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By *r Polite OP Man
over a year ago
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Just wondering about this...
Was chatting to a lass, all seemed to be going fine.
Arranged to meet the next week, left things alone for a few days and hoped to catch up later.
Came to arrange a social, tried to message her to find she had deleted the messages and her final message to me was, "and you are?"
Now, this might have been deliberate and its game over, but just wondering if i got caught up in a bulk delete by accident..
Is this an possibly an accident or is it a common way to ditch someone stress free?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it’s *possible* it was an accident.
And it’s also *possible* it wasn’t.
It might also have been a timewaster, or a fella masquerading as a lady.
If you’ve been blocked and all previous messages deleted it’s unlikely to be an accident, particularly if she was a site supporter, as message histories are retained.
My advice, dust your self down, don’t worry about and move on! Good luck my friend ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't want to sound harsh but if someone really wants to meet, they'll be more attentive. If she didn't recognize you, it's possible you didn't make a big enough impression.
This happens man, don't dwell on it and move on ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *r Polite OP Man
over a year ago
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Strange thing is, it was all very positive, tried to arrange a social last week, but due to work commitments, she couldnt make it last minute. All very apologetic and wanted to re arrange for the following week..
If she was playing games, she could have strung me out and done me again for another 20 mile drive to nothing. Seems as though if she is a faker (sure she was verified a few times, but cant see now?) She needs to up her game. If she was genuine, what a shame as she looked attractive and the chat was conducive.. |
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its not possible to know if you've been blocked by accident or indeed why you've been blocked anyway.
If she had accidentally blocked you it would be quite easy for her to unblock once she realised.
I think you have to accept that she changed her mind |
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"Appreciate the input guys..
What a mistaka to maka....
Seemed quite a prospect.
Guess ill just have to wait another year or two for another interested person.."
its disappointing when things like this happen isn't it. |
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