messages a day so that varies widely.
That is like wow! I get a max of like 5 views a day and no messages , makes sense why it can be hard to get a response even tho you try to be open and friendly without being pushy or rude
that's exactly the point and sometimes it just gets a bit overwhelming and there's no way I can reply to all of them even if I wanted to. It's pretty standard for women on this site so it's inevitable some messages are just going to get deleted. It's not rude it's just practical.
I completely agree with you, that the amount of messages you get is absolutely insane! I have just accepted that I probably won’t get a response or even a meet. So I try to instead go to my local club if I can, as that is a great way to chat to people
Yes that's a very good option and actually I mainly only play in clubs now. It's a lot less hassle and you don't get let down or messed about. "
Clubs are amazing, such a great way to have fun and I definitely agree with you with the less hassle and you won’t be let down, I go to Townhouse in the Wirral, also there is an event called Harlots this Thursday which I am excited to attend again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations.
I'm not surprised as you look amazing in your pics xx
Thank you.
So now for example I've been online about 10 minutes and I've had for messages but the quality of messages at this time of the morning I'm not great!
We just had one that was
"U fuk now"
And they say the art of conversation is dead lol xx
That's a pretty standard message to honest. There are only so many "meet now",
"hi", "what you into" messages I am inclined to reply to a day.
Yep totally agree or those that are hundreds of miles away.
Yes we love your pics and if you were up this area we would drop you a message lol. But what's the point when it's unlikely we would ever meet.
We had a couple message us from Texas the other day lol
yes I seem to be quite popular in Scotland and actually Ireland as well.
You can add the east Midlands to that list lol xxx
Lol thank you.
Anytime xx and feel free to pm us anytime if you just want to chat lol x
Will do. "
Yay grin this days just got better lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 message for every 150-200 views?
I would say in my case and a lot of women's cases it's a lot more than that. If I'm logged on I get an average of about 1 message every 5 minutes at this time in the morning and if it's during the day it's more than that. Obviously they're not all from different people some are ongoing conversations. "
Ermmm, I'm a guy, I'm happy with those numbers considering some guys get 0 |
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Not ever counted, but much much lower than you OP - say a msg every 800-900 views ( about a msg a month). But we're not looking for men and have blocked them too. Of the msgs we do get, they're nearly all couples who we think are really just men. |
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I’ve never said anyone owes me a reply just saying would be nice just to get a reply eva way wouldn’t it! So wot ya saying I need help taking photos lol |
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messaging me and views. Don’t know why? As billy connolly say I couldn’t be bi as I couldn’t handle being rejected by men and women too 
