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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this topic has been done before but its mainly non varied people. Since jan 1st ive had 2 no shows from couples that havent any varies. I think someone has to be the first so agree to meet them. But on the day no contact etc. Really pissing me off and spoiles it for genuine couples. What does anybody else say |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
It doesn't spoil anything for genuine couples.
Speak to both parties to check they are a couple. Arrange a confirmation message or call an hour before. No call or message, write them off and find something else to do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meet verified people if you feel non-verified ones are tarnishing your experience
The solution seems simple enough"
Yes i agree but if we all stick to that then no unvaried will meet. I tryed to give them a chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this topic has been done before but its mainly non varied people. Since jan 1st ive had 2 no shows from couples that havent any varies. I think someone has to be the first so agree to meet them. But on the day no contact etc. Really pissing me off and spoiles it for genuine couples. What does anybody else say"
Do your due diligence. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn't spoil anything for genuine couples.
Speak to both parties to check they are a couple. Arrange a confirmation message or call an hour before. No call or message, write them off and find something else to do.
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I have. I agreed to contact today at 11.30 to confirm. Message sent.Nothing. But they on at 12.00 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never had a no show so I don’t really know how you feel. Very shitty that they just ghost you instead of cancelling OP. Chin up  "
Same here. Don't right the non verified profiles off just yet OP. There are genuine ones out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet verified people if you feel non-verified ones are tarnishing your experience
The solution seems simple enough
Yes i agree but if we all stick to that then no unvaried will meet. I tryed to give them a chance"
but it is your experience that you feel is being affected by it
so take yourself out of the loop that is bugging you enough to post about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t meet a newbie without chatting to them and at least verifying them by cam and having a good old chinwag"
Yes. I will take a leaf out of your book |
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As others have said due diligence required-if you’re insistant on meeting unverified couples-use the technology available, talk on phone, Skype,etc. If they’re genuine they’ll understand the precautions taken and in the end prevent you from pissing outside the toilet bowl. |
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