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Strap on fun...does this make yout Bi or somthing more?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm intrested in pegging, to some I would be considered Bi sexual however the intrest concerns a woman taking me from behind with a strap on, revelling in the power and glory of being in control. My question would I now be considered Bi sexual or somthing more...Discuss! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer. |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer."
why would he be considered bi |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi"
I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not about the act itself that gets you off it will be what it represents, I.e the control and dominance your lady friend has over you. Although it may make you think about alternate methods  |
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It's not the act that makes you bi - it's the sex of the parties concerned, and your attraction to either sex. Ergo - a man being pegged by a woman, assuming he has no interest in men, is straight, end of. Of course, it's quite possible for a bi man to enjoy being pegged by a woman but the pegging itself doesn't suddenly make him that way. It's crazy to think it would  |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think."
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick."
Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer."
So a lesbian who is fucked by a woman with a strap on must be bi too, according to that logic ?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick."
Just socially conditioned and rather naive I think! Until they discover a finger up the bum is a good feeling....
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.
So a lesbian who is fucked by a woman with a strap on must be bi too, according to that logic ?!"
No that's not the same. Some gay men don't even get penetrated. Ask the guys on your site then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.
So a lesbian who is fucked by a woman with a strap on must be bi too, according to that logic ?! No that's not the same. Some gay men don't even get penetrated. Ask the guys on your site then."
I presume you mean building site ?! 
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?"
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think."
and i bet most like a cheeky finger up the bum |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity!"
well put |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.
So a lesbian who is fucked by a woman with a strap on must be bi too, according to that logic ?! No that's not the same. Some gay men don't even get penetrated. Ask the guys on your site then.
I presume you mean building site ?!
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Two birds with 1 stone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unless the person wearing the strap on is a man then you are straight.
Being bisexual is about the sex of the person not the actions you carry out. "
I saw my friends cock this morning whilst showering. That’s it I should re identify as bi sexual now |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity!"
We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean. |
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Some funny comments on here
Must admit I love my Mrs pegging me once in a while but I'm definitely not bi in any shape or form. Those who think it does obviously have no idea on the kink and attraction of the situation. And the point of no return when she's buzzing away against my P spot is absolutely amazing
Am I attracted to guys. Definitely not.
Would I let a guy near my was. Not a chance.
Guys in a pub either have no idea or too embarrassed to say otherwise  |
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"Some funny comments on here
Must admit I love my Mrs pegging me once in a while but I'm definitely not bi in any shape or form. Those who think it does obviously have no idea on the kink and attraction of the situation. And the point of no return when she's buzzing away against my P spot is absolutely amazing
Am I attracted to guys. Definitely not.
Would I let a guy near my was. Not a chance.
Guys in a pub either have no idea or too embarrassed to say otherwise "
was ,,,ass ha ha. Predictive text  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It has always made me laugh that most men want a women to take up the arse but if a women asked to do it to him its no bloody chance. No it doesnt make you bi op. It does make you equall so go for it |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Some funny comments on here
Must admit I love my Mrs pegging me once in a while but I'm definitely not bi in any shape or form. Those who think it does obviously have no idea on the kink and attraction of the situation. And the point of no return when she's buzzing away against my P spot is absolutely amazing
Am I attracted to guys. Definitely not.
Would I let a guy near my was. Not a chance.
Guys in a pub either have no idea or too embarrassed to say otherwise "
OK tell all your Straight male friends and see what they think then. |
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By *hill44Man
over a year ago
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"I'm intrested in pegging, to some I would be considered Bi sexual however the intrest concerns a woman taking me from behind with a strap on, revelling in the power and glory of being in control. My question would I now be considered Bi sexual or somthing more...Discuss! "
No your not bi ,I should know I am bi  |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean."
But your argument is utterly illogical 
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ... |
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"Some funny comments on here
Must admit I love my Mrs pegging me once in a while but I'm definitely not bi in any shape or form. Those who think it does obviously have no idea on the kink and attraction of the situation. And the point of no return when she's buzzing away against my P spot is absolutely amazing
Am I attracted to guys. Definitely not.
Would I let a guy near my was. Not a chance.
Guys in a pub either have no idea or too embarrassed to say otherwise OK tell all your Straight male friends and see what they think then."
and how do you know what goes on behind closed doors we all know what men are like in a pub |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ..."
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object. |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ...
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object."
Some do, some don't, it's not actually obligatory.
Those who do like the physical sensations and I guess a phallic shaped object does the job pretty well for many. Others prefer to use toys that aren't necessarily phallic such as beads. Still doesn't make them bi if they're ONLY attracted to women (suffering Groundhog day moment here). |
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"It has always made me laugh that most men want a women to take up the arse but if a women asked to do it to him its no bloody chance. No it doesnt make you bi op. It does make you equall so go for it"
Ah but the look on her face when i said "go for it". Hehe |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ...
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object."
Just because you can’t undestand it doesn’t make it any less enjoyable for those that do enjoy it, as others have said it doesn’t make you bi or gay, it might give you the best orgasm you ever had but hey the guys down the pub wouldn’t like to hear about that would they I bet half of the blokes in the pub have put a finger up their arse or their wife’s dildo, don’t fool yourself that the blokes in the pub don’t know how pleasurable the areshole can be
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ...
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object.
Some do, some don't, it's not actually obligatory.
Those who do like the physical sensations and I guess a phallic shaped object does the job pretty well for many. Others prefer to use toys that aren't necessarily phallic such as beads. Still doesn't make them bi if they're ONLY attracted to women (suffering Groundhog day moment here)."
Yeah, I know I'm in the tiny minority on here but I honestly believe it would be a different story if you took a survey or something on a street.
People repress things all the time, how do you know what the guy is thinking? |
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Being gay is being attracted ton men
It has nothing to do with your body and enjoying stimulation in any way. If you wouldn't like a man doing it but would like a woman then you're straight.
Not that it actually matters! |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ...
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object."
what about lesbians strapons where invented for lesbians and double enders does that make them straight |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ...
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object."
Your logic doesn't add up either dude.
Using your own logic i must be straight as I dont like to bottom. Pretty sure i still fancy guys though so go figure.
Regardless of what anyone considers themselves however. Do what you like and forget about the labels. As long as your not hurting anyone it's aaaaall good. |
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I enjoy being pegged and a couple I was messaging once ask if I had anything I liked and I said legging. They then said well you're not for us now as we dont meet gay men and I was obviously gay because I liked it. |
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ...
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object.what about lesbians strapons where invented for lesbians and double enders does that make them straight"
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I enjoy being pegged and a couple I was messaging once ask if I had anything I liked and I said legging. They then said well you're not for us now as we dont meet gay men and I was obviously gay because I liked it. "
I'm not alone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I enjoy being pegged and a couple I was messaging once ask if I had anything I liked and I said legging. They then said well you're not for us now as we dont meet gay men and I was obviously gay because I liked it. "
That is the exact same problem I encountered, I put it down to small town mentality where I live. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ...
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object.what about lesbians strapons where invented for lesbians and double enders does that make them straight"
Lesbians are limited that's why they were invented. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just gone to Google and used the urban dictionary and got this hilarious response.....
"Pegging.....When a woman fucks a man in the ass with a strap-on dildo. It's definitely a very touchy practice, especially in the straight male community. It is often thought of as a homosexual sex act. However, this is not true. Straight men often think that their dominance and masculinity will be in jeopardy if they even think about anything "gay" at all, let alone a female fucking them with a rubber dick. Pegging is not a gay thing whatsoever. No matter how you take it apart and put it back together, it is still sex between a man and a woman. In other words; straight sex. It is certainly enjoyable, given that the right amount of communication and comfort were considered. It is typically not a good idea to surprise a man by simply walking out of the bathroom with a strap-on dildo equipped and ready to use. This will probably lead to rejection and discomfort. The truth is that anal play, no matter what gender, is enjoyable if performed correctly. The ass has a shitload of nerve endings that will feel fucking amazing if stimulated properly and with plenty of lube. It probably feels better for a man to receive anal sex rather than a woman due to the prostate gland inside the male ass. I shit you not, an orgasm can be achieved by directly touching and stimulating the prostate gland without any need for touching the penis at all. And it feels out of this fucking world amazing." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being gay is being attracted ton men
It has nothing to do with your body and enjoying stimulation in any way. If you wouldn't like a man doing it but would like a woman then you're straight.
Not that it actually matters!"
Correct, for the record I don't find men attractive in a sexual way though I do enjoy my ass being stimulated eg strap on etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've just gone to Google and used the urban dictionary and got this hilarious response.....
"Pegging.....When a woman fucks a man in the ass with a strap-on dildo. It's definitely a very touchy practice, especially in the straight male community. It is often thought of as a homosexual sex act. However, this is not true. Straight men often think that their dominance and masculinity will be in jeopardy if they even think about anything "gay" at all, let alone a female fucking them with a rubber dick. Pegging is not a gay thing whatsoever. No matter how you take it apart and put it back together, it is still sex between a man and a woman. In other words; straight sex. It is certainly enjoyable, given that the right amount of communication and comfort were considered. It is typically not a good idea to surprise a man by simply walking out of the bathroom with a strap-on dildo equipped and ready to use. This will probably lead to rejection and discomfort. The truth is that anal play, no matter what gender, is enjoyable if performed correctly. The ass has a shitload of nerve endings that will feel fucking amazing if stimulated properly and with plenty of lube. It probably feels better for a man to receive anal sex rather than a woman due to the prostate gland inside the male ass. I shit you not, an orgasm can be achieved by directly touching and stimulating the prostate gland without any need for touching the penis at all. And it feels out of this fucking world amazing.""
Lol that's frigging awesome. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course if u take a strap on u will take a cock in the dark so yeah u definitely be categorised as bi "
I think I could tell the difference. Don't want a cock in my ass at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Well then, those guys must be a bit thick. Wouldn't a Straight man be the best person to ask though?
Why?
Everyone knows, or should know, that if someone has absolutely NO attraction to the same sex, then they are straight.
A particular act doesn't alter that, regardless of that act perhaps being associated with same sex fun. I couldn't possibly say how often this is the case or not, but it's entirely possible to be either a gay or bi man and not want to partake in anal activity. Again, it's the same sex attraction that makes them so, and not their activity! We can agree to disagree. Just giving my honest opinion. If I wanted to know about lesbians I'd ask a lesbian you know what I mean.
But your argument is utterly illogical
Scenario 1: straight man enjoys being pegged by a woman, isn't attracted to men
Scenario 2: two gay or bi men enjoy mutual masturbation, oral, kissing et but *don't* like anal play, are obviously attracted to men
According to you, and that reliable source of 'straight men down the pub' (what? every single last one of them?!?) the man in scenario 1 is somehow bi despite all the evidence to the contrary. If anal play makes you bi, regardless of attraction, then do you also conclude that the men in scenario 2 aren't really gay or bi at all?
My mind is boggling ...
Yeah and your logic doesn't add up to me. I don't see why a Straight man would desire to get fucked by a phallous shaped object.
Your logic doesn't add up either dude.
Using your own logic i must be straight as I dont like to bottom. Pretty sure i still fancy guys though so go figure.
Regardless of what anyone considers themselves however. Do what you like and forget about the labels. As long as your not hurting anyone it's aaaaall good."
That's a awesome point. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not the act that makes you bi - it's the sex of the parties concerned, and your attraction to either sex. Ergo - a man being pegged by a woman, assuming he has no interest in men, is straight, end of. Of course, it's quite possible for a bi man to enjoy being pegged by a woman but the pegging itself doesn't suddenly make him that way. It's crazy to think it would "
Cool that was my consensus too, of course small town mentality strikes again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would a female inserting something into you make you bi?
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Excatly my point how does ones ass being stimulated make you bi? Maybe the the good people of WSM could answer that one. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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" Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think."
Or consult a dictionary and find out the meaning of the word instead. That would probably be a better idea that asking some straight guys down the pub. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd say so but you will get a lot telling you it isn't.
Depends who you ask really, on here you will probably get a resounding no from people who have a dog in the fight but in the real world you get a different answer.why would he be considered bi I don't even wanna go into it. Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.and i bet most like a cheeky finger up the bum"
Oh god yes, when that was done with my partner..WOW |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Just ask some Straight guys at your local pub see what they think.
Or consult a dictionary and find out the meaning of the word instead. That would probably be a better idea that asking some straight guys down the pub."
Completly agree! I think asking down the pub is a bad idea, though behind closed doors who knows and who cares'
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It has always made me laugh that most men want a women to take up the arse but if a women asked to do it to him its no bloody chance. No it doesnt make you bi op. It does make you equall so go for it"
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Bisexuality only relates to the genders of the people who you find attractive, not the specific sex acts that you enjoy with them. It may be sexual or romantic attraction and isn't typically 50/50 matching interest or interests with each gender.
Some gay men dislike anal sex as giver or receiver as do some bi men - anal receipt pleasure is divorced from sexual orientations and there's no difference between the physiology of arses between men of different sexualities. So straight men can feel the same pleasure physically and just need a woman to be attractive to fuck them.
We're crawling out of the dark ages to perceive anal sex as meaning men who enjoy sex wish men. All genders and sexualities can love it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bisexuality only relates to the genders of the people who you find attractive, not the specific sex acts that you enjoy with them. It may be sexual or romantic attraction and isn't typically 50/50 matching interest or interests with each gender.
Some gay men dislike anal sex as giver or receiver as do some bi men - anal receipt pleasure is divorced from sexual orientations and there's no difference between the physiology of arses between men of different sexualities. So straight men can feel the same pleasure physically and just need a woman to be attractive to fuck them.
We're crawling out of the dark ages to perceive anal sex as meaning men who enjoy sex wish men. All genders and sexualities can love it."
I agree, great comment. |
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I enjoy being pegged by Mrs x but it's more to do with the control side. Once she puts that strap on it makes her feel powerful and the thought of it turns her on intensely.
The thought of her being turned on so much turns me on and I love how she just goes into super femdom made. It's nice every now and again but she definitely enjoys it more than me. I have no attraction to the same sex so, no I do not believe it makes you bi-contrary to what your average Joe says down the pub.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I enjoy being pegged by Mrs x but it's more to do with the control side. Once she puts that strap on it makes her feel powerful and the thought of it turns her on intensely.
The thought of her being turned on so much turns me on and I love how she just goes into super femdom made. It's nice every now and again but she definitely enjoys it more than me. I have no attraction to the same sex so, no I do not believe it makes you bi-contrary to what your average Joe says down the pub.
Mr x "
Exellent comment, that's my conclusion too, I think we are all kinky fuckersat the end of the day. |
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"It's not the act that makes you bi - it's the sex of the parties concerned, and your attraction to either sex. Ergo - a man being pegged by a woman, assuming he has no interest in men, is straight, end of. Of course, it's quite possible for a bi man to enjoy being pegged by a woman but the pegging itself doesn't suddenly make him that way. It's crazy to think it would "
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"I'm intrested in pegging, to some I would be considered Bi sexual however the intrest concerns a woman taking me from behind with a strap on, revelling in the power and glory of being in control. My question would I now be considered Bi sexual or somthing more...Discuss! "
No, you’re not bisexual. You’re having exclusive sex with a woman. QED. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is funny indeed!!! So if a woman has changed her gender, would it still be considered as not a homosexual act?"
Because as long as the guy getting it up the ass , still has sex with women.... he is bi....
Now please read this again.....
If two men have anal/ oral sex on Fab as long as one or both of these men still has sex with women... these men are bi sexual.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, not Bi as that means you’re interested in both sexes. It’s really not difficult and anyone who tells you different needs to give their head a wobble |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm intrested in pegging, to some I would be considered Bi sexual however the intrest concerns a woman taking me from behind with a strap on, revelling in the power and glory of being in control. My question would I now be considered Bi sexual or somthing more...Discuss! "
How does This make you bisexual??
Discus? 
If it was a guy yes. A woman with you? Absolutely no.
I don’t know where these ideas from guys (no doubt) come from. Idiotic. Haha. You guys make me laugh. |
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As I see it as Straight man who enjoys anal playing with myself or with mrs with toy or strap on fingers. It dus not make me bi or gay. Not that would be a problem as we are 100% Unjudgemental. just means men don’t turn me on or do anything for me sexually. Even come up in the pub with all my vanilla mates the other day and I said yer I have bin fucked with a strap on well that started a conversation as you can imagine all still friends must add lol. But if it’s what you like and fells good then fuck what people think and get on with it. No one is normal and if they say they are asked for an exclamation and hear them starter x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Doesn't matter how others will look at this , what matters is what you think it means.
Some men want to feel what it's like to have a cock inside of them but wont let a man because this makes them bi so a woman doing it with an artificial cock makes him straight. If you ain't fantasising about a man when she's doing it then your straight I would say. |
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