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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
To be fair it sounds like hes already said goodbye? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I get bored with the sex I stop agreeing to meet.
I don't want to have to ask for something or prompt.
If it doesn't come natural to him he's not the man for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend
To be fair it sounds like hes already said goodbye?"
Nope it's a once a day thing apparently. Sometimes twice a day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend
To be fair it sounds like hes already said goodbye?
Nope it's a once a day thing apparently. Sometimes twice a day."
If you're in a relationship with him have you spoken to him about it? |
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
Is he on fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend
To be fair it sounds like hes already said goodbye?
Nope it's a once a day thing apparently. Sometimes twice a day."
Ah i apologise ive just read your profile.
Its a much more complicated situation in that case if it was thw only issue communication and maybe some ourside help would be the right course.
But if youve already gone looking else where I'd say yes its time to say good bye for both your sakes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
Who wouldn't want a dismal, unexciting, drone like, mind-numbing, waiting in a traffic jam for ten hours, I can't feel my life because I'm a zombie type life. On the other hand it does give her time to contemplate life and the universe for ten pumps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Actually asking for a friend. She met a guy 5 months ago. He meets her everyday. Just for sex. Seems that's all he cares about is getting himself off though. I've tried telling her that I think he is using her but she wants to believe he is not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I get bored with the sex I stop agreeing to meet.
I don't want to have to ask for something or prompt.
If it doesn't come natural to him he's not the man for me. "
But what if it comes natural to him but he is unsure you'll like it and he lile you doesnt feel comfortable communicating verbally about it.
For me its rimming i really enjoy doing it but i know quite a few women aren't into it. Especialy as i enjoy kissing and many may not want to afterwards as well.
So if i dont feel its right ro openly ask i try to make an obvious intervention for them.
Like roll them.onto thier stomach kiss thier cheeks and spread them, maybe blow on thier anus but then move up so im above them with my head near thiers and look at them with a hit of a wicked grin and a suggestive eyebrow raise while still holding thier bum.
If they want it they usualy raise thier bum if they dont they can pull me in for a kiss and we move on without an awkward disruption.
I know communication is often brought up here and it does cover verbal and non verbal but sometimes people may need a bit of prompting or reassurance. relying on a purely "natural" flow may leave you both missing out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend
To be fair it sounds like hes already said goodbye?
Nope it's a once a day thing apparently. Sometimes twice a day.
Ah i apologise ive just read your profile.
Its a much more complicated situation in that case if it was thw only issue communication and maybe some ourside help would be the right course.
But if youve already gone looking else where I'd say yes its time to say good bye for both your sakes."
Me and my husband don't actually have sex. I'm actually asking for a friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually asking for a friend. She met a guy 5 months ago. He meets her everyday. Just for sex. Seems that's all he cares about is getting himself off though. I've tried telling her that I think he is using her but she wants to believe he is not."
oh then yeah fuck him (well stop fucking him).
Its a hook up if you arent satisfied and the status quo isnt changing theres about 20 million others waiting in the wings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend
To be fair it sounds like hes already said goodbye?
Nope it's a once a day thing apparently. Sometimes twice a day.
Ah i apologise ive just read your profile.
Its a much more complicated situation in that case if it was thw only issue communication and maybe some ourside help would be the right course.
But if youve already gone looking else where I'd say yes its time to say good bye for both your sakes.
Me and my husband don't actually have sex. I'm actually asking for a friend "
Haha sorry this may be the first time somone has said that and actually been asking for a friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually asking for a friend. She met a guy 5 months ago. He meets her everyday. Just for sex. Seems that's all he cares about is getting himself off though. I've tried telling her that I think he is using her but she wants to believe he is not."
If that's all it is, no other true communication, and one he is done he leaves. Then yes he is clearly using her to get himself off.
I can't really come up with any other explaination than that.
Surely if it was anything but there would at least be more between them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suggest to your friend that a period of forced abstinence may focus her man's mind into being a little more considerate.
A daily booty call with a pump-pump-squirt-thanks love is going to do nothing for her self esteem. He's using her like a human fleshlight. We all deserve better than that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Suggest to your friend that a period of forced abstinence may focus her man's mind into being a little more considerate.
A daily booty call with a pump-pump-squirt-thanks love is going to do nothing for her self esteem. He's using her like a human fleshlight. We all deserve better than that."
Yah my thoughts exactly. He tells her that they are dating. Texts her all the time when not around but they have never been out together and he never hangs around for a movie or something to eat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Suggest to your friend that a period of forced abstinence may focus her man's mind into being a little more considerate.
A daily booty call with a pump-pump-squirt-thanks love is going to do nothing for her self esteem. He's using her like a human fleshlight. We all deserve better than that.
Yah my thoughts exactly. He tells her that they are dating. Texts her all the time when not around but they have never been out together and he never hangs around for a movie or something to eat."
Shes not the only one hes dating |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Suggest to your friend that a period of forced abstinence may focus her man's mind into being a little more considerate.
A daily booty call with a pump-pump-squirt-thanks love is going to do nothing for her self esteem. He's using her like a human fleshlight. We all deserve better than that.
Yah my thoughts exactly. He tells her that they are dating. Texts her all the time when not around but they have never been out together and he never hangs around for a movie or something to eat.
Shes not the only one hes dating"
Sounds like a cheating bloke
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
erm yes, sure you can do better.....tell your friend. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
If there is something else beyond a fuck that you like, just maybe you gotta play at edging him till you do cum and then not giving him his due release -see if that rings a bell or two for him. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Actually asking for a friend. She met a guy 5 months ago. He meets her everyday. Just for sex. Seems that's all he cares about is getting himself off though. I've tried telling her that I think he is using her but she wants to believe he is not."
He's clearly using her but if she hasn't said anything to him directly he doesn't feel the need to change anything and assumes it's all good? If she wants more she should so say so and if he doesn't like it she should move on. Never good when two people have completely different expectations. |
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
He's using her - he can change his ways, or hit the road. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
That's just bloody selfish mun! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She says they talk about everything. What she means is they text about everything. She has fallen for him big time. Whenever she bring up that he never spends time with her outside of sex he goes on about how busy he is with work and looking after his mum. O don't know how to get through to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She says they talk about everything. What she means is they text about everything. She has fallen for him big time. Whenever she bring up that he never spends time with her outside of sex he goes on about how busy he is with work and looking after his mum. O don't know how to get through to her. "
Sext him? |
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"She says they talk about everything. What she means is they text about everything. She has fallen for him big time. Whenever she bring up that he never spends time with her outside of sex he goes on about how busy he is with work and looking after his mum. O don't know how to get through to her. "
Sounds like he's married tbh. The penny will drop eventually.
All you can do as a good friend is be supportive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
Hmmmm, I hear this a lot, but unless you hoof them out, why would he change..? Follow your head not your heart xx |
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"If I get bored with the sex I stop agreeing to meet.
I don't want to have to ask for something or prompt.
If it doesn't come natural to him he's not the man for me. "
Yeah, I feel the same, if they give a shit then they remain aware of your needs and desires. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"She says they talk about everything. What she means is they text about everything. She has fallen for him big time. Whenever she bring up that he never spends time with her outside of sex he goes on about how busy he is with work and looking after his mum. O don't know how to get through to her.
Sounds like he's married tbh. The penny will drop eventually.
All you can do as a good friend is be supportive."
That's what I am thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was thinking of trying to see what else he does be up too. Half afraid though he is married or attached to someone else and then I'd have to tell her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend "
Are these on each of his birthdays? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When he wants his cock sucked but never returns the favour. When he fucks you without caring about getting you off. When he is out the door as soon as he cums. Time to day goodbye maybe?
Asking for a friend
Are these on each of his birthdays? "
No it's everyday |
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"Was thinking of trying to see what else he does be up too. Half afraid though he is married or attached to someone else and then I'd have to tell her."
I wouldn't go there, could have a nasty side to him..
Just be consistent and supportive with your friend..
Sounds like whilst she is not happy with the current situation she doesn't want to let go?
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Your friend, can’t see things objectively, maybe ask her for her advice on a similar situation and see what advice she gives. Maybe at that point it may sink in having giving you objective advice?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your friend, can’t see things objectively, maybe ask her for her advice on a similar situation and see what advice she gives. Maybe at that point it may sink in having giving you objective advice?!"
Great idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your friend, can’t see things objectively, maybe ask her for her advice on a similar situation and see what advice she gives. Maybe at that point it may sink in having giving you objective advice?!
Great idea "
Oh yes! That is an awesome idea. Psychological for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Was thinking of trying to see what else he does be up too. Half afraid though he is married or attached to someone else and then I'd have to tell her.
I wouldn't go there, could have a nasty side to him..
Just be consistent and supportive with your friend..
Sounds like whilst she is not happy with the current situation she doesn't want to let go?
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She is head over heels in love with him but I don't believe he is with her. |
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"Was thinking of trying to see what else he does be up too. Half afraid though he is married or attached to someone else and then I'd have to tell her.
I wouldn't go there, could have a nasty side to him..
Just be consistent and supportive with your friend..
Sounds like whilst she is not happy with the current situation she doesn't want to let go?
She is head over heels in love with him but I don't believe he is with her. "
I was thinking further, maybe give her an example of when (say yourself) have closed one door on a not so perfect relationship and because of that other doors with happier relationships behind them opened up. |
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"Was thinking of trying to see what else he does be up too. Half afraid though he is married or attached to someone else and then I'd have to tell her.
I wouldn't go there, could have a nasty side to him..
Just be consistent and supportive with your friend..
Sounds like whilst she is not happy with the current situation she doesn't want to let go?
She is head over heels in love with him but I don't believe he is with her.
I was thinking further, maybe give her an example of when (say yourself) have closed one door on a not so perfect relationship and because of that other doors with happier relationships behind them opened up."
This.. 
Sure as night follows day she is headed for a fall so taking charge of the decision if she is minded to when ready may help.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Was thinking of trying to see what else he does be up too. Half afraid though he is married or attached to someone else and then I'd have to tell her.
I wouldn't go there, could have a nasty side to him..
Just be consistent and supportive with your friend..
Sounds like whilst she is not happy with the current situation she doesn't want to let go?
She is head over heels in love with him but I don't believe he is with her.
I was thinking further, maybe give her an example of when (say yourself) have closed one door on a not so perfect relationship and because of that other doors with happier relationships behind them opened up.
This..
Sure as night follows day she is headed for a fall so taking charge of the decision if she is minded to when ready may help.. "
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"Was thinking of trying to see what else he does be up too. Half afraid though he is married or attached to someone else and then I'd have to tell her."
In my experience even if he is the bad guy, your friend won't thank you ( at least initially) for "outing" him.
It usually turns into a case of shooting the messenger.
All you can really do is be there to support her.
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