A very good friend of mine my guru once told me if a guy is genuinely interested in ME he’s not gonna ask for pictures of my tits or pussy, he’ll just wait for things to happen organically and see them when the times right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Haha, buses! Meant nudes ffs!

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Good luck and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah and no sending of buses either, haven’t been asked for them which is good.

I agree with your friend on that.

If he's willing to have "dates" which don't always end in sex it's usually a good sign too

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

Good luck. Fingers crossed for you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have fun and good luck..xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agree with your guru. The guy needs to like you and respect you first.

Good luck with the date

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah the whole sex thing is a bit of a mind field. If a guy is looking to date with a view to having a relationship then I don’t think fucking on the first date matters. If a guy is not in a mind frame of wanting a relationship he could just meet you multiple times until you fuck and then move on.

I’m not down to fuck tonight though anyway even if there is mutual attraction. Purposely not shaving my pubes off so I’m not tempted.

This isn’t a fab meet either and the guys 39 so should be quite mature about what he wants.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooh exciting!

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Very exciting indeed. Have a wonderful time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"Haha, buses! Meant nudes ffs!"

You get no nudes for ages then three turn up at once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is the new guy a civvy? Might you be leaving us?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast."

Look mate I’ve been single for a decade. Had my heart put through the mincer lots of times, if I want to share this news with my friends I will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast."

Fucking hell, and I thought I was a miserable cunt...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is the new guy a civvy? Might you be leaving us?"

Yeah he is a civilian, bit early to say I’d be leaving. Might not even fancy each other. Have an open mind though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast.

Look mate I’ve been single for a decade. Had my heart put through the mincer lots of times, if I want to share this news with my friends I will. "

I can see why now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast.

Fucking hell, and I thought I was a miserable cunt..."

Are you? Or just a cuck?

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Yeah the whole sex thing is a bit of a mind field. If a guy is looking to date with a view to having a relationship then I don’t think fucking on the first date matters. If a guy is not in a mind frame of wanting a relationship he could just meet you multiple times until you fuck and then move on.

I’m not down to fuck tonight though anyway even if there is mutual attraction. Purposely not shaving my pubes off so I’m not tempted.

This isn’t a fab meet either and the guys 39 so should be quite mature about what he wants. "

Good luck later Op. I went out with someone I had a fling with in the past (non fab) yesterday and it was a refreshing change of pace to have a fun night out that actually didn't end in bed despite the fact she's gorgeous

I would agree that if people want to try traditional dating you should refrain from sex for the first few dates to get to know the person a bit first. Sex too early (especially if great) is something that can perhaps have you overlooking other less positive aspects that may be present.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let us know how it goes.

I've been talking to an off world man for over a week now and no mention of sex, or anything sexual.

No mention of an actual date yet either though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast.

Look mate I’ve been single for a decade. Had my heart put through the mincer lots of times, if I want to share this news with my friends I will.

I can see why now."

Ahh, you have a bus pass.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast."

It's hardly boasting.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Ps. Feel free to recommend good dating sites, I might dip my toe in again.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Wonderful! I hope it goes well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Good luck, take it easy Tiger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast.

Look mate I’ve been single for a decade. Had my heart put through the mincer lots of times, if I want to share this news with my friends I will.

I can see why now.

Ahh, you have a bus pass. "

*buss pass You crack me up

I hope your date goes well and you have a fantastic evening, good luck sexy Lady.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t mention licking his asshole till deserts at least.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don’t mention licking his asshole till deserts at least. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast."

The site not working out for you buddy ?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Fingers and everything else crossed for you Op. Tell him about your cooking, that'll work.

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Fingers and everything else crossed for you Op. Tell him about your cooking, that'll work."
They say a way to a mans heart is food.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fingers and everything else crossed for you Op. Tell him about your cooking, that'll work. They say a way to a mans heart is food."

I’m definitely fucked then! Or not as the case may be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ps. Feel free to recommend good dating sites, I might dip my toe in again."

I’m on bumble

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Fingers and everything else crossed for you Op. Tell him about your cooking, that'll work. They say a way to a mans heart is food.

I’m definitely fucked then! Or not as the case may be. "
Yeah metaphorically and not literally again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fingers and everything else crossed for you Op. Tell him about your cooking, that'll work. They say a way to a mans heart is food.

I’m definitely fucked then! Or not as the case may be. Yeah metaphorically and not literally again

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Fingers and everything else crossed for you Op. Tell him about your cooking, that'll work. They say a way to a mans heart is food.

I’m definitely fucked then! Or not as the case may be. Yeah metaphorically and not literally again

"
I'll give you a fuck if you're ever up this way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fingers and everything else crossed for you Op. Tell him about your cooking, that'll work. They say a way to a mans heart is food.

I’m definitely fucked then! Or not as the case may be. Yeah metaphorically and not literally again

I'll give you a fuck if you're ever up this way.

I know you would

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Fingers and everything else crossed for you Op. Tell him about your cooking, that'll work. They say a way to a mans heart is food.

I’m definitely fucked then! Or not as the case may be. Yeah metaphorically and not literally again

I'll give you a fuck if you're ever up this way.

I know you would

would have to play your cards right though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Eeeeeeeee good luck Hooves!!

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

Ooh good luck and have fun come back with some good news.

I enjoy dating vicariously through you, I love you sharing it with us.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing. You are so cool. I hope you find a rainbow together and have lots of fluffy unicorns and live in a castle

Thanks for the boast.

Fucking hell, and I thought I was a miserable cunt...

Are you? Or just a cuck?"

Ah, wailing about cucks, the mark of a sad little incel.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Keep dropping the word fab into the conversation, see if he twigs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m so very proud of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nah not for me. Nice chap but not for me. Was a bit unsure to start as he didn’t have hair and I like dark hair on a guy but I gave it a try which is good.

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By *e_jpMan over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Nah not for me. Nice chap but not for me. Was a bit unsure to start as he didn’t have hair and I like dark hair on a guy but I gave it a try which is good. "

Good on you for trying. Us baldies aren’t all bad you know!

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Nah not for me. Nice chap but not for me. Was a bit unsure to start as he didn’t have hair and I like dark hair on a guy but I gave it a try which is good. "

If at first you don't succeed...try, try again

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nah not for me. Nice chap but not for me. Was a bit unsure to start as he didn’t have hair and I like dark hair on a guy but I gave it a try which is good.

Good on you for trying. Us baldies aren’t all bad you know!

Haha I know. Just didn’t feel a spark.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haha, buses! Meant nudes ffs!"

Show me your buses?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah not for me. Nice chap but not for me. Was a bit unsure to start as he didn’t have hair and I like dark hair on a guy but I gave it a try which is good. "

Dark hair, you say?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Nah not for me. Nice chap but not for me. Was a bit unsure to start as he didn’t have hair and I like dark hair on a guy but I gave it a try which is good. "

It is good. In a reads as patronising but not meant in that way, well done! Hopefully you'll find a dark haired, adequately dicked man soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op that's why a social is always a good move ,no spark no play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah not for me. Nice chap but not for me. Was a bit unsure to start as he didn’t have hair and I like dark hair on a guy but I gave it a try which is good.

It is good. In a reads as patronising but not meant in that way, well done! Hopefully you'll find a dark haired, adequately dicked man soon."

Yeah. I concur these sentiments.

You know blondes are more fun though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah not for me. Nice chap but not for me. Was a bit unsure to start as he didn’t have hair and I like dark hair on a guy but I gave it a try which is good. "

Maybe if he got a wig ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op that's why a social is always a good move ,no spark no play"

Wasn’t off here was a vanilla date off a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op that's why a social is always a good move ,no spark no play

Wasn’t off here was a vanilla date off a dating site. "
even off a dating site it helps to have a spark if it's to progress any further bit at least you got to dress up and go out and I'm guessing it was a pleasant enough time with no expectations

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