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10 Things Fab Has Taught Me
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I've only been around on here for a couple weeks and am still very much finding my feet around here! But I feel I've learnt a lot in three weeks and thought I'd share it to see what Fab has taught everyone else!
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1. Don't judge a book by it's cover
2. Don't trust a book with no cover!
3. Patience. Perserverence. Self-assurance
4. Interesting, intelligent people enjoy amazing and kink sex as much as the next person!
5. Communication skills are both widely underused and horrifically undervalued.
6. Reliability is key. Second chances are rare. Third chances are like rocking horse shit
7. Variety is abundant. Everyone is different in their own uniquely amazing way. That's kind of the point!
8. The chase can be hard - But if the chase was easy would it feel worthwhile?
9. Beauty starts within - Self confidence is so much more attractive then physical appearance
10. Shower selfies don't work - Too much steam!
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So that's my musings. My lessons learnt  .
What has Fab taught you over your time on here? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I'm sure with enough effort I could come up with a 10 things list but i'll keep it to the most important for me. Fab has taught me to be rid of feelings of jealousy or possessiveness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure with enough effort I could come up with a 10 things list but i'll keep it to the most important for me. Fab has taught me to be rid of feelings of jealousy or possessiveness "
It’s natural to feel jealous if you like someone enough |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I'm sure with enough effort I could come up with a 10 things list but i'll keep it to the most important for me. Fab has taught me to be rid of feelings of jealousy or possessiveness
It’s natural to feel jealous if you like someone enough "
Perhaps, but jealousy and fab are incompatible. |
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"I'm sure with enough effort I could come up with a 10 things list but i'll keep it to the most important for me. Fab has taught me to be rid of feelings of jealousy or possessiveness
It’s natural to feel jealous if you like someone enough "
Really? I beg to differ as I'm sure most couples would too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve learnt that no matter how polite, respectful and mannerly I am I never get a response. I’m not a bad looking chap either. Not sure where I’m going wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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10! Blimey ok.
1. Never google anything you don’t understand
on fab.
2. I’m more easily shocked than I thought I was
3. It’s soooo difficult to find what you’re looking for on here
4. As well as there being some vile human beings here there are also some genuine amazing people who I’m proud to call my friends.
5. I’m a fussy cow
6. There is a lot of jealousy and downright nastiness here.
7. Keep my opinions to myself.
8. Be very careful who i tell things to.
9. It’s quite addictive
10.Not all men prefer slim women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok
1 im a catch
2 im really good at sex
3 some really funny women on here
4 forum folks are ace
5 you can be friends with opposite sex without wanting to climb on
Il finnish latèr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok
1 im a catch
2 im really good at sex
3 some really funny women on here
4 forum folks are ace
5 you can be friends with opposite sex without wanting to climb on
Il finnish latèr"
You have learnt nothing, noting.... nada! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met some fantastic people on here and I've had some great sex. But all good things come to an end eventually.
1. Trust no one
2. Some women are two faced jealous bitches
3. Don't display verifications from Forumites you have fucked.
4. People actually tell great big fat lies
5. I am sexy/beautiful/amazing, until I've been fucked, then I'm a notch (more often then not)
#Justsaying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met some fantastic people on here and I've had some great sex. But all good things come to an end eventually.
1. Trust no one
2. Some women are two faced jealous bitches
3. Don't display verifications from Forumites you have fucked.
4. People actually tell great big fat lies
5. I am sexy/beautiful/amazing, until I've been fucked, then I'm a notch (more often then not)
#Justsaying"
Why not display verifications from forumanites? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met some fantastic people on here and I've had some great sex. But all good things come to an end eventually.
1. Trust no one
2. Some women are two faced jealous bitches
3. Don't display verifications from Forumites you have fucked.
4. People actually tell great big fat lies
5. I am sexy/beautiful/amazing, until I've been fucked, then I'm a notch (more often then not)
#Justsaying"
Agree with 1 to 4 but after throwing my toys out of my pram today I’ve decided I don’t give a f##k what people think or say anymore. Block the haters and the jealous bitches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Be careful who you entrust with your story
2. You don’t have to try harder to be successful on here
3. There are a huge amount of men who want to suck your cock.
4. Keep who you meet between yourselves.
5. I am much more capable of extreme pleasure than I thought.
6. Deliberately not meeting for 5 years taught me a lot.
7. There are some awesome people on here
8. I have a swinging mentality
9. I can tell people that matter that I’m bisexual and very kinky without the world caving in
10. The forum is too addictive
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met some fantastic people on here and I've had some great sex. But all good things come to an end eventually.
1. Trust no one
2. Some women are two faced jealous bitches
3. Don't display verifications from Forumites you have fucked.
4. People actually tell great big fat lies
5. I am sexy/beautiful/amazing, until I've been fucked, then I'm a notch (more often then not)
#Justsaying"
Couldn’t have put it better myself x |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"So, I've only been around on here for a couple weeks and am still very much finding my feet around here! But I feel I've learnt a lot in three weeks and thought I'd share it to see what Fab has taught everyone else!
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1. Don't judge a book by it's cover
2. Don't trust a book with no cover!
3. Patience. Perserverence. Self-assurance
4. Interesting, intelligent people enjoy amazing and kink sex as much as the next person!
5. Communication skills are both widely underused and horrifically undervalued.
6. Reliability is key. Second chances are rare. Third chances are like rocking horse shit
7. Variety is abundant. Everyone is different in their own uniquely amazing way. That's kind of the point!
8. The chase can be hard - But if the chase was easy would it feel worthwhile?
9. Beauty starts within - Self confidence is so much more attractive then physical appearance
10. Shower selfies don't work - Too much steam!
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So that's my musings. My lessons learnt .
What has Fab taught you over your time on here?"
You seem to have sussed it out pretty quickly OP. Hope you have loads of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I've only been around on here for a couple weeks and am still very much finding my feet around here! But I feel I've learnt a lot in three weeks and thought I'd share it to see what Fab has taught everyone else!
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1. Don't judge a book by it's cover
2. Don't trust a book with no cover!
3. Patience. Perserverence. Self-assurance
4. Interesting, intelligent people enjoy amazing and kink sex as much as the next person!
5. Communication skills are both widely underused and horrifically undervalued.
6. Reliability is key. Second chances are rare. Third chances are like rocking horse shit
7. Variety is abundant. Everyone is different in their own uniquely amazing way. That's kind of the point!
8. The chase can be hard - But if the chase was easy would it feel worthwhile?
9. Beauty starts within - Self confidence is so much more attractive then physical appearance
10. Shower selfies don't work - Too much steam!
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So that's my musings. My lessons learnt .
What has Fab taught you over your time on here?"
Some will be thinking this must be too good to be true... but this one is a quick learner and has the profile to back it up. Only time will tell now.
One of the best opening posts I have read in a long time. He has also learnt not to come back into his own thread. How cheeky is that 
Enjoy OP! |
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By *apstarMan
over a year ago
Harpenden |
This is my rules for fab and any other site .
1. Don't be thirsty
2. Don't send dick picks
3. Don't think with ya dick
4. Show respect
5. Don't be rude
6. Don't hassle people
7. No still means no
8. Listen too advice about ya profile and how you can get a veri .
9 . Be honset lies get you no where and you will always get found out
10 . There is soooooo many hot lady's out there .
Weather we ever come in contact I would like too wish you all a amazing 2019. Stay stong, positive and never give up. Life's isn't easy but we are stronger than we think . We are never given anything we can't deal with . Take care everyone xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing really.
The only really differnt thing about fab than anywhere else on the internet is that there is a potential personal gain or loss from what a person posts or how they presents themselves.
So there's some interesting differences in how women and couples post and men.
Women and couples tend to be much blunter as they aren't always aware they need to present positively to get sex/meets.
But there is certainly some cases of one upmanship on particular topics and underlying bitterness in others.
It's certainly different but its not new |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok
1 im a catch
2 im really good at sex
3 some really funny women on here
4 forum folks are ace
5 you can be friends with opposite sex without wanting to climb on
Il finnish latèr"
6 gangbangs can start by accident as some guys have no self control
7 its helped my confidence
8 some people are broken beyond repair
9 mff is a myth
10 i cant leave no matter how hard i try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 not to trust so easily
2 people lie
3 to not be so open about myself
4 you can have real true friendships
5 that I have more confidence than I realised
6 that socials are great fun
7 some people are worth traveling for
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Great list OP, been coming to those same conclusions myself over last couple of months. Lots of good additions from other posters too, but sooo many posts bemoaning lies and lack of trust on Fabs - sad but true I guess.
The site can be a good way to start the conversation, but socials are better for finding real people with shared interests - personal recommendations are better than veris!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Despite this being a sexually focused site, the likelihood of coordinating someone else's mojo and yours, at a mutually convenient time, in a mutually convenient place, with a mutually attracted member takes a lot of hard work! It's easy to lose the desire |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"1 not to trust so easily
2 people lie
3 to not be so open about myself
4 you can have real true friendships
5 that I have more confidence than I realised
6 that socials are great fun
7 some people are worth traveling for
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That would be my list too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you send a message, let it go like a balloon and don’t follow it, sometimes it will come back and sometimes it will get caught in a tree and pop, but if I can’t see it I’m not bothered. This is a terrible analogy but I can’t pull out now, I’ve typed too much, but I think you get my point. Taxi! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The harder you try to get a meet, the harder it is to get one.
Conversely, the more time you spend just connecting with people with sex completely off the table, the more chance you have of finding friends who may be tempted to do more than share a gin with you. |
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