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Flirting - are you any good at it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "
Haha I'm rubbish at seeing the signs and flirting, and I don't have much hair to twirl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw a stunning blonde in the supermarket and I just walked right up to her and I said ‘Has anyone ever told you, you’re stood right in front of the Dairylea Lunchables ?!’
Cut to 20 minutes later and I’m back home tucking into a rather lovely cheese dip.
So in answer to your question, no I’m terrible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "
Nice move.
I wish I could say that a sit squeezing my nipples whilst licking my Lips looking at them at them, but I can’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I saw a stunning blonde in the supermarket and I just walked right up to her and I said ‘Has anyone ever told you, you’re stood right in front of the Dairylea Lunchables ?!’
Cut to 20 minutes later and I’m back home tucking into a rather lovely cheese dip.
So in answer to your question, no I’m terrible. "
did you go for the fingers or crackers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I saw a stunning blonde in the supermarket and I just walked right up to her and I said ‘Has anyone ever told you, you’re stood right in front of the Dairylea Lunchables ?!’
Cut to 20 minutes later and I’m back home tucking into a rather lovely cheese dip.
So in answer to your question, no I’m terrible. did you go for the fingers or crackers?"
Always with the fingers. |
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"Nope, wouldn’t know where to start 
Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms I’m a survivor."
I'm a survivor (what), I'm not gon' give up (what)
I'm not gon' stop (what), I'm gon' work harder (what)
I'm a survivor (what), I'm gonna make it (what)
I will survive (what), keep on survivin' (what
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "
are you twirling your hair now???   |
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I'm absolutely dreadful at flirting. Flirt skill level 0.
I'm even worse at noticing if someone's flirting with me.
I am genuinly shit at everything flirt related.
How I ever manage to have the sex is one of life's greatest mysteries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do my arse iv seen u keep up with me many times ya flirty cow"
Me flirty cow! More like feisty cat with claws |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apparently I'm a big flirt but I don't know I'm doing it. I'm told it's all in the eye contact I give, the touching my hair, my giggle and apparently I'm quite touchy feely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently I'm a big flirt but I don't know I'm doing it. I'm told it's all in the eye contact I give, the touching my hair, my giggle and apparently I'm quite touchy feely "
 superflirt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do my arse iv seen u keep up with me many times ya flirty cow
Me flirty cow! More like feisty cat with claws "
Id tame ya |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.
On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me. |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.
On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me. "
Hello cleavage  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess that would be for the flirtee to say. But I used to be more flirtatious in real life than I am now. I can recognise the difference between someone being attentive and friendly, versus lighthearted friendly flirting, versus I’d really like to get in your pants flirting. Although the line between the last two can be less clear depending on circumstances.
On here it’s easy to flirt but it’s mostly just banter. It’s also easier to be overt about wanting to get horizontal with someone, so distinguishing real interest is easier. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.
On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.
Hello cleavage "
Eyes up man! oh there isn’t any eyes  |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.
On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.
Hello cleavage
Eyes up man! oh there isn’t any eyes "
Now there's a cock up |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.
On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.
Hello cleavage
Eyes up man! oh there isn’t any eyes
Now there's a cock up "
You’re forever making mistakes  |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.
On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.
Hello cleavage
Eyes up man! oh there isn’t any eyes
Now there's a cock up
You’re forever making mistakes "
It's what I do best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to flirt when we are out in the city, bar hopping. Sometimes it yields good fun, sometimes it doesn’t but it’s great to try.
Scarlett is a natural flirt, although she would say differently. It is easier for her as she only has to smile at someone at the bar and they seem to part the crowds as if they had Devine intervention to get close for a chat.
With me it’s more difficult but if we are having a conversation with a couple it’s lovely to flirt with the lady. Always wary that there’s a fine line to be on the right side of. Black eyes are not very becoming. |
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I'm horrendous at flirting. Once was chatting to someone at a table with mates and one scurried away- apparently she was laughing because I'd brought up nominative determinism. She felt it was a perfect example of me not getting the hang of talking to people I fancy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "
You may be able to help me (not literally) As I walk down the street,which does happen.I get a ridiculous amount of women that start playing with their hair.I have some times wondered what is that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. You may be able to help me (not literally) As I walk down the street,which does happen.I get a ridiculous amount of women that start playing with their hair.I have some times wondered what is that."
Sometimes..one word.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apparently I don't ever stop! I don't even realise I'm flirting some of the time! Probably explains why 80 year old men ask me on dates at work, I think I'm being nice and friendly.... 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently I don't ever stop! I don't even realise I'm flirting some of the time! Probably explains why 80 year old men ask me on dates at work, I think I'm being nice and friendly....
Peach x"
It stops being just friendly when you're rubbing their cocks through their trousers
I'm awful at it, even worse for picking up on it
C |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently I don't ever stop! I don't even realise I'm flirting some of the time! Probably explains why 80 year old men ask me on dates at work, I think I'm being nice and friendly....
Peach x
It stops being just friendly when you're rubbing their cocks through their trousers
Eurghhh...give me some credit, that only happened a couple of times...
I'm awful at it, even worse for picking up on it
C"
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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In person i can’t tell at all.
I never know if someone fancies me unless they straight out tell me or their tongue is down my throat.
On here i just assume they are playfully teasing and don’t fancy me at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In person i can’t tell at all.
I never know if someone fancies me unless they straight out tell me or their tongue is down my throat.
On here i just assume they are playfully teasing and don’t fancy me at all."
id bum ya  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"In person i can’t tell at all.
I never know if someone fancies me unless they straight out tell me or their tongue is down my throat.
On here i just assume they are playfully teasing and don’t fancy me at all.id bum ya "
Stop ya teasing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm embarrassingly awful at it  and someone has to make it blindingly obvious to me or I don't get it lol.
I never think anyone wants to flirt with me so I assume they're acting weird for shady purposes
Shocker I'm single innit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m told I must have kissed the Blarney Stone! Wouldn’t say flirting so much just like the sound of my own voice sometimes !! Filth talk , well I like to think I have the ability |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I don't realise I'm doing it ... It has been pointed out though but I don't mind ... Better to be flirty than miserable "
How on earth does not being flirty equate to being miserable?! 
I'm hopeless at both doing it and recognising that someone is flirting with me and even when I do vaguely think someone *might* be flirting I'm at a loss for words to know what to say and often the person concerned will pass me by as a result.
Even in meet situations on here, my awkwardness with it knows no bounds and I often get round the flirting bit by just making a more direct move if I think it will be welcomed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x"
Think it comes naturall in the flesh, I think we don’t realise we’re doing it most of the time, I think if I actually decided I liked someone and maybe thought “I’ll flirt” I’d be clueless and guarantee I’d fuck up end up having the reverse effect |
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"Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x
Think it comes naturall in the flesh, I think we don’t realise we’re doing it most of the time, I think if I actually decided I liked someone and maybe thought “I’ll flirt” I’d be clueless and guarantee I’d fuck up end up having the reverse effect "
I agree. It's an unconscious thing. When I really like someone in the flesh I'm hopeless at it. I get all awkward x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x
Think it comes naturall in the flesh, I think we don’t realise we’re doing it most of the time, I think if I actually decided I liked someone and maybe thought “I’ll flirt” I’d be clueless and guarantee I’d fuck up end up having the reverse effect
I agree. It's an unconscious thing. When I really like someone in the flesh I'm hopeless at it. I get all awkward x"
Yes speak 100 miles an hour (as opposed to 90) say things so random and unrelated that just leave them confused, and possibly trip over, spill something on my top, u can picture the scene |
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"Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x
Think it comes naturall in the flesh, I think we don’t realise we’re doing it most of the time, I think if I actually decided I liked someone and maybe thought “I’ll flirt” I’d be clueless and guarantee I’d fuck up end up having the reverse effect
I agree. It's an unconscious thing. When I really like someone in the flesh I'm hopeless at it. I get all awkward x
Yes speak 100 miles an hour (as opposed to 90) say things so random and unrelated that just leave them confused, and possibly trip over, spill something on my top, u can picture the scene "
I've lived that scene haha x |
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