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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email? |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"
If you’re not interested just ignore her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"
I'd be honest, say you don't want contact with her because you don't trust her anymore.
Or ignore it and she'll get the message eventually.
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By *hunks91Man
over a year ago
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If she meant anything to you email back stating that you cannot forget what she done, and you therefore do not wish to have anything to do with her.
Or if you can forgive and forget then let things go and just don’t fall back in love with here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had something similar a few weeks ago.
It's it was tricky because I knew it was toxic and shouldn't go there again but at the same time I still had feelings for him. it's not always as easy as just ignoring it.
In my case I did ignore it but I understand your dilemma. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice everyone.
It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the advice everyone.
It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart."
Sounds a wise choice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for the advice everyone.
It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart.
Sounds a wise choice."
Indeed it was. I didn't want to send a reply back so I thought it would be best to just instantly block. |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"
Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?"
Why all the hassle of a pub when you can ask on here  |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"
Yes. That is what you must do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Yes. That is what you must do."
Already done as I didn't want all that hassle again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how you feel strongly about it. Water under the bridge? What’s in the past is in the past?
Or fuck you, I dealt with your shit years ago?
Pick one.
*a more sensitive personalised advice would need all your details of what happened and back history of both your lives. 
P.s I’m not a councillor. |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?"
He's simply a man who's come into the forum for advice. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about this with his friends |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Yes. That is what you must do.
Already done as I didn't want all that hassle again."
Good! On with life now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Yes. That is what you must do.
Already done as I didn't want all that hassle again.
Good! On with life now "
Yep. Onwards and upwards |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?
He's simply a man who's come into the forum for advice. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about this with his friends"
Yes true, theres no REAL friendships anymore anyway, especially in northern countries |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?
He's simply a man who's come into the forum for advice. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about this with his friends
Yes true, theres no REAL friendships anymore anyway, especially in northern countries"
That isn't my experience. I have real, long standing friendships. One of which is 50 years in duration.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you a sense of dread when you saw the message or a kick of excitement?
Either way, go with your gut!"
When I received the email a couple of hours ago, I felt dread so blocked her email address. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice everyone.
It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart."
Good for you. You deserve better. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice everyone.
It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart.
Good for you. You deserve better. X"
Yeah I sure do. |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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Without knowing what happened in the past couldn't possibly advise, but may you could try again on a different footing, have some fun just as a FB couple maybe she just needed some extra cock, lots of couples on here are happy to enjoy this basis. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To the OP, I'm glad you got it sorted, you have to do what's right for you. X"
Thanks. I definitely did the right thing by blocking, moving on and not looking back. |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"
Ignore and block. Don't enter into any kind of dialogue with her as it will just escalate.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Ignore and block. Don't enter into any kind of dialogue with her as it will just escalate.
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Already ignored and blocked her email address yesterday.
I agree that any form of dialogue would only make it worse. |
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Ignore and block. Don't enter into any kind of dialogue with her as it will just escalate.
Already ignored and blocked her email address yesterday.
I agree that any form of dialogue would only make it worse."
sounds like the most sensible thnig to do no point opening up old wounds and having the issues that come with it best just to move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.
I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.
What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?
Ignore and block. Don't enter into any kind of dialogue with her as it will just escalate.
Already ignored and blocked her email address yesterday.
I agree that any form of dialogue would only make it worse.
sounds like the most sensible thnig to do no point opening up old wounds and having the issues that come with it best just to move on. "
I couldn't agree more. |
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