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over a year ago
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"Very deep do you find your answers"
Not always no. I wish I wasn’t like it to be honest. I’m very much a “ what if” person too. I overthink too much and it’s not really a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I over think terribly. I think I've finally found a way of dealing with it though.
It's a blessing and a curse. In loads of different ways, but I wouldn't change it... I don't think, or would I? I dunno. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how much of a deep thinker are you? Im not usually but ive been thinking about something for two years and cant reach a decision. Its nothing bad something id like the answer too
Do you think alot"
Start a thread about it and we can help you reach a decition finally?  |
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"how much of a deep thinker are you? Im not usually but ive been thinking about something for two years and cant reach a decision. Its nothing bad something id like the answer too
Do you think alot
Start a thread about it and we can help you reach a decition finally? "
omg lol i couldnt its far to complex it takes my whole life into account  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how much of a deep thinker are you? Im not usually but ive been thinking about something for two years and cant reach a decision. Its nothing bad something id like the answer too
Do you think alot
Start a thread about it and we can help you reach a decition finally? "
My thoughts exactly xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have anxiety and depression with ptsd and can never switch off. Was telephones at 930 by my bank - investigating fraud on my account. That'll be me up most of the night wittling now. Even though I "know" it's in hand I'll still keep freaking |
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My opinion, there’s no certainty of future events, only a probability that something will occur in an expected way based on past experience or on the testimony of others. For example, the sciences, where facts change as new discoveries are made.
So I take on the view that you make the best decision at present-given all the facts you can know-on a probability, with a certain amount uncertainty built in. Otherwise you could end up taking no action and be debilated, in other words, suffer mental paralysis on a life decision-great or small. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think deeply about a lot of things, I see it as a gift not a hindrance, sometimes I work out some deep shit too lol!  "
That's my way of coping with it. Finding out enough deep shit to satisfy my curious mind. |
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"I have anxiety and depression with ptsd and can never switch off. Was telephones at 930 by my bank - investigating fraud on my account. That'll be me up most of the night wittling now. Even though I "know" it's in hand I'll still keep freaking "
I’ve had this happen to me, and all sorts go through your mind, but honestly the banks know more about you and your spending habits to know when unusual behaviour occurs and those transactions are fraudulent.
Rest easy, despite the feeling you may have (which I did) that someone has burgled your home. The money will be back in your bank within 24 hours or so. |
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"how much of a deep thinker are you? Im not usually but ive been thinking about something for two years and cant reach a decision. Its nothing bad something id like the answer too
Do you think alot"
Read between the lines what ever that means ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define deep?
Pseudo philosophical bs
Actual academic philosophy
Pseudo scientific bs
Actual scientific study?what makes you who you are in my case"
You're hindsight effectively |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define deep?
Pseudo philosophical bs
Actual academic philosophy
Pseudo scientific bs
Actual scientific study?what makes you who you are in my case
You're hindsight effectively yes"
As a bit of psudeo science as im not qualified to interpret or understand fmri scans found the impulse to take physical action occurs before the conscious part of the brain acivates so effectivly youre conscious mind is judt a passenger controlling nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Define deep?
Pseudo philosophical bs
Actual academic philosophy
Pseudo scientific bs
Actual scientific study?"
I couldn't even digest that into my brain. |
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"Define deep?
Pseudo philosophical bs
Actual academic philosophy
Pseudo scientific bs
Actual scientific study?what makes you who you are in my case
You're hindsight effectively yes
As a bit of psudeo science as im not qualified to interpret or understand fmri scans found the impulse to take physical action occurs before the conscious part of the brain acivates so effectivly youre conscious mind is judt a passenger controlling nothing"
i dont understand any of that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Define deep?
Pseudo philosophical bs
Actual academic philosophy
Pseudo scientific bs
Actual scientific study?what makes you who you are in my case
You're hindsight effectively yes
As a bit of psudeo science as im not qualified to interpret or understand fmri scans found the impulse to take physical action occurs before the conscious part of the brain acivates so effectivly youre conscious mind is judt a passenger controlling nothingi dont understand any of that"
People put in a functional MRI scanner and asked to do a physical action ie make a fist.
First show activity in the part of the brain that sends the impulse to the muscle to make a fist, then a tiny amount of time later the part of the brain thst is more related to conscious thought shows activity.
So very crudely you act before you think the thought to act.
Your thought "im going to make a fist now" actualy happens an instant after youve sent the signal to make a fist.
So from one perspective we have no free will we're actually judt a passenger within our body |
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"Define deep?
Pseudo philosophical bs
Actual academic philosophy
Pseudo scientific bs
Actual scientific study?what makes you who you are in my case
You're hindsight effectively yes
As a bit of psudeo science as im not qualified to interpret or understand fmri scans found the impulse to take physical action occurs before the conscious part of the brain acivates so effectivly youre conscious mind is judt a passenger controlling nothingi dont understand any of that
People put in a functional MRI scanner and asked to do a physical action ie make a fist.
First show activity in the part of the brain that sends the impulse to the muscle to make a fist, then a tiny amount of time later the part of the brain thst is more related to conscious thought shows activity.
So very crudely you act before you think the thought to act.
Your thought "im going to make a fist now" actualy happens an instant after youve sent the signal to make a fist.
So from one perspective we have no free will we're actually judt a passenger within our body"
thats really interesting |
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By *inxy300Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes I love a good think. Getting lost in my thoughts. Making up situations that’ll never happen. Jumping to conclusions. ‘If he says this, I’ll say that’ "
I get you..i do that all the time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how much of a deep thinker are you? Im not usually but ive been thinking about something for two years and cant reach a decision. Its nothing bad something id like the answer too
Do you think alot"
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now! "
So did I.
I think that deep thinking is where you think about things in depth but can control when and how you do it. Over thinking is when you think about every, single, minute possibility that could occur in every aspect of life.
In my opinion. |
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now!
So did I.
I think that deep thinking is where you think about things in depth but can control when and how you do it. Over thinking is when you think about every, single, minute possibility that could occur in every aspect of life.
In my opinion."
exactly thats exactly what i ment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now!
So did I.
I think that deep thinking is where you think about things in depth but can control when and how you do it. Over thinking is when you think about every, single, minute possibility that could occur in every aspect of life.
In my opinion. exactly thats exactly what i ment"
I know what the difference is it's just mist of the replies seem to err to over thinking instead of deep thinking and that really got me confused! Lol ...
I'm a deep thinker but not an over thinker ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now! yes i wasnt talking about over thinking but more deep like when your looking for the meaning of life"
See id say thats more just shallow musing.
For it to be deep youd actually have to be conducting some detailed and ordered philosophical study.
I mesn it could take years to even define the question bwfore you looked for the answer |
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now!
So did I.
I think that deep thinking is where you think about things in depth but can control when and how you do it. Over thinking is when you think about every, single, minute possibility that could occur in every aspect of life.
In my opinion. exactly thats exactly what i ment"
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I'm thinking in some depth about old age. That's because my parents are very old and I can see how age has affected them and compare it to when they were younger. |
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now! yes i wasnt talking about over thinking but more deep like when your looking for the meaning of life
See id say thats more just shallow musing.
For it to be deep youd actually have to be conducting some detailed and ordered philosophical study.
I mesn it could take years to even define the question bwfore you looked for the answer "
oh behave this thinking is hard work enough without you making it worse |
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now!
So did I.
I think that deep thinking is where you think about things in depth but can control when and how you do it. Over thinking is when you think about every, single, minute possibility that could occur in every aspect of life.
In my opinion. exactly thats exactly what i ment
Good
I'm thinking in some depth about old age. That's because my parents are very old and I can see how age has affected them and compare it to when they were younger. "
i hate it when i have to think about that. Jay is 2 years older than my mum so things will happen around the same time but im kind of denial about the future |
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now!
So did I.
I think that deep thinking is where you think about things in depth but can control when and how you do it. Over thinking is when you think about every, single, minute possibility that could occur in every aspect of life.
In my opinion. exactly thats exactly what i ment
Good
I'm thinking in some depth about old age. That's because my parents are very old and I can see how age has affected them and compare it to when they were younger. i hate it when i have to think about that. Jay is 2 years older than my mum so things will happen around the same time but im kind of denial about the future"
I think denial is a good place to be. |
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now!
So did I.
I think that deep thinking is where you think about things in depth but can control when and how you do it. Over thinking is when you think about every, single, minute possibility that could occur in every aspect of life.
In my opinion. exactly thats exactly what i ment
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I'm thinking in some depth about old age. That's because my parents are very old and I can see how age has affected them and compare it to when they were younger. i hate it when i have to think about that. Jay is 2 years older than my mum so things will happen around the same time but im kind of denial about the future
I think denial is a good place to be."
it is for me as it helps me live in the now and make the most of it and not worry about the future |
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"I thought deep thinking and over thinking were two different things ... confused now!
So did I.
I think that deep thinking is where you think about things in depth but can control when and how you do it. Over thinking is when you think about every, single, minute possibility that could occur in every aspect of life.
In my opinion."
Yup, the first is positive IMO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends.
I'm ruled by my hormones 
I'm impulsive at times but I usually over think everything and talk myself out of a lot of things that make me miss out on life.
I don't think I'm deep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I think a lot, and have found comfort in being able to voice out my thoughts sometimes. Relieved when I notice others think the same way. But, I’ve come to realise there are something’s I just won’t understand.
Take swinging for example, I don’t understand why I’m okay with it, I just am. I’ve tried to ask questions to myself and others and although some reasonings sound quite acceptable, all don’t fit how I feel about it.
I can go quite deep into most things that mean a lot to me, not everything needs to either, somethings I can be quite shallow about, but they’re not as important to my life. |
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