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By *ndyuk7 OP Man
over a year ago
newcastle upon tyne |
thinking of calling it a day on here as no one seems to have respect anymore as either you get blocked or no one replys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's about respect in the slightest, there are many respectful people (granted, there are some on here and elsewhere that don't understand the meaning of the word) however....
Not replying and blocking are (if you check the site FAQ's) not indicators of lack of respect, they're ways of saying "not interested"
Make yourself interesting and you may have more "luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thinking of calling it a day on here as no one seems to have respect anymore as either you get blocked or no one replys "
Why should anyone reply to a blank profile? 
There in lays your problem
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's about respect in the slightest, there are many respectful people (granted, there are some on here and elsewhere that don't understand the meaning of the word) however....
Not replying and blocking are (if you check the site FAQ's) not indicators of lack of respect, they're ways of saying "not interested"
Make yourself interesting and you may have more "luck
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So to turn it back on you OP, it seems you are the one who's not respecting site guidelines.....
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By *apstarMan
over a year ago
Harpenden |
There are so so many men on here . You need to stand out . You have no pics and nothing interesting in ya profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thinking of calling it a day on here as no one seems to have respect anymore as either you get blocked or no one replys "
Oooooooh stop bloody whining,tell you what I'll come and suck your dick how's that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thinking of calling it a day on here as no one seems to have respect anymore as either you get blocked or no one replys "
Would you really want to meet someone who in your eyes, isn’t respectful? |
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Effort?
Why should anyone bother with someone who won't even put effort into their profile? |
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By *apstarMan
over a year ago
Harpenden |
There are loads of threads about profiles and stuff read them and do what's suggested |
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"dont judge someone by there looks". I don't judge someone on their looks,however can't get it on with someone I don't find visually attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no to success in here, lots of suggesting in pimping your profile but like everything else, it comes down to preference and choice at the end of the day |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
""dont judge someone by there looks". I don't judge someone on their looks,however can't get it on with someone I don't find visually attractive."
This, and I can’t get on with someone who types “there” instead of “their”...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thinking of calling it a day on here as no one seems to have respect anymore as either you get blocked or no one replys "
Its probably more to do with how others perceive you tbh
Its all about choice
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm too lazy and tired to chat to everyone who messages me. If there's something on a profile that interests me I will talk. If not, they get a no thank you and block. |
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Check the FAQs on the subject of no reply - it's not disrespectful - and why worry about who's blocked you. Would you want to meet them when they've clearly decided they're not interested?
Instead of being negative do something positive and create an actual profile. I wouldn't reply to one with no text and a tone of negativity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm too lazy and tired to chat to everyone who messages me. If there's something on a profile that interests me I will talk. If not, they get a no thank you and block."
I do exactly this I haven't got the time, inclination or patience to reply to every single message I receive.
Im getting a bit bored of so many guys saying women are disrespectful because we don't reply or with block I actually think it's very disrespectful to expect somebody to reply to an unsolicited message. I've never received a message from you so I don't know what your approach is but "if it's hi how are you" or similar what exactly do you expect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm too lazy and tired to chat to everyone who messages me. If there's something on a profile that interests me I will talk. If not, they get a no thank you and block."
Bloody hell your hardcore you are aren't ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try not to think of it a hook up site and more like a place to talk shit and perv |
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"thinking of calling it a day on here as no one seems to have respect anymore as either you get blocked or no one replys "
I like the bit on your profile that says about not judging people by their looks.
You're absolutely right.
You do however need to give people something to go on.
A photo or two might help OP.
It's not blind date. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Some people reply, some don't, if you accept this your time on the site will probably be more enjoyable |
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