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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or is fabs not what it used to be, Cuddles & I met on here four years ago and took a break and now rejoined but doesn’t seem the same or are we just remembering through rose coloured glasses 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is what you make it"
Very true. It’s completely different to when I joined. I’m having to ignore a lot of crap that’s not for me that wasn’t here in just over a year ago.  |
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"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine
I’ve been here almost ten years and it’s always been the same. "
I've been here for about 13 years and it goes in circles, people come and people go. Some threads get repeated almost on a daily basis, others are new and refreshing. Some have me in stitches, others I take with a pinch of salt and just avoid  |
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"Or is fabs not what it used to be, Cuddles & I met on here four years ago and took a break and now rejoined but doesn’t seem the same or are we just remembering through rose coloured glasses
Any feedback on profile would be good too "
it isn't the same as it was.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine
I’ve been here almost ten years and it’s always been the same.
I've been here for about 13 years and it goes in circles, people come and people go. Some threads get repeated almost on a daily basis, others are new and refreshing. Some have me in stitches, others I take with a pinch of salt and just avoid "
Like most things i guess , do you think this time of year has something to do with it too just after Christmas? |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I think broadly it’s the same. I think most people’s experience is heavily influenced by a small number of closer friends and if a few of them leave the site can feel quite different, when in fact it isn’t really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It isnt the same as before. I think there are to many fakes and people selling themselves( shall we say). But if you can see through them then its ok"
Yes most of the time we manage too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s no doubt it’s changed over the past few years . So many more dreamers , fakes and time wasters .
God definitely x it seems a lot more tame now or maybe I've changed. Who knows x "
Your right it does but im wondering if that’s because me and cuddles are older and wiser |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So this is really a look at my profile thread. 
Well the OP did ask for a profile critique Sherlock  "
I did just in case we were missing something but genuinely started the discussion because we were wondering if others felt the same way about how fabs is now |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
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I think there are less interesting people on these days. The sharp witted swingers that used to be on half of have left and there are a lot more non meeters, vanillas and a lot who read 50 shades readers on these days. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think there are less interesting people on these days. The sharp witted swingers that used to be on half of have left and there are a lot more non meeters, vanillas and a lot who read 50 shades readers on these days. "
I agree 100% and seems to be a combination of things maybe fab has had its day so to speak |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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Yes I think it has changed, less people arranging meets on here. It still suits us , as I mainly use it for the forums and keeping in touch with friends. We tend to now go to parties and clubs, when we are on holiday, where it is easier to meet people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I think it has changed, less people arranging meets on here. It still suits us , as I mainly use it for the forums and keeping in touch with friends. We tend to now go to parties and clubs, when we are on holiday, where it is easier to meet people "
Yes definitely and we are intending to go to clubs and parties now as a couple as new experience for me but cuddles is an old hand and can show me the ropes |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine
I’ve been here almost ten years and it’s always been the same. "
Yep.
Back after a four year sabbatical and can't see anything different at all.
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"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine "
I haven't been on as long as some people but I agree there are a huge amount of fake profiles, what is going on when you start talking to someone and they dissapear, their profile, their messages and your messages to them, as if they never existed. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes I think it has changed, less people arranging meets on here. It still suits us , as I mainly use it for the forums and keeping in touch with friends. We tend to now go to parties and clubs, when we are on holiday, where it is easier to meet people
Yes definitely and we are intending to go to clubs and parties now as a couple as new experience for me but cuddles is an old hand and can show me the ropes "
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When we first joined eight years ago it went something like this . We check out locals who are looking to meet , make contact with someone we fancy , meet , have fun , all good .
From a couple of years ago it’s been more like this . Check out locals who are looking to meet , make contact , wait , and wait , then get a msg back a few days later at stupid o clock from a clearly pissed up guy . Block , move on . Or arrange a time and place , turn up , they don’t so back to dogging as at least you know what to expect and the people are actually there !
And this is why we can’t be bothered to meet any longer . I don’t think it’s fabs fault , but there are certainly way too many time wasters now . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When we first joined eight years ago it went something like this . We check out locals who are looking to meet , make contact with someone we fancy , meet , have fun , all good .
From a couple of years ago it’s been more like this . Check out locals who are looking to meet , make contact , wait , and wait , then get a msg back a few days later at stupid o clock from a clearly pissed up guy . Block , move on . Or arrange a time and place , turn up , they don’t so back to dogging as at least you know what to expect and the people are actually there !
And this is why we can’t be bothered to meet any longer . I don’t think it’s fabs fault , but there are certainly way too many time wasters now ."
That’s exactly how we remember it
Just a shame its not the same anymore but if it wasnt for fabs myself and cuddles may have never met and fallen in love and im glad to hear that this still happens to people on here so its all good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine
I haven't been on as long as some people but I agree there are a huge amount of fake profiles, what is going on when you start talking to someone and they dissapear, their profile, their messages and your messages to them, as if they never existed."
Yes thats not very nice  |
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