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Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone? |
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I'll give almost anyone a chance to win me over, assuming I find some physical attraction.
I won't however chase, pursue, or agree to a met just because the chance for sex is there. Easy or not. |
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Isn't it a deep set male psyche for them to want to spread their seed to the 4 winds?
So if it moves bang it ... if it doesn't move, bang it til it does?
That being said, sometimes in the chat rooms there is the heady scent of Calvin Klein's new after shave ... Desperation |
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
I don’t think so. Anyone could go for anyone, men or women.
Even if you were to ‘lower your standards ‘ so to speak, I’m sure there’s still a reason that you got all hot for them. Desperate? Maybe, but I don’t think just anyone will do to get your rocks off. |
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"Isn't it a deep set male psyche for them to want to spread their seed to the 4 winds?
So if it moves bang it ... if it doesn't move, bang it til it does?
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
Some are, some aren't, some get butthurt at not getting meets some are ok with it. Some are nice, some are wanks. Some get angry and say we're all fat ugly slags who wouldn't get chatted up in a pub some are lovely and you get a real click with them and want to meet and have fun.
It's a weird wonderful place of interest, variety, dickpics, nice guys and couples and whatnot. I don't think any men could all be categorised as one thing. It's better to just see them as individuals. |
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Standards change depending on what people are looking for.
This is a no strings attached web site.
The amount of women that want that kind of interaction is low, where as lots of men are happy for that kind of arrangement.
This means that women have a greater choice of partner. Supply and demand means that they can pick the best of those available.
As there are not that many women that just want short term physical relationships the pool of talent is smaller from which men can fish.
This means they have to take what they can get, unless they are gymfit studmuffins
Fortunately women even those who are looking for nsa are not that shallow, and will choose guys who make them laugh and show them a good time. Which is fortunate for me as although I’m ugly I am quite a good laugh |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet  "
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure"
I understand how you feel.
Unless you genuinely want NSA then Fab isn't the place to be.
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
Some will, to some a meet is just an elaborate form of wanking.
From what ladies have told me that’s probably 90% of guys.
There are guys that do have higher requirements than just having a ready hole or 3 |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure"
Like being asked to dance 10 minutes before a pub / club closes when the slowies come on? |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure
I understand how you feel.
Unless you genuinely want NSA then Fab isn't the place to be.
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NSA yes, absolutely, but also not just a vagina, I’m human too |
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I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else |
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"I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else"
Exactly that, the mind is the greatest sex organ surely, a connection should be made first to be fully satisfied |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure
I understand how you feel.
Unless you genuinely want NSA then Fab isn't the place to be.
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So, are you saying that fab is only set up and will only be if it those that want NSA?
Because I reckon there’s a whole group of different people looking for a whole load of different things from a quick meet to ‘their one true love’.
Fab suits different people for whatever reason.
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"I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else
Exactly that, the mind is the greatest sex organ surely, a connection should be made first to be fully satisfied "
Precisely and more succinctly put |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure
I understand how you feel.
Unless you genuinely want NSA then Fab isn't the place to be.
So, are you saying that fab is only set up and will only be if it those that want NSA?
Because I reckon there’s a whole group of different people looking for a whole load of different things from a quick meet to ‘their one true love’.
Fab suits different people for whatever reason.
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I'm not saying there isn't.
But from my experience as a single woman on sites like this for many years it isn't the place to be if you want more than NSA.
I'm sure there are the exceptions but that's exactly what they are - exceptions. |
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"I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else
Exactly that, the mind is the greatest sex organ surely, a connection should be made first to be fully satisfied "
I agree that a metal connection is important, but my whole being needs to be on the way to screaming ‘I want to have sex with you’ for me to overcome my inertia these days. |
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"I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else"
What? Be a man ... I refer you to one of my previous messages ... if it moves ... bang it  |
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"I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else
Exactly that, the mind is the greatest sex organ surely, a connection should be made first to be fully satisfied
I agree that a metal connection is important, but my whole being needs to be on the way to screaming ‘I want to have sex with you’ for me to overcome my inertia these days."
Furthermore that feeling needs to be mutual. |
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"I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else
What? Be a man ... I refer you to one of my previous messages ... if it moves ... bang it "
I’m clearly not a man  |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure"
Why do you feel insecure because of how other people are?
It's fairly easy to spot the men who want true nsa sex, they have a certain attitude, they won't meet you for a social etc. The meet now messages are easily deleted and reflect only on the person who sent them, not you.
If you belong to a site where women put naked pictures of themselves on their profile men who just want to fuck and go will join and message everyone in the hope of a response.
Choose men who are happy to chat to you and meet for a coffee or a glass of something. You will be able to guage their attitude towards you then
Ultimately though, what do you want from them? Sex, validation, a relationship? |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure
I understand how you feel.
Unless you genuinely want NSA then Fab isn't the place to be.
So, are you saying that fab is only set up and will only be if it those that want NSA?
Because I reckon there’s a whole group of different people looking for a whole load of different things from a quick meet to ‘their one true love’.
Fab suits different people for whatever reason.
I'm not saying there isn't.
But from my experience as a single woman on sites like this for many years it isn't the place to be if you want more than NSA.
I'm sure there are the exceptions but that's exactly what they are - exceptions."
How many men on a proper dating site (those that are payed for trying to match you with a life partner ) do you think are actually just there for nsa? I’d guess the same mix that are here.
Places like this attract people to socialise, sex is always on most people’s minds anyway.
Facebook / Twitter, etc, men are out in this image that we’d jump in anyone given half a chance just because of the ones that would stand out more than those that wouldn’t.
And like most feedback campaigns, bad news is louder than good news for a company. Sadly, The Gentleman aren’t doing too well on Fab are we?
I’m waffling, I know. |
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"Yes OP any hole is a goal for most on here - if they tell you any different that's because they haven't fucked you yet
That’s the feeling I get at time judging my inbox. Many are instant requests for a meet. It all makes me that little bit more insecure
Why do you feel insecure because of how other people are?"
Because that kind of person will feel insecure no matter what....
So essentially this site is not for them, if they are worried about what other people think/judge all of the time  |
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"I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else
Exactly that, the mind is the greatest sex organ surely, a connection should be made first to be fully satisfied
I agree that a metal connection is important, but my whole being needs to be on the way to screaming ‘I want to have sex with you’ for me to overcome my inertia these days.
Furthermore that feeling needs to be mutual."
Indeed |
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
As much as I would like my first meet I’m defo not desperate an wouldn’t just meet anyone Lloyd x |
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"I'll give almost anyone a chance to win me over, assuming I find some physical attraction.
I won't however chase, pursue, or agree to a meet just because the chance for sex is there. Easy or not. "
Couldn't agree more my friend!  |
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
I don't meet everyone who offers, and I don't always go on to play after a social meet |
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
Me personally no chance would I meet anyone but there are a lot of guys on here that would meet any lady of any size/age/looks despite not being attracted to them, I like to nosey at veris and you look at pics of both profiles and it's obvious he's only after a shag and wouldn't notice the woman in real life but if that's your bag that's your bag |
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"I maybe in the minority but I like to get to know someone before we do any horizontal tangoing, otherwise how else do you ever expect to both be satisfied afterwards.
Or maybe that’s the problem some of them only care about number one being satisfied and couldn’t care about anyone else
What? Be a man ... I refer you to one of my previous messages ... if it moves ... bang it
I’m clearly not a man "
Me neither I’m afraid |
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
There is nothing unique about the behaviour on fabs (both male and female) when it comes to NSA sex. |
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It simple maths.
Say how of a random 100 women on here a man might be prepared, when push comes to shove to have sex with him to have sex with eighty of them. Chances are he will only get a couple of those women willing to have sex with him (given the ratios), so if the woman he finds 78th most attractive in that group comes along he'll fuck her.
Conversely if a woman on here is willing, in theory, to fuck eighty out of hundred men, chances are that the first few on her attractiveness list will fuck her. Hence guys further down her list have no chance. |
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Quality over quantity they say.
So far haven't met anyone yet, early days. I won't just fuck for the sake of fucking.
However if I pretty girl came along and wanted to meet up... I wouldn't say no to social and if things progressed... Then I'd be a happy man. |
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When as a woman, with a black silhouette as your profile ID, you get messages
'You're the most gawjus woman on here', it sums up the attitude and approach of some people here (How dare she not have a profile pic, as he'll be disappointed at the meet, as he's expecting a 2D silhouette to shag!) And this type of message for the silhouettes here, will not be uncommon. |
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I am very picky / fussy ...there has to be an attraction for me to be interested.
Attraction can be derived from a variety of factors and qualities ...good looks, sexy body, wit / humour, intellect, attitude and outlook, likes / dislikes, compatibility, ambition etc. |
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
Some do.
Others don’t |
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"I’m only interested in exceptional females, E.g. they have tits and a vagina. "
It sounds as if you would do an alligator if they drained the pond. If she gave you that sly come-hither look of course. |
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?"
Personally I won't, I have no problem finding sex if that's all I wanted. I've been pretty half hearted on here, I opened an account and didn't touch it for like a year haha
I imagine some are like that though. |
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"Because on here it’s quite rather male women can kind of control the roost, does that mean for guys they’re less choosy?
I’ve seen several posts in the forums, statuses, profiles etc how men are seemly desperate for a meet, does that mean men will go for anyone?
Personally I won't, I have no problem finding sex if that's all I wanted. I've been pretty half hearted on here, I opened an account and didn't touch it for like a year haha
I imagine some are like that though. "
I never use fab to meet singles, I'm here to meet swingers |
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