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Depends on the type and frequency of meets and how long someone has been on the site. Loads really fast that are all play meets with no club visits would make me wonder how selective someone is. But have met guys into 3 digits happily. |
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over a year ago
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"The number of meets a profile has,has absolutely no bearing on how attractive or unattractive the profile is/are."
It also has no bearing on how many people that person has actually had sex with.
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over a year ago
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Lots of veri's from socials wouldn't bother me, lots of play veri's? I'd still want to meet them socially first just like anyone else, so no, the amount doesn't matter really.
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over a year ago
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Me. Not bothered, someone without many could be hiding lots.
My wife, she’s more likely to speak to someone who has less.
So we meet in the middle and talk to people on Twitter.  |
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It depends on the type of meet to be absolutely honest. If they have "territorial" verifications or one that go in to intimate detail I'm less likely to be interested regardless of how many there are. |
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"I can even be attracted to a profile with no veri's showing at all. "
Same. I think I’ve met 12 people (mostly socially) in just over a year and only 2 were verified. I’ve never understood why people block people who aren’t verified.
And to answer the question someone with loads of sexual meets would put me off yeah so I’d say less veris would attract me more  |
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"I can even be attracted to a profile with no veri's showing at all.
Same. I think I’ve met 12 people (mostly socially) in just over a year and only 2 were verified. I’ve never understood why people block people who aren’t verified.
And to answer the question someone with loads of sexual meets would put me off yeah so I’d say less veris would attract me more "
I know someone who has literally hundreds of veris and only ever displays a few so it's not a good benchmark really (I don't display any of mine either - not that I have hundreds, far from it  ) |
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"I can even be attracted to a profile with no veri's showing at all.
Same. I think I’ve met 12 people (mostly socially) in just over a year and only 2 were verified. I’ve never understood why people block people who aren’t verified.
And to answer the question someone with loads of sexual meets would put me off yeah so I’d say less veris would attract me more
I know someone who has literally hundreds of veris and only ever displays a few so it's not a good benchmark really (I don't display any of mine either - not that I have hundreds, far from it ) "
I don’t display any either. I’m a pretty good judge of character and I don’t usually meet anyone until we’ve been chatting for a while and even then it’s just a social. My instincts haven’t failed me yet so it all works for me for what I want |
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"I can even be attracted to a profile with no veri's showing at all.
Same. I think I’ve met 12 people (mostly socially) in just over a year and only 2 were verified. I’ve never understood why people block people who aren’t verified.
And to answer the question someone with loads of sexual meets would put me off yeah so I’d say less veris would attract me more
I know someone who has literally hundreds of veris and only ever displays a few so it's not a good benchmark really (I don't display any of mine either - not that I have hundreds, far from it )
I don’t display any either. I’m a pretty good judge of character and I don’t usually meet anyone until we’ve been chatting for a while and even then it’s just a social. My instincts haven’t failed me yet so it all works for me for what I want "
Sorry, didn't mean any offence, I was just pointing out that not everyone displays them all or the summary so it's not really a good yardstick. |
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I see a veri as a confirmation that the person is a genuine representative of their profile. Nothing else. Most use it as a way to bum up and massage ego.
As i don't play on first meet. Verification isn't so much of a deal for me. However, if someone has a significant collection. I'd move on. |
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"I can even be attracted to a profile with no veri's showing at all.
Same. I think I’ve met 12 people (mostly socially) in just over a year and only 2 were verified. I’ve never understood why people block people who aren’t verified.
And to answer the question someone with loads of sexual meets would put me off yeah so I’d say less veris would attract me more
I know someone who has literally hundreds of veris and only ever displays a few so it's not a good benchmark really (I don't display any of mine either - not that I have hundreds, far from it )
I don’t display any either. I’m a pretty good judge of character and I don’t usually meet anyone until we’ve been chatting for a while and even then it’s just a social. My instincts haven’t failed me yet so it all works for me for what I want
Sorry, didn't mean any offence, I was just pointing out that not everyone displays them all or the summary so it's not really a good yardstick."
Not at all. No offence taken whatsoever. Very true but the ones that do and have lots I can rule out . |
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Doesn't bother me at all but is the reason I don't show older veris as I meet a lot socially. 90% of my veris are social but people just see the number and think slapper  |
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"I see a veri as a confirmation that the person is a genuine representative of their profile. Nothing else. Most use it as a way to bum up and massage ego.
As i don't play on first meet. Verification isn't so much of a deal for me. However, if someone has a significant collection. I'd move on. "
Would you be ok if the lady only had 10? |
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"I see a veri as a confirmation that the person is a genuine representative of their profile. Nothing else. Most use it as a way to bum up and massage ego.
As i don't play on first meet. Verification isn't so much of a deal for me. However, if someone has a significant collection. I'd move on.
Would you be ok if the lady only had 10?"
Can't answer that. It all depends on the verifications, the time scale etc. |
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over a year ago
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I Prefer people with veris. Usually shows genuine and do actually turn up. To many time wasters and pic collectors .
Plus one night at a club event can get you 10 veris+ |
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over a year ago
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"As a TGirl, I prefer to see some veris as I don’t want to be some FAB Straight guys experiment with his sexuality. An experienced Admirer is always preferable for me. "
Makes sense to me.  |
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over a year ago
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"Will you be attracted to a profile that has loads of meets or less meets
Iv had mix results let’s see what you think"
Doesn’t bother me as a lot of meets are only socials so I don’t judge. |
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"I see a veri as a confirmation that the person is a genuine representative of their profile. Nothing else. Most use it as a way to bum up and massage ego.
As i don't play on first meet. Verification isn't so much of a deal for me. However, if someone has a significant collection. I'd move on.
Would you be ok if the lady only had 10?
Can't answer that. It all depends on the verifications, the time scale etc."
So if she had veris that you felt were acceptable, would you meet her then? |
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